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With yesterday’s match, Karun Nair has now featured in the most tied matches in IPL history — 5 in total — achieving this in just 78 games.
There are 10 players who have been part of 4 tied matches, including three from yesterday’s game: KL Rahul, Nitish Rana, and Axar Patel. | r/cricket | post | r/Cricket | 2025-04-17 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jNUEzcDNpcDRBdTRzYUliZXVNV0JneTBZV1B3M2d6c2NxcEJRblJCb0RiRER3NVp5OEZMbDJPQjF3TGExbjZKbVRfS2RCSWMwWDRpX1NQZnUxd2RqcWc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kcVhIM3Fad2JLTjlQbnQwRDVzQTNfTkljTjJmMTdVUGlrQldHNnFrMDE4SW1wTVNiS0xnc2NzWlB6b2tkODJfUGRrb3dqVm1kaS1BSlRKcGtEMjJIckRZLVNYZGpBRkd4Ny0tbVpleDBWNkIyeEJGM1o1aWd1ZGxubXZhOU5DZGc0cFNibFh2UU1zaWVJQ1RFU29oZnlFSWE3UGtOWlpwLXdsMUhaVUlfYUZzQ1hIR2ViZ1NwQUFQdkh0TVJnYXZJR20taXdjcXIxSFVkbEg2ZlJoQ1dadz09 |
If it is natural for women to want to be submissive, and passive, if that’s what we were meant to do, then churches every Sunday wouldn’t be filled with pastors reminding congregants that women are supposed to submit. Because nature needs no reminders of its course.
Rivers don’t have to be reminded to flow. Rain doesn’t have to be reminded to fall. The sun doesn’t have to be reminded to rise or to set. Birds don’t have to be reminded to fly or fish reminded to swim. Because that is their natural order. The Earth doesn’t have to be reminded to spin. It just does it.
So why do (almost always male) pastors need to remind us of what we’re supposed to do? Because it isn’t our natural purpose. The fact they feel the need to constantly remind us of it proves it’s not. A woman’s “natural purpose” is whatever God calls her into and to be and to pursue, just like a man’s.
Plenty of men are naturally submissive and passive, and plenty of women are not. I tend to be more passive and not stepping on toes not because I’m a woman but because I grew up in a lot of abuse in my childhood and severe trauma does weird things to your brain. But I’m working on that and I am getting better at not being such a people pleaser all the time.
It’s always amazed me the people who always quote the “wives, submit to your husbands” extremely rarely also quote the very next verse which says “men should honor and cherish your wives, value and keep her, treasure her and listen to her complaints.” Because the misogyny is the point. Including the other verse doesn’t allow you to do that.
Fire doesn’t need to be reminded to burn. Trees don’t have to be reminded to sway when a breeze hits them. It is only in the case of women, that supposedly it’s our “natural way” and yet we have to keep being reminded of it. Maybe because it isn’t.
The misogyny is rampant. | r/christianity | post | r/Christianity | 2025-04-17 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jaEtvQjZoeWQ1dW5Hdk92bWRodWNIWU9lTjd2SzJLZDkwcmsxNkNoUWtsMVdGbDZ4Wmk1UkxrYUxpUTRoZWt5UUdTUkhielZXNURWbUZIdS1fMHZoOVE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kZVdkSm9QR1hFUG5rQURMS21lSVcwMnp5Y0NVRWt1dnpQUVR5bDJjX3lSMExWdlNZemxTLWNrNGU4WHdaM2YxWDlsS010Tk5aLVpteDRfcWlDRTJwYVVHaklEU2ZFRlQxT3FtQ0YyU1d5TVZFVTZVMEt5UFZPSzEzNkJnR2ppY21HNVVzMlI0QjlFMlpKM0U3SnV4VFJtUnV5TExkTEd4TjJMbWxiLWVXRV9zeHcxOS1jN0VpeVZQNFVlTGNKc3hF |
**Update**
Wow so many comments/messages!
To answer a few questions…yes we used to have good sex that was satisfying (not exciting but definitely good). I used to get off but now I don’t unless I do it myself. He doesn’t even try to last and stops me from being able to get myself there (grabs my hips and stops me because he can’t last). I’ve told him we can’t just stop but he doesn’t listen 🤷🏻♀️ I’ve been specific both during sex and when we were not having sex so there have been multiple no pressure conversations and in the moment opportunities to try out suggestions.
Since we’ve had our kid I’ve had one night away and it was two weeks ago. I was gone for 30 hours, that’s it. He has guys night every week. I’ve told him this bothers me but he keeps going. He has also gone on multiple overnight trips without me. He is going away again this weekend even though I’ve expressed i would prefer he not go. I was told I had my night away so now it’s even.
His lack of effort is really what’s been a turn off and the ick factor. The only physical contact is when he is trying to initiate sex and if I turn him down I get nothing.
I used to work full time until recently but now I work part time. So for those saying security, yes and no.
We didn’t meet and get married the same day. We started dating when I was 21 and got married when I was 24. Things change as people get older.
I couldn’t have sex for awhile after birth due to tearing and stitches. I was miserable and he would still try to get blowjobs. Yes resentment kicked in. I was not sleeping and never got a break plus I was working full time with a newborn. Yes he had guys night out still during this time.
I want to make it work because I still care about him and I want my child to have a stable life. I just feel like I’m spinning my wheels and getting no where.
Thanks for all the input and advice! ❤️
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My husband and I have been married for 6 years and have a two year old together. We’ve never had a great sex life, but it was okay and I was willing to overlook it because he is a good guy. I had great sex in previous relationships so I know what’s possible.
Now we never have sex because everything he does gives me the ick. I’ve tried to talk myself into it but I just don’t have any interest with him. I know he is getting frustrated but I can’t even make myself lay there to have the 5 minutes of underwhelming thrusting and stopping he calls sex. And no, he isn’t even good at foreplay so that doesn’t help.
I don’t know what to do. I’ve tried telling him what I like and he just can’t/won’t try. I don’t know how much longer I can go having a completely unsatisfying sex life. I’m too young to never have good sex again. How do I stay in a marriage when the touch of my husband turns me off? | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-17 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jSDZlMlFtR1dOaGg3RnVTajNUNHFCRVNRdEp5NHlqM0tEbTUyem9LOXFJYi1KVG5CY2xSUUZUMDVyQ3FBX3Q3WnZ1RFc1ZEJSVmJXM3QwRjYyNmEwTnY2eVM4YmxFZ24xOVBYSkhUZ0ZjSkE9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kSEhMa1RpUUZ3RHFkcG1mR056LTA3OG5PNFVQd3QyZHc4Q0ExNU5hMG1XakpkSm1WS3NXUURWSnAzMnhWdjYxU1pKN3hKckUtajV5Vnd0STFNT1hOS1pKelJXakZiZXZ4d3Vqc2pGZl9GZzRhclpHX2hSdTVIZ0d5XzZMeFlJcFdNSjNqNTVteXVMd2MweG9BNEJEMHIxYURERzhweTFDQllJWHFGUnlra0tlWG5XTjBDQUp2N2hyMGFyNnZDMVYtMGU0UHVCeTJDVXpvOFBjU2hYeXFyQT09 |
The Good Place - Chidi thinks he went to the Bad Place because he drank almond milk, which turns out to be true because the Place system is so broken by modern moral complexity that nobody makes it to the Good Place.
Stormlight Archives - Young Shallan feels like the world has ended and it's her fault when she kills her mother in self-defense. This turns out to be true as her mother was a Herald and her death allowed the return of the Voidbringers. (TALN DIDN'T BREAK!)
Disco Elysium - Harry can make a lot of seemingly prophetic suggestions throughout the game, including randomly postulating that the dead man was killed by "love". He was, in fact, shot by a jealous sniper living alone on a nearby island who was attracted to the man's girlfriend. | r/topcharactertropes | post | r/TopCharacterTropes | 2025-04-17 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jc3U2ekxoc0p1S3Jsdk5OVVQtOUtuaUV0N1ltenF1NGQzQ2Vkb1o5RDFldU5HVnBxZ2JmUGxpdnk5LTJYWnFvR1NtVGRRbzdQaloyMW9YaGQwTkdYTDNJanZ3dXVua1pFeTZ3MGdSekkxMEU9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kYjI5RlQ2RGh4V1A5REJnU3FIZ3J3UUxIZFUzbFlfN1NNVU93RGRpNjZ5SGpnbEdTakJrdllNY0ZPYWowbWhka0c1TnVMbW1GR1dxMERMcWtsYmdUak05NTlaUEVDaWFGNHVnQkZFenJoODVnU1d2djZqNmV5M0tlZjYzZ0hFbGx1NlZFZGQ0YVVhUUJpVXJ6Nzc1QWo1UzE1Nk9iRTVLbVFTWmN1dTRNaWdGZWJ5RzdwM2h3Z0ZPSGtxVFVRT0xrc0txT0xxczN0U2pWZ2wybWxLQUNndz09 |
So I’ve been with my girlfriend for almost five years. Great relationship overall, we live together, we get along well, and we’ve supported each other through a lot. No major issues, at least nothing explosive. Looking back over the last few weeks she has been dropping hints and the tension has been growing but let me not get ahead of myself so these thoughts remain organized.
Thing is, when we started dating, she was extremely clear about her views on it. Her take? Marriage overwhelmingly benefits men and turns women into live-in support systems. I remember the first time it came up, she straight-up said, “Marriage is the worst deal for women. It’s unpaid labor wrapped in a white dress.” That was within the first six months of dating.
And it wasn’t just her, her friends echoed the same vibe constantly. Over the years, I’d overhear them during wine nights, brunches, etc. Some greatest hits:
Once you get married, you’re expected to do everything from planning holidays, buying gifts, and remembering birthdays, raise kids. What do men do? Grill once a year and change a light bulb?
You marry a man, and suddenly you’re his secretary, stylist, nanny and maid hybrid that doubles as emotional support animal.
If I get married, I want a maid, a therapist, and a chef , because that’s what I’d be giving him.
Marriage is just the start of a woman’s slow disappearance.
It’s like you lose your name, your time, and your autonomy. And for what? Tax breaks and shared Netflix?
One of the more "memorable" ones came from her best friend, who said, “Every married woman I know is tired, tired and invisible.” They all nodded and agreed. My girlfriend added, They propose when they’re ready, not when you are. Meanwhile, we age, compromise, and still end up doing most of the work in a marriage.
Hearing this stuff repeatedly, I stopped seeing marriage as a realistic goal with her. I figured she had strong principles about it and didn’t want to be “that guy” trying to change her mind. So I mentally moved on from the idea. I shifted focus to my business and expanded rapidly, my physical health, personal development, pretty much changed my overall goal to learning whatever new things I found interesting and building as much wealth so I can have enough to go anywhere at anytime and just be free. I started seeing long-term commitment outside of marriage as more freeing and flexible. And honestly, I felt good about that.Then last week happened.
It was movie night and we were watching The Vow. She looked over at me and said, kind of playfully but not really, “Do you ever think about proposing?” and i said, “Honestly? I used to. But I didn’t think marriage was something you even wanted.” She then said "I mean, I used to feel that way, yeah. But people change. I’ve grown. It’s not just about feeling like I should get married, it’s about partnership, security, building a life together. I’ve been thinking a lot about the future, and I don’t just want to live with someone forever without the commitment. It’s not about the wedding or the ‘social status’, it’s about knowing that we’re in this for the long haul, that we’re making a permanent choice to be together. I guess I’ve just started wanting that deeper kind of security, you know? It’s like, there’s something about the act of committing to each other officially that feels like the next step for us."
I took a minute to process what she said and I said, “I get that. But I guess I’ve changed too. After years of hearing how negative marriage sounded to you, and the way your friends talked about it, I sort of made peace with not going that route. It stopped being something I chased.”
She looked surprised, almost hurt. She said, “So now you don’t want to marry me because of things I said years ago?” I told her, “It’s not about holding it against you. But that narrative influenced me. I adapted to what I thought your values were. I let go of it because it seemed like marriage was something you’d never want. And now that you do, I’m not sure if I still do, or if it wven makes any sense to at all.” She didn’t respond right away. It’s been awkward ever since.
Also just to clarify, this wasn't just a spur of the momentum decision either, I’ve thought about the logistics too. At my current income level, if we filed jointly, our taxes would actually go up. I manage all major finances, and I’ve grown a business that would be seriously affected if it ever had to be divided in a divorce. The legal risks are real. Everything we already have from emotional support, shared goals, cohabitation, intimacy, we pretty much already live like we’re married, just without the paperwork and legal vulnerabilities. The “benefits” of marriage don’t outweight the potential costs anymore, especially when things like estate planning, power of attorney, insurance, etc exist.
I’m not trying to villainize her. People do change. But I changed too. And after years of being told marriage turns women into exhausted, bitter shadows of themselves, how am I supposed to flip a switch and pretend I didn’t internalize that?
So now I’m stuck in this weird place. I love her. I’m not against commitment. But marriage? After everything we’ve both said and believed, I don’t know if it still makes sense for me. And I don’t want to pretend I didn’t spend years mentally adjusting to the idea of never being a husband.
Anyone been though something similar?How did you deal with something like this because this is the first time in my life where I have no idea what to do? Is it fair to say “I’ve moved on from the idea or i don't see any real benefit" when the topic comes up again without causing fallout because I dont think agreeing to a marriage just because she wants one is a good idea and probably a recipe for disaster? I feel the tension building everyday and as much Iwould like to broach the topic, I know from past experience that it's better for her to collect her thoughts and bring it up when she's ready.
TL;DR:
My girlfriend used to say marriage only benefits men and after years of hearing that from her and her friends, I stopped seeing marriage as something we’d ever do and built a life focused on freedom, business, and the long-term partnership. Now, five years in, she’s changed her mind and wants to know why I haven’t proposed.
I still love her, but I really cant see any benefit to marriageor any change it will bring othwr than financial risk. Has anyone dealt with this kind of flip? I know this will be a heated discussion when she bring it up. How do I not blow this up?
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I was trying to hold on (for no logical reason) for a $1M gain, but market is moving against me, so I'm going to sell in a moment here.
Also bought a tiny (5k) Bull Call Spread to inverse myself, so actual profit will be a little lower. | r/wallstreetbets | post | r/wallstreetbets | 2025-04-17 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jSk5UUXVzMVFmWTZRT2N2S2w4WU5ib2ZhcUk3d0NHdC1wanJ0WEh5ZVVxVEVwc29lR2x0by0yZTMxRlAtSENQNzY2WXZLRFAyd0hJWmk0dndmT1h0aXc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kYVpTZzUwV3dPZUtVbUplY1JtUHdXMmFLOHByZzJObXFDMlR5ak1ESG91RVFuQ0s3Z2VFMjFuVUJjeUJDT0YtcDl5T19VNllKTHFQamR3Y04xT0lJWG9oV1pyQjY2S2JrSGFsRmdwUGhuWklxVlVSSWE4Y1dXYmZyZ3Z1ajAtRDlHOHNweTBtZ3RnbFlfWE5CNjcweUFUOHBxWE9MTTdxWG4yTGR0WGdqQlVRPQ== |
Samus (Metroid)
Ferb (Phineas and Ferb) | r/topcharactertropes | post | r/TopCharacterTropes | 2025-04-17 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jQ3NGdkNLanlUd0N3SU9vYUdiOS1LU2h2bjllbF8xMEhBVUwyUlc0a0hlZk0xdl9aQmNWNmcxdXotUWl6YlRsQUx0dHVkUk1seXhXT3RWSXBMSVRVUzhsZHl6dmlURmpaYkVVd3ZheHlleHc9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kNl9zODFUMVpEdzVhd3A2UGRmY1Jpem9wZkZJT2lneTFkVWMxUlNOcjNnb1ZJbGdkcXZvNW1KdGNDdTRVbk5adlNraHYySm4tdktVbm1GeEpkeUNGUUJycFUwQXVXTmpMWDFKYm1TN1ZEVXN0Vlc0eFM2VEhRUWo4NnNwbTE4TWdoQUFGUmxQUzlsYVBnZkdhNV9ITWk1QlBLTmRRdDNhTE9SY25vam05dmlNOXNxOEhhRUxpU0VRYmVSdGVFUHFaV3pGc1pOUzlFNncwRFY4SXBxbWtfUT09 |
Throwaway because my friends know my main.
I met this guy a couple of months ago. He is super nice and fun. We are intelectually at the same level, similar interests, and similar perspective on life in general. He is a very down to earth guy, ready to have a steady relationship, and adores me. The problem is he has a very small penis and not very good in bed overall. I am a very sexual person and it is very important for me.
I specifically want women's advice on this. Is there anyone is/was in my situation? What did you do?
Thanks for the responses.
TLDR: Perfect boyfriend, terrible sex. What am I gonna do?
EDIT: Thanks for all comments! I try to read them all and it's been so useful for me. I will take my time from him to think for a week. I want to calm down and then have a nice talk with him outside of bed, just communicating my needs. And I'll decide in line with his response. Thanks all. | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-17 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jbFdiRVdWS3NDTXFDRDNlWGlYaFBEZzlRemt1dFRTYVgyLTlYbG5MOHd6bFA2YnpYbDRrb0ladDFneEZPXzh3c3VUUmdfS3ZxUVZTS3pNRDB3bV91SGc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kQkhwM1Z3bi02eEpkb2ZVaHZjMDViU0tNdTBIM3pxRFBLcUdFb0w2cVMtWmU4aVJkTDg5ajV1OTBoNHBFWVdWWmZmSnZUMFV6a0FsUElOdVYxNngwYTF5bDZ6RGNESU45RXZScnhzdzFxNmp4bnJqVnJKWVA1eXpoelpxNkgyWDNQeXpLZlFkOXJ1TmhPbTdmWEV1LVJoREZDeGh0eGpOTURteUNwV3k4bWI4ZFpOQ05YMFNTTV9fdW5yVERSM3FxQVJuRDMzM012eDVzZHRxbGYtbnBCUT09 |
We have a trip coming up for our anniversary and we decided to each pay half instead of doing presents so the trip is our present to each other. We both don’t have jobs as we are in college but work full time over the summer. We are both very broke but our parents help us out a lot and pay our rent. He asked his parents to pay part of his half and they ended up paying his whole half. I’m still paying almost $500 and he’s now paying nothing. Now it doesn’t feel as meaningful. What do you guys think could I ask him to pay for activities or a small present for me?
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its literally same as basic blocky avatars but furry | r/robloxavatars | post | r/RobloxAvatars | 2025-04-17 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jcXROYXd5UmxqQ0YxVmRkTlJPbjhKbHR2X0ZtOXBDOW9mNHEteXVJaEt4d1ZKQXZPUFVCbGpDX1lEd3pYOWZzdDlwVk1ycURfNEhBZkpudEU3TXZNdHc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kZnBfTjZ0eHgwU1BiTTdDVTdHTTZaZTBLbTBRdFd0M2VZalAzaEtxd0oxUGNGclduRUNlQWdQVGRDcC1sUEZ5ZnI4eTc1YlBudmZMZWIxazRZYTdrT2ZJMTl5T1R4THZ5V0prOEd4ZEJKdWxTekJ6VGU3VWVWNVQzTVlObms1anJ2V2JsTkdtS3kySHhyZi1XQnY0THN5bHRTN3NCb0k0MWpWeGs2TkJKNUpyZVM4OEFVbm9nd2I1ZEpmWFFTVnRqWTd1SHk4QU1mSTd0UUNQVGoyTk1odz09 |
1. Men in Black 3. Boris the Animal meets his younger self in New York in the 1960s. Despite being the same person and having the same goal, they can barely stand each other. They spend most of their first encounter arguing. Future Boris is visibly ashamed of his past self, and past Boris despises his future self for losing an arm and getting imprisoned.
2. Avengers: Endgame. During the Time Heist to obtain all the Infinity Stones, Nebula encounters her alternate self from 2014 in Morag. That Nebula had yet to have her change of heart, and was still loyal to Thanos. She considers her other self to be weak and a traitor, so she captures her and impersonates her to infiltrate the Avengers.
3. Back to the Future Part II. Future Biff travels back in time to the 1950s to give the sports almanac to his younger self so he can become rich. He loses his patience just trying to get his past self to listen to him, who is mostly just annoyed by his future self, thinking he's just some crazy old guy. | r/topcharactertropes | post | r/TopCharacterTropes | 2025-04-18 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jRGxsMGJudzl6TGRMOEpsR1JSVmVWcHV3amV5bjZJaGxseXc5NzJHUFdoaXRkZEgta25oamtxakhSak54c09LR1VyZzNMREdOaDdzT3N4N0hDeVFZN1E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kdUJZWGRtYUE0bnpLWWdkUERweUdudlZ0cHl2Z0FkTG1jUTNMZ0lTQkk4NEVyajZkQW5iMi0zTEZzVFFpMThBb3Y0V0xxdGtJY2UzdndtTElReHQ5YWRWYnpYY0J5UEVzNUVEUDItUjFNOVpzUlBOLS1qdFcwWEpjUFBBVGZ0YjRSVHg4b2l1SngzM0MyNTNWZWlsREl3U1BWWkczcHZJTHkwV0kwc3lSeXI0VFpmNlRZaDFoUXhZTGNlb0k5Q0hXYlVpaEFiam1rQzNiT2QzUGNVSU5FZz09 |
Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy on us. | r/christianity | post | r/Christianity | 2025-04-18 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jbnZIQUxJcHpqdzdTc2hIR01naTljaTB1YWtNbV9IN0NLckt1QllXNWtGOURPRFliZWhKR0lfTWNyMm9iWDdjQXdsOUdzWkVJb3I5c0w2X3pSZEgzZnJfcUs4bklsenM4MXVSTGQ4TEZxZWM9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kZkpEbENpZ25EM0VhR29rczU4T3JpcXdjMmN5b2VobnhxZHowczIxclJZRWhKSDNqdGpoc3JXR2QwaTQ1R0VMSjVXQkVtUWMyOTVlNGJuUFRJazZ4T1YtZXNuODZnZjJtN1Qxa1dBNDFZaTVkUVdfbG8wRVUzUTMxNWxLYUdOX1NNOWNuVDIyNGxjNGhTVHlXUzViUER1dUdsWS1ISlJwdWtGdnVLYzBXaTlGSTdHS0FvOTBiWXFhVGV3bE5taGdNV3dBcmJGaUoxUlJwNUVjejltZ0NEQT09 |
https://apnews.com/article/abrego-garcia-el-salvador-trump-deportation-van-hollen-senator-81cca0ac24a9a312be97c730679f8dd1 | r/neoliberal | post | r/neoliberal | 2025-04-18 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jbkdSbnlVWGZ0cHNMR0xNZWpsSm1WVWtBOFpWNHlsNjhzMkxkR2g1Q3RtS3pQYnJpT0M1VlpSS3VQdlFVSllERW1raHY1b0Y1Q2tFOHJ5bnlGUWxCN0JLYnhoVVlucGNFbWMxMWRKMDI4LTQ9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kWjU1VUl4SENJSUkxZWpjSGFEVlp3aWZhNFpiaWxlbTZkcWlNcHpDS3UtbW1OQ2N6VzRad3d6Z0hfQnhCMEYzeTVwdGVqN29SeFVCcUZuNjJINjYwM2pPbUtSR190SGR0WHRpT3RHSEpvX3JmejBhZ0VNLXNvVGw2N0wwcklLUjh2WjJMdFc3WjF3SUMzMnVTUkxyTGxJTFNXRDUyYk5JTXBEZ1dQNmw2T2ZlaGZMcHJKUUdHWERsLTBuR2p3c1hNZ1hyUmlQZUNCOS1qZ1MzU1ZwQnJWQT09 |
Mcfarland
The Blind Side | r/topcharactertropes | post | r/TopCharacterTropes | 2025-04-18 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jRldNU2VfNU1JY0VGRTdNdUtERlBMc3I4R21vZmFRc0JMWUVITlBZUzBKWS01UnhRWEZQN2tEempoMzV2TEVWUkc2bUh5eVBxcUJ4aTdtQXpoaDZKVDh1M0czWV9PczE0czBERllsWWJPLUE9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kXzlCbllGeVBNbXEycF9faW45d3N3NHVEdTYybFk1OGJHdng4VUh6THExUmNKaVBtcVZwSmY5Nl9qckhRYmZBeWZia2pseG1MRUZreU4zRFdZbFBZMkdTVXJzUDd0b3p5MHNJT3JCX1F3RTFnV1BUVndHYmR6ZkpuNVdtTHU0Qy1YSzN1UjJlRHh3VFRXTEk4TVZVb0x6aEZfcFVhSGUtdHZWR3ZNaU1JcXlzQTQwMThUbmxTOGlQYlRGVVVMQndCdExUczVOQk1XaGhVaEVKbl9nTF9NQT09 |
You see Amelia here... LITERALLY *LOVES* SWISS ROLLS!!! She is absolutely obsessed with Swiss Rolls. To quote Amelia, "they're a bite out of heaven that fills your mouth with its creamy solace." She can (and will) go on rants about their perfection and never misses a chance to munch on one, even in the middle of danger. It’s her one true weakness and perhaps the one relic she’d actually kill for. The way she describes it.. She honestly may like swiss rolls a little to much... but to her it is literally the best thing in the world to ever grace her tongue and she never turns down the opportunity to much on a good swiss roll!! She would be more than flattered and delighted receiving an entire truck full of them... she would honestly swell up with lots of emotions over it that's how much she loves swiss rolls!!
What is your avatar's all time favorite food and how would they react receiving an entire truck full of it?
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Rufus (Street Fighter)
Teruteru Hanamura (Danganronpa)
Sandy cheeks (SpongeBob SquarePants: Sponge out of water) | r/topcharactertropes | post | r/TopCharacterTropes | 2025-04-18 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jQk8wWU1tcGtUUkpJVlpUbERab2RaUmNUNjlyYTV6N3hKMUo3RnhuVEZ5bVBtd19PbFBTVWRRRV8xMmVIVWY5TUE2LWpZaS1QSk9GOUFuTDlab1FhNWc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kWkh1eF9lU3YtdHBmclQ3eEpNTkpoemhxdEY0VTA2MFZfUjUwMS0xSEUxaXkxbVQyamtVekRFMHQ4TGUzd1hJeDE1Q0JXUWxIeFA1UzlDSzhVN1d2N0ZVRU9XWHRMU0swRjhmTWxTSUFyWUVTOFpFc1NnX0RPbjFrX3NXWmxMcWV1UmhTejE0SjVzaHlYXzdNcVplcjFJZGs3T3pmbUtxemNzMnhPS3VoRmdTV2hFQ3Q4bFltcDlTdXBwY01XTTZERkp4Z2pXU0FzQ0k0Z0xwNHMtM1VIQT09 |
I think these guys might be a little angry | r/wallstreetbets | post | r/wallstreetbets | 2025-04-18 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jNF9WMURncU1YdHc2dzA2Yl8wNHJoOHM0YlphM3RZMG82d2wtRGd2eDkwNlJYVkpDTHFSSU9IMHVRM1paeWFNcnNKcEtoRkxsTS1RNGVGWWprM0paM3c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5keHZTYUV5Z05Say01c1k1MkRMc3l1VjBrSDRKOFJnM0p0T2VGTk5OeXdNZVJneEk2NlNzOFNlN3k1Qk5ER01kWjItblV2RjlHSnBmbzJEM0lfc0tRbHFpdEMtT1VyWHo4dUdsb2t0TGhBUFE2QWhKWWpWRnhqTDhicDdvTE1iTDBieDA0Skt1elF6WkVkMUczbVlDazlZVDc2M2UtaGJESmZ0c191VjVfeGViNmZWdENsVUdsTndVWjktQk43NXRk |
Together for 3 years and I have no children of my own.
He has TWO other woman pregnant. The first was during a small break in our relationship. I accepted this and stayed with him... foolishly... I found out he was speaking to her behind my back a month later when she reached out to me and told me.. Chose to stay again
Now l've come to find out that he has a SECOND woman pregnant. He actively sees her, stays over and has keys even to her home!! Both women claim he SAID he wanted a family and loves them. They both claim he "love bombed" them.
He claims none of these women matter to him nor do the children because the women don't add value or do anything to "serve" him. He says this is something I should be okay with because he wants someone who accepts him for everything. That as a man, he should be able to do and see whoever he wants.
Im devastated and told him he has broken my heart. relationship NEVER started this way. I came back after our “break" and it's worse than ever. I do love him but I don't think I can forgive or accept this.
So many things he says and does shows selfishness.. Am I dating a narcissist?? | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-18 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jUk1vNi05OVBRVGZvelhab3IwcTdFSHowSWx1c0Q0TjRyVS1ucTZDdVlhS3lueGJvX2NDVHNWWXBtb0RGU294SFVPZHpqMENVNkVRajZrSENvME5tUGc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kbC1pcTdSUWwzMlQzRHlYemIxNV9xQW9JMVZmYWc4WlRaNF9zVDY0QUtiQjlRdk9WRWhIOC0td1FORkJ5UDgtZVdsS1FOYnJZejBCeGg2QW43bTgxaVdpS21kTEh2Z0loVzZXTEhSS1ZNLXBaejZFMHlQa3h6RTNGbkY3b1g0VndxRTNyM3BCcTNRZ3MzNy03TkkxOEY1YXhhU3cySUdVWmhZcWRnek5ya3Y3d1R3T1pqUEpGaWg5ZkZlYjJkU3ZvM3NIcUtPdUVCRHlsWUZiWUxZbjJBdz09 |
It was my birthday with me, a few friends and my bf, we were out at this cozy little restaurant I'd picked for dinner.
I'd been feeling weird about my bf and one of my oldest girl friends for a while. You know when you can just feel that something is off ? The way they looked at each other. Inside jokes wasn't part of. I kept brushing it off, telling myself I was being insecure.
Halfway through dinner, she said she was going to the bathroom. Two minutes later, he stood up and mumbled that he needed the bathroom too. My stomach dropped. It felt so obvious, but I still thought, surely not.
After 2 minutes I got up. I walked down the hallway and yeah... the bathroom door was closed, and I could hear them. Laughing, whispering etc.
I didn't say anything right then. I just turned around, walked back to the table, and waited. When they come back, trying to act normal, I lost it. I didn't scream or throw anything, but I said exactly what I heard.
The table went dead silent. Some people got up. My boyfriend tried to deny it, then stormed out. She didn't say a word. I left righ after.
I feel like i was overreacting by blowing up at the dinner. And maybe should have handled it privately. AIO? | r/amioverreacting | post | r/AmIOverreacting | 2025-04-18 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jWmUtb3Z1Mnp3dm85eFFpLUY0ME5MRnVBQjZpcVRYRW5VMk1JR3BLVXJxeVVIU3ltVG1iNFdsaWd6cmVyU1hqakUtMHpqb3dzLVNCZ185a2JHT0VkV2c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kQTZac1JiRWZOdU5lVUxKUGMwUEt1VHFYM3JZNUdJVUdfTzRNdkRpM09TLWRlUTdmWGRmcGxLbFRhMWpqSzgxdFZVY1VZMEpsMzdtYmR6cHVzNFE1emNmYWhwV0E0RWVDU1BkdlpfdHRPSUZ2S0I4VklTWGVrTlJKOVVVaDVKYTdETkRtVG9tNHlNYXdsdmU4QTVCSF9LZkFiVDBJb01NSHU2YldhdFVGcmM2Z0V6aURJLXdUSDI3cmNmRndqbGRSbXd3MGRUWWdacVN0aV9WemNyX2h1UT09 |
[https://www.hollywoodreporter.com/tv/tv-news/jason-isaacs-white-lotus-wears-duke-t-shirt-amid-drama-1236194427/](https://www.hollywoodreporter.com/tv/tv-news/jason-isaacs-white-lotus-wears-duke-t-shirt-amid-drama-1236194427/) | r/thewhitelotushbo | post | r/TheWhiteLotusHBO | 2025-04-18 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jbUhvNEVHc3ZSeFlISEFBS0V6X25weXdOSlg5Y3R6bTc0ZGxsSEIxZHF4OGpKanVuTW9kbXpkOFRLZTZZcGUxQy1EQ2R5ZGFDdWJWUWRsX3dNT21vdXpRcHBQbVpSYVVjZEFIdG1PMGVmaEU9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kSmhqUDREdzBWVlUtZ2h0aHNPZ0dHMXIxWW5UMVU5OWNfTjRsRVVUZEx2RkoyemF5ZWZJUWZKejl2ZFZ3UEdFRWtyeWZncnBtU1E1Tkt2R01hdXV6YTEtclRkUDFXRURkMi1CY3V1dnNrQXkxRjZBckR4TElLTWtaTTFpUnctVloxNmx6bHltVUJzeVk2c093TEY0bmZZYmZtVUVQdGswa2drWWF4UUJpMFI3QTJUem9WZFdLZ1NJTER5WElVMDNsUU5YNjhwajRPRXBhNFdpS2dwY19JUT09 |
My stepdaughter, Sophie, has been in my life since she was 12. She is autistic and really struggles to express her emotions, affection and tone. She often comes off robotic or cold unless she actively tries otherwise. Despite her issues and not being blood, she got really close with my mother. Despite the shorter time, mum really saw Sophie as a grandaughter as real as the others. And while Sophie doesn't show it physically, she really loved her.
Mum passed away two months ago and had decided to leave Sophie all her jewellery and books. However, because of her condition Sophie didn't show any real emotion or hurt. With my mother supposedly 'favouring' her over my nieces and nephew, my family got really offended at her lack of visible care. To put in polite terms, my sister thinks the jewellery should go to my nieces since Sophie 'clearly' doesn't care. While they can accept splitting the money, the momentos should not go to someone so heartless. Obviously not crying doesn't mean she doesn't care, but they aren't seeing it that way.
I thought they would calm down if I gave them time to process their grief and everything so I've mostly just left it aside from making it clear Sophie loved her. But yesterday my siblings let me know she isn't allowed to come to Easter with the rest of the family. Specifically her, my daughter and I are still welcome apparently.
I'm pretty furious about it all, but I don't want to just burn it all down and cut em off. My sister has been there for me in the past and normally isn't like this. I don't know how to deal with this. I get if they don't understand her quirks, but they need to at least respect her and understand she isn't what they think. How can I fix their misunderstanding and hurt? | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-18 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jenBJMkpoSmw4VGliMUg0Mm16WU5KcFFYZllLOC1Wc3dWRTlBbkkzLUZDX2cwWmhuUFpGM0x5N2xxTzQ2TUptellOVUtnS3BodlRPSU9pSU13dVZhTnc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kSE9xLVVOV3ZKeENLdnNQVXB4MlNOQkxnN1BoTVN0aDBjOVNHNFZVRzRsTjctbGc1NGRvay1nUVhTOHFsQnNQeVhTd1pGUm1OeUliRlBxLVVSMTJhYS01SnhxN2E0VHA0OGlJd1g5dW1WelBoYjk3ZVBET1Q5QjRGRkZXYmJmcTVtQi1HVGpmU3RPS3Y2WE9yTklEOVJKM2ZZSWdRc3h1MDRWQjhvQktaWWtXRDJ1Z3JLQmd1cVRkekl1aTdla2M5aURoM0NVYThYcGFqRmlUQkZHZ0FvcGhOc2wxaW9zeWdWenMzcUp4cDdnND0= |
Good morning saints. Good Friday marks the victorious moment when Jesus, through His suffering and death on the cross, broke the power of sin and death. His sacrifice brought us forgiveness, reconciliation with God, and eternal hope through His triumphant love.
Team Lötter | r/christianity | post | r/Christianity | 2025-04-18 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jaTJnWXNwZlctMGV4b3ZnTzA5SmdwZGw5TVVsc2E0Y2pWb2c4dnVNVXMydkVpcFFtenJsVkFWbHEwU0JXRWZJSDhydWtYY19QNnRJR3p3S1lSLVJCVVE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kRDNOVXFpdDFRNW9VS0s4aVF6VlE0WW9QNGw4RzRnZnJsYXNVd0NFRGZaMk5JMVMzSHNWZ3pzbkM3ZGhVcDZzQ3laa2VjSHhIdDE0NnhpcW02elgxdUxvQmFmWnlGRE9JdlBNUW5jYmhITkRtRU1ueWtLTFFXSFNqQzlUdDZ5R3c2SG8xNm5DdG5CZHRBbWxyNHczOEVpRDRpQ0VfSFhXb1p2YjJmZFlhcC1nPQ== |
This happened a few months ago. I went to bed and my husband said he was gonna stay up and have some drinks and work on computer stuff.
Anyway I go to bed and immediately fall asleep bc I'm tired af. Several hours later I get woken up by my husband who is now wasted and taking off my pants/starting to fuck me, once I'm conscious I'm like "hey I'm fucking sleeping we aren't doing this" which makes him pissed off and salty, anyway the next hour consists of him repeatedly trying to have sex (at this point I'm just upset and generally uncomfortable with having sex with him in that state in the first place) and eventually I give up trying to say no and figure that I'll just let him so i could be done with the whole scenario but it lasts a long fucking time and the whole time I'm just in a distressed state. As my husband was blackout drunk he was not at gentle and it was just a really physically and mentally terrible time. It was not the first time that a situation like this had arisen while he has been very intoxicated, but it had never agitated me to the same extent.
The next few days I was hoping that I would get over it but I did not and could not feel safe around my husband and avoided interacting with him which made it clear to me that I needed to confront him, as he definitely didn't remember the situation and I couldn't move on without him knowing.
I brought it up with him and explained that it affected me, he apologized and asked what he could do to fix it. I said "I don't know, you can make sure it doesn't happen again but I'll always have to live with this memory". I could tell he was hurt upon learning that he hurt me, he said "I never thought that I would do anything to hurt you" but it felt more like him being offended that I would be hurt by his action. He said "this hurts me just as much as it hurts you" which felt a bit diminishing idk. For the rest of the day and the next day he was acting all sulky and depressed which I suppose is fair but it felt kind of like a show to gain my empathy, which worked. Once I showed him that I still loved him he pretty much forgot about the whole thing.
Over the past months we have never talked about it again but it has continued to haunt me. I can't really get in the mood for sex, especially when drinks are involved. My husband has been better (ish) about respecting me if I say no but I sense frustration and am cautious to turn down his advances too frequently to avoid another possibility of this situation and to avoid resentment. Many times that I consent I feel that it's still obvious that physically I'm not into it and the fact that doesn't really bother him strikes me as concerning.
I signed up for a therapy group for SA victims but they didn't follow up and I am not sure where to turn. Clearly I'm not over it but I don't know what to do next. Can anyone offer advice? | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-18 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jZE16ekFOT3V2d1M2Q0xlT2I3V3Y4R1hJaEpVc0JlRlFibXRoNnB3UXV2ckhXNXRkWl8tcm5OUDZsWEZlSTFUeThFNTZrWGx3ZGp2Mkc4OXBkTGtPdFE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kQ0xiV193bGVkdnBDZWZPazJvR1BZaDZaLS1OdGxnTXczcm5OdmNIaWlrLV9IY3dJTGZDTktjdThKaWlQT2toRjFPNzk1bFJmcDBzcEZVTEFmbmQxd3FqTmZxaXFoY0JSNllwUjM3UVJxTmpMWm9nT0hrLVVGNGdiVXduemI0c3BQLVZmS0xwTDR0N1RzZE1icl9pejZ1VFkwVkx5Q3VuX0JVVGF0Y2VUMEZyUHpLODRBNkowSDhWcXNmeEFyUFZjYWNELXJYUTNfUS1EcENGUzQ0bmFmRFQ3UDZuNmJQTFQ5b3BIVDVxODZ2OD0= |
Like for more | r/robloxavatars | post | r/RobloxAvatars | 2025-04-18 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jcERTMGpZMGUyMjV0VVRYNnVqNEFHR3BWX1NFQllCa3FDU2FFU3dLbzFwOTZvNlIwblp3ekhGZE55TXdPX29Nd2trSV9pSUlfTFZ4YUFiUmo5a3Y5bmc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kbmkxcXNhZ0tGZmpfaUlnTy1XRWtQLWhGTzNXa2IwWEJvdm1mTVVseERuYUlmMFdPQlZuLUE0aW80eE00UnlLX1VpNVpPck43UW9YZkhrV1I4WXozU29Zc2Vfc1FGTFhpZURPMm5aMWlhNE1aLXd4LThuQ2RMVmpwUllTYnBObGtrSm40TFN2VEk4NWJKRHlHS3U4UUkwZFN4aE9IZXhtYlBYWGtnX1M5akhFPQ== |
I know I should always trust my gut but I'm don't know if I'm over thinking this. This new guy at work (36M) and I (28F) started talking and flirting a bit and we had made plans for the following week to hang out outside of work. anyway, one day I get a message from him and says he has letters for me that express his feelings and he was gonna give it to me at work the next day. I posted the first letter but received 2 more as well. I stopped talking to him briefly after the letters because this gut feeling was screaming "LOVE BOMBING". I mean, we were only "talking" for a week at that point, only a month after he transferred to my store (meaning i met him a month ago)
I was interested in him yeah but his letter was too much after talking for a WEEK.
Am I overreacting?
| r/amioverreacting | post | r/AmIOverreacting | 2025-04-18 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jMFhGaXFXZ3FQa0tqeDh6S1JlczBRUlVnczM5Xy10TmhmeEVIZnQ1SE93a0h5bmJHb2tkdjZzX2puN0lEeWNsX3hKVGc1Mldfb2FFbGFYUWVOSF9aWnJTam9PMURJVTJYUGpyNC1iNHVDdjg9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kZDd0dFJUaU9tS3lBenBkMmZGNjR5Z1FQOVljZFZSTGdiOU9iSzRFc0Z2NlRFdF9XUnRDTVAxZmtHOXQ3X2lHb3hRYXBNUGpxQkQ5OWFxNnR1N1ZkbUxsRl9EOUpqT05TUmFiYk91N2lXb1oyRHVmMElZcEtza1ZCRlhnMmw2bW5wZ2RNcWw5TTdTdTZ6SVRTVUZFVS1lWkhrUS1nY21jQkZDUGNJNFpxeU5nVXFpUTgzakZPYTZ1Y1NVNVFWbndlSVYwZ0VMRE1IV1FLenppNkNtbm5Wdz09 |
Okay so this might sound insane, but hear me out.
I (24M) live with two (29M/28F) roommates. One of them (29M) is fine. The other one (28F) is a fridge pirate with sticky fingers and zero shame. I don’t even think she likes half the stuff she steals she just eats it because it’s there.
The final straw was my cheese. My mother brings me cheese from my home country every time she visits, no I can’t buy it here. I had it hidden behind the milk for safekeeping but I opened the fridge yesterday and it was gone. She said, “Oh, I didn’t think it was a big deal, It’s just cheese.”
????? No, it is not “just cheese.” That cheese was the only joy I had left this week.
So I snapped. I went full chaos.
I bought a small fridge lockbox. Yup, a plastic safe that goes inside the fridge. Combo lock and everything. Put my cheese, my fancy yogurt, my cold brew, and my chocolate in there. Labeled it: “UNAUTHORIZED ENTRY WILL BE CONSIDERED AN ACT OF WAR.”
She saw it and now says I’m “creating division in the house” and being “hostile and passive-aggressive.”
Am I?? Or is this what happens when you push a peaceful person to the brink over dairy?
Because honestly, I’m about three bites away from putting AirTags in my hummus.
UPDATE : Okay I did NOT expect this to blow up like this I’m laughing so hard, I haven’t even got the time to read all the comments (there’s too many) however, my two big takes are WHAT IS THE CHEESE???? And THE NOTE IS AGGRESSIVE!!!!
The cheese is ASADERO cheese, it’s Mexican cheese and yes if you look it up you can probably buy it online. It is NOT the same though, the one I like and get is from this small 10,000 habitant town 2 hours away from my hometown (It just has this unique taste and it makes sense to me)
THE NOTE IS NOT AGGRESSIVE IT’S A JOKE, like “hey I’m locking my food away from you but we’re still cool, however please STOP stealing” im not actually gonna go to war although it would be fun.
Anyway im pretty sure we’ve moved on, she’s buying me lunch tomorrow and im not getting rid of my lockbox nor am i getting a mini fridge for my room. I like the idea of her seeing tasty stuff in my lockbox and not being able to eat it 😛 | r/amioverreacting | post | r/AmIOverreacting | 2025-04-18 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jQ3JKOWdQUmVpRXpUUlh3bWw4eW1uUjAyU1VnMWZXM0xDMHowbmFIcEpTRThFZWZsa1QtSnNfNlZDdnk0RVpXMXg3cEZkZFlJOWZNSW0zeGg1RzZ5Rmc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kUG9MRDhUb3VmS1Q5Q1BES0NhU0l5VDJKWXFPekVnTF9tMlZYR3lEZWx1Z1JYM3ROSXJ6c2p4aFJnbDZsRjJKbXNtUHIzc0E5dzRSdVlXemZiTlBKeFZpakVtbWl3bWVfaDZ0bURJOWJXbzBBdHRXTFN3VXhsNFAxYlI2NXdMcXdLT21kRllsM2hkdlRhLWtudG1ubkpqek9LcEtIVy1CQ0k3cFJDV25TUV96VzY2VnMtd2FGRnJDdXR6VVYwXzlFTVBISHlJRVJDVldVaXFCRXlyeV9VUT09 |
(I don't understand what's wrong with me minding my own business with this avatar...) | r/robloxavatars | post | r/RobloxAvatars | 2025-04-18 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jY2pJeDdwZ3dub3g5cm1ES3dReDM0eUF1c2ZMMFJvZFlOYk1kalZ4Z0xHLUdhY1pBN2Rfb0RzR0kxTldoV2hzS3NZS1ZHY24wTS10bmhHaW53aEpZSFE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kRDl0VmlpRnJ4aWttbUhQNEVKMDhSbGtVR2ItdVotSUstUkt1bTJFTW9JQ1AyM18wc0V3bnJHdlYyMXRaT0xTaGstZ0ZfdmVrVWZSUkpoMVVFMUg1eDlBc0I2bExYdHFoUUxlTGRnblNOeFFKZWZpTGZFNzNiYVFRdVFWWlo1X0dqTXU1YWhKWG1KZjVKUUpua0Z5ZlRBMkN3T09xS0dfVVBlSnZmazZXVUkyb25xZWQzSDkwSW9KdXR0cHVwazBLbHZ1RzY2OFdPV1lSMGVyQkNzdzdYZz09 |
NO OP AVATARS OR JUST STRAIGHT OUT KILLING BOTH OF THEM | r/robloxavatars | post | r/RobloxAvatars | 2025-04-18 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jaS0wOGNZRnJFV3pNTE5OUDBMcTkxVTRMNlZEcmNyTGw2bXdqM1VyakZoZ3E0Sm0wd3BXVWI3QUwyMFVrQW56WW0wdUx6Qi10N2hjTHN2Tmc5aWgtV0E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kWmN2Y2ZJbUQ4OXA1STVkbTJXWnMtNlB0R25qa1BFcUJrcDIzaVlYUUZPVUNRUlYwZGE0eEJDZ2xZU2pCLWRLOFU4NDM0QTBpelZHbGJHWTM3WUtQMnp6N0hpQWkwVUxMc2tzaGFtYk1aem03SllIdUxGcmxxaGRLa0kzVDRmSDZtMG1tTURwWmgwZ29Xd2lZbTN4SXNZRzVGMHFwd2ctYTNIbmdzUzJYZ0F0c3RJRUd6RVRCdUIzdFJpZmR0UGdmLVJHUTlWOV9pZzVyM05oZG1SR0xCZz09 |
I woke up ready to check my positions and nothing moved. My phone is glitching right??? | r/wallstreetbets | post | r/wallstreetbets | 2025-04-18 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jOTZSVVo4M1dlU2pyVlQteEQxMlJGaVNXd0dLemRvOWxxaGNHVGdmS0laVkZCYVlsSkc5Z1lYbEIwZnFPY0szemFwZ2VKWmpndEV6RTNZalplUDdqb2c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kZ1NtQmc1ZS1CbzRtYW1hM3RmYml5cUUyOGVrUmU5cnBxenRqdGVyWHVGbDJFUUdJUFVCV1ZIWF9GZ2VmeEZ0UEJSd016b2hVWGFRcURtLTBhckZRR2ZuUEZXMWwxRTVPdXhzemlkMHJISmlFc1dualhQbmdvamVOc3lQOGw0ZXVBLVZVeDNjenZ4QUZDeExNSjhZZ3QzYnJKRnlmSFFVMkJhdTQwTnhMb1lYXzB2cURUOXhMRGd3VTBhNlJLdHM1Y19faU5iOVNvOTJ5bDhONVNhMTdvdz09 |
I'll try to keep this short as possible. 33f married to 58m for 12 years. No kids. We have had issues for a while now. No sex, a bunch of dogs that he wants to breed but has been a complete failure. He's also had a lot of health issues and has not worked in years so I'm the only one bringing in money except for his VA but he doesn't get much and says he won't get an increase.
I can deal with no sex. I am tired of cleaning up after someone else, especially working. I have been traveling for work for a while because it's the only way to make decent money. I was driving over an hour one way and then still coming home and having to clean the house. This has not changed. He did put in a dishwasher so now he will occasionally fill the dishwasher. Never does laundry, never dusts or anything like that. Which is particularly bad when we have a small house with multiple dogs inside. One of which likes the dirt. He doesn't bathe her and there is always dust everywhere. I gave her a bath a couple weeks ago. By day 4 it was like I hadn't.
Politics. He is a Trump supporter. He is not a MAGA wearing supporter but voted for him and agrees with what he is doing. He thinks I am overreacting (and maybe I am. Part of the reason I'm posting this). I think we are seeing the worst president in history destroying our country. From removing someone legally here to another country and refusing to bring him back (my husband's response to this is the other country is refusing so what is he to do?) no comment when I mention him sending "home Growns" to a foreign country. He still states that Trump is the lesser of the two evils. Then I mention everything he has done and is doing and no change. He literally listens to Ben Shapiro and agrees with what he says. He is "joking" when he is talking about invading Canada. It makes sense for the SAVE act. We have to stop illegals from voting! I mentioned how that will hurt a lot of women. He says he doesn't see the big deal with them getting their birth certificate and other documents. Okay.
I don't feel loved at all. We have zero intimacy. We make okay money but can't really go anywhere because of the dogs. They are huge and aggressive to other people, which he likes and the reason he got this breed.
There is other stuff I can't think of right now. We got into it last night beyhe brought up politics when we were eating dinner. He says we should respect each other opinions. I told him I feel this is a moral issue at this point, and it's hard to respect supporting Trump. I can look past voting for him. I can. I cannot look past still supporting him. He went on to talk about he won't have a legacy if I leave.
Sorry for the new account. I didn't want this on my other one. AOI? | r/amioverreacting | post | r/AmIOverreacting | 2025-04-18 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jV01UREZCNzJRUlNoenZwb2xJMldLN29tUm8ya1pzSTNwaWljbm82OGdmZzV6WFdXZXFYZUEtVTRqUzFuSDhqdkxwX1lJZldkcVlScU9nME5hcHdVc2dwaE9ramZRWGR1cDNjckV5RFRIbWs9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kSC1RZkRvYnd4TE9TZFR0X2J1Z0Z1VlpoeU5OdjQ5RENvTzlSTFVZbU01NzdScmlxcVhsVm5Oek1DVkVrQWFCX2xUNEJqOHRHZ0Z0bldvdXh6c1lWa0ZYZnJuN3NfQ1NaRS1rU0VDMThCUjlFVjFqdDl5Q3hydlR5TjBSUWNWYlAzb0I2eWRma0cwNkdQS3FHUG5CY0RPVHF5QmZtUHpMS2ZHOG5FdFNhZlQ0OXhnczlOa3JSZTltNzhtVVREMEtkZnRSZEQ4VklYVW9LeGZjSVZyaWFiQT09 |
cc: @fullofeyes | r/christianity | post | r/Christianity | 2025-04-18 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jc0RVNDY3MlFKX19BMkFERjAwakVhTVZSSF9zUWFsbC1wOEkwNHBYanJ0eDBNLTdOUHpjYTNwOWdEWldwT25sUE1ZVHBWRjB3b3VfUkVKRmtTdmFKdEE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5keXgxenIyR1RLZko0MVhZaEZpUFZyTGQ4TG80YjZ5QWZhWVhfeXR2LU95blhTVWdfd2RsdnhrTWVqbUF3cWRaeTlJaWRkQURpVnQ3RUtaN1RvNWtNdVplVkxjeHkxb2plTzZpd1E4M004Q3d6TDhMRFRXSUV4a2Q0eUpJUUVUcEQ4NGlPdjdYREUtS2t2YlZXaWg2MnJSQ2UyS3AyZ3dMcFdBYjB1d1BzWkY4TUF3MkFHOGtJbjF6MmFRZXFsSlQyRGRXZ2E2ZllTZjJxTkFoSTRnM2I3UT09 |
Mario and Luigi (GabeLeth)
SpongeBob (SNL) | r/topcharactertropes | post | r/TopCharacterTropes | 2025-04-18 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jdV96ZlUybm1Ud0N3bFV0eUxqRUhzUnczNllnUmJxYjBoQWgzWTZSVVdCRTBPWnFLN2RPTkxtTTN6TEZSOVFBY1BTT043VTA2S3JxQTRlRXVmeXVRWFE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kMk1zTkZTMUxWYllEUUNjT2t0YXNtX0kxZzhWX0lLYkkzOV9HV0ljWEtkZjJoUTQxaHRmUXhwSXJNekJfV2taWV9VcGZKSjUzRU5CNnBwRjlJZE1zUnY0M0RYcE15YlcyOERWdjFfUjBlUXh1Snp5UndHZk9WbXdRb012am9Qa3NmMXk0NjgwMkNoZ1FPYlR3cUZUUjNDTEF2TTEwLW9ncGJFS0R5T3hUejN2REFNZmNwcXB5X2xRaXExaFlxZzlFcW03Wl9UM1UzSG5QaGpQdm9YcUROdz09 |
S3 is not my favorite, but the cast delivered the memes (and the drama) for sure 😭 | r/thewhitelotushbo | post | r/TheWhiteLotusHBO | 2025-04-18 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jdTNvZnlWLTZIZkhfeVdkaTdRa0t4ZUE5Z3REbUdkdnZzN3VWa2hvMm51eFUxVlBLTG1qbkloOHNJb1pWV0lqVkRleXE0bi1LYTJwS2VmSG5aTzV6Vmc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kVEl4dENEbGpGc1BxV01nZFE5bzluSlB6X0I4dmo2UkJ0eEFUdXRnNlFONFE2eThtdlJycDEwOGIyaXdaSGprQ1hWaVVZRmxNcWtUYno5bFQ4WWc2bmdrMklFUlAtLXBIQTdQU0N3WVhYOGVFLU14QVRteFJpQ1NxdFNQM3o2RlZ5U1Zrd3BTLWd2NGhud0JWc0hMdTRtc1lYY0VCUEF1SWptcl9sekppU1hFdnRBZzdfMEluXzZKZzdfNjBMRkprN2ZlQUlDZW5mcEdJMF81blRvUlJjZz09 |
Art of the Deal | r/thewhitelotushbo | post | r/TheWhiteLotusHBO | 2025-04-18 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jVk1oUWFFcFU4aWtQXy1WZHZkTVljS0lCS2hvejFOd2I0S1gzOUM2eWFMYnB4THU3ZVY0QlRTeUdCc2M1TXVPOFI1MmotbmtnN1VXR0NVX3lnUmRZOGVNZDB3YXY0blFqSmhfa0NET2d5WEE9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kSFRJMV9pZGEteE8xSUhHTzF6ZzFqTE9UbU1lcXc5SWExNUlJOVg3TnJHeEsydVdrakVNc0dpdUVIMC14V1ZfczNNZk9ZNEhMVWxtdm95UEExRVhHWnNlM2xYNkxCYUNzV1E3eHR1VjRyZjVzaXpZU0l6azRpdWpDaUpCUGVNNGo0UEJNNThlTE9pZGsweWE2cUtKSWlveWVuV2xQYldOVU8xNFBnSUw5ODdFPQ== |
Me and my bf have been together for 3 years and we are both 19! He seriously wants my eyes tattooed on him and he has been raving about it for almost a year. I feel mean for saying no and that I'm overreacting but am I?? I'm so stuck inbetween just letting him or sticking to plain no. Im also tempted to say yes because not bragging but my eyes are diffidently one of my favourite features since my ethnicity is kind of rare and I want to see it tattooed but this is more a commit thing for our relationship in my opinion. | r/amioverreacting | post | r/AmIOverreacting | 2025-04-18 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jSXFjQU1sS3hMOWRUR3RQb0g1eXd6WlNDVW1BeWs4S3kwb3o5cUhJX1pDUnBXRW90dHR5d2J5dXlCeW1hclFJZjc3dTExSUpVV0g4dHNjbHAxRVJPdHc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kOV9PenRuS2htNXpGdm5fSUs4V3Bvall1U1lrOWN6NG5BbHczc2hWeVM2ZDIwdFA5eDRhM3dfS0oycUUtOXNmelJzaEhGRkdKTWJCdmpXNVRzb1VMZmdGb0xSTC1xSnVVVlZTbzJmVFVuWllMQTdGeEUyRWk5NDcxY3MzVVc4NVgyVmg0NmVKYXAxdE9GMXdaVXdEbXhoUFRSME9ka1o2M21yRk12SWZ3bE5kSVE2LWhqOTFZaV9fZlFIV3B6el9WTXJoTmJrUGpnOGNzaVp0bURiQ0Uzdz09 |
I made this while watching The Passion of Christ, hope you like it. Also, have a good Good Friday! | r/christianity | post | r/Christianity | 2025-04-18 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jZ1d4US15Wmd6RVZ2VEFGWXJpM3dRYWlfZzgwMjJDWWdaRTFFMnc4TTl6c3Bvd0J4bV9USDE4MDJFWWduUXpmSU5wZ0dSbHB2QV9ST1FVdEJDY21TMWc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kYkpvU2R5R1RKaEY1U2NrMDhzVkRuOWJXN1AzM3JmYW11c1FzMC1CMXZZek9SWHRaZzBJdUNUSVJRaFZOUnRhcnJQSkdwb0Z0T2xPU1hsRWZyQldIYTlDeXVhbE9yOUV5c25KamZSaUFzOG4zMDR1ZmZHN0JkQkRQUklENGkwaUJwYWMxOUlEd0kzNlRlYlJETWgzbkJhTzFpay1YMFZrWEE1V1hMYXRfak9ERVpTRmhNa1VQMjJUR3ctcjlCMXpk |
Always an early indicator, what are the hoes saying? That's all the intel us regards need. | r/wallstreetbets | post | r/wallstreetbets | 2025-04-18 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jTVlKS2NHdDd3Nnc1UE1jZVc0ZDgxTjNiZFlRcWFhSjRmMGFlVjJMN3Iwd2M3blU1M0lPbHVzYUZsTW1KYVNYSnFxNmhuQ3MwZHdpa3o2aXBTcnc0aWNPMGNTRUFlcUlEdjVSNkU2bHZOMlk9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kWm80REVSMVA1dHhTUDdsc2l1Nl91bDlENG01NEtKYWplTnRQdmxqQzBwY2taNi04S1k0em5YMWdpRkFuREtFZUtGT1R3YzhYSnE5Q1pFcTA1Rm1DUkM4LXpSTHBQT3ZIT3JtYy1Fd3dmNlBBd2M4Rkk4YXhvd2xZa3NNMmJRVUF3OGc1cWVodGRZNVREQnQ4ME5aYTlaSExkOXZhQ09iRzNPOVRhUUpzUHJxWExBS1EtMXE5R25mbTV2aC1mRkRaTVNsUFVET2M5TnVEMTNYS1YydGM2UT09 |
More are coming probably | r/robloxavatars | post | r/RobloxAvatars | 2025-04-19 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jV05BQXNYTmhaa3NHQno2SDlQNXoydDFIcWJldHd2SFVnZndMOW1LZGRfMWJtVVo1bzMtLURyN3V6X09QcFdqUjZxdE1OQWhqelEtQTVSTUc2Q1EtU0E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kQVFSMGNmZ3RyRmNUaTJ2TkxpUDkxbnZVV3JhbEdOWWVfUkJiWW1WMHpybFZaTDZhUWFjaWJuY1B4WUVkSlZZZ0tkaXZOSU9DUk5YQm9hTWlsc2daZHVobUJkVUhmbHFuS2VRNHRFLWgyeFB1SkZCWFI4RDFjTkJIOElMNkRVeS12cTJZVGtWcmNDNmU0ejYzcjdYOVZNZVhVUVVhb0phUVlIT0FsTmV0WEpOSk5MU0xNTENiRGExNU12VjVrLXp5WWZEUUM4Ry1NcWhmOVRqSG5QSUVWZz09 |
Today Jesus died for us 🙏 to honor Him, please share a way He has moved in power in your life this season ✝️❤️ | r/christianity | post | r/Christianity | 2025-04-19 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jZzlzc3poVjNoZVpFWEVSWGp3Wko0ZFhQMlVEaXA2anFPR1hIRWpld2FPWktaUUk3bjliLXpPejVOcWw0LUxMOXdYNzFyaVRDUzhybm1MSUI4bFVPT3pkZXh4NmFxd3c2SjhmYzBpRnpfNVE9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kRjV0dmZxamZocTNuU3RUQ2FBR0VPZURRd0hDZHMtZ3hEU0p5bDh2MGZGbEFST0lFM0k5dUJySkdPSldRc08xWGlZWWR0S01oWWVWeTZER0NHZC1FckhTaDRKb0JyWWlLYVI4eW1ORXAxQ0prY2hvaVNMMnNQMnEzNXB0QWNUZjFLeW0wV2xkLWVnNXd1QmVNS1A2RTFIdWhDTEtXaE9uanUwZnplZjJQVVRJPQ== |
I (F18) went on a night out with my bf who I’ve been with for 2 months. We went to a bar/club and near the 1-2am everyone was getting really hyper and then boom proud Mary went on and ya. I ended up on this platform thingy. It wasn’t even a table and these two other girls and one guy joined me and everyone was just enjoying themselves. I got this message from my boyfriend this morning and it’s really annoyed me. I don’t want someone that will bring me down because I’m a very hyper and social able person. But I seriously like him. What do I do. Would I be AIO if I broke up with him? | r/amioverreacting | post | r/AmIOverreacting | 2025-04-19 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jTGRXSzJxQ200V1BKN0tDVUFNVDBjOU9BRG1rT0JmUEFIaDFXTnEyZ3VUak94N0FLbUdtWUlyM05jT2dkTDBlZU9lSnktMzZTQWhZZHhBMWwzQU43dmc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kaG5HTVNFYkRlX2RXcUNOUGcyMG1rRjJfdG9fQXhIb0dnNVVyVGJFZ05GQ1JNS01xbVBfdjd4a3JDNFBlckdqSjI2dnV1cHU5bUg0T3I0dmladmN5R2Fpa3R5eS13VEJUSkM4dzE5MDBNOGNaSTNKR0FyQllHV2l3WVlYa0hhNlB4aEY4MFpFakxMcmZlQUVldEthQTVZRU9DWU9PMnMtOFlZVmpZcHZabnhLWWNFekhCVFhtYWFkRTJkYkJmY1g1Nkh5Y1BFelBEWXlXN1VJbWNSdHVwZz09 |
I already liked her despite her crabbiness because she's hot but it was nice seeing a sweet side to the character.
It must have been tricky knowing what to do with the hotel manager in the second season, with Armond being so iconic and amazing. So having a side character with little moments was probably the right thing. (BTW no spoilers as this is my first watch) | r/thewhitelotushbo | post | r/TheWhiteLotusHBO | 2025-04-19 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jYjRFbE9KNXItdndNMlFaZVkxQU9HdmxEcTd3VnpoZlJINVE3a1dnUUkycnhLVzc1MjVZdXU3OHZMUFJDb2NHNElkNE1fSWpzbFA0THFhZlRtYV9na0E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kVmJzQ3JHc0VXZHVVQ00tbGVWOWoxVHVNeWYyeHF2NnFzOVBXd0NOb3BKa0xuTW1YM2VaNDVCZ3NGeGg0cDhnRmJuVnBXbjhHZFJDZjdsV3Q4enoxaGdvTGFTWDBWTGZXYVJocWZsQ25OY2tyVHpDWEh0UUtzOWRQdTVYcWZ6ZndxM2lzdXJGY2lkS0RsOHhTbThWanVGYzdLR2pXLVFvaW5yMGNickxqbDJFd0FEeU5sNEpfSE5tV2d2clRDam9pNGVlVTB1QTBXVmZhTy1LUzJ1d2xodz09 |
Throughout my life, I've enjoyed the joy and the pain of being close friends with two other people. Feelings of being left out or third wheeling are all too familiar. Watching Laurie observing Kate and Jaclyn in the first episode reminded me of my past.
Then, the final episode aired. I was surprised by Laurie's decision to be vulnerable and honest instead of spiteful. And it inspired me.
Last weekend, two of my closest friends from high school went on a trip together. They didn't ask me to come. When I found out about it a couple of weeks ago, I felt hurt. I had to grapple with the fact that the three of us used to be close, but that our paths drifted apart. Now, they are much closer to each other than I'm to them. Which hurt - after all, I introduced the two of them.
I watched the episode on a Friday night. On Saturday, they texted me a picture to say hi from their trip and asked how I was doing. A couple of weeks ago, I wouldn't have replied. I would have felt hurt, left out, and I would have pitied myself.
But once I saw their text, I had to think of Laurie. I was grateful that even though we're not as close anymore, they thought of me while on this trip. And I texted back, wishing them a good time.
Today, I feel so much better accepting that friendships change. All that matters is being grateful for still having a seat at their table.
I didn't particularly like season three. But I'm eternally grateful for this monologue. | r/thewhitelotushbo | post | r/TheWhiteLotusHBO | 2025-04-19 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jdzZOWGNpYzRoQ09XLVFwVHFocE15M3lESEc0UjRQcmFGQWFlVmFESlpPY2NSWFc3MlQyQ2VWSUx2U2ZuMTJ2NDFxU2ItQ2JYenhKQUY5Z2dvV2JqMHRDSnBlb2J3bk9VUHNjRGtqRzFJZ1U9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kamo2dEgtT1RNSVFhT3dtTU5QQ2RpZk9tZURvX0pRQWVQSkRhbVdXY3V6bU5LemV1R1pVOTJ1V2JUTW90ZXhYQmtCSkZSN0t5cW05a2FTQl9JeEt4VFNqUlVxTVZ4SzdFSkhMLVhvdGZ5S1Vyc3c5WmVTdWdjUDQzRlVKNDBKLUNUVEw0MjhjZGNxRm00V2Q4VDZmNVJ3UTNHcDVXSVJjYkFUX0hTQS1scWhTVjcxUFpkZkZaalJmQVo4bnZZd2N1eC15ckVoMmJxZHlOOEdWa0RfRjl6UT09 |
My (39M) wife (39F) and I have been together for 14 years, married for 11. I’ve been cheated on in the past several times so I’m very sensitive to any behavior that could be construed that way.
My wife goes to the same gym 5 days a week and is always there when they open at 5am. It’s a serious thing for her. I personally go 3 days a week, but a different gym.
Needless to say conversations have been struck up with her by various people for the last 5 years or so. One guy in particular who is divorced, and 15 years older started being friendly to her a while back (not sure how long exactly). A conversation arose about a good lunch special at a steakhouse in town and it became an ongoing thing: “You gotta try this pork chop,” etc…
Well on Friday afternoon she went to lunch with this gentlemen and then when she came home she mentioned that her leftovers were from this place and that she went with a friend. Never said anything about a work friend so I pressed a bit more for curiosity’s sake.
She told me what happened and swore up and down nothing happened and she’s not interested in that way.
I will say our marriage has had its ups and downs, but the ups were way higher than the downs.
My wife has given me 0 reason in 14 years not to trust her…however the circumstances are quite suspect.
What does everyone think?
Edit: so many comments! I am trying to catch up but I have very little time.
Edit 2: We have had a lengthy discussion about all of this. She didn’t necessarily hide it from me and I didn’t have to prod her much at all for her to tell me it was a man from the gym. She’s known him for 2 years in passing and they talk occasionally. She’s known has NEVER given me a reason to think shes cheated. This time just seemed very sus, and she apologized a lot for forgetting to tell me she was going to do this. She is very scatterbrained and forgetful so it’s not out of the ordinary…
Anyways, thank you everyone for the rational, sane, helpful advice. Luckily I did most of that before I saw all of your replies so I think we are OK now.
Thank you again. | r/amioverreacting | post | r/AmIOverreacting | 2025-04-19 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jcFg0Z3NfRHI5R3N2aTFtdFV3T1BTbVU1djlPbTlYTUN1WmZtS1liUFhTenE0aUlpaHRXMGpHUDRIQ1U4em1zNjg1ejh6ci0zR1dBVHU3NXprcWVFZS1hZXJjaG1UTU5ISlhlN1BadUlXNnM9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kT3lKWE5tT3FteGlHc0xxekxFRjRsRnAyYVdiT241OHV5b3BzYWl5TmUyV2tISTF3M1JVcF8ta0hBWWU3UGpUMUxMWEwzNk1iNmhrQU9nTlI2cTBxSDNaeEFmNS1GWTFCQnNjRUVLVmpsNFJxV2trUDk4ZWlKenNuYU9JY1owRGJwY1dNRlVqSWtNcWV1V2tHbXQwNFVmdWxLRkxycFpMZUJvYjFabkgtQ3lZeDdDWW9XTkRpS2J2Q2F2LTRPdnVnb0dwaXM5ZVdLVW5Sd0p1aElwaVNVQT09 |
I am not a homosexual but I really don’t like how homophobic Christians can get. How can you call yourself Jesus kind with all that hate in your heart. I’m not going to talk about the actual concept of homosexuality in itself. I’m talking about the cruelty and hate that is somehow justified in the Christian community as long as it’s directed towards homosexuality. When did Jesus advocate for cruelty? When is it ok to hurt other people. What happened to love thy neighbour as you love yourself? I finally found a church that looks down on human cruelty and I couldn’t be more thankful to God to find such a loving space. | r/christianity | post | r/Christianity | 2025-04-19 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jMlBvYnFTc09aXzU3QXlhR1ZkeXF6TWZjZTctX0ZEdGZlQWwtdTFuZFlwVUJzTkFiQU1PREJvYnlhWDJrbGQwQ3B6LTJVOHNBcmdsT1lnRzZwbUJodW1lRkUxZVlQX2FEWkdsUnZYQTNrWms9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kamdiMEdtYzk4M0dUY0lfTjBGRkEtSVgteDVYSlFHSDJ6R0RVVUVoeV9xYmh6SXZZbnN2WEc0TmFVem1qVC1TeTIxOVV5blNaN1pqZkttTk56czdBUjR2eDlCX1VMb0lCM09kMDN4NDQ5b042TWt2el95V08zUEptZ0ZrN0xUdHRUVk4tV2ZacEhPZ3ZxUThsSTlDZjMzLVQxRkF4TU4zc3lVeFhHNVZrRXlzMFNlUlRUSVQyRENubS1vdkVZU2xNdGVNaVV3M09MOW9hREdfeUdRUndWQT09 |
Someone in a recent thread made a great point that Mike White seems to cast less recognizable actors, because having someone like Tom Cruise or Michael B. Jordan could be too “distracting.”
That being said, who is the most recognizable actor to appear on the show so far? Jennifer Coolidge is one of a kind, and she’s kind of had a renaissance in the last several years. F. Murray Abraham has been around for decades and been in a ton of roles. Sam Rockwell is an Oscar winner. Then you have actors like Steve Zahn, Walton Goggins, and John Gries, who have all played a million roles and are famous character actors. Sydney Sweeney is an A-lister now but wasn’t at the time S1 aired.
| r/thewhitelotushbo | post | r/TheWhiteLotusHBO | 2025-04-19 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jMW5qRVVEZm5zX3dNUjBuSE9KU2NiUERMWGs4dzFHcTRERFdLa01vQXJGcHVPa2JIOWlsWkJtZ3ptRGVrNFdHQXlkNUtYTWRiYWd2eUNIM01rUWoyc0E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kOWp4RnprbGtvSk1JM3Z0WU1mWnQ3SkFVeml4MGJNLVZyeXNQS21pSzFSVlpIZXhDdkdySzVxR0NnT3ZCYmlGc0xJSERxUzdSTnh0Z05vOWpfRU96Y3VZa0JzRGlIMnhHQjlDalI3bW90X0NzZmtNYjZJYll5eDFfYlYwNlMzSE1sazVaNEw4ZUpCdGRkZlNXRGJtVFZ2WEhfZHpCTnlFcEwzaFphV0ZVaEF1b3dVX3drcERpWVNZMDFtT09NRVVfVFR6YmYtajdUdWJNUDdlQUVDM2wydz09 |
"It broke my heart to put that tumor in her head." - Ego (Guardians of the Galaxy Vol. 2)
"I do love your mother, but she's more like a pet to me." - Omni Man (Invincible)
"They will make such excellent spies." - Madame Morrible (Wicked) | r/topcharactertropes | post | r/TopCharacterTropes | 2025-04-19 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jUlg3YTFTSGdDd09pOGJXcFNpbTY1VFNIcmNxa3hXdFFpdXJfdWo1ek1RMUE1X252TnNNdGN1dnNESUhIMzV4b3B1TzVkaXVoUXdyMlFDTllTQ2J1SXc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5ka2p5WHgwdGZWbVhHbXRObkVRd3dURHBsVmNoSWhXRnFmMmx5UDFNZDhqSFdaVVJlSm5wb2gzMjhSaVBjU19yNkxYN0c3V3pSZU1ZLWwwMkJHS3ZHS2d0SFFkdzZON0dBS3pGZEVWVENYdmRnMkhVb2ZiaENDdHA1WTNOM2IydVdtOXVFM192Ui1aZHNrRjdvX1NNTmN4ZFlzVHB6UjBWODNwYTNTQ3l0M3hucGdPV3NOaUx2bU1pUnNTZGVteVNOdXVaVnQ0aThMM3g1STRCNjRrX2ZVZz09 |
heres the height and weight of churro if your wondering what it is:
Height: 6’6”
Weight: 85kg
| r/robloxavatars | post | r/RobloxAvatars | 2025-04-19 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jS01JQmxoRmZoTkp2dmJhM0dQOUh0WWdEQ1VWXzNBbURGQTNITk13Y0dEVHNqTWl2Z2xPT3ZjclRoYlB4MWFLYnh1WjM5NEhJZjI4YlNJVFRwb0RYcnc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kVGJHYUgzM3YwcEZndllYZW83UW1MMFQtRzVnbWhUWFgxRFhnaW54YURQSG1oMTcyc3Z1YWpseXQzY2hNcy1vekowbFpRdGlXUXh1a1oxb19VWE9MZTlqdkNWVkRKVXhoVC1oTlc1aTBLMmhvck9lbmM1S3ZyZDRKVGtEbFRFa2hzRkh4bk9CVmVNdzRISzcyNVpYcE11WEthWlBkMnFqNHJua1FKcjZlbFZBZWd5eDBYNTlXZ2NqRTZsY3FVaVpvOVNjRWVSZlNPNXJBRXpfNXBxamJnUT09 |
Jetstream and the commander (sky high)
Ironman and capitán America (marvel)
Batman and Superman (DC)
Superman and Flash, with some plastic man help (DC)
Tails with Sonic and Knuckles, and all flying types in general in Sonic heroes (Sonic the hedgehog) | r/topcharactertropes | post | r/TopCharacterTropes | 2025-04-19 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jTFowYjdvOGVjZDVrOV9WUERkOEF4WmIzTzRMcFdyZWh4MjJJVmhYS2R4eTFHR2lQaF9sd0pCLUtRNDBwdDNwZ3dlcWF1V0xrM1hIZ0hpUk02OV9fRmc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kQzBYSGNxVkFBczlZVEZjdm9kQmsyNVRhXzRfeG1HUzhxT0FydURqb2NZUUVVa2VsUm52OHlSZzVNZF9mV2c0RmQ0cUhodU9OcWNpa1FXbVFjUW5lVFhOSmRpalU3ZjZKRmN4UFNiU1B2OGFRemFGYUowSEhQTWZGdzJIc1lPMC1Sd29uM0JOT2x6UnlVWVVMSU5NcHRJUUJydXgyRHcxYW9jZG1YSFoyN2xaWUVDdy0yT3RXUzRCQjZ2bDZvOUduMnVYVUdmUGhKSmxoT25Mb21qamlHUT09 |
Mario & Peach - Super Mario Bros.
Robin & Starfire - DC Comics
Mike & Celia - Monsters Inc. | r/topcharactertropes | post | r/TopCharacterTropes | 2025-04-19 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jdEFUeFpnd0NuRFhLa2toQ1RoQmFmRWJiMnI4dUMwMzV3eHFsSm9JeWprdjV1Z1dlN05RRzlLRklKeENVNTFUb2lYYTVzUThSQ3dSaTgteGY4eUV0Snc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kX3luY2V1QmdOWmhoRkx1Z2YxZFl0MVl6aWlQenlSUjZ0dUZnRURuTmVGYlpXcU55UHN0amZpd1hQRHgxX2t5R3B5T21sNEExM3VGWDBMREZyMGxjMlA0aFhpalVKTmZyQ1dRSVRaZGp3ckdPU3Z3X2xzb0wzbno1cjB0WlUtSUd0RTd5QXFtTXhuVnV0MWctamRJVFlTclpKamhTSmFtYXJ0Y1FybDRjTzZjMGQ4MmhsOFcybEFZVHF2dnF1N1J4dGNLNTE3c3JHYkhvNGlfQ1cyelF0dz09 |
A few years ago I lost my crucifix and it’s really bothering me and my girlfriend gave me this is it disrespectful to the lord? | r/christianity | post | r/Christianity | 2025-04-19 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jbXItWHRVTi1mSGpZWXNheEVCS1BIN1lZMm43REJQaXJ5aHg4LW1JLWtCYno4ZzdNUDhJYXpuOFNqeEhFTTU1dzVsVEdUYVJwc0lKX01OckRTelhPMzBhdE5DUHExZmtYNmJ4TVpweExBd289 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kaHg3RDhOclhLQjJ6ZFJEaGVNQlNidUpRZlJKWUY3QzN5WDE0NFJTRGNlY3BuN0RGS0NjRHMwX292S0hwdUQzNFNIV0l3blM3RlhVX1REMGhpYktyR3dfc01ITHQ4OWpxZGZ0Um9TVExMb3hfYUhZeDI1UUJkdzZQVWs1TXJYQ2RyZVpaelM4VVlPcmJfTXBFUE9ldHhrWTIwYV9aOWFZLTl0NExOT2x1VjJ2TEhoazhPZmJOLWs0RGxyUm5KV0Rk |
Just for context, my husband and I get along in all aspects of our relationship, but recently he’s been in the habit of picking at the dried, scabbed skin on his feet and flicking it all over the floor. Hence, giving me major ick as I constantly feel like I’m cleaning his flakes off the couch, bed and floor.
Today, we were watching TV on the sofa and I was having some leftover pizza bedside him. Imagine my horror as I see a huge piece of his dead skin he was picking at fly into my pizza as I go to take a bite. I immediately went off on him for being a disgusting piece of sh*t and haven’t spoken to him for a few hours now. He on the other hand thought it was quite funny.
I don’t know if I can continue with this behavior. I have told him before that this does bother me, but he tells me that because he plays so much soccer on his off days, the dry skin just happens and flakes and he needs to remove it regularly.
Does this call for a divorce? | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-19 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jQjl2UEhuSS1zUktmQjVybDBmbVA3ZHpsdFhYVy1sOGJmQW1ab2lMWG1KeWp0bXdXUU9VUFcwcV9EOWdwVEFBX2NZdGdULUJfOTB6aktpaWlXdG54RGc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kcU9rRGNnbndCS0V0SzVzeDMtNG9ZbHVKQ21YMzRPWGxKNU42YnU1TllGTGJGRDAtdzdYaU01Z0s2UUtSdHBQU3BXSUtUOVFPRmhfejh0MV90b2NDaGw1OHRIbTRqbHh6dFFXUUdKcDJDQkhEOTcxWkdNWHQteW03Z3VQcDF1RlI5Y1c3T0hvS2F1a1JfYVVSWUswQXZ0V0l4eTdCUjJzR3RpZFgzUkYyNVgxT3hfR1hWLTZZT04tcFFqeUJGdFRuRzAyVHJoQU81RGdsRnZTRkFjbzlXd0IySnk1MFJ0WmlYeTg5dFprSTJybz0= |
Mr. Freeze's tragic backstory in Batman: The Animated Series.
Kano being Australian in Mortal Kombat.
Blade being a Daywalker. | r/topcharactertropes | post | r/TopCharacterTropes | 2025-04-19 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jbzlXOFdUX2w0eldZUENiaHNIR294MVdHYmFyWnJXQVFkX0JmdWtfY0pyX3BJV3VwdFN4Vll5Zks3ZGY4RkVDNkxwYVN0T0IzZEdCaVRDWUlBQ2sydVE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kZnpIbzZCRVFTRDdNcDJVTTNQRVlzakVwaEo5bWROLS1RaUJvcWJmX1BDUlVzelFVWjhRWTROVDBBLXdSME1TUEhIQU44UEQtSmlqMHNXblp5b1RXaE1OQllfaEU2dGxCdy1wcm5ITkVrZlJKQjZXWGhDUUZoS1dnaGJJQ2d6b09WSFI2OE10MHA3QlhoWUc5bTZvREgyT1Y4THRWT2t5OS1xd3FfVjkzYi1WZHZkMDBQY3didmZiU2tHVUFySjJaVjRUd2dBdG9RdzFNVXVjdWd5b1RuZz09 |
I have just returned from the Easter Vigil on the Great Night. I wish you a happy Easter celebration and I pray that the Risen Christ will lead us towards the path of union with God in the Kingdom of Heaven now and forever. Amen. | r/christianity | post | r/Christianity | 2025-04-19 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jcURfSnFvaF9aZUdZcVlTR3ltdE5DbE85WU1OSnpyWjRJbDk4MXNLREczeGZjdlktaWJnNjA1RlQyS2pjYmhoOTljSVd1UDRLMXJCWVdydElYNWE1ZEE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kbDl4cmFTOUdYVDVaOGJYcGEzeVZqUkpUMS1nVGVPT01FQ000NVp0OHFXZmNOeXlEZEk5bGMtUTl6Z0pRaWVraDRvbE4zVnBMY0ZESlJ5ZDdGeU0wSldNcjhXTi1rX2pBbEN5VkZnS3pEbHRnZG9RMWw1eFltVWl1MmQ3UXAzV3dkUVY1LU9hTDVoZjhDdDBwYU1qdUNsek11STRIbG9lT01QQUtuWE14cmRVNk5zQVB0RTNfM1NLYUxJcENESngt |
I (F 25) have been with my boyfriend for a little over 4 and a half years now. For context, he grew up in a household that heavily believes in natural remedies, and staying away from medicine and stuff if that makes sense? I don’t know if there is an exact name for it, but yeah. I never really minded it at the time. Of course I respect that he has his own preferences and upbringing, and as long as he respected mine, I was perfectly fine with it.
At first, he’d just suggest things like “try ginger tea for your headaches instead of ibuprofen” or sometimes he recommend breathing exercises when I had hay fever. Even though I doubted it would benefit me, I gave it a fair shot, genuinely. (The only thing that I somewhat approved of at the time was the ginger tea, but not even because it worked, just because it tasted quite nice.) But after a while, I realised his methods just didn’t work for me. I went back to my regular meds, which give me actual relief.
I thought he’d understand, but he kept bringing it up and sneaking criticisms at me every time he saw me take a tablet. (For context, I have REALLY bad hay fever allergies. To the point I sometimes prevent myself from going out during the summer. Certain medications that are supposed to work on a lot of people don’t usually work on me, and my eyes get extremely swollen and I sneeze like so much it’s almost embarrassing. There is, however, this one medication, despite the high cost which works EXTREMELY well for me where I can go the whole day without sneezing or itchy eyes.)
Then I started noticing that my hay fever medication was disappearing. I always keep it in the same two places. Either the top kitchen cabinet, or my desk drawer, and i KNEW it wasn’t just me misplacing it. When I asked him about it, he denied touching it at first. Eventually, he did admit to throwing it away, saying “it was almost empty anyway.” I was furious. That box still had about five capsules left, and they were the kind you can split in half so basically ten doses.
He apologised and said he didn’t realize. I was upset, but I chose to forgive him.
Fast forward a few months, and he started bringing up my birth control. He began saying things like how we should be more “natural” and that I should stop using contraception. For the record, I’ve been on birth control because HE doesn’t like using condoms, and I absolutely do not want kids right now (if ever). And I did tell him I wasn’t comfortable stopping, but he kept pushing, saying he’d just pull out and everything would be fine.
Eventually, I did gave in, but he didn’t even pull out. I felt completely violated. I felt disgusting and furious. I confronted him, and he said something along the lines of “just happened in the moment” I don’t remember his exact words because I was fuming, and then he said something like how he “thought I was okay with it.” But I wasn’t. I’m not. I feel like my boundaries were completely disrespected, and honestly, I don’t know how to feel about him right now..
What I do know is that I’m seriously considering ending the relationship. I’ve tried to be understanding, but after what happened I just don’t know if I can ever trust him again. I’m not sure if I’m overreacting over 1 thing that happened, because I’m quite scared of throwing away a 4 year relationship and I really do love him and so do my family
Am I overreacting? Or is this a huge red flag?
Edit: Okay well this is sort of crazy, I went straight to bed after posting this and woke up to hundreds of people saying to run from this relationship.. Firstly, I’m still thinking of how to do so, because I’m not a very confrontational person, I’ve never ended a relationship, and have only ever had a relationships ended on me. Secondly, I still need to think of the process of leaving, I’d most likely have to move back in with my parents for the time being because me and (M 27) are renting together… I feel like deep down, I knew this was where to draw the line, I just needed a bit of confirmation that I wasn’t going crazy, mostly because he made it seem like I was making a big deal over it and made the situation seem less than it really is. Third of all, me and (M 27) haven’t had sex ever since that whole situation happened, mostly because I don’t feel safe having sex anymore which I know js a major sign when it comes to relationships. Furthermore, I do understand a lot of the people calling me stupid for not leaving already, and I genuinely appreciate the honesty even if it stung a little. You’re right that I shouldn’t let someone push my boundaries or put my health at risk. But I also want to be transparent about why this isn’t just a ‘walk away’ situation for me. We’ve been together for more than 4 years. My mum literally calls him her son, and my siblings see him like an older brother. He’s deeply woven into my life and he’s by far my longest relationship ever. Untangling that is going to hurt. Regardless, I will try to respond to as much comments as I can and give updates. Thank you everyone, for assuring me I wasn’t crazy in this situation.. | r/amioverreacting | post | r/AmIOverreacting | 2025-04-19 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jZ19zanlhNWJfZDlzQVBVbWlFNThlR0ZqZVlxdkFSTURhRUNaUm9mbU5FODdEX1djOHlFZ0d0UmtnVlNUbTJDR0h5RktZNHRIZEx2WVRNT0JkM0o3cURPMnItUl9pSlBRTWVSV2ppZXV1Umc9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kcnpwR1Bqcy1KbVoxS3JKVUcxVEpBMTNPWGNHek01cnpUN2t3RmtadXRHQkFDTVJyZ28temZ1ZUlCMDdmUjBTU3kwa2YwOVFLQWl6TUdPY0N1NEdtd09vWlZoWHNXUllzdkhidGtfSkxKaXJXM3JSZl9yMllNbjRUV2RMUW9WSkFUZ0pfcFpLRFh1UFZNQ0o1VU1jVzQ2TGc5RFBUY2RxeEdmalRpbXFwdFdVZ1BnOFd4N1hZTVVtRHFPa1owZzYzVkctMzBFTk1zakhZc3E2ZElHVm00UT09 |
Me and my bf were having a chill night in, and the news came on about Russia attacking Ukraine again throughout the "Easter truce". I said something about Putin being disgusting and he straight up said "Ukraine wouldn't have kept the peace anyway, Putin is just being strategic."
At first, I thought he was joking but he doubled down and started going on about Western media and propaganda, saying there's 2 sides to every story, seeming to be siding with Putin. Thats how it seemed to me anyway.
I snapped and said people are dying and you're talking about it like a strategy game. We got into a big heated argument and a lot came up. I couldn't believe what he was saying, and I can't be with someone who believes the things he believes about the world. It just seems so wrong.
So yeah, I broke up with him then and there, left his house and went home. | r/amioverreacting | post | r/AmIOverreacting | 2025-04-19 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jTXloaE5tZ0N4Y3BMLUhQeGkyak55bEx1Zld3cndyWlo1SVQzR0p3TjVPcUM1NU1QRmNJczFHQWc2Z1Y3R3NFSkhpTnVGYWlSVktkZnowcmM5ZWNwMFE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kLWhDU3ZlQmFaRkhFMkc5T0dUcl9DWGN2bFl3c1NmR2dEZ0hPLVdiMjdmZGZrazlFbGIwNER4UXFUYmpyMlJQTzhuS0U2T1UzNWJEa1JFQ0lxcHBtajhmbFZqa2o3TXlSYnB0MjdLdVNyd0JEY3k5SXJRRnVWZEhFOUdzTUU1T2ZoeUN2eDloRlVtb0hHdjRnd2paNTVmdVozeFJIeGlOR25YdmRlYktPUFl4WWoyREU2VGhJMUZEYjJ6bDc1QWZLZWpqaWdkVFlmdmllaS0yY05jeE8tZz09 |
Alright, confession time.
I'm a VERY lustful person, i've been troubling with masturbation for over 3 years, most likely due to my age.
Recently,i was feeling an intense guilt regarding my past sins of flesh, and after acknowledging that the devil himself was causing me to constantly fell onto temptation, i yelled to the dark:
"Fuck off, Satan! Let me have a life without wasting my seed on acts of sin."
After that, i felt way better.
Everytime i thought about doing it again, i heard God yelling at me:
"No."
And my hands stopped, everytime.
This is a personal story, and after telling about it to my friends, they told me to share this with more people so that it could help my other christian brothers.
Some people might disagree with me, but everytime you feel like you are constantly falling onto the same sin, over and over again, do the same thing i did, you might have the same results as me.
Have a good day :). | r/christianity | post | r/Christianity | 2025-04-19 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jRFFYY29XNGI4Nnp6eHJza2ZYRjE3T2ltcVlMMF9oSWc3X0Y5WG92TUtlelNUUjNGOVVZck9lMkdLMnlqMmhPeDZuZHU5ZmdUQjhWZmU4b1RhRkM2NGc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kMzdkUk5NdTRQRW95ZUNFNC1rRS04REpZRVhZZXlaaG45LVIzMTduOXVsTU1NRzBtSXFtczVYUUx5VzBuR19aeDdMeFNCZGQxTVFLQ1lZdTJuWk9uaGxiWElYWlFzRU5hOEd3TTh1TlE4VWZSOHVBZVVUcEh6WWk4bDF2eGd5MVJsLUMtWEVQQWxCcTZGeWtfekNXV1NKV2NRMktKeHF0WkN3bm9rSDlZTnMydWhid0ZaNV9aaW1CdVRNckFEcmFFWTByQkNTSl83NE1wajJQWE9zUEw3Zz09 |
I finally have my first Bible! | r/christianity | post | r/Christianity | 2025-04-19 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jaVV0TVlOdmNJVkVOSU1nQ29vdEFUbVRLVkZCMVhab3paRks2a1g0bDdDbDRyRUwxS2FMVVFjNGFQOWphOUdaenlEWEZlTm5naVpZRjhrRFB5RGVJSmxQaWtCNkV6OGRGM1FLVFUyQnp5Njg9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kZ1M2aDNXNVJWQ29ENkFQOFNZeXVpRnNCdGN5OGtmTG5QZW4xUzk0M3BpY2dXUk9URWVEOXZLd1NBTjhNMzdFLUpHS2xDaWE2ZWRaVGVJM0JTTHdCdkZWYmthZTQtWG1vdThhd0lhQU5lbndxazlfYnFKMzl6MV9yczNUamZVdzRLRWpmbFI0NF9PeGpFbURIaGw4YWpPcHR4LTlpSnpzWlY0bGpQdmpnUERBPQ== |
My client is upset she paid “$200 over quoted price” for her tattoo. Here is some context: I’m a tattoo artist from Los Angeles California, I travel the country doing Tattoo Expos. I attended the Philadelphia Tattoo Expo in January 25th & a woman walked up to my booth looking for a quote on this custom lettering piece she wanted on her arm. I told her I can do it for $300 if she got it done at the expo (we try to keep as busy as we can while at the expos) and she said she would think about it. On the last day if the expo, she came back to my booth and said she was up for it. At this point, I was booked out and unable to fit her in my slots for the day. I told her I could do it for her at a local shop that allowed me to guest spot for a few days, however the price would be increased since it’s no longer being done at the expo and on top of that I would have to pay a percentage of my earnings (per tattoo) to the local shop that’s letting me guest. She was totally down for it. I got her booked up and two days after that, had her come by to the shop. I had a couple technical difficulties with my stencil printer because I have to travel with a portable one that is gimmicky. Not to mention I had to set up my guest station to my liking, to make sure I can work comfortable. Once everything was set, she decided to go bigger than initially quoted her and I let her know it was going add to the cost. She was hyped and didn’t care, immediately agreed. At the end of the session I let her know her total was $490 and she looked a little stunned, mind you, she was fully aware that I flew from the west coast to do this expo and she was aware that the local shop I guested at was a east coast renowned tattoo shop.. so of course I have to give a nice percentage to the shop. Regardless, she paid her balance, I got pictures of the work and she walked off pretty quiet. A couple days ago I messaged her to see if the tattoo held up great and let her know I was gonna be back in town. This is what she messaged me back, not gonna like I felt really sh***y about it. I’m aware this economy is hard on everyone. I’m aware “worth it” to someone may not be “worth it” to another.. I just feel like I gave her a one of a kind experience, took great care of her and executed a phenomenal piece. It sucks to know someone feels like you ripped them off when in reality you are attending a prestigious tattoo expo (that you paid a lot of money to work at) and have a strong portfolio to show for. It’s not like im an apprentice or trashy tattooer. Sigh. | r/amioverreacting | post | r/AmIOverreacting | 2025-04-19 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jUWloZ082ajhGX2R2bV9DcUFHQlVoeGtYN0oxaXFJM29ReTlyekJJM3lDUUtnTVRhUUJCSUpJVmMxQUN0V3BvU0Q5eUhzdHNEUFJOR2tvRVZwZFpERnc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kMTIybTJ0cHJmSzZXOVltaHJOeVlSNml0UkV5Sy1PMTAyaF9ReFMzMzhwbGtKQWdsVXdHTmtkNFFpUnRaUExTVU5xYXJmeFhxeG4wMXZwNzR0emRSUS1EUFFlS3JtbVNtazFwRmZ5VUdRRXRJdkpyaE1SX2hKWDJ5TEhnQW4zeDdIRzE3QmlITGx5a2poZC1rNlhRemhUUGcwYU56MElTa1lUZUJFdDVUZDZBS3JCelJja3J2SlRkbGNNNXFkSl85 |
As we remember the One who is seated at the right hand of the Father today. How He overcame death, how He defeated sin and satan let us also remember to carry our cross in this life and live for Him ! It's not an easy task to carry the sins of the world and die for the people but yet Jesus still did it for you and I. If anyone has a testimony or prayer request drop it in the comments so we can strengthen, celebrate and encourage each other. Blessings and peace to all !❤️💒 | r/christianity | post | r/Christianity | 2025-04-19 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jdEVjbzVwaHlEYTZFVW80YVVjYlF0OVFYbTZOTTd3R3pLbDVPVHlyU1YxM3Jzc3RfQTF4QW9vWktqRUtxNWFVLWF2eGFxeGpkR0FOYmpweWZJUEctNWc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kWW9xdUdsei1hSW9FRk0ydkRRNE5iSTViNnE4ZUI0dmF1aFN5Q29nd3JKbDRxR3lxUzQ0NERIeVJMYmRpUGdXMkJ4UmhZdnI2aDlzbkk5ZXd5VnJzSlo3cVI1dHlVUEUzMXg4MFZTWVNPTjFqTjBaSS1iOTZ1TWNWeUZJdVFnQ1FfbkhMZGx0Uk4wX0NPdU9vMmQ2bmt1bEM2b0hiTU5UU1BJVXR4MnIwMlFWV1l0aGZNOVpLcEt4aEt1SmJ1bHBiTjNIX01MWFZzTXQzZ0xOMEVUaXNHZz09 |
I (24F) haven’t been able to respond to my boyfriend’s (23M) texts for hours because I have no words. I sent him a photo of coffee and my (fake) Dior bag was in it. I got it for free as part of a brand deal and started using it today. I’m desperately trying to understand but at the same time im generally appalled at this and I need to know what other people think? How would you respond in this situation or what would you do? | r/amioverreacting | post | r/AmIOverreacting | 2025-04-20 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jclBGLUV3TThEQ0VINU5yVm1RRm55T1NocU5OQUtPWEE1aGFjQ3BoZWMtajNOZzF4REl3QjZSemRVUHpwT2JBWlBpbzA5bFZlQ2ZqYjdLLTJhc0h1LUtnZWJ4NjZoY2VQWnRPY09NTU9jTFU9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kTm5RaHNoX1FrQm9FcHNqR3ZHU080SWwyUEVTWnV3NEdhYW5aXzZxcWdkWnlPSXg2NWJXTXNTSFBIR1puRzZveGRRT1E1a1FhNzAxOG5QYWNQNnkzQXhxWV8teXNJNkRoUXZrbzZ1VF8yM0owRDg1T2RyY0ZZTDVZdFc4LWFOMEt1al81SzcwTzZLYWxRYXgwMXZyeWIxSktuaUVuZ05CdERMUW5QRjR1cXRGbUNFUGJQWFdkdnNCaVZTaVRjTWdkLVJTTUVhWV9hMlE0WEw3NEZCRGhoUT09 |
Do not feel well rn and I need to pass the time so lemme read some of your avatars fun facts and i’ll rank how much I like it
To the mod that said “I’m sorry you had a nightmare”, thank you and I hope this doesn’t count as low effort content | r/robloxavatars | post | r/RobloxAvatars | 2025-04-20 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jaVZYQW5FRmdZcHZsVjNJT0JTcHIxa2JObFdMZXQ4eHJtcGJ1aVc2dnAxU1BmaVJtMFpOSEJOcDZvMmdHdTlTWGhLRFBsX0xBa2pSS1pWQ2RKcnVJNVE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kMVNZUzBYaTRPaklMdExqRDgyU0pPckpITm5tRXdvOGd3aDdFQzJhQ2pXQTBtRFJEWTc1OS1oLThnaVZQWk5HWm1JU2xXd1JsT2ZQbTZ2ekRHN19wWC1TcWN4X3VSX2szZkwtRGkzMGhDN0Z5NVlNSEhZUFFRWFFSNnVqUE1ZM2lwbmpkUFBXLXI0dlg3T0UteEt5UjhLWkJqMm5YNUJkS2gwazkxelZUUWF6RThJYWFWRTNVMEJJY2hHR05hSUxQLXN2R29ydnhQSW4xeHBLSWNBNnkzQT09 |
I've honestly never used Reddit before but since this is always coming on my feed when I ask Google questions I thought l'd give a go.
I don't
really know what else to say to be honest. I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 20 and both from the Uk so we are still at age to be going out partying and raving or wtvs. I feel like he was a bit extreme but I need opinions?? I included the outfit incase that was needed | r/amioverreacting | post | r/AmIOverreacting | 2025-04-20 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jdjN6NzdZbUctZWFFUHMzaEdXb0VxdENsTWZaNXRnbUF2cVctUlJsVDRJc3BYc2hEbE4xX2dVcHJ6Wm9FRllnQ2ZIXzVSUklkQlNTYnY5T2JzWG1nRlE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kdmhEVUFXV19GWnlPQVc2Mk1zUV8yTXRlUlNfWEIxdkdiVjR5SEM3VGUxb2ZQd0h5RWVFX0swalpZTWhDZHJHa2pPMmNxLVhtcHdKbTEyajZ5ZGxTdGlXOG0wOXNDbXJkeGRLQVZFZURFaFNEZ0dmVUozMnJFNTE5a0thc0hZWENGenE0dTVoTkQ5d29vVW1tYjNmUXBiWlNfbnZ3Wl9wZWhuZmtGU2hLZWtGdWgwaDNvSHVlZXBidnVKaXJlbGFX |
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My BF and I have been together for 3 years. He has a girl best friend who he met online and they have known each other for 5 years.
A couple months ago I started to feel uncomfortable with the relationship which they had for these reasons:
He frequently leave me on delivered to go and play games with her, they each have photos of her in his room and each other on their instagram (he has no photos of me anywhere), after being kicked out of his house he flew to another country to stay with her instead of staying with one of his other mates or family. There is many more example but these are the main ones.
After bringing these issues up with him he just told me it was because they were friends and that I shouldn’t worry. I am now also blocked by her on all social media’s after I brought up the Instagram posts.
Fast forwards a couple of weeks he told me that him and her were no longer friends. I didn’t believe him. I did some searching and found out that both him and her have matching profile pictures on their accounts of anime characters who are clearly in a relationship. They also have each other’s names as the nicknames when they play games together. (Sorry I can’t explain this very well)
I don’t know how or if I should bring this up to him again because it’s something that I’ve gone searching for to try and find something. I don’t wanna seem like a bad person and I’m purposely trying to find something bad on him as he already knows that I don’t like his and hers relationship, I just don’t trust him. I don’t know what to do.
UPDATED- I have broken up with him. She posted a tiktok with his voice in and it ended up of my fyp, i mentioned this to him and he still tired to deny anything. He then told me that they have been together since the middle of March (even worse as we got together middle of March). Thank you for all the advice i appreciate all of you! | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-20 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jUjdxQ1ktel81WkVEUGNSY0V0VEVIY2djNzAxU1o1RDJXUVhtY1ZKNXZlZzF6WFVtWUp2MVRzMVBpSF8tZWd5Qkd0cGQzMVphMENWQ2FOd0FfcklJd2xZQm50T0sxUU9IYVRjVHViTm13MG89 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kbzExdGszZmZ1RzdETGJEaWw4OWVkazJfVkJOaGxaMTNqaVRfMXJZR3pURi1kaENvM2JlMDdSWVp3UlllOWpCLUZ3VUZoWk1SNnhOWGlrZDlKQ1haOVZNSGFJVDd4dEJBeVNuMWlQdmM1YktHX0ZWMlhaaWx1Yk45ZjBmTjNxOU5adEszbjdaNEEzQThCend3amJIeFl1cm9BYW1yRU41NjZvXzZxLWItLXpCRGhEbWdqTFZVQk02Y3lHY3ZiUC1yQXUyQ2pkb19yemkweGFpc2tNRUk5Zz09 |
Happy easter and resurrection of Christ! | r/christianity | post | r/Christianity | 2025-04-20 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jaXJtRl94eXZ2VmJxVExtNWM5OXJYejg0d2o1RnBwbldsR0xYLTQ5MUxkaVhRN2ZhY2NhTl9nTjdvYm5lZGxJZGJVWlQ4VVRfeTZON2xJOEFxODNGVmc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kYl9oQWJFZE4xRGxOeEk1d3k4VUJjenltZUMzVXI0cVNGVWFnc1pjWjYzbFBoRkJRMS10LThtWUY4bzcwamJXMFppUGpxVjJDTk85S3dXMmxMazdaSXB0cDFMaWtVRm1ScEx5UWtENTE0X21KRWNsU3prcXdITTVPR3NCcFFwMmwyWTJfeTcybFJDV081UjRLazAyOTdJdDVWcFBTUVhYU2NSQ2dBeTVNdGdFPQ== |
So I recently found out about this 1997 match. I don't understand why the Sri Lankans didn't declare the match midway after a defendable
Score. If the pitch was batsmen friendly then they could've easily defended and drawn game in the 4th inning. Or did they just donit to create a world record? Or was it to embarrass the Indian team. | r/cricket | post | r/Cricket | 2025-04-20 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jX05xV1BGeG9McENCa1IwbFJNNXBtOHRPR2NGVkdTQVhSaDllajB2REprWmlZeVRRZWNQUmNtc1phRE1XaV9nN1JhVkxmRHhSOERVMDdqMWJ6SHBKZWc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kU3lJdWRnZ0o0WDJrd3JINk9PR3puZjl2akl6VE1NanR1MDJTRlZWU015cTlVWHdjVEtIR0tkMUZxdlpnUC1PQUxpeGZJeFJqakhhSVR2dm5sY1prcjljU2tfY25zaDFPM1BoMzY0RnA2MDRxYzJIb0ZqZ2h1bVlJMmIwa2FkdS1lNURxamxFVzBpY3NvS3JFV252NHRvZFQ2S1RSd1BGVEF5N2Q4bno4YmVWcXZhbXg4TGhlVlNCcVhJWjIyQUdY |
Otis and any othet male cow in barnyard- trans represention due to animation eror (self explanatory)
Batman (DC) - when DC made batwoma (kate kane) Jewish, they unknowingly made Jewish too. Kate is bruce cousin from his mother side, which make Matrha Wane Jewish too. And Judaism is maternal.
Moom Knight (marvel) - when moon knight creator name his secret identity "Mark Specter" after ine of his friends. Late he found out that said friend was Jewish and "Mark Specter" is a very Jewish-American name, so he decided to integrated this to the character (which in my opinion, makes moon knight far more interesting character, as a Jewish guy who works for Egyptian deity) | r/topcharactertropes | post | r/TopCharacterTropes | 2025-04-20 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jRUc1RFhwU3NGekxsZkJIQ0hkOHpfdDNFU0R3NHpscFN5cHh4b1ZSbV9tVTh4cXBCb1ZBbmdkdS1ITk15bkYxZ01YcWVqcmZXTlhlcWFZWWx4ZV9FZGc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5ka09QT1FLV3NqWVhfV1BGdHV2X2tveE92MlNpXzBEeHUzME9LTWZyX2RnTERvbTlDbUp1MkpVaUszYUtCa01vUUNubkNRZC1fdzhrckVZaTJfZzNOc3p4RThBdUlDQWVPYUoyeURUcWY4ZHV6NXBmUlVUMFJvZERDb190UjRXMjA5ZGJvTGhPa0w4bDI0Wk9zUkxrU2syekJsQzhVQWNEQThBajZQbUpHOHUwdWZ6UmhyLS1Hb01YQXJMSVVRVS1o |
My boyfriend (31M) and I (27F) have been together for almost a year and I am frustrated with his reaction to my Pap smear results. So a few days ago, my pap smear came back abnormal with low-grade dysplasia (LSIL) and signs of HPV. Up until now, my Pap smears came back perfectly fine each year, so I was a bit shocked when I first received the report. Also, no HPV until now (might have been dormant, but had no knowledge of an active or previous infection until now).
I have decided to share the news with my boyfriend and I really needed his support since I'm really scared of gyno issues, even the pap smear procedure is scary enough to me. I have explained to him that this is the first time it showed up for me, had no knowledge of being infected previously and shared some HPV-related facts to him, such as the favourable prognosis because we are young. I've explained to him and suggested the next steps for us, such as Gardasil vaccination and so on. He started freaking out and saying that he feels bad with himself, that he feels dirty and that he's done with having sex. I felt like this is an appropriate reaction since he had limited knowledge about this virus and I decided to comfort him, explained to him that the infection is wide-spread, it's got nothing to do with being clean. He went non-verbal after this and remained absent for the rest of the day, while occassionally discussing daily stuff and what he wants to buy for himself.
We've had no discussion about this until now and I'm starting to get really frustrated with the way he is handling this. I've explained to him that there is no point in dwelling on whether I got it from him or not (he is not my first sexual partner) and there is no purpose in pointing fingers since it's so common and the prognosis is good. So I don't think that the issue here would be that he felt like I'm putting the blame on him.
It's making me doubt his ability to have a serious relationship through good or bad but I might just be angry at him because it will be an expensive and draining journey, especially for a person that has health anxiety. I'm not sure if I should ask him that we talk about it or I should just leave it like it is, I think he's avoiding the topic on purpose. How can I handle this since he's clearly uncomfortable? | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-20 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jRFFpNFl6dDQ4X2FDOFZraXd2V2RBN2M0dVRWMTdWVzFvSWJ0MWs5TTMwWldrN0xWTWNfcUZsSHdTUGF1cnF3R2ZqRkx6TnlyLXNQRm5WUkNIVFAzanZsYUY1bFVvXzY3dXFEVkRWaVNHSkk9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kT0ItU21PdVhnX21sTlk3OG5aVFNzTW9hLWFINE9xYTlMc2xXdzNQdm9kZ0FCUGlEWXVoZXczSDlJREg1bGhrUTFfRHRveVJJeDJQWnVrMzIwdHQ1TFlqUWVoOFhmcXp4Nmg0RVJZWmZqVG1pLWl2X1dvNnkxMlFLZV9CRi0zT0pPaDBrMHo3N1ZMX09TTEJ1aHFMU0ZrVldtZldxdUJtTEdRbmFFTWhyT0o3S0tZVTlJbDRpcE5UaUxFalZKam0xbTJWQXFFQzdoVmRBU1A0VmV3NGEtdz09 |
I built this on my survival world a few months ago | r/christianity | post | r/Christianity | 2025-04-20 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jT1l0MlF1WTFWOS0zM1hCVGxVai1heGlqVkw4QzhMSFl2YWh3eENWekt4OVl5dVNLeXJVeG1YZWhkX3lxNGdmN0ZVU3ZRMEpza0thQTVXblVuRnJPQUE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kbHRGTzRCMWhPdkVETHRhcjdwSmZfZUhGb3FBa2dYNXp5aURoM3VDNmtoU0Q5MXdMSGlDdGRVaGp3anphc3B1b2t6VENGVzU1Vjc4bkZtOUtwSW5Ldmw0TWY4eWh2RElXby1Pc1g0WTBLVFNucFYxWUx4aGNoVm5oZ2p4MGR6dC1heVpoZlNhRTV5Q1o1RkJac3NDNGpLOUFIcGZUMWtRMWdjSmktWGViaXhnPQ== |
Context this friend has a kid she’s 2 years old and iv been in the kids life since she was born, was in the hospital with her as well when she was born.
Fast forward my Friend started talking to my abusive ex again who sexually and physically abused me, they went to jail for a while because of this after I took them to court. They are now inviting them to the kids birthday and I said I wouldn’t go if my ex was there for obvious reasons and they then proceeded to send me this text, am I over reacting or is this unreasonable. They know everything the ex has done to me as well. Iv been there for this whole kids life and my ex hasn’t my ex and friend are childhood best friends.
Iv spend hundreds of dollars on her and her kid only to get treated like this and I don’t know what I should do at this point.
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1: Slenderman (popular creepypasta) lead to a teenage girl killing another in his name IRL (apologies if this isn't totally accurate)
2: Devastator (Transformers ROTF) melted a computer while attempting to render his model | r/topcharactertropes | post | r/TopCharacterTropes | 2025-04-20 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jVDR1WFd4UldLZWpFbVBSY0Y5UDBTZEJwbXVCQ3k5QVRkakdEcm9CVmlhYVlodTFsRXRxRHJ6a1oxZzdhMW9fRmxQdkNyZTYwN1VRMUk2cXlLZkN1S2c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kcWc2eUhqbFE1RmtZZkV2WkQwQ2QwbkxGd05sWmFlMjk5TmRDeFhWY0ZjVFdSQ2paUzB3XzRTUEl6am1TR0EyeERnQ1JpTDRzTmFmYzJSTEVfbU45NUhRWlNJQWhzYU42b0lRQzE1dms5VHNwaGZlYzFnWVBHa3FsbHgtTE5aV3VmSmdyYm14ZHYwUURISERZei1CY2J6X0xJZDF4MmJkMmFVa1EtdVhYRm16cmY4ZnNWYlR5YVpnT0F5dzJMR2lfS1h5RkI1ejlRSS1QaHBfUlNSNzFadz09 |
(Examples below) | r/robloxavatars | post | r/RobloxAvatars | 2025-04-20 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jZzREY2xDRmUtc01yNW8yVjBrOWVCeDZHQ01sVXlLZ2hZbGYxYm5ldkFZanlwbjZVY3RfM0hseDFmU3VLTHdhYmdZT1pORVhmOUppdWRkVlZKUTFfMGc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kUlppekxHRnpwQXRsQ1d1RTBZWEx4MHlZMWNwV3lGN05hdGJNam1BMld4bEJBVDVnX3VmUFVpRHJFcW11ZUZwSUJFYTBrcEVDa3BxUkNWcHRNQ0pNNkloek01LVpOdVVRUnFOZkdDemc1SjNhU1p0c0RzZ3QweHJRN2ZLZzdPTVluVk5VQWd5TFBINkpzUkU1YUgtOUxsOFdPX3ZUUGRhR3I2YUxaU0dqdnJTRGJJTTVNQ3FuWkxwaW1XMzhmeVNH |
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For context: I (<18F) started my job about 5 months ago. Every Sat, my coworker (25F) comes in and will make comments like “your smile is so pretty” and “your laugh is so cute” which are normal compliments and everything was fine until 3 months ago. She had asked me for my phone number and i gave to her (i didnt know her age at the time + she looks quite young and talks like a teen) Super quickly, she started blowing up my phone if i wouldn’t answer fast enough (within minutes). The whole thing just gave me a weird vibe especially when I found out her age. The next time i saw her I wanted to express this and told her “you’re super sweet but you’re 25 and i’m __ i don’t feel like it would be appropriate to keep talking outside of work. it’s not personal i just don’t feel comfortable with that” She seemed to understand and stopped texting until the other day i went home sick and she decided to use this as her way to begin texting me again. The last message is what really gave me red flags. What do yall think i should do? | r/amioverreacting | post | r/AmIOverreacting | 2025-04-20 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jSTVDS1FrcmtRX01uTVVnQmdRQ2hJN2RYd3hYUEVqTFpmSXdxMGczRkdvM0pET0NSUllkZnExZC1seHlJWlZSLW9QTzVrdkE2Y0dPVkNPOGpjVHNtM1E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kbzZaWnZGbXJFcS15Rk4zdHBCaTltQ0F2SHMtM1lhWG1icFQzTUJhNUdOSTlJNzR5R1B4SVI2WGtMendZaVFPY2xzckxqTGhic3hmOU5fOXFnczZFNmVMbEdnYU85eHFYSzhxb2w2ZWxlZ0xqQ1BWejRDanY2ZjRBR0p5cVZ1ZFcyWEttcmJlWkt5RzNadVMtbzNjcFB2TXcxUEdBQmt2UTB1a3A3MUdrYXFOM1pyN0h6ZnFpQlBGRml1TkJ1R0tsazhvQkFQNVFzQUNqQ1k0c1Q4TzR6UT09 |
Today was one of the most cherished days I’ve ever experienced: one I’ll hold in my heart forever. I got baptised ✝️ Today marks the beginning of walking in the newness of life ❤️ | r/christianity | post | r/Christianity | 2025-04-20 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jbV9VOVdYUEFwTDJ1Q3JfeXROMU1tclpGckduQ05ySk9vZHVlM243LVBGLVZtZmtFQV94WnpiRTV3SjB0cml1bzJpYkxONi13aHNDQlJoUl92OTF3Q1E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kbXhpdUZHNHhMNUZ1dkFaWEdLai1YOHJ0OEdtVmZzclJ0ZHdJQlZ4WVFDN0EzVkpVVXBMSjB0Um1JRnVEdXlhTW5hQlU3VFVON21lcnhwZEtpOS1hajFiT0xrWEpwVmd1cHgzUEtWQm9DcmZtay15aGtnSUZUUk92REdpbWZEaFJzel9JLUhqOGdUaERkQUNYd3pxa00zeFhITE9kOXpNcGdXc3ZDVXhiZGtyV3hoU25BUmc3bU8wS3ZGd1dwblVD |
My boyfriend and I were planning to get married and have a baby, but he slowly started charging his mind and opening up to me about his desires. He discovered that he had been closeted gay. He’s never been romantically or sexually involved with a man before. He was initially confused whether he was bisexual or gay, but he thinks he is more gay. I’ve been somewhat patient with him throughout this process and I’m the only person who knows his truth.
Despite this being a sensitive life situation, I hate him. I hate him for ruining us, for betraying our relationship and making me go through this torture. I don’t know how to move forward, I’m so devastated. I thought we were meant to be together forever.
EDIT: Thank you for all your comments and kind words! I really appreciate your support and wisdom in something this tough. | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-21 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jNmJYWHJvaHl0eGpWOFRsRGlJQzV3TW9BSTlQd2N1YnFZcm1HNEtZUDBtZU1halQ1OE9BdkUyTWVObnlpUjk2VHNCN1M4TUtfUnc0NDFQS2FCVHR6Q1Vtcy1ZV0R6UUt3d0VRcUQ5cHh6QVU9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kVkZfODFiNG5ieGhRUzZWc0hNZXlmYUlYdlpUXzMzeDZSZnEzd2VXakViYXpzY0J3Q09VZU9ySEVhUGozbW41TWxORjE5WWV0aFJvTTRrQ1lxZWRya25ISFFDV21hU0FQUGhzWXA2NFd3cXIwTlpfRjQxanhveHZ3NTBEUGgtZWNRVXppa2VMN1F3YTEzZlNrRUF0bDlnQlJZVDhNcDY2Z2FSTGFIV01RZlllYlZBdG4tNkFkSXkxSkJ2blFabEZMOS1hR21WUUZoa1RxYVZRaHdIYW5GQT09 |
I know god is real bc when I am stressed, worried, or upset about something I give my all to god he really takes it away and gives me answers. I really wouldn’t be anywhere without God. | r/christianity | post | r/Christianity | 2025-04-21 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jZzVkMk9GU3F5VjJfWXRpZFg3Q3ZuOFZva3dKR0pEYlBBd210U3AxckJmOHU2NDIzV194a1loSXI1VzJkQVFWNlpqdGlWWHZXdmtMR3g5akpmb3VnTEE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kTkxGNVUyY24zbGV6LUpwN1hlbHFWX2laQzJXdWxSMVQ1ZmlyR3I0cWxSYXVlSkszbmtJOF9NZkZJazR0VExVejEyUUhhZlhOVHhGQXRTWjQteE5hcjNhZ1lBWE00UlFnS25TdU82NlRyUWRpMXFLYmxIWWtoZ0ZFdF8xc01QTmp1OEppNXMtM09qS1pTOTc3OVk4SnNXczNUaVF0bmRleXpRTW95QXlydlFNPQ== |
Red death (venture brothers)
Fat Tony (simpsons) | r/topcharactertropes | post | r/TopCharacterTropes | 2025-04-21 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jUkdaYjl0UFQ3OWVBMjlVTlVud0tqTXBjX2tWVm1SaU9ySkdtYldrMEhnODFEOG9ibnp2WmtNcHUwNkt2aGtVSmVMM2tuVXRKVUlqcUwzWFJGVEJ2Ymc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kb1hLZWpSQThVaWJpeHhrTThXenRrQ0xxN3F2azdPZWpEeGdKSlJDN1JmQWRJdGdFekdaWkszNlBIQXJWY0NKa0RpeEgyTnBpbDNNZjBValFSb2FPNWtJVmI0dFdSWHhOUnVENUVOZnhvSGN2VWdGaG5WS0JuT2lidHN3d0lxcmE5TjZ6em9vWko1WTVLYkNzSTBTbW4xQTFlbTlMRk9UZm5BTTBHZVdkYjBLWmhGeE02TUllemlReW14SXNrZ1lTUGZGRzBxRkhDMEVJQ3h5ZFR1X3FxbV9RRGM2UVNVc1ljSjl5dFpwWUxHQT0= |
Like for more | r/robloxavatars | post | r/RobloxAvatars | 2025-04-21 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jU0UxWEd1eUlQUWdDeTZSN1htTXlTRzlBaF8wdzE4MDc1LVFzNS1vdDNXaTNtQzQ5bjFhZ0VRMHhUVnNPWFJIU2pMYTR4aE1TVkNqQTRYMUhFLWhSc2c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kX1JaWUx6UDVHUnNYLTY0cmhTTDhaT3VZOXlrMXd5eGs4c0xQVnNzeURON1ZmSjVDZURXMjRsaEl3Vk1JTXdQa08xUkRKMXdnTkxEd1o5TW13VDBmSGpiNHZ2dzhqSGhWNTE0TU51UmprYWpEQ1VsSTJXQks5aTV4TllCN0JxdTZIN3Rld21sVnd2OXRkdWZMcFZDdnIwVnlBa3dhcnVTQXFBc2dUSllMQmwwXzYtclRmZzhBMDY3ZTR3ODZzOHRm |
He is always working on things we chat vis text randomly while were busy. We were planning to spend Easter with my sister today. He just seemed off. I asked if he was ok and he snapped, this is a pattern. His unwarranted anger scared me. I dumped him. How would you respond? | r/amioverreacting | post | r/AmIOverreacting | 2025-04-21 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jNW56VjZueF9EZmloaE9TdjN1YzZNUmVQUnlmY0wtSXJ1QzdMX1JmaVM2MWZqbGh2UWxxalB2d0RISjZkcHRUempTX2o3LXJjSmtDUEJNTk11V0MxZnc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kMVhmSUQ1a2l1aGc2dUkzemdFbnAzTU0tR1BwWGJZcDhJUXA4QURPdGxTczBwUDhhYlkxaEpwRG1GZGVxTkk4ZDI2UnFtRFoyQVhfYUtydzVnRDZqMWxpbWZqaXhXU0o5T1NYWWE3ZU1kMG0yU3gybndYT1AzczhrN19BZXhXQnFBYmctZm9GanNIQWRleTBtQUVlTDdCWFMzd0xnNzFjZ0pwd3pPbUwteEdNPQ== |
1. Whiplash: Andrew Neiman puts himself through hell just to achieve perfection, but in doing so he’s basically given up his soul
2. Dark Souls: Your entire quest is built around linking the first flame but doing so would just prolong the world’s cycle of suffering | r/topcharactertropes | post | r/TopCharacterTropes | 2025-04-21 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jeF9Wak5KbGJSWng2OXIycEY3eFpJdGpfcWRhajk1UnpVN2F0VmMwTVJKSVR3Vjlsdlg5cTFVS0R3VnhlYnJuYzh2eGlDOVQwSGoyUE1rSl9HSTExMWc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kU2p6ZnV2TXpjZFN1dG9HNGhvblZOckxaWG5FOThhM0RTVFJPcktjVTFUbTQtSjJ6RVVYOVFieGNscGhVTGRva1BsakFzY0hPYlhLcXhwc1ZJdDRmRFQ1T3NsWlVCQUF2UzQxXzIzdUZURDBuWk9aRlFDb2pHTmFtSjgyenQwQW01Z1Q1dlVxcmc1bHJweG10dGdjMHhjNElheHZZWUZ6OU5hblFXejlVNnNGY3lTVUFoajdSUC1mcGJ0ckZtR19OWm5CbzhwR0xwSlp2VVdvMVJaUDhiZz09 |
It's OK, the USD is just taking a nap | r/wallstreetbets | post | r/wallstreetbets | 2025-04-21 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jdWRZZmsybDBSUGRnMWhlT3hWYjBFNnd5UjZSal9LWk90dTZqWkp1SlZKbW40TWZGNHBhdXBNVjFTZ3BkWi1PQ0VCXzN5TlczWFhWWF9heUxtc2VuQ0xxSC1oLXgxRW5uaWdIcnZJUnVFTEk9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kcHFTWEZRSFpDcWp5XzdRTjNfRkNNcy1rcmRaYi1kbEl1d3h1RG1hODU2WnkzcjhsaEdHdTFhTVBNUDFBNjhUMzhjVmlwZ2RaLV93TFhaRWNkcWJqdG12OTlzbDdLbkctX085WVpHaU9VbGZ1Q1NBWVEycUpUbGRhTS1NaGF4VXNZTzVIRjdUVEQ2dXZ6RTR4cUF0MEE0Nk1BZWpyU2FqYWQ2LXFzTWRJaWI4MGI3SHROaHhqM2tvWDh3SXdsdWhD |
Today my boyfriend (31m) and I (26f) went out for dinner, and after we somehow got to talking about breast implants, and he was like I’m not gonna lie I don’t want you to get anything fake in you but big boobs are attractive… and I was just stunned. I’m an A cup. Why would he say that to me when I can’t change that part of myself? It literally hurt so bad when I heard it. I cried silently under my sunglasses so he didn’t see anything. After I asked him if he doesn’t like how I look and he said no but there’s stuff that I like in other guys that he doesn’t have and I said “no there isn’t”.
It was so crushing. I just know he wishes I looked different. I feel sick. It makes me so insecure because I know no matter what girl we’re around, if she has big boobs he’s going to look at her and never look at me that way. I don’t want to tell him how hurt I am over it because I don’t want him to think I’m insecure and use it against me :(
Nothing else is really wrong in the relationship, but lately I feel that his eyes wander. I’m just sad and I want advice on what to do…
Edit: just wanted to provide a little update, my bf made some more inconsiderate comments to me and I confronted him about it. I told him that it seems like he wants to make me insecure on purpose and that I don’t understand his intentions. I also said that by telling me these things, it seems like I’m just a bro to him and not his actual girlfriend. I then told him that if he ever compares me to his fantasy women again, I will walk away. I also said I need at least a week of space. He told me he’s sorry and he’s dumb and says things without thinking. He tried to minimize his actions a bit but overall I think he will actually feel how he made me feel. | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-21 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jOUtWU3NLbDgyQ0ZwaWpWX2tNY1Rzd1I2cURGOWlGSEY1cnpIZ1BYd2JmM2NremVmckM5VW9nS1RHVk1XcFc2eUxuamZXR3hzQzEtQmcxSlZWRGdhRGZlSnhURGVXMUpyd1FvRl9aT3VWQzA9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kUTNxVmZYajE2V2ZRbE8tM2VPdVlKRENyelV5c2ZMSDVYbjNGNGEyYzlWdllhVW1zeVNtdHBubUVfbVBibElzd0dPRUd5N3ZrWDlzRzN6MVZGVktiV19WOHFQWjZJWnFaNFRtb2VKNDlXN0MxZzdJSUhxaUh3VnVSeGZHVGVFWmt6U1J0LXBsa3A5UkMwekU0aWJrcVdNenRabE54eDBiY0g3M3FZYmpEdEtHdVVyVVA3R0hfcUdZYlBkOHFXQ1JtUEtGVC1HSlhwbmRSQ0NKSlNabmREUT09 |
I just want to add, I am **NOT** Christian, but I give you all my regrets, and I hope the new pope will be great too. | r/christianity | post | r/Christianity | 2025-04-21 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jM1VacGVFc25xYUZxZnFDQ3A0dzNGQ3dCUHF1ZDlVX19KYzN6Sy16VlM1T1dIVWZGSHFHTkFXdFFIWXdFZWZLZHhNOFQ5dkRMSkx2b1dZTzZlbEF0SG9UeVZTZ2cwVUlhZlhKdGFMMGFySDQ9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kaEZUamtmMGg5cnJZajdhdWIzYnhWcUxhWWEtSk1XTmdWb1pyUjI2Z2wtekZ2TjY3bWZQRllOSXNUMnNJZm83a0k5NllwQVNmYmlwMHM5NXpreTZYOFBoZFlnYmtkOHZYclYxODR1QUd4V1JHOGQydUFLQTdHMXdENWxnRmtFS3gyNnZlcW9KYmNxQjlyLXBzWThzN2FsNXNpOXp2NnVqcEJiNWcyMG1FVTdNPQ== |
My mother in law was hosting Easter lunch at her house. As it was a nice day she planned a BBQ and for the gathering to be outside. It was only a small family gathering. When we arrived ( myself, my husband, young daughter and 9 month old son) my brother in law says to me "just so you know my wife is bringing our dog (FYI it's a fully grown huski) and the dog isn't great around babies, it gets jealous, it's not safe". I automatically think then why would you bring the dog when you know I'm bringing my baby. I said we will keep our distance. I'm inside when my sister in law proceeds to turn up with the dog on a lead and sees me holding my baby and says " oh I see you have the baby I'm heading straight outside he's not good with babies". Again why bring the dog when you know I'm not leaving my baby at home.
Lunch is ready I look outside and the dog is off lead. I actually thought everyone would be coming inside given the situation. They all proceeded to eat lunch and exclude myself and my children. My husband was in and out to check on us but the rest of the family remained outside. I could not believe we got excluded over a dog. I didn't bother saying anything because I didn't want to cause an argument and I really thought it was so obvious I shouldn't need to say leave the dog at home or put it in the garage so myself and the kids can join in for lunch.
This is my first post, please go easy on me. But AIO? | r/amioverreacting | post | r/AmIOverreacting | 2025-04-21 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jSldLOE5ITGY4bTRVdkNYREFjbmI0Vlp5U1N5bnpROUc5aFF4R1g2ajNyTDNjQWVqVjN0VkY5S0F6VWM3c2JPZi1pdjBiZDVfV0tVaGMxc1JVTlpmV3c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kRFNFQVUwWldZTTJUVUFRR2hzQW9jU0RVWmxNOUR1NmtzV1V1T3VmbC1sYzJvSVl1b09oeUpBVFYwS1liZWFObEprRmtMWndJYmhwb1JQdHhlMVVtSE5xM2VzbFJVRVlHVUM0dWdGdnNSMFllbUZ5LU5ScGtkOVhZSllQT01sTDVGc1A4SWxISHFTZFFvaEZybldOWFFDUjREbUdaVVo1QUpSNFlvQ1otNXZjZVpKeVMxVl91N3c3VGlUd1FISkVwcjl6VW9XTHRCWlh3RUdKRU1TMUE2dz09 |
My girlfriend studied in Mosaic School of Friuli/Scuele dai Mosaiciscj dal Friûl in Spilimbergo, Italy. She made this mosaic to be gifted to Pope Francis in spring of 2023. May he rest in peace.
@mozaikos.lape | r/christianity | post | r/Christianity | 2025-04-21 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jMUFyMDdQbG9yZUgwRnc0djA3dW9jRzNILU5Oc0hUaWhQZjdSd0ZPaXVaM0hJVTdfX0tZSm5TRXRpVjBSckxhQzFjd1h1STdhenFUbFpEV3lSVGZvTUE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kLVhVc1ZDWE9sSzMxZndZVTZnYzViUjJhVGduNW9tZ0d4Q2haYms2UnY1c1huS0Vwb04zQ1BfUlo1V0VVNDdNdEdiRTZDZFR0MjVPc2VfNmlwRi1lN0k2TkdJSjN4RlBZelBmQzljdnh2UXNIME9pWmcxN093M2h0ay02UTRyOWR1d1NMZjZtcDRzcDVjWk01RXN6ZDVEZm5CS1lTRUFna2VwdHJRQ0hNcDg3eDJWSG9EZ090dFE1OHhpZkpmRFNl |
After House Republicans refused to allow Democrats to organize official congressional delegations to El Salvador, four of them are traveling to the Central American nation anyway, Axios has learned.
The lawmakers' offices said they will meet with officials at the U.S. embassy there to advocate for the release of Kilmar Armando Ábrego García and receive classified briefings.
Reps. Robert Garcia (D-Calif.), Maxwell Frost (D-Fla.), Yassamin Ansari (D-Ariz.) and Maxine Dexter (D-Ore.) arrived in San Salvador, the country's capital, on Monday morning, their offices said.
Garcia and Frost had requested authorization from House Oversight Committee chair James Comer (R-Ky.) but were denied.
"If you ... wish to meet with him, you can spend your own money. But I will not approve a single dime of taxpayer funds for use on the excursion you have requested," Comer wrote.
The four Democratic lawmakers' office said in a joint statement that their trip "is not being financed by taxpayer dollars." | r/neoliberal | post | r/neoliberal | 2025-04-21 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jRFo1d0ZMdTRVR0xYVVpqZXZieUlPb05Cbm9rR20tTHpSWk5NOGFfeTl3SXBnSG9XaDBNU3p6V05ja29WaHhWdG1ySlI5ZGRVTFo5eUY4bjk1S2RHX2c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kVDNXVVlJbm5rVFh1b1d0MlhabVRVeU1PbFJKNjNzV05DOGRDMV9tSlIyakxaalNkNzhkdHRmb3dEZ1V1MGRXZC1wWXJqd0dJUWVBdjlMcVJlTWFZa2VSVFR6OUo4aFh5WFB1akt3S2k1QUg3enNXbHBZc3JscU5OenJNbHljTGdiMWJlWVM1OHNzdk83T3RKNjVHTmFpXzhtdnVEMTAxZkRaYU5Kd3d2MnB0SVJtcGdZVE9fYmV3YkFtb2E4a2V5ZlFablZNY3B2QmtLN0IyaUFNeUhDUT09 |
I know this might sound offensive, and I truly don’t mean to generalize, but I’ve started to feel uneasy around Christian men after a painful experience. I just want to share a personal story that left me confused, hurt, and honestly kind of disgusted.
My last FWB was a devout Christian. When we first started seeing each other, I was confused—why would someone so religious be engaging in casual sex? Eventually, I asked him about it, and he told me that he “struggles with lust,” but it’s okay because “Jesus died for his sins.”
That answer struck me as incredibly hypocritical. A non-religious person might admit that casual sex isn’t morally perfect and take responsibility for it. But in his case, it felt like he was pushing the blame onto “the devil” or using Jesus as a get-out-of-jail-free card rather than owning his actions.
He’d occasionally bring up “sin” when we talked, and he told me he sometimes felt guilty after we had sex. That really messed with my head. It made me feel like I was responsible for dragging him into sin. I even told him directly: “If you feel like sleeping with me is sinful and you’re not fully comfortable with it, I can stop seeing you. I don’t want to be the reason you’re conflicted.”
But he kept inviting me over. Again and again.
What pushed me over the edge was when he started seriously dating another Christian woman. She didn’t want sex, so he kept coming to me for it in secret. But I would never agree to something like that. I still have boundaries. I felt deeply disgusted, not just by his behavior, but by how he used his faith to justify it.
I’m an atheist, so I might not fully grasp the everyday discipline or internal struggles that come with being religious. I don’t even know what makes someone a “true” Christian. But I do know this guy went to church every Sunday, was deeply involved in Christian community events, and filled his social media with religious quotes and Bible verses.
After this experience, I’ve found myself wanting to avoid dating Christian men. Not because I think all of them are like this, but because I never want to be in a situation again where someone uses “Jesus died for my sins” as a free pass to hurt others and feel spiritually clean about it. It left a really bitter taste in my mouth. | r/christianity | post | r/Christianity | 2025-04-21 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jN0FuNnR2bnMwVTlzd3NBR1Z2UlNQWTgyWGtpcFlkMjZyc2pRZ2xEWjBvM05JcFkyWjJicXhwQzdIUmhCY0k5MWFicFJiWExkQWxVdmFKZENOR0I0cXc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kNlFCWFRHQ0ZCLVIxQ0xWQnRWcU1QLW84Ync1RnpncE9DZFJoTGZKVDVscW5Wdml4OUlrd19sVjdiQ0Q5NUpVWkVkVmNmcXMtb2RkOVhVek9qcXVEbTBheVRrMHBEcldsdTN5emJEU0ctRUlZdi1ZTDJpQUlTeGVmMllPN053MzQ5VkxybUhjeENmdm5NZlRDYjAwVTdxLU9SM0xyd2dOWWdnZ2FPYk9wSU5qNW5HMjFaM244UXBrWXZaSEJ0ZGZ3VGJSTzhuMk9UTGNWNENISWZlRDhJdz09 |
A Church in Ahmedabad, India, no major harm but they were intimidated with staff in hand. | r/christianity | post | r/Christianity | 2025-04-21 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jcEd3SGlaX1NsWlBPZDlsSmEtNzdvaTUzRkdKWEQ2Z09BYTRLQVNmR09lU2NBWkZNaFc2MEFRUkdjWnB6RUVXWkhZNDlMaHl1bHNsZmo1eTYtbzBYUEE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kT055SkU4WmRNdkV0cE5SQ0w5UHNFMEg3OV9GTEZJb2czcGxsRk4zWFVodms0dDA5bk9JU2s2c2NqMUVia2NDRldKVng1ZEJBU2I2Y1lPbXZscnE0OTBXVmk4MUJaR3VCcjUwZFdwbkMwOVA2cVdnWVFvSGtMM015VTZlT0JXelF0M3RJY2RuWjhMekNzUVp5d25rMWhwN2p3ZWVKRlExWHMtV0dfTUxfek9vUnRzSWFINUszZFUtNFFyNjVLWVdH |
Democrats in San Francisco — who for decades pushed their party down an increasingly progressive path — are now advocating a dramatic course correction to the middle over fears of suffering another national wipeout.
It’s an astonishing pivot for the party in a longtime bastion of progressivism, after moderate Democratic activists made deep inroads in the city last year. Now they are attempting to lead a national conversation around what it takes for Democrats to win — by rejecting what they deride as performative politics and virtue signaling and embracing pragmatism and quality-of-life issues.
Their previously unreported plans, shared first in conversations with POLITICO, call for fully staffing police departments, erasing local regulations that drive up the cost of building new housing and focusing public schools on closing learning gaps for Black and Hispanic students in math and reading. They are also calling for imposing potential age limits on elected officials, a cause of some activists in both the center and left wings of the party.
Their proposed solution is an ideology they call “new pragmatism”: a focus on issues they say dominate the daily lives of ordinary people, such as crime and housing costs, and that they argue deep-blue cities must address to shake the pervasive perception that progressive cities like San Francisco, Los Angeles, Chicago and New York aren’t governed efficiently.
Tung said the goal is to force Democratic Party leaders to focus on issues that could win back voters who shifted toward Trump in 2024, including union members, immigrant communities and younger voters — blocs that have traditionally been strong pillars of the Democratic coalition. | r/neoliberal | post | r/neoliberal | 2025-04-21 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jaHc3ZjZyQ0F6X1ZzNXRadDc5OVRrWW0yLUQ0TVVQUzVVclBTSDF6V2dwaWhvalA3T3ZidDQyN1BnTjV3cllmYmZ5dXlINGlPaF9md1VfY1ROYnJTeHc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kQk42ZUtFUEYydnNxQjRwQ3VfSU1PQWw0SWFfOW4zN1JLdFdQZ3VDWlVKcGNGN3hWS0lBNEVDczExalAweHI4NFNkenRPQVFwNUxkOFR0XzNCUnMxYWxnLW5sNUtDR2NEemhvTzBxWXRad3hTdnZ2aWlCbEo1UFN6VDMtUG96b185by1lY2FYa0EwZ2ZQeUtNSFczanMxdklIemJEdWNEQ1VGcWhvWnBSR3FlUk5KN1F1YThrVXdkMHlpa0pKbzN2YmJySGF6cDlmenNscjh0VVRlVTNMQT09 |
Evil people truly don't know it they believe they are good. MTG is without doubt one of the most viral toxic bigots I've ever seen esp in a woman it's truly disgusting! She is the poster person for evangelical Christian nationalist hatred.. imagine celebrating the Pope death imagine celebrating trans people suicide... She is as evil as they come! Yuk! | r/christianity | post | r/Christianity | 2025-04-21 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jQ1ZncXc3d2FhSEExMHlzSzZtR1dtZTQ1QTg2MTFDdnpKQ2p0QTJxQTZTbEFFdUNHRTROaTktNWxPc2JEVHpIdGpfSUxNcVRqVmZuZi1uSUJYeTdHYWVDc0ZoUm0xaEdZODNSMEk5cEQxcUU9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kdFRVVWNsMFFVYWV3aEppVWMxWWd2M1FYQzFNTFpqcG9BM25kMzZlYjJuSXg2T3l6aEVqaW40VHRUTFU5ZW5rSVdYcVBJNjJXZEpJUU12cUtmc25zUDhZM2xCaHB5REY1VDZvX05xcVNMRWJzZmZwMjRhN1VNQ0c3ZERIUEZVNWg2UGpIeml4dTZHTGFyem51Wk5zUUsxcnlXamc4TkljXzRWY0ZZS3IzVDRoS1hWVWRMdk5uLUZLOHFraWtRY1diMUtmbEJVNWF0U2hUcmhkLS15dmZ3dz09 |
So, based on our texts over the weekend, I thought it was pretty clear we established our first call for today at around 12. I went on lunch at 11:55 so I could be available for this call.
Would you be okay with this response from a therapist you’ve never spoken to before? Am I overreacting for not even wanting to meet with her anymore? Should I give another chance and just reschedule? | r/amioverreacting | post | r/AmIOverreacting | 2025-04-21 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jZFdEYnBXME5hVmF4aXhNZUlkanQyX1NLRjRRV1ByeXlVUldLOEY3MFoxQm1jTWNlaUpfX3JHQ1ctZDg2TWRKUU1IaVBNTlBGM3ZITkR5eTEtYm94QVE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kb1FtemtqQTBXakx3eUVSVTN3bkFFcDFFRlVIWWhVYUd5UkFWTm14V1EzZVhaekNyQzVPLS1wN2dUVm1aY1o1eS1jLVBCZUt2QnczSFdqOGJxRmxTT3d6WjIzR2txMmYyX29BdDNmcHdjbWVEQzE4MVpWOEtwYXNvd1JhcVVmT0pmdklDWk9uRndCS01RREs5cFhncGlweGljY0tHNzJzVThvbTVuZlFWRW9FQnN4ZUtPdHJPdjNjWUNXWkpjYy1SeGMta3M5TXRRN013NWZtclV1UjhNQT09 |
For context we have only been together for six months. About a week ago, my partner and I got drunk and decided to spontaneously try unprotected anal (which he has been asking to try for a while) and he did not have a condom and doesn’t like them in general but of course since there was no prep it got messy lol so we had to clean up right after. He said he enjoyed how it felt but would not do it again as I did not enjoy it very much but he was okay with not doing anal again for my sake.
The next day he was acting strange and almost distant. He would kiss me and say kind things but wouldn’t do the same things as before like be super talkative or always want to touch me in some way all the time. It’s almost like he couldn’t look me in the eye. I asked vaguely if he was okay (without directly saying what I thought had changed) and he said that he just had been feeling bad that anal had hurt me but very much in a disgusted tone about the sex we had because it was messy in general and he could have gotten an infection which is a genuine concern that I didn’t invalidate. I know he gets really grossed out with bodily fluids but the week before he even asked if he could pee on me while we were showering. Now I’m just confused.
I could tell it made him very uncomfortable to talk about the sex we had which made me feel like I was a monster of some sorts because things got messy from our sex. I’ve always thought of butt stuff to be gross but I’m young I’ll try something new at least once, I just don’t know if he expected sunshine and rainbows from the back door or something.
It’s been about four days since that happened and he is still acting distant but somewhat affectionate. We haven’t cuddled or had sex since then which has made me spiral a bit since he says everything is fine when I ask how he is doing. Is he going to break up with me? Or is the way he sees me now permanently changed? How do I fix this?? I just want things to go back to normal :(
Update: I talked to him directly today. Turns out the day after we had sex when he told me he was okay, he was like yeah I totally wasn’t I’m sorry I didn’t say anything because he didn’t want to tell me what was wrong before he knew it himself. When I asked about his tone when we discussed anal and the events that had happened the day before he said that he did feel extremely guilty that he had hurt me and was disgusted at himself(oops lol). Specifically because he cares for me the most in his life and he felt like a bad boyfriend for having me have discomfort for his pleasure because he had been hoping I would really enjoy it and felt extremely selfish for the act. To address the comments: he is still very sure he is straight lol. I completely misread his reaction rightfully so based off what he said about the potential infection. But on top of him spiraling, his parents texted him the following day also in a distant way (he has a poor relationship with his parents) which made him further depressed that he hurt me even with me being someone he prioritizes and considers me to be his only family and wants to build that kind of future with me. He didn’t realize how this had been affecting me and has endlessly been apologizing since. He promised to communicate if there is an issue even if he’s not completely sure what it is. He decided to quit smoking to make sure he lives healthily alongside me which explains his distance from quitting nicotine cold turkey ( he is past the bad withdrawal symptoms a bit) and he also is looking into a therapist to deal with unhealthy behaviors that he has showed in the past few days like not communicating properly and essentially isolating himself. Looks like calm waters from here! Thank you all! I didn’t expect more than 20 comments haha
TLDR: Unfortunate timing of events and words spoken, boyfriend messed up but all is going to be okay. Good ending. | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-21 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jTVhfVUxsdDBLX2g1UE1yLUtXUmI4eXZaalpjeHg4bmV5YlF4RkxpcjN4eWFZa3F3RENQeGdDdjBGYWdvaGFzN1YyWXFib3F6YU9vWGhxQm9OSXZrcXJsMVk5WlRnSXRNNHFWalZ5X2RZTEE9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kSElFb1YySGJienVoTjg2QUY2RnNyVWxwdlJDaXRxZV9vNVJHelF6enFGQmptN25VR0VhS2xsX1ZRdUdxV1dzQlByZnV3d0NfaVlBUWRrUDdwSFNXRElEUWhWWHlXSS1BYk9HSWdFS2l5alVaaGtNdE5XdlFOeG9GYkRFc013WmNoQU1yTC1NeFJUUnlRTUVyemZpVW5WbUxQdGs5ckQ1RmNMNk03NWVYZEtOVTJibDNrUzQ2UEhrWjM4alhNeEcxSGEwVngxWTRaZWlWMHF4THRJS044QT09 |
Full, event-filled video in comments. | r/publicfreakout | post | r/PublicFreakout | 2025-04-21 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jM0ZSUXVsS25BWDU2VjNIeG9Jd21HWDBvWlE2bFEtLVhLRFR0R1RMQUF5b202ZkNtQU9lbUROU0dEdDg3cE1XMUtKclpWNVFDZ0lBbk9mWm5LOWtveUE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kX3BLSTFuU2QtNjFVUFZwLWRib0hOUmdoT3lxbzJRVXhDNXpwY0tqWjNzOWd0V3RLZ0VhN25lbF83Sl85bWU3eVpYUUdxbWhYWXF2Zks2MjNua0lZejZ2SzExNUNGQ0hXUGxRT2lXM2JVR3drNjFpUDAwa2JMQ0s3VXVSMVR3WGxPMjVpS2VpcFBjSUZYeHJacGhfY3F2WXc3MS1ROGtIX1JMTV9BcmdBalgxRFdkb2ZaV1h0QUdhekRRZEFwSE1FNzE2a2ZPLW9PZnh4Q2VHcXR6cEVDUT09 |
I love this sub because men and women of all ages can use it as a sounding board when life gets too confusing, especially around relationships. (I so wish I’d had this when I was young!!) We get so many posts from people asking whether they are overreacting or their SO is truly an asshole that I thought a little guide might be helpful for the group. Here then is a simple test to see how your relationship measures up. | r/amioverreacting | post | r/AmIOverreacting | 2025-04-21 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jUG5QUkRkSm5odVprVTJ1alExQUhEZGdiLVBnYVNfdFV4dzlsajJ0VF84MzRQa2xvN2E2cDNmWnN4M3U5ZGVYbkc3RExLUnBuM19Ma2xxeUFObFQ5SmhtMC0wY003NGo3NXMzYllQLVFlYTQ9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kT3R1SjJwNUVWTE1ZUVRRbmxoV09kNEFMNGgwN041anFXWFhwY3AteWhpZFFoVzJJazBZRHBhTlp3WGV3dXNEY0N2YXE2LWJMQnZaQ0xpcFU4c3lnWmpueHVGdGdTSGM5ZC1aY1pWYnNJRmc3bGotQnVzeWVkaVI3bTU0emNJQWxmVDZBMzZWVEhoNDZ2empGWUM3WDFFUEppR3dLZ3UyS3ZjWUFQRHZXUXA1YXkzQmVHbEtCLU11MDlZQkc3bHdXSVpXTE5pT25uaG1lNGFPZG9EM2Fidz09 |
"And one day there was a man there who had a condition, a skin condition, where he had a very deformed face and he had open sores on his face. And his face was really big and his whole body had lesions all over it. And I’ll never forget because the Holy Father, when he saw the man, he went right up to him, and he embraced him. He took his face in his hands, and he kissed his forehead. And the man said at that time, he said, “When the Pope drew close to me and hugged me tightly and he kissed me, he gave me a kiss on the face. My head was against his chest. And his arms welcomed me, he hugged me tight. Tight.” He said, “I tried to speak. I couldn’t.” And he said the emotion was so strong that at that moment, from his whole life of sorrow, rejection, it left him right there. All of his sorrows left him. He said that the hands of the Pope were so soft and gentle, beautiful. And later he thought about that, and he said, “The Pope didn’t think about whether to hug me or not. He didn’t know if I was contagious or not. But he caressed me all the same. And I felt his love.”"
https://www.theprodigalfather.org/how-pope-francis-hug-healed-a-man-with-a-rare-disease-and-why-we-all-need-touch/
| r/christianity | post | r/Christianity | 2025-04-21 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jdkZwUVdTZU1FYnFtM3J4VG1SSG55blFpQzFVdEI1NkhSRGFsY0hWQ1lqZXdyaDhTNzlxZTB0T0dOWHE0dEZOT212cGh6UHFXd2JGa3pkd2pHT2RqcVNnMEszTm5RbEcyLU5KSjhwX2Fxenc9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kTTNpeFNyU25nRDZKOENLdEtxblNnMlJKTFkxZTdWbjZZbjBYZ0l2amttWmwtMTdQSnR5SmVVeDZtNVRVXzY1YU1JOGxXTHNGbm5ZQm9RQVFZYl92aFctTHlyV2U1ZTBDSkpfaWJXb2pCVjdaWVNFTWF3Q0ZFVzcxNUV1dXladnJSMjQ4WW5ROTAzZWFMMFJMT3k2aUJCSm54MDlBOVJRYTFqMXVBX3MwNV8xUmg4eW02VGNMcWdNMk9nMzRBbjZv |
Hey everyone , I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost a year now, and although a lot of things are great between us, there are also some stuff that really bother me and are starting to feel like red flags. I’m unsure if I should proceed with the relationship under the “rules” he’s been enforcing or if i can keep tolerating his weird opinions.
One of the biggest issues is that he asked me to cut off my boy best friend of over four years. (The only reason he asked me to do that though is because he found an album on my phone where I had saved a bunch of photos, videos, and messages from our chats, nothing inappropriate, just A LOT of memories, he got the wrong idea and felt uncomfortable, so he told me I had to at least stop talking to him.)
Another thing that really gets to me is that he doesn’t let me wear short skirts anymore, even if I wear safety shorts underneath. He said he “doesn’t want me to look like a whore.” We also had a big argument over what swimsuit I should wear this summer. He’s obviouslu against bikinis, and even some swimdresses if they show cleavage or are too short. According to him, it’s not safe for me to get too much male attention, especially if I’m out alone. That idea has only come up more recently,I was “allowed” to wear skirts for the first nine months of our relationship, but then he changed his mind after I broke his trust on multiple occasions, and if I hadn’t, then he wouldn’t have had to take that back or make such strict rules.
He also demands that I’m home before 8:30 p.m.
I live in a city and have a one-hour ride home (using public transport). Most of the time i come back from a day with my friends sooner than he tells me to , and he said he felt disrespected that i always do the same mistake and that it was way too risky for me to travel that late by myself (we both have a bad experience with "weird" people in my city)
He checks my phone sometimes. he doesn’t read anything, but he did once ask me to show him the TikToks my friend was sending, because I sent him a video about some gym guy humbling another. It was a harmless (?) meme, but he still felt uncomfortable that she sent me a video of a shirtless guy and thought that maybe she sends me stuff like that often.
He also told me I can’t have any group of friends if there are males involved, and that I shouldn’t have any close friendly communication with guys at all.
On top of that, he regularly calls women “whores” online for posting gym pictures and even leaves comments under their videos. He has some really misogynistic opinions, and while he’s always ready with arguments to support them, its still not something im comfortable with.
I want to also however mention the good side as well, he has told me that once we move in together, he’ll take care of everything — all expenses, supporting me through school, helping me, and making sure I have everything I need. And right now, he is very supportive in many ways. Our communication is usually really good, and I do enjoy being with him. But these rules and the controlling behavior are really putting me off, and I don’t know if it’s something I can accept for the rest of my life.
SShould i break up with him? | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-21 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jWnRhNE1UazdSMHFZY3ZHZ2c1UWxuRVI5OG1PdU8yYU1mXzlPOWNiTmlKU3ItQ3lQRmtKVmtWZ0dsUWRHTFJqM0ZydVdDbmVQX1B0ZFdCalZxZnktcUlINFlfdS1fanVvU3ZQWkViMU1LTlU9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5keFBWTjJzWGtmaDV6N3FabEw3UlBRS1lMbWNjcnNBV0MtMS1sckVJTTBCNF91S21QNVdhOTdiNXFySTJ3bkxMQjZlM1ZLM0xwS1Yza1VzWHdxclYwdWRjZkx4TVQzbF92YUt5cHZ0WXgtaXctdVY3RWNLc05VdzhPYWswQzVZUEE1MDk1Z08wVXlQMll4ZGVDck5UektsSUp6VGNhcjFyYklVSDFiOXJTbndSM0RlQmJmRC1sUXk4LWoyT19memhqY01vV2NLTjlwdGVTclk0NThiMlY0UT09 |
Pope Francis has died this morning, April 21, 2025. Since this is a topic on which many users have had an opinion already, we've created this thread for everyone to post their contributions on the topic. Normally, all religion-related commentary would go in the dedicated megathread, but in recognition of this being a significant historical event, we feel it deserves its own thread.
Please post all topics about Pope Francis' death here, and please note that all the usual rules of the platform and the sub apply. | r/unpopularopinion | post | r/unpopularopinion | 2025-04-21 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jcTdWcy1XTkZmMXVsTERVZUNydDk0bkxLTHdIQmJYUHZyZjQwQkdWT2RfX1FxaFh5Z3ZnbS0tUU5ZdGhFVDJsVHFmNk9rdXVDYk9QcUlVR1AyRHEtOWc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kSDh4WGZ1WEZDMXNSU09GWVQxV0V2QVpjSDVPMkd0dDJyc19QaEJDQ21kZlNkQncwOWZHUTJYeV8yak1kcy1weVZpUl9MakR0d3h5aUJNZUgxYS1GcGd4Sk9VZWIzYWM3LWUwdmFVZjNVWE1La0VxZkF3UE5RWE81Y3hCUFJPbndLb3h5a28xSnppR1A1djZtTXNwdXRhdzRuazJJRmh4NkpFbldrUXhIVkFzUUxvU3UtUXZCZURFNDlvOTZHczVY |
I cant stop, even on easter, i jerk every day and its disgusting actually, can someone pray for me? | r/christianity | post | r/Christianity | 2025-04-21 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jUTJMbVhVY3c1UklhQ0lQdnRmWkRsbDJDVDRGZ0ZrWjZ1TmJDS28xbFc4djZHRG5NSk9xeURvQXRTRlJFR29hTWNNNTlpOVNxMEp0RXhsaDBIa282N1E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kTVVDTDI3NHFEMUdnWWV2ZkxyMElfSGlfVTIyOUZFSXJBOG5RNGFydUQ2NlNQanNmMlptb3hRY2YtMTBPQWRzMGZwRl9aWDA2aXotb0p3WThuOUwtLVZSVFp6WTJqQjYtZ1EzWHpiX2hicC1heGlDbWt1WC00VHJYWTRTSUdXX08tOFpyV0Y2UmYzSWpOdjl0OXBVekVfZjdxdVZQNVNobXZENTJzYVY0WXBoOV9tNk93VWZqTjdyTXRFSC1RMmNY |
Loved this cheeky bastard soooo much lol. the thing with the boat??? Literally cheering at the screen 😭😭😭 as a customer service worker I respect how he used his power (WITH CUSTOMERS.) to make their lives better or worse. | r/thewhitelotushbo | post | r/TheWhiteLotusHBO | 2025-04-21 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jdHlBQmNrRHpvbldYVjY3WW1ObTRtZGkwU1pFM0VMaE5IZWUwOHVQUUhYZll3WElJMDVPOU9lSjI4YWFDSURjbmdrRzc0eVpFZFhMMXIyUTU5Zm5BTlE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kVUJLWm5qbW53aTQ2SmkwMHlrS3loTDBSaFhGRjF4dHM5M0xFOUMyYVprSFhXQUk5UW9fUjlGR3VhLS1ZY0c1YlVyTFlxLU5JUjU0alRvUGtkVUNNWkhCelFwcC1YZlRhWUtjdWk2QUpfRGVhVUE3Y1lRYmxNNi11ZEZudUFxRUIwMXFKMXRacDNnT3hmNjQtY3hkbDRFejJqcE9yak1DM1I4bzNKcGtGRUI2SEpCbTNxN3VKRjMwZE9Xc2hmREtwZmlIODh2X1BRV2ZqS2U1MzZ2bHh1QT09 |
Together 8 years, married 7 years
So, I guess I just want to know if I'm crazy, how other men might plan their wife's birthday celebration given the conversation and if you'd be surprised at my reaction.
About a month ago my husband (36M) asks me (32F) what I want to do for my birthday. I say I'd like to take a trip for the weekend. He specifically asks if I want a bunch of people involved or if I want it to be just the two of us. I tell him, just the two of us. My birthday though, almost always falls on Mother's Day weekend and for the past couple of years we've gone out of town and missed the holiday for my mom. So I say, maybe we can go to celebrate my birthday either the weekend before or after so we can spend Mother's Day with mom.
Cool, no problem. I text my mom a couple days later who says she has to work and can't do anything anyways. So I let him know the weekend is free for whatever he wants to plan.
So today, he asks if I'd like to know where we're going for my bday. The conversation goes:
Husband: Do you want to know where we're going for your birthday?
Me: Yes, I can start planning my outfits
Husband: We're going to Alabama!
Me: Really? Alabama? What's in Alabama?
Husband: It's right on the border of GA/TN near Chattanooga
(My aunt and uncle live near Chattanooga)
Me: We're not going to visit aunt and uncle are we?
Husband: No
Me: Did you tell them we're coming?
Him: Yea
Me: Awww man I just wanted it to be the two of us
Him: Well then you're really not going to like what I'm about to say. Your mom, little sister, older sister and nephew are also coming.
Me: (A little speechless because I think he must be kidding but disappointment growing in my voice) But I thought we were going away, just the two of us.
This then becomes an exchange of him telling me I'm ungrateful, how hard he worked to plan all this and that he thought I'd want to spend mothers day and my birthday all together as a family and me trying to explain my reaction based on prior conversations, my expectations being based on what we talked about previously and truly being impressed that he could get my family together for this.
We hung up suddenly because he had to go. I felt bad, I could hear the hurt in his voice because he thought he was giving me what I wanted, but I just don't understand how when I thought I made it pretty clear.
So back to the questions up top. Would you be surprised at my reaction given the conversations prior? Am I ungrateful? Am I justified in being disappointed? How would you all have gone about plans with the conversations that were had? | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-21 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jcER6NTIyZzdwZll4aEl0R2U3VlY3ck1rVVZJUG1qUEx6Ym5pRGI5UzNlemRjX0hVdkRFajNxVmotY1VFWFZsQ3FtallFaEViWjIyaFhNSWc1YS1DZ0pFQWptZXJSSVFnTGNwTVctWU11Qkk9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kRW1EdnMxME9jU2NNYkMyZjB4STN4V1ZwZ1Z6VVota3lKS3daWFRKbGJ1TEhKWTVCOG1UY2gySkZpQTlULURxLXJxbkdsZmN2R25uT204VEZQNHVHUUljSDdaWDEzY3ZKa29HWVVhMi1McVUxWmh5dWdFek5Sb1lGOHNqMUJEVUQzQWdCeEYzbnNHVGVqejd5d2xBWFkzbDBmel9LaG5vcjdkejluVGd2akd0NGFCMUZRSzNyV3JMR21nYWgxSkYwODMyQzBOSFdPNElORDlQcXRIQjlFdz09 |
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