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I posted this 10 mins ago but it went away. Right first of all, I'm posting this because he hasn't spoken to me since and it's been about 3-4 hours. We(F19+M21) went on a walk to the shops and my bf has this habit of putting his arm around my shoulders but grabbing the side of my neck with his hand. I don't mind this in private but he has been doing it non stop in public aswell and it's like he is walking me. I've told him to stop multiplies times but he doesn't so today when we were looking around the shop, I sneaked out the door and got a lime bike and cycled away as a way to send a message across. I feel guilty about it now but I want to know what others think so. AlO?? | r/amioverreacting | post | r/AmIOverreacting | 2025-04-26 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jNE5WLUhFdlJudXRVLUFFYTVhNkp3UGxQdVYtd2pLNlUwc0tlakhPQngxUUNMSUh6RlVIYkFGaDVScFdUdkJ5RUgzOW1JUzl6NnZjS0pNcTZZNWZhQ1E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kUE9Jd2d1ZV91OEdKQUFBbXVfSzRnSEQwOE1ycXhNUXRlS1gyUnNKbWw4M1kxZ1FBZWJzSndNWVM2RzlCWXFXOWZjZ1VndE1PQUxSekcxc1Zwby14eEdZSWhXeFd6cVpVeVFSb1V1NHFpLXVRNkpjY240aFpvakppeFpzZnJjT0VvNjFRYzhSdGhYQVZpYzBrSnM5T1BPSVpnMmQ5RXlDamNwZWRNbEwyYWFTeVN3RnpjRzRrSW9LeTMxYjVnaDJHQ1hwZkgxczhSZC1ZSU5mblg2QkZEdz09 |
Asking for a friend! Or science, yep, asking for science! | r/askredditafterdark | post | r/AskRedditAfterDark | 2025-04-26 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jUGtiWGRBbnVoTXQ4a1NzVGxZeEQyWGVzbC1Da1V4ekVubmlFandtdmVrYTNtOUJpWnVMeUpLNGkzQ1ctZFBmZVNlTUJMRWxLNUI4Und6OVg2QXRzTy1yMUIwWlg5X3phWENuX2N4MWNJV1k9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kUEViYWcydUlTSUxJLUlsbkwxY2w2d2V6RldMakY3VnpQNGhPNzhWaTRMRGlpSDMzR1Rra1Y1V3JOREp2V29uQVVaMzZCUm5QR2FPYmJyLW5fVWtHeWtuOHJycUlwYjUtTXVWN0hOMkxMczlEQ0VqSlAxeDk3MlR3V0JBV0xNRnZVbEkwejd6ckJmbWo2RzEwR2YwYzhzN04yS3VoQ29fekI2R0tydHVXWGVOVTVudnA4Ny1uQk5UMzRkWDFvbENhdzR0N0dFRi1KUDFrTExPVWtNeE9jQT09 |
I thought this a was pure documentary type, But in the first 30 minutes itself there was a fucking uncensored sex scene and my mom saw it😭(didn't really check the rating)
btw im 14 and my 9 yr old brother was there | r/teenagersbutbetter | post | r/TeenagersButBetter | 2025-04-26 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jWlNYR0ozZGc0QW5iTzBTRW4wVUM1Y1J6TWNraTE0WmV6clYtczh2b0xDcnFNOGhhT0ZSZWk4UTdtS0RyaXBwRWhwdkdZNFBSVXlyMGhHU044d3NFQXo4WFNLSUxuTzhyR01NMGY4WTIzTGc9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kMk9mWkhkSkV4Z3RrR1VXV0tuR0NfM3JlQ1pNMDJXWHhuQUZOTXB4TC11WVRiWmhsOGVGV3dSdXpiRk1SX0NOb1Vwel9xQlR5U0dtS2UzQS0wTHpZU09xcEJYdUlib2Q2YlBoOTZsTUJnVEFxUWZ1ZndGSk1ZVC1MLUhva1RadnVYTzNxQWs0eDVqZ2Q4bDlPbFRTeUdpck1LOFo5XzJweF9oN09qdGFpdFJGdFdtSHpUZWV2Q3pDeHBBdmpNbko3RFItRWs0SHFYNF9idGJYS19VcmZqUT09 |
So I was in a birthday with lots of Friends and there of them took my phone and ran away. Half an hour they came back and the first thing the said was: "why do you have porn?" I don't even use fucking discord i got that Channel because one friend sent me the Channel like a lot ago (don't know why) and forgot to delete It.
I am so embarrased Bro😭 | r/teenagersbutbetter | post | r/TeenagersButBetter | 2025-04-26 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jTW9kdnM4Ul9rdm5MeHI0TnNmdVlEYWdoQW5QejRwTVBoX2NQVWt6OUYtOF9USzRfOUZiSXBjOXNqbTVwZlFZY1VJYXh3RW9wSUZJc3F1YmY1emxNUXc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kOFdyWG5aczVSOGRrOHU2bkRidHcxVmJxYTgwNXFTYm5ReFg5RHcxRGpyRFlMSVdfSDBieFc5V2NhTk9pVGRURThkZ0dFUlQ4Smd2cklWNDZ2dGJZZDIwTW45Q3NfRWtUdVp0SGhnWEpuaU8tanFIR1d0ek05aF9ITjM2TUZRdFdmNkQzOHhwS1BpRmVCZnk0ZElycDVJVGMta3h4NE1OZEZLZzJWNDVTMUlkVzhyVHRZdWNhU3lCVlI2NHE1ek5jbmJtMEloWHNUOTlXUmtGbi1SWl9BZz09 |
Hi all, this may a bit long but I’m need of some advice.
My relationship started 7 months ago with this guy I met online (I know). We hit it off and met each other within a few weeks. He was nice but very touchy on the first date…. the next time we met I was at his house where i was pushed into sex.
Fast forward I am feeling resentment towards him, as we have been in bed with each over WAY more than dates because he never had a job back then - even though I never wanted it to be this way. About a month ago I wasn’t feeling it in which it ended up happening anyway. I told him I was uncomfortable but he continued. I went home straight after and it was never mentioned again. Ever since this I brought it up a few days ago, he cried and was devastated. Claiming that he never knew I felt this way.
So why do I feel so hurt and disrespected. I find myself going through intense emotions of missing him then feeling disgusted and that I should’ve done more to stop it.
He said in the past he had been accused of SA and I feel like it may have been true given this situation. I don’t know if I walk away or continue this relationship.
TL;DR: My boyfriend and I haven’t been together long and he’s always pushing me into sex. | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-26 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jYzBsb0FjOUNPZm5KRGpWeGZBWFVVelFZblJ1SDAwTU5VYzJyRXlxY0V6MkhleEJ3ZWNTcHdvclplNUxQQzVsaHhad0xMU0FFMllmSF9rY0d1M0tGbFp2a3U2c0J0ZUlzdC1RUG56eTlfc1U9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kcWdldzNNQmtSOWdmdWg2d1lMd3RDMlVOWjF1UjNmdE1mVS10MENtaFAxQXFzWmlfNi1sYTN1ZGZyYUJrT3J3TjNzWkdyQ2JaaEdZWWNOLU5OUXBieFIyb0lSbjJNMGpucTdwZnJTV1RuMUg1N1NoX3Y3T21UYUE2TGdKbThtNDlRcng2NHplS0RFNWZWMGlwWlc0N2ZaRFcwUy0yd3pmLXE0dnZwNzQ5ckJwX0VNRlFSbGktT0NOd0k0VENSWkMwN3lVOEU1T2Qyc1pQckJQXzBFRzRrdz09 |
Tiana refusing to ask the La Bouff’s for money for her restaurant - Princess and the Frog
I think this one actually makes perfect sense since Tiana clearly expresses her belief hard work will eventually get her what she wants, and the last thing she would want is to believe she had her lifelong dream just handed to her.
Megamind not using the Dehydration Gun on the Doom Syndicate - Megamind vs the Doom Syndicate
SHOOT THEM WITH THE DEHYDRATION GUN | r/topcharactertropes | post | r/TopCharacterTropes | 2025-04-26 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jd2ZUQ1V2cEd3bk1Kd1FMSmp6aERvY3NzZmV1UmtMRzQyMy1wRzNTT0VwLVhkWmlMalI1Y0xtbGdkS2NCWjAyNGtxaFJJNG9PV0dZaC16X29mbUJkY0E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5keFdoc25pU2RIWlNnYVFlcnFxeW5SWFBiSE54bTJFMnBDcGlhNTBXbUpGN1JjLV9WS1VLZTRNNkUxMkdVMDYzb1pXdXJpR0JWMHBNSlNvdGRhYU9Nc00wUW45clJqQ2RoQlRYYUlSamNQQnRMaXVuOTlZVm5femU5OXM4aXZaZ3UzcDhXZjdRSFVhVlJpZzJTb0t6RHd1cFh2RWZiREx1SG5DU3F5OVFnYUUtMDVnRlowSjNSajZnU0pBQ2dsYUtwd3ZxeHRaeEJjVDFlVElFNXNuYTBSZz09 |
There is absolutely nothing written on it. Looks like some kind of hybrid wedge | r/golf | post | r/golf | 2025-04-26 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jX3RBeU9ZT3VGWGFoRG4zVElqTXczUThVQ3NDYkJMZUZhNDdTNS15eWtWU0RUUG1qR29CM2pnZWlmOG4wU0duNVEzOU5kSGl2WDBJV19iVjN1VG92ZVBXcUVwdGVhSk9VbDAtaDVsTkZYc2s9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kTnk0Z09MYTZHaEJEcUVkWS1KSE1uMDVXWlEzSDZxZFFGLU9XLXNSMFE2ZW1vOXpxRk4tMXNacXdlMnpKQUhWWW5BWEFVeElFeDNiZU5IajNiSG9NamZIUkNCQzlmMXMtbTJyaUowYVI3OHNIUk9jYlRKTDQ1OGNLLXFabkN6anRMM0cyS05WdjlobDQ1Z2cyRXlyUy1uRXY2dWhXUzBkS3hrMHBuLVZKZkw1elNCT1lUSEp4UmFlNlhrLWVnUUNQdGxEcXZ4d0F6MDh2dUJGTndUVEIzZz09 |
I’ve been told it’s inappropriate by some people when I play games. I want your guys opinions | r/robloxavatars | post | r/RobloxAvatars | 2025-04-26 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jeXNMZV8xZGgybWQxTDltNVVWOFA4UkpzU3FPRUhILVg1Yy1ZV2hSeXFDM0Y0Wk84OHo2cWhSdHJoT0ozdWVBSnNBWkFCVlBmdlRzX3NlM2tQd0JxV3c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kYk5MUTlEbGdRR2hCQm9sX2N0QlpLWDhKTUw4Y3VGUU9VSEpDYkdFOHQ1alB4TWpYeVMtaDc1XzVZaHpHaUxidU9wbUtOQ1N1MWNJMG8xNF83QUxuQzVmOHlzS2pFQmgzTFlyMl91YnBOUG5oNE1sbUFMdl9nZUcyd3pjUk90SDNrdWxITTEya0RsdWUzMFN6RWppSlgyM2YzQWxYaGhOMzlkeFhRWHJjcFJuMVh4ZkNLT1hXTGkzNll1bUUxV2lY |
My girlfriend and I had been together for three years. We had a really good relationship, with no issues of cheating until recently. On the day of our anniversary, we did fight, it was not a good anniversary worst one we had but we were still on good terms. The next day her older sister invited her to go drinking and clubbing we actually fought as I didn't want her to go out without me, but her sister insisoshe tags along. My GF is still new to that kind of lifestyle, since her siblings and parents have always been very overprotective. She rarely went out, had a strict curfew of 10 p.m., and had almost no experience with partying or clubbing.
I found out she had a one-night stand with a guy her older sister had introduced her to. I learned about it from the guy’s girlfriend, who messaged me and told me everything. My GF did confessed that it really did happen on the night she and her older sister went out for a “girls night.” She said she had too much alcohol and kissed the guy at the club. Later, when she wanted to go home, her sister insisted they go to a nearby motel to "rest" My girlfriend said she felt like she had no choice but to follow because she didn’t want to leave her sister alone and then the worst happened. She’s easily influenced by her sister, who has always acted like a guardian to her. I’ve lost all respect for her sister, as it feels like she’s trying to push her own reckless lifestyle onto my girlfriend.
This cheating only happened once, but the trust has been broken. I'm stuck deciding whether to give her a second chance or not. I know this probably wouldn’t have happened without her sister’s influence, but it still hurts deeply that she went through with it. I’m sitting here stressed, overthinking everything.
Any advice/opinion?
Update 1: So I learned more that she kissed the guy on the day of my birthday lmao. 2nd broke up with her and told her to fk off because I don't wanna be around this ho. Learned that even what you did and helped in her life doesn't matter to this type of ho.
Thank you everyone for the opinion and advice, I appreciate it. I did it, I let her go. Yes I do love her it pains me still that my heart doesn't wanna let her go but enough is enough. Time to be peaceful and free. Thank you so much everyone. Keep fighting everyone! | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-26 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jbk9lZHhOdEJORDd1b2FRa2lLTlk1SkdWYjRaT1JzYWs4Q19oVlQxNkZoY0dHZUF0c3F1N1NHMzBoczNWQUNPRVJDaGxfaURZVGVpZGZoN0Zyc29Ra3lVaE5hUGRFaEhRbEc4dkJyUlF2SUk9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kQzBmQWFKc2lIeFlRSWxZRzJFTmZFdTFQS2U0Mk9tbWR4eUhHdDhZb3E4eDRoeVcwbnk1ZHJ3V05LbzVWZ3VvRmFPU2drcV94ZlZ1bzVocGVwQVJqcEI3VFFtUVU3bU92N1o3T3k4eUJlMG04aVdKdkxSbm0wcW54OF82YUg1WWxMZ0lwYmIxaEJNQXVVVGk5SE94Zk45ek5pWDVEVTYzdnJmQllrRmZ2dVM3dE1FR0pMRmRsRUE5RDd4MkhlUWd1TTh5QUVLOWkwWTM4S25HVW1MelpEUT09 |
I just wanted to share this because this is one of the craziest things I've ever witnessed, especially on a platform for kids.
Yesterday, there was a picture of a penis visible on the Explore tab of the popular kid's coding site Scratch. It was on the thumbnail of a banned project that, for technical reasons, was still being shown. I saw it, and many other Scratchers- including many that were much younger than me- saw it, too. It was up for several hours! SEVERAL HOURS!
Scratch is in shambles. People have begun rallying for the removal of the Explore tab, people are speaking out about the shit that hackers have done to what is supposed to be a kid friendly plaform, and I've even seen a few people call out the Scratch Team.
I know a lot of people here will probably ignore this post or just make some snarky remark and laugh at "how funny" it is that porn was shown on a kid's site. I would assume basically no one here likes Scratch. But it just hurts to see what was once a safe haven just crumble down and become so vulnerable.
And as many in the Scratch community said, whoever did this won't stop here. And we don't know when they will.
I am afraid of Scratch's future. Everything as we know it is being threatened by whoever is doing this shit.
tl;dr: Yesterday, someone posted porn on Scratch that was visible to many for several hours. Scratch is in shambles. | r/teenagersbutbetter | post | r/TeenagersButBetter | 2025-04-26 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jXzRvYzg2eVY3MlZmbkM0VExoTm9BOFlzRHhSdUZQanNrc3cwdUd5T1dwcFFDa3FTQVNvM3NuWnZWQlZWMEhkWmxSaHRMdjRHWlBmd1pQQ2lsSnhPX3c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kc21qc2lCd01sSjcxNG9DZkZXclZjQW5LcUViMFRYUlFQcEdia2d0TVppdHR6cVhkZWd5eHJEMml4a29TdUlQYU11c2ZFWFIxY3pWdlk2VlNHTEloY1JPa0lHVFhLVExnZzZsVmpfZ0hVMTRvejRfdHgyODh0NzNUeTBybDF5MWlYQi0tM3lDMDBRYmxIYVVlNnRvV3dnaERZSmVnSHZqT2Nscl9KTTM3Y2pRPQ== |
Sorry but I have to share. I'm buzzing. What a day! Currently a 6 handicap. I shot +1 as a 17 year old as a 6 handicap and then stopped playing golf in my 20s before getting back into it in my 30s last year. My scoring has gone from high 80s to high 70s in the last year and today I joined the under par club.
This morning I hit 200 balls at the range. Biggest ever session. Did other stuff
In the afternoon and then went out this evening with 3 beers and shot 2 under.
So 200 balls plus alcohol is the secret | r/golf | post | r/golf | 2025-04-26 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jMkdnU0xmYmN0cVlsMVpHcjItVzhCeG5UZkJ5SklIT0xQRTk1bGtlV3Yxb2M2S3JWeDdUM3k3SHNXbHB2M2drUXMzX25MckM4OUpIVVJ0dnlwMjNtQlE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kXzRpQ0d4RGEzZlQtX1VHcGM4MVp0dWhNb3A0NEpEQVA4MHpLdUhEdjVZMHBYTUE5bGdtQld5NnVJSEJMOEczbkFXUGhTS0JZejhIQW4wQ04wQnpxemlpNzMyX0hrLU1KaktqdzJoUjFnYU96QjhDNDVOZ3dvaEs1NTNpeThaU2J2UTNlbktWaW5RTkI4RTFTNXVUcE5XVlhZbVBQek14VHdWSXREdTRMZXM2SllVM3BkM2dLMXFyUV9ub1FZNjNH |
I like muh either SIG XM7, MCX Integrally Suppressed, Staccato P and muh FN Five-seveN
CAN BE ANY WEAPON NOT JUST GUN :> | r/robloxavatars | post | r/RobloxAvatars | 2025-04-26 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jZVp3dENPcUp4V2dOV252Y1huWlVUQVpld0g3SkhyZDFQSUt6dmFvMnU1ZU5MemNhRmdRZzNTWEJ6eTN2TElybG9ZM3pVa2Vic3Eta01RZGl3cHZDZGc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kMUZTSUxaWVBLajctdFlvRGZFSUplYWFGOTI2SU9nVDZBOWJCN2JQM3Mtb3kyRUlYZ1BYa0FrWW96WGpqSG9pTzFBWnhlZUNwRXFuY0NKcjNOZmpQcXpEckpQWHg1ekdIZU1uUVZPQmxtSlVVRDBqWjlGN2JaQWM4RjNuQjZOdXVnUlhFTmZRY1ZtU3c3TzZTTks0aWlPZDdMMzJrV3Z4MjFwbW4yQWVuVVdVU0FZaXBwb3YtZFJDNE5YMTEtLXVE |
I was talking to a female friend of mine and she told me that she loves being choked while being fucked. Ive never done anything like that so I don't know what is so hot about it. Also, can't things go seriously wrong when doing that? | r/askredditafterdark | post | r/AskRedditAfterDark | 2025-04-26 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jZTRRMGQ5WnFKLVIyNzItZS1mRV9fVVNUSG5vRmZkQWZURFctc2hTWnhuR2hrN19iaHl3dEppRUhKTTlZVjdQM2hLTmoyS1hhQmtnWWw1ZURmckw3X1puYWFvclVqWFJvQlR6b2lwRVJCMUk9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kZHkzN1JXbjJCZ0ZHNmJ3MVNEamtvMGRZbmg1YVZMMzRhM2wtZEhUNnItWERCeEM2QnlMTXFpZ2djMGo0ajUxeU1ZaWtoYlgtd1V0LVM5NG1sckFpdTNObDBISlBmMW83OU9YcE1Xc0dzanJ3NGkxTzNVM0FyQUhCNF9xSmdmZkQxa0hVTnltS3hnRnZzUU5ydUJCNVhMNE5Ca3FpeWNSSDdTaWc3UkpJQy00RU4xZDB4S3k2YWhIc045RTdkT3JRTklWaEdnX0VhbmV1RzNWVmlFTGp0dz09 |
I (f22) just found out my boyfriend (m21) had visited brothels before we were together. He said it was only 3 times, and he didn’t go to one particular place or see one particular girl. I know it was before we met, but I can’t help feeling disgusted, we’ve been together almost a year and discovering this has shifted my perspective of him. He is the sweetest, most loving guy, I never would have expected this from him. He also said he was extremely unwell before we met, saying he was doing drugs and drinking ridiculous amounts every weekend, having sex with people and crying afterward and was generally very unhappy with life and himself. He went on to say that he is a completely different person since knowing me, stating I’ve saved him and given him a reason to feel good without having to resort to drinking, drugs or sex. Despite all of this, I can’t help but feel sick knowing he had visited brothels. I love him and believe he was in a very dark place and also believe is a completely different person since we’ve been together. How do I accept this and move forward in our relationship? | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jczNmbkNraTFnM2Z2VGxIQmVWelZyeDJ1SlZVTGVxTVhfMjl2enJLSVhyVzZ1QnA1b010UjVWLVYtbUxKVENOZTZkWGthdXhvaXp3d1dCczhxVTVFSFE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kbFVURVRIQVY5TjdiNnVDME95ZWFsVnFLMS1RMmtxeW9LUWhRbVhJcnFQY0YydXhsbEZnWE12UV9wbC0tZWRpMWtDcmdSejhRcEFwaFgwTW1qcXR5R3hTT1pZNHRBSUlqaTQ0TFhkc2hWb3NGQmpVNWs0SVg4T2Q4NmVhUDZDS1FjUEZqNGRBa3ltUkFNYnRYSExQSGZTZTNwZ05mY1hqTkhNWEFyRjBWdWNxa1NvMUg4UDdibnFuNVQxZW1aME9pU3FGS0p6cElJRzN3c180TFVMa1FyZz09 |
My avatar/OC would best suit for boxing. What about you?
Bonus tier: MMA (mixed martial arts). This tier is only when I can’t decide properly. | r/robloxavatars | post | r/RobloxAvatars | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jSmdBTWlwcXZPb0VwV1dNUjJzaUR4TDB6cDh2aGgxcDQ3eFVmWUstcGt2ZXBWUmJ0RWw1UmhENFB4Y3NUakZMSkJYX1h6ZmhrNmtiQllDTHhraG9oSFE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kODNpbkJJbkY4R0k5U1RzMU1qbEJTSFNuTlptd0I3WERwX3lzZzRVQzVxdDVLX2N4OFo2cW9RYzhJbGVIZnZxZ29DSWZaZW1XZHNxQ2hYVTNhODRHRnVIOFFFRDdQOURYcENKX3pkTUtHcnRwY0tPUkpRSEh6Xy1uRWc4LXV4N0xWdUNwcmNCbVBGaXZOdnhKdHg4cGVELXhNSGo5eWlzTkZMMk5aU29QVXdZbnlVWm1WSGNKclZRNkV5T3RvaUh4eUl0a25LYmhYNDFvNEhfUDV4dURmdz09 |
All week was so excited to play, had my whole bag out and cleaned every club last night, slept like a baby. Got out on to the course and crushed my first drive off the tee box, dead straight. Every single shot following was topped, shanked, water hazard, I mean you name it, it happened. I even contemplated leaving on the turn because it was that bad.
No point to this post just needed to let out the lingering frustration.
Hope everyone kept it on the fairways today
EDIT: Thank you everyone for all your kind words and encouragement, it's people like all of you that keep me playing the game. While I'm still fairly new, I love the sport overall and I will take all of your advice into account. Sorry I can't keep up with all the comments anymore!
Hope everyone has a good weekend | r/golf | post | r/golf | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jTHVBdXhRaFUtZThVcTRrdy10dktmejBFd2x0c0YwQXdNaGVBaXpPT2ROS2tXeERuUzZoTExMTm5WVlE0ZzM5R05vdllOenZFOTF4T2lvdEwzeVVlRFJIZ0Npb1l6ckQxcWVlN3NhdEYzakk9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kT05IdGJ5UUFKUnVhMzNlVXkwRmFjV2ZPZFowT1dnX1R4anNmSEZXTlNrYjRWRXZxbmpRN1RyY3ZEdjhOMHY0aE1rNURIVUszVTZ2SDNUZzhhcVNBelZLeVZNbDI1OVdWM1BIaUQwMjlhdnJpNmRKZm1aaW41cHdqOGd2Y1lxcmlVczZSOFFPWldVQUFiV2h5N0lPTXN1ZlRjOUVQYk8yejNicmpQTkt0eDhvPQ== |
SpongeBob has a lot of this but this one is my favorite
Gumball | r/topcharactertropes | post | r/TopCharacterTropes | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jQ0oxY28yV0pyOWhoYlVxWk9EV09zRE4tRVo1X18xTlpLWmlpNHg1YVFldHFsZXlDQ0pMTHZzWlJXRGJ6NHFOLUg2dFNVLVNNQlU1NVVVUHhlOHJmQXc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kejdBbHp2MUIzZ0dDU0RlcDBMTFNRRFQxQi1JRnM1bDE4c3ZwSUFGejFaOVBkX09FMWlndXhGSUpDQlY0ajA3TDNybEhueGY0YndzaXdfQWlPSnUtLWJaaGVZalF1OVlnUURja0sxSS1DSnlJZGtnZFNQazlhV2xqNHFpcFlOcm5feEJCQkMwaHRheVB2aVVEX0dZNjh6YXhlNXJCS2RXREx0Z3ZoY1dIU0xIaUhzTktEOVMwV01SRm04Y19QYkhiemNYYlR4ejVqUzBEVkNjV2RvRmNKdz09 |
Bought this putter at a garage sale for 5$, I don't know how much it is worth or what year. If anyone could help me out that would be awesome thanks! | r/golf | post | r/golf | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jbV9sWjNOMlZSNUpIeWJKYmJDUEtRdEpteElpSEZ0Uk8wNmJFX21GYUxiTDNOZXBHaEZKU0dtN0o0aE1kNWRlZnZUZTUwT1dhVGQyNm84QzVHS2pBazZZS2JhWk85UzhCRkxJenRvV0dSSDA9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kTmtyR0hLSlk2cVlrVHRQZ04wemZrQXhaTTdSOFEzeElqQjBvNENzWXhDelVja2VRcWZWYk5nelhiaWhxSDBfNnozU1lyWDJTc185ZjVibnMwU0F1N2ZhY0tRdjVBWVVVek54T3AtUmVmQzBxZG1rcHd6aW9vbWxUSjFPeWxOS0FOUTJXOFNzbEd6QnktMGppTmJDUHJIZ1JNU2JRMURfM0FLOHRUemlVSlJwZkR0Y2NUQlBHSUE1RzVBcWRnVGxu |
I have finally done it. I put Bad Apple on the subreddit.
I'm really sorry for the lower quality on the last parts, Blender was really ripping at it's seems the longer I animate for.
Avatars used (In order of appearance):
Mine
[u/Content-Struggle4565](https://www.reddit.com/user/Content-Struggle4565/),
[u/Organic\_List3970](https://www.reddit.com/user/Organic_List3970/),
[u/ClumsyMari](https://www.reddit.com/user/ClumsyMari/),
Mine (again.),
[u/Hot\_Web5869](https://www.reddit.com/user/Hot_Web5869/)
[u/MrfancynoobLMAO](https://www.reddit.com/user/MrfancynoobLMAO/) (Hey look your prayer came true) and [u/runestoneofblood](https://www.reddit.com/user/runestoneofblood/),
[u/Ridley\_Simp](https://www.reddit.com/user/Ridley_Simp/),
[u/icameheretopostmeme](https://www.reddit.com/user/icameheretopostmeme/),
[u/Zenova2](https://www.reddit.com/user/Zenova2/),
My avatars (look, I didn't want to animate two different avatars to hold hands),
[u/Joy\_exe](https://www.reddit.com/user/Joy_exe/),
[u/BunchOfSpamBots](https://www.reddit.com/user/BunchOfSpamBots/)
u/Suited_glitch, u/TheIrishMime and u/KateStillLovesCats (aren't they such great musicians)
My Friend's cameos + another one of my avatars
u/Bucket_of_Fishy_Fish (happy late birthday to you again)
u/Ok-West1
u/Czeny
u/mirenamak and u/ElSombraDarks
u/Disbeee and u/These-Ad-9209
u/Dependent-Fee8875
u/anomaly_debunker
u/No-Freedom-9549
u/Dry-Climate-780
u/Deniel396
u/EmanuelThePresident
u/Liidero
u/Tehdud69
Mine and [u/Content-Struggle4565](https://www.reddit.com/user/Content-Struggle4565/), again.
You're all such great people, this quite literally would'nt be possible without you guys.[
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My best friend 25th birthday is coming up and she wants to go to Miami. She is single, I am have been in a relationship for the past three years. my boyfriend likes my best friend but he says it is disrespectful for me to go to a place that so many people go to “cheat”.
I have never cheated nor have been disloyal to him. He claims he trust me but if he really did then I feel like it doesn’t matter where I or he goes.
We are not seeing eye to eye at all. We have had issues like this in the past and I feel like it’s almost if the roles were reversed I wouldn’t have any issue with him going anywhere because I trust him.
He thinks people shouldn’t put themselves in situations where they can be tempted. But I feel like if you don’t want/plan to cheat then temptation wouldn’t happen.
Is that disrespectful?
UPDATE: we talked/argued about it - He doesn’t go on guy trips, especially to cities like that. He said he would never go to Vegas or Miami while in a relationship because he thinks it’s disrespectful to put yourself in a situation where bad things like that can happen. He claims he trust me but doesn’t think people in relationships should be environments like that. He said it is a boundary of his and if I go, this relationship would have a major problem, because he doesn’t want to date someone who disrespects his boundaries. He said if I really loved him I would tell my best friend (who’s been my best friend for over 14 years)no.
Idk what to feel or think really. | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jYWVuRzM5Q2FzQWFtQTFBcTg5Y01HeUtXaU41UFdvZ2xhMzJNUlQyQUJwOUstcEYyTDU2NGFidGh4TmJIclJHR2dTMkZmcnFqTkFBejhOeFZrWjM5Z1EwSmFRb1JydnE4d2Y4R2NQU0lCREk9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kbnZxNy04Q24zb1VzbUg1eWM0ODdKNng0Nkd4QjZyZXZ4anUyRjVyUWFOTmhSdzVacEE1Q0hfQmhKeEY4eXpiazF0UEhnVGZKYmthdTBrb0xwbWZST0NXV25xbzBIakRpdVJJSXJNYXAwVWswZlBaYzdKLTNWLVRtLXRlbzgwV0VMU2NIR1hLeTY5ZmVWaktsXzd5Y3otQ2ExTkV0cW9FeWk5UWdRT29kcm52MTdVNDRycUF0SkxCMldmVkxraWJ5YXozdGZDa0ozdG5meUh5VnYxcV9jWFQ5QlhFTDdLSkxVdjJWVWRPcGtWMD0= |
For clarification this has been happening for a while. Almost everything I do when it comes to hygiene or beauty she says I’m doing it “for the patriarchy”. I literally have no idea what she’s talking about or where she’s getting these ideas from.
Then she uses my trauma (that I trusted her with) against me. I stopped paying for her tuition after this conversation and I feel bad because she’s been going through so much lately with her family and work. I don’t know what to do. | r/amioverreacting | post | r/AmIOverreacting | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jOGQ0SHJ4NjR5bW1QMWZCWTNXNjJhVkpYZ2dMSFhTV3BnRUtzQlR6UUNsangtS283RzRxZ29TXzdLX3lyNDA5N29CMEdCRmtaZExkTV9WSllvQ1NyMUE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kMU55SDRZRGI4QklVUkFqSXE3eXhsSExkNkdKQ3JXTjJpTkxwZWFfTERMNEtOaWRfa0dZWEN5V3BCSE1WVjBkU25naDhGUFhadDVlY241d2J1UGdMNXU3R1hOVjV1RkZ0VWItQ1dqNm41cUhHNi0xSUlIcktxZzk0cHNyWFBVQjJycXZTWm1GWmJiSENPWVlFUjdoYk03S2lRV2FoclMzdE1rVm5zSmgzMFh4MU5OZmRaTVRyNkFfT2JaMU1sZHRvSUlELUplSUtFWGJhV0hkLXlQTHZMUT09 |
In his defense...
"She's just a friend, she has a boyfriend, there were other guys there, I wasn't doing anything so I didn't think I needed to text you"
Now from my point of view. 3 weeks ago he disappeared all night and didn't reach out until noon the following day, I asked his sister if he came home and she said no, he had everyone worried about him. Turns out he had just gotten too drunk and fell asleep at a friends house.
He promised he would not do this again and if he did he would keep me informed so I did not have to worry.
This morning I had my police entrance exam and was incredibly nervous about it, I was hoping I would get a "good luck" or something from my partner. Instead he said he would be back around 1... and then changed it to 2... and then when 3am rolled around I was still awake and called him asking where he was and why he would stay out so late when he knew I had my exam the next morning. Normally it wouldn't matter but he has to crawl through my window now because he lost the only key to my building within a couple hours of having it.
He then told me he would be staying at "josh's friend's house" and that he would see me later. I don't hear from him the entire day despite having tried to call him. Not a "how did your test go" "hey i'm still at josh's friend's house, i'll be back around ____" radio silence for 20 consecutive hours. He finally calls at 11pm to let me know he's pulling up to my apartment. I asked him who josh's friend was and he told me it was "sarah" but he didn't want to tell me that because it would sound weird.
for background, just three weeks ago he told me "sarah" was a huge flirt and that she hits on everyone.
Now "sarah" has a boyfriend so he doesn't see an issue. There were other people there but I don't think this makes it better considering he broke the promise he made me, ignored me for 20 hours until he needed to use my bed, and intentionally concealed sarah's identity because he thought it would "sound weird." Now I am being irrational because they didn't do anything. I didn't think he cheated, I was upset that he broke his promise, ignored me, and did something he presumably knew was disrespectful to the relationship otherwise he would've just been open and honest about where he was going.
What am I supposed to do with this one? | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jRE4xZEpJR3dCN2lxamtRSlZPUG1rR1hTLXFNb29qVEV6NDl2c2d6OHJuR2FDNHJvN3NtOVQ2NVdjcnpKa0pQUnpfaFk0QjctcFpJUW1GSE1rMVFPMGQ0TnFKS2NwNDk3X3dWMDJfQl9Bd3M9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kUXp2d0JBQUZHRVhkZDBsZ0JDZzVjNGxvdmJEdFoxMjNNVVBLTjdfY2I3OWwzRi01M29nNHJZYjladmFUcVk1cWhuUU9sTngtcHVCQ3JQTkhCOEM4bWhfRUgwalptR21GOTluUzlmRXViODFNUW95aGcxV3V4SWxjRHFZd0hqcTRlV0NLUzEwZWJmeVpBdEdleDZYcUxLakh6bkRhS256SVNwRzVIb1FNRk9VNk1WZHRLcnJCbnlNV29MMllTMGlEOXg0OU5LZFdrNHdYdkYxeWhHSXZEUT09 |
My (35F) husband (42M) is meeting up with another woman (26F) that he used to work with for dinner and drinks. I’ve only met her once, but he has known her for a couple of years.
And I asked if I could join and he said that she has some issues with her job and might want to talk about that. That didn’t sit well with me that I can’t join. He then apparently tried to change the day to when I was out of town which I also didn’t like. And I’m not sure why, maybe she couldn’t meet up then, but it was changed to lunch time instead. And I joined.
So he has met up with people alone when some of his friends or acquaintances are having issues, but dinner and drinks.. hmm
When I met up with her she did have some issues with work.
But how can I bring this up to him without sounding overly jealous?
| r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jb1hjN3JYaElqTDlWSmJ1a2N0VWhUSkIwd2FJU3hSVW5jTy1jdU9RM1h2bHdScnI5R0ExMlJabEhYeEd3ZFJtX3Q3bGVBaHl4ajZUTEdoUUNVZXNZMVE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kUXZKLXF3ZlhnbXl2NUNSaXhORFRUcTJHeXVYenVoX2I1M3h3Qzd5QXBXcDF5ZXN4WjdvWE1ZTUdEZzdwQjFzS3RwQzFHTkljd042YXNTYVRtZzZQck54TGJmQjVIMXpfRzFqLUxxSkd2b2xNa3U3SEZQOUVfUENzdDhtWThJbFVDTEJLYUNKR0JCbWRMMkVPcVNpVkdUMWtXTXc1Y3pHdDlpX1ZVb1N1elU3T0ZGWDBfellOU2Z1Z0NjR0pDRG1IT2hlZkRxOTczNFhpelVOa1FVRGY3QT09 |
take as you please idfc | r/teenagersbutbetter | post | r/TeenagersButBetter | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jU3A5ZDktOXRNc2t6STZvRzBuY1FkeUVZdUdmS0NFWXl4ejEzWGU2dDZEQTV6b3dwMDBqTjFlNkhzNnJVVUk4TjJJSFhRYmJ4X29TbFkxSjlucXJvS3c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kOTN1MUVZUXNMOEVGa3kyNGFXYU5qejVyVi1GaGhUU1AwdTdZVVZ2WmpqRmFFZzUya3I0WC01dFdXcFJzdXlYckx0WGdxYmhiV3YtUWxLV2M0VXhLVjluQk5YNDBkbVZHZC1YYkxVSEh6QkZQa3NIRW1LMGlJSERaRy1FNGdmVjBudEpCNnpvbkFfdVdPVFhVTnAwdWdCMU9FNkl2VXVGaTlwWjNuZ2ZaWnozMnZiYVR3M2RQVGJNcDk1UHJ1VHFSM1YtcnJuZURQTFQ0cHhlazFKOS1ndz09 |
I blinked 31.5 times while typing this very intresting post | r/teenagersbutbetter | post | r/TeenagersButBetter | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jajZPTXpXMXBNeDNHOUtmQUpYdzBPbDNiSWV1SVAxLTNoZTFKM3BoYzhXM1lxZ09wejNaNTVNNGV3S3VBZk1KaERTcVVvamtvV2JqNl9MR1lLeEhEWnc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5keUlBVE13MzRlaHZFcVRVWmpodzY0MlVBT0hValNsMFU0YW5LMTN5VzJHMUNQOERsRUFjZGh6T1ZhREVnQ3pBYVVhOVRRbzFUVUJzQk1LVlFiX3hvWHBPVjh4QXQ0YWh3eWN2V1Q5N0gyZzdGTlRVT0pOYS1pMWs2RXlmLS1YYXE2LWN6Y1MzVHJJd0NGNzg3bWQ0ejVRPT0= |
Ciao everyone! 😊
I’m an Italian artist and wanted to share one of my latest projects with you. The cross is made of wood, and the corpus is crafted from resin. I painted it using multiple thin layers of acrylic to achieve a realistic look — especially focusing on creating depth and natural tones in the skin.
I’d love to hear what you think about it! Also, if you have any ideas on what I should create next, feel free to share — I’m always open to inspiration from the community! | r/christianity | post | r/Christianity | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jcjR1Zlo0Zjg1WVNsX3pKbEZmcF81TXNUcjl5TDRFa1lDQTNndm5qa0EwblBveEVPLWVCc0M0c21fNVJvRFpDT1NRT1hXdVdzU1pZUU9FUWh0NHFhc3c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kV2haUzRDeU1odnZqRVhkYTNwRkhScDNMNmhvX25ZNnNKUEl5eTJjQ0NqcXlTbE9McldHNTc1MENKQmpNbnFSdVdwekVzd1VOaFBqQVVQa0FYbE9QSTc2TW9vQjhwUFBvaVpBMlpoWG9ZV0hjTVJ3UDltUEQ4TEF6TWU4R0hlNk9WZzdERXplaXFubFdULUdkZ3dDR05qcHV2cjRPc19FdU16cHpEdGNOWkEyampRaEFtaWxORldDVWROZ21HNXd1V0JFdTc1XzVMUFNRMFp3bm40X2oyUT09 |
Second image is the novel cover that I drew for her lore | r/robloxavatars | post | r/RobloxAvatars | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jWnRpSUZHZk0wUnlFaWZzbUZmNWpxOW8tWEJsSkR0TmVOQnQzTDdJd3o1ZHlzQVRoWmVxTTVtbmdic2diSGlvWDhzalBKVFI4eWttX182Mk1aN1N0cEE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kT1RleXp0UF9ldHN1MzZCODhzOUcxNUhxX2RlSFJTNjhRYWhrb1RXT3p6U0JDRkJlY25fa1l2ZUJ2cV9xdGd3RUdKWUJCZmVIWlQ4R2dneXRVT0U2alpTYzFLSVNuajZCaUUzazE3aDF6YWJCal9QSnkwdGU1THJHS0c5dUprUHJDVDNwZ2NoX1JTZHdKMHVhOHA4dEs1MWhOX19VQmc1UU43Qm5JWE9ZQm5XbUZtOW1oUnhCb1N1US12clI3Q0RMdnVCcTc0cHktWGNoTjJhQ0RFdDZqQT09 |
My (32F) sister (35F) is getting married for the third time next month. When I got married five years ago, she canceled two weeks before to go on a "non-refundable girls' trip" (that she booked after getting my invite).
Now she's demanding I: Take PTO to help with DIY decorations; Pay for her bridal shower (since I "owe her" for missing mine); Bring my famous cupcakes (100+ servings) as my "gift"
When I said no, she told our family I'm 'bitter' and "can't let go of the past. Our mom says I should be the bigger person because "family comes first."
AIO? I sent a card and wish her well, but I'm not spending $500+ and a weekend pretending this is normal.
| r/amioverreacting | post | r/AmIOverreacting | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jeDMtZDhaTWlhbkViZzJDb3A2U3VNUkFsSll4b2E4d242enJVYWFJYnNqTE1CV0xPOHF2UmdsMmIxQmx5YnlZcnVCR3Fwa3VGVFZuMElSb0g4dHZuemc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kV0VuMURqSXpxWDJhOFZNNXctRFQ0MzZiWXk2eWFLdWdLdmNhTnhiQVdtaWgtc3JFQjVQazl5elZyX3NzRU1SQUVhMGRua3JDaGtWekN0ZjgyZXpTMVJxbUNSOV9lLVBWc05taEhJYjZTZDVMbEJ2Qm9qRjJDeXNCMFpzT0E3WDFXWlJESGhoQl9rS2hJR0FQY3I5WHluX0xIQXZuNEpuYmpfdEFGaWhBeFZ1Tkk2TjZROEVjaVdpNllFNG1BV1o0enhLc0sxMTB4MjBORVdIUHkycEVVQT09 |
To keep this short, my father has a habit of throwing other peoples things away without asking.
Few examples:
-One day I brought a kebab for lunch but didn’t finish it and planned to have the other half of it for dinner. I put it in the fridge at 12:00pm, by 7pm that night I came down and it was gone. I asked if someone ate it and my dad just said “I threw it away” and when I got mad he said “don’t leave half eaten things in the fridge”
-In my country, If you collect cans or recyclable bottles, you can trade them in for 10c each. My mother had a whole basket she had been collecting that had about 80 cans in it. She kept it in the garage and one day she came to find it was gone. She asked my dad and he said he threw it away. Obviously my mother was mad not because of the money, but because she spent time collecting them and he didn’t consult her before throwing it out, nor did he care.
-We keep our sneakers and boots (shoes we don’t wear often) in the garage. My mum brought a new pair of sneakers and put them on the shoe rack, so now she had 2 sneakers. She went to work with the new pair and then came home and her second pair were gone. She asked my dad and he said he there then away… didn’t even ask if she was still going to use them and they were $100 sneakers.
Now, I kept my box of Invisalign retainers in a backpack in my room and hidden in the closet. Yes I’ll admit the backpack had rubbish in it (3 or 4 empty bottles of water and iced tea) and papers and books. Sometimes I can be messy but I always clean out my bag every week and there wasn’t any food in there. I came home from uni yesterday to find everything in that bag GONE, including the box of my 15 Invisalign trays. The only person who goes through peoples stuff in my house is my father, and my mother has had Invisalign in the past so she would know not to touch my box. I know he threw them out because I searched my entire room for them and didn’t find anything. I’ve never lost a box before I ALWAYS know where I keep them, so there’s absolutely no way they vanished. I confronted him and he said he doesn’t remember, he just threw what was in the bag away. I’m absolutely furious. Not only did he just go into my room and throw them away, but he’s refusing to pay to have them replaced (and it may be up to $3,000AUD) as my health insurance doesn’t cover lost or damaged Invisalign. My father said I’m disrespectful for confronting him and being so angry as well as demanding that he pay the cost of replacement.
What do I do?? This was my last 15 trays as well. I was due to finish by June after 2 years of treatment, now I’ll have to wait and pay extra all because he threw my stuff out.
ALSO, my father has not paid a single dollar for my Invisalign treatment. I’m 19 and pid $9,000 for it, plus $1,000 for tooth extractions I had to have as my mouth was too small for all my teeth. None of this is covered by private health insurance so I have spent 10k on my teeth, all of my own money because they have been a huge insecurity of mine and also have affected the way I eat.
ONE MORE THING- the box is CLEARLY labeled Invisalign and it has my full name on it. It wasn’t some random black box that could have had anything in it. Anyone who can read would know that it was an Invisalign box and it was heavy as it had 15 aligners in it so the excuse of “i thought it was empty” is not valid either. | r/amioverreacting | post | r/AmIOverreacting | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jbzd3Q0o4TTdXMEVlTjdISHlmRXpHTzdpOEFmSkRlUUFsUl9ZMEJTN3pFay1IT1ZTT0JLTF94d2dmLWNUeGhBYnlfSzFEMnByeld0SWg2VTJMeks1UWlHa0d5TWFocG85MGt4RFBiWWdDQ289 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kdzZaTFd2NV9JMXhnOHJjNTlxbHE4VEhFNjh4aHpEVGhacEFUS3Y4ZHhPbmhkTnFEZ1FLd0xlU0FCY2RiQUZScFU3cU9PM1BTNTc5YUxQMUl1c0RzX0d2eHZYd2lzMjVoS1pUaXhiemxNUTI2U0lVOHlOUXlnMFk2Njl2QV9neWl2d2JwVlhCSDA2M2hseURsZmlmbWI1cFdJTmZidTFDcTVqV0ZTYnNLaVNRMlJpd2J4TmlObmx5bXZYMDJUWnd4R0ZxZWlocVpsZjBhbG1LWXNrQ09wUT09 |
(I truly apologize if this post is out of order. I am kind of spiraling.)
Around 2 months ago, I got back on birth control (mini pill) after some complications with insurance. My boyfriend was my first time and we have had sex a few times since then. However, even with past boyfriends that I only did oral with, I have been so afraid of getting pregnant.
My boyfriend and I have always used condoms and I take my birth control correctly and on time. Yet, I still have that fear of what if.
Recently, he has asked if we could go raw because he claims that it feels better. I told him no and he was completely accepting. I feel like it might feel better for me too, but I’m not too sure with my fear of pregnancy.
I would also like to note that I am over 200lbs. That meaning, both Plan B and Ella would be less effective for me from what I have read.
How do I have the best experience that I can?
Edit: Just to clear the air—he was NOT PRESSURING ME. It was just a suggestion that I was considering. | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jVW5OaXlYZ2I4YnVLUXFyU1V4VGdkQzZyeXYxU2plLXFmVzBKVl9lT1FTZ3Zid2EyYk9xTGtmakNVRlZuTFFOTkJqUlRqSXRkNTdLWnI5QV9uX3d4TWc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kdVdYVEw3Y3N3QXdSUEhhM1ZHU25maWZIenZDWDJrQ0V0YmdlT1p3ZWN6Y3Y1MTdMOWNlUlZINC1wOFl6U0I2OG92a0RBYXU5dGtEaHhzU0NWOHRVNm5QWEVVVEZBVHlxamdXeDZCNE5FZk1MNk5JbWYtcWdnQk11TDJRSTZUMDVSZFoySHlYM3VXNTM1dGhZMHdsb09nd0I2bXQ5SGZ0cF9tSHhEdWxNQ1lpaGNVY2dLTmszXzJOOTNiSkhzQTVkbm5VbXlwTFFTbkwtWG9iV1g3cVhxcUN2VU44aDhySTJrUjhwQTBHa2otST0= |
There’s a full time bag room attendant at my golf course. He manages the clubs, carts, and other staffers. They also clean your clubs after each round and put them in your storage locker. This is when a tip is usually transacted. I’ve historically (wife included) been a great tipper and very generous with the staff in the bag room. Last week after my round I had no cash so I told the bag room attendant lead guy I would Venmo him. I got sidetracked and forgot to do it. Then two days later he says to my wife after her round that “your husband hasn’t been tipping me”. She was caught off guard and embarrassed. Am the asshole for thinking this is out of line? Do I drop it or address it? Im leaning toward addressing it next time I see him. I’d love to hear some ideas. | r/golf | post | r/golf | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jam1VSE1PSkpsaUNUY05FQzNYNzJkb2dGOEZ1UC1mdEZ5LTJweXF2dVBzRy1lcjVpUzZFcjRoUDBfZzBNSFpvMTVtUzRnY2ZIN3J2ZU9MNFQwMDZHLVN6ZnNrLXVWallHX2MxZkR3NlFWVkk9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kQml2N0J0X0Ewam5VNUV6WXhIYW5BSXNwejh3bG51ZkJlSkJkXzhGbVhKWlpaYVBCWmMxSXFjMnBpdDZzcTVCbXQ5MHdJY1FpMHlvaS15R0hLUXR1RnNKek5QRTdleGY2dXVVZXpWNWdCZ1lGc2xYeVBsbm01RHYtUnplN09vX2R3d29HekdGallxRlFYNTAtSkNBd3lkcHh6ZDNyanlMVVFCdEtkNGJHcFJBPQ== |
Super Buu (Dragon Ball) eating sweets before destroying the planet
Mahito (JJK) goofing off
Dr. Doom (Marvel) treating Santa well. | r/topcharactertropes | post | r/TopCharacterTropes | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jb0oycHByWDRiUTkzNGFXLTI3cjItamlTNHBUd29RZmFYa2tmVFV5YWtXUlBvbEJzRy0tS1ZRZmdOcDk3TE5ja2JTcWtHdUpqSUw1VVVtUWJmRjBYSFE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5keDBuYmRRcmVlWlV1UlFFWHhPR2RGbm9ocmljV19IMTQ5Q3ZEUVVKZUh4ZDEwNE1zLTRseEk5S1Y2TXZNaUtaaXVIaTVjTHE5U0JFTDdyRnRGQ0RZM085elNwYVBYbHRxUmdnakdjRm5hRFZNRzFYRnBuQ2FGQUh4bDNBQktud3luWnEyVFNVUEtFODZxcEV4WHJUZ2tkTUV5SGJ2ZmE5T00zRlBIUjJ0ejdhV2wybHotd3dhYUZXUlMtVlhxM2pWaEJHRXVFamI1SHZQT1lNTWcyMS1ZUT09 |
I am a club fitter and probably have seen it all so ask me whatever you would like! | r/golf | post | r/golf | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jelZES3VZV0ptN0U4enFDMzd4UUZIdW1LUmxGdFVkU0NNN1NxMTFIRGgycnNMY1FoTjNOOGJaVHNKM2w1NV81RVZYeTJlN25PQmVNU2wxNk1HbFVWUmk1MkszY0FNb1Rra1FKSm8zaUdBd2M9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kQWxKSXI2d3IwTE9QNjZyeGFhRUxjMXpmeGpTRHhERWVzWnZkc0VCN2FWTE1KRmg1eUx6UldIM3NTRER3UXJRMnU5UW1Pa3o1LXQ3MUtKX3RaU1dFM2dpZjN0S09QY2RtMFFsWUJ5VTZZakM5Q3VqRUFCdUhJdE9PTG9ORWxtVm1TTVFwTHJFMGR0M1FEVjNMNUx2UXBlT2hvalg2bHpiZkE1cHRPeW5UOHhxc214SVQ4eDZhUzllTlA3M2N6QkFj |
Any help would be appreciated, thanks! | r/golf | post | r/golf | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jYmpfRHVJRm5XTXlreUZvMnFUN2hxc25tMzBEZXVXWnBzZzc0SUJKeEY3YS16RG9rY0wxaFBmdmhYdzQySERhcl9reFBEVGFZVGxNN2YzQ1NET0kzUnZQYmNNT1U4Q0xXdWsySGVvZXFSSE09 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kdXI2Tmo1RGE0cm02N2lmemxsaXlma1FkcjFVOHE3YlA4U055LUVGVzJKMm1Lc182RmNzOEVsS0NTdUZVbGN6QVZpWm1SMVVFbGJhMmNXc0N4S2ZCYndBa2RsaTJ5d092bm1MenVMdzk0MEhPd2hsdHh6ZlVmRzhVcjVFX0dLbXlUc3BXdGVaRFIxLTRHRWRicWhNbHNpLWtobzFwUTlXY1M3ZFkyWElpUzNlbjZxa2h4MG9ueDhsQXN5UzltWVRM |
My partner (34M) and I (33F) have been together since we were 18.
He got me through an SA which was nasty. But he helped me through it. He was my first at everything. He stopped me from doing stupid things aswell. And I appreciated that.
When we were 23 24. We had took take care of family members that became unwell. Really sick. We put our hands up to take care of them. It took a tool on our relationship
Because of the feeling of trapped we were fighting constantly. Thats when I found out he started to cheat on me with a 29F. That started to break me. And he stopped. The excuse "I needed a way to escape reality"
And so did I so I fell into alcoholism
We fought back and were the best than ever. Celebrated 10 years and we loved each other more. We are now 14 years into our relationship and I hear a conversation
"I want to spend time with you but she makes it hard. She fights if we dont spend time together. So I have to. Its not you baby, its her"
How can I get out of this relationship. He is the only person I known? | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jTEpQNEJYY3ZkOXFKa3BTWDhHZ0hnakdwMDNOSUNtQVBVdFBDdWFJX0ZFYUNwQzNZUl9mUWpZaFlDTGtZV2tIZHlPbmZFTjcyNlZJeDhTdHdJQ1ZwR0l6NENKZUI0QlNsY0xHaVFLVVVsSDg9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kMW1YYmpyYmd4aFE1WUdKVkk2cXJmSlY2N0pfS2lRdzMyUjQzaXB0eEotb1JlcjRQWU54bEJUWnB2TzlGaHdqWTMwTDQ3RE5nNVk1SkozWDIya0tYMDd0cE1CLTRPcHp4Y1NVWVhsM0VsSEc1RlFkRkEtVHBWdzg1S0pNLUJMTEFlbG1wRkxYaDNReTJBZjROel8zWDc5ay1RaGk5SDF3QjRNWjFjNXBLVEVhaFc2VzdjYTdvenRWOGx3Nk9tMXlDdnY5V2FuMEtkWE9IU21aeEFQZWJEdz09 |
It helps me focus better | r/teenagersbutbetter | post | r/TeenagersButBetter | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jZzFVdUcwVFg0aWpIbzl2Z2w4WWRBcjhQR3ZCeGFXbm9VUzhmbGRqU1c3QWwzanE5QkVMMHFRMWJPYnZoSkhaNDNRamYwMjZ5MmFDX2k3NmMyZThsaG5EYS0xRWlLcWhlRGtNTlVKY1RZQWM9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kdTR3eDBVckduVThtVXlLUkhKc2lhbnNjaVFPOUlqODdiSXVzQ3BPLWZqUWZ5Zkg3YTdKS2c1MmxlOXJwUnBLQUswU0RQbUJrM1QxY0x4MGZSRmpyQllyWmJQMFZaeVE0U0JuZEZwYXZ6bjRTTXdaUmZvTnlEM05pZmYxUzVFUmM0Zm5Na251ZnFSTXdjeFUxSHVsb0V3ZFlMQkQ3aEFxV2YydnRmd1FwTDBVbWFGMXNDcXhLWlAzYUN5UHNSNlg1aENKZGl0bzRfUDdPWDZFRVk2ZHBwQT09 |
So my best freind (27F) just recently started dating a new guy and she is head over heals for him. Unfortunately I absolutely detest him and think he's actively dangerous for her.
He's 30 years her senior.....and her supervisor at work. She has told me before about some bad stories about him (him inviting her alone to his house, various sexual remarks, hitting on other female members of staff etc), so I was absolutely shocked when suddenly they were dating. She'd given him her number as they were living in the same area so it was convenient during emergencies, and since then he's been messaging constantly, but I never imagined this.
From my external point of view it looks like textbook grooming behaviour, but maybe I'm missing something? Either way I pointed out some of the red flags to her (not least the workplace trouble), and she completely rebuffed me. Normally she will ask my advice on her partners, this is the first time I've seen a redflag at the start, and the first time she has completely ignored my advice. We had an argument about it (and it was only after I started suspecting grooming) but we are talking much less now.
I'm scared for her, but I know there's nothing more I can say and I may already have said too much and damaged the friendship. But I do want to be there for her as I see so many ways for her to get hurt here, and if she is being groomed she needs all the support she can get. I'm not abandoning her, but need to rebuild the trust so I can be there for her. But I'm not sure how? Certainly pointing out things about him is counter-productive, but maybe pointing out the subtle grooming behaviours? | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jbEZUbV9URUNxQ2s0QTkyWWZMekdWMDVZXzdic1ltbVlJWHI3QThMbTVPbXprY2ZBODdIQ1FhdnRLRjVDbG12Q3dJN2FhTElCanE4VEFHZzdHeVZHODc5X2NlNFp0SmdwN25ndGE3WUppaEk9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kYVBPei1SeEJpZ1VXei1scENHazRVWHNmbkdqNzczUFZiSVRHZGR4OVF5SWRaLTZ6MTFhdE1uem5JTGhXY09nN3hsZTlSUlRaZ1N2S2N2dzBwQzhZR2pzNFlDTXNfWnJLMkxScXZwU0pYQXI0aGdpOW5TdTg5eGZfNlB1RUJWX1pQem9TbjJuNVRJY1dhSE9QLUpxSDBJeEU1UGxnZndjNEltNUlCRE5qX0MwNlZ1S2xtT1BCZjFDNXpCTVhZU1Q1bkF4N2RaYmZxTWI3U0E0TFRhajRmR2NUS1Z2b1MxZHE2bkI4ZVltRURJaz0= |
What’s the etiquette here? | r/askredditafterdark | post | r/AskRedditAfterDark | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jOTBCR3pRX1dJeWJ1WHl6MlBWZG5MemlUT2E5bFUxdUFKVV9Iby1kTUs4TVNzQVlTbmxtVC14Z0VBZWNETUNuVTBUZExFRkg3cHNLeVlLaUZyNnFYQ0E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kNjBmbFFUNXhoOW5tazlZbVdWdEdpNFhUcWhHNFM4SkdaNWw4ZUR4V3A4Yk9fdS1JUXk1UC1pSjR0NzFuN05KWllzVW8wLXExT1N3SlFFWGFOMHEwcGRNSmNGY2JVcWNtNlk4aWhxMHlYN0R0S2pYaHFNS1U5Ui1xclhLYTl6aGhydEdYTE00OGlmQTh6eU9mNHlweTJRRW5Cck1HQjgxbktXLVkxSUg0UjdHRnFmd0w2Rlk0U2VuckFSVFY3d09tdnhITmtpYVJpcjVKN1dRQWdwZ2xDUT09 |
Cabin fever this winter so my Wife gave me full authority of our storage space under the garage. This is where I landed until next winter and the project resumes. Now it’s time to play some real golf outdoors! | r/golf | post | r/golf | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jWTFhYTFWV21KbTRXY1RWQktQcmYwVVVwSTNTZjJFTTZDQnZ6SEZjdGtwYVRxYmw2aWhDcENyV09yZTJnQVpFNDRWVTRCRXBWdmJIWmxpZUlRbmRILVE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kaFpqRkpQR3gyeUhxR2pmVHZNaEFad2RPUnBXbE5ZWFBERmFmVjk4c3lTSHQ2NXVHREplVnF2ZTZSQlJQVFZmcVE3UHZ4eEFWeXR2ZldBSU9RUFNHMzFXQ3V4WmJEWl9aRHhJUk1zRVJWUW9qcDRxeEpRNnlRVHl4RWk3dEFnbllpazhnakJKNURPSXZmTnZYclE3NzNweEpHT0N5ckc1SWlWb3BmeXQxV0dVPQ== |
Got a really unique shot during JT’s win at the Heritage so just wanted to share. It’s the only tournament I photograph each year so always a good time. | r/golf | post | r/golf | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jOExpaXZZVGg5TE90UUhfenIwdEJlNllnWE8zNVc4QXFnX3FIeEpDQ1AzNWd3b080QWlxcnpQLUdMZW1ac0tSYWNadUVaZkRoWG5FT3JDMDNtSm1CMmc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kRDhyUGNOQW9BSGh2UVEtLUNNTm5Bd2lWZ0xZdGxwd2hZTnJJeVJreGo0WjNEbkNoSjRQUTR6YVR4eE5IUGpjWUVpMlZsOUhKb1VjRWpZU0hiSW5VVzVxaWVkV3FLSVNZdk1rYkZrR0RDNjhDYkR3cEtMQzN4ZFAzcXdNOVk3V3FiZ19WZWZ5QkNrZ0xmMGVuQTdPWDVYbjdOekg2OTNFU2ZaV2ZycDl1YkgyMmFJVEt3ZmMzcWFQdzY2TTlpYTFZ |
TL:DR- So my ex fiancée and I were together for 4 years, engaged for the last year of the relationship. Things were good at first like they usually are during the beginning, but there were some red flags sprinkled in there. Which, out of loneliness and/or stupidity, I ignored. Fast forward to a month ago and we’re waking up to the start of our day. She’s working, but I’m off on this day, so I’m just helping her get lunch and everything ready for the shift. We get everything squared away and I walk her out to our car (we share mine). After we say our goodbyes I head back in to go lay back down for a lil longer and see that she left her phone on our bed. So I grab it rq and run out the door as fast as I can even yelling her name to get her attention, but she didn’t see/hear me. After waiting for a minute or two longer I figured she’d realize and turn around. So I went back in, sat the phone down, and started getting my dog some breakfast. Then it hit me. A terrible gut feeling that something was wrong. I feeling I had gotten a few times already, but ignored. She had been accusing me of cheating and going through my phone more and more. All seemingly for no reason. I completely realize and appreciate that this was a wrong decision, but I decided to just peep her snap rq to just appease myself and maybe get rid of this feeling. Because I’m just being anxious, right? I wish. I found that she had slept with another guy a year ago and was STILL talking to him. Calling him “baby” and flirting. Upon confronting her about it she said it was only once and she never flirted or anything with him again. Needless to say I ended the relationship then and there. Shes constantly asking for another chance, but whenever I bring up what she did she just immediately brings up anything wrong I’ve ever done. Even if it was years ago. We live in the same place still because economy and all that. But I’m just feeling lost ig. I still do love her and idk. Somehow I’m feeling bad and like I’m the one causing her pain even tho I didn’t want any of this. I think I just need a lil advice because this was my longest relationship and I don’t know who to ask about. Thank you to anyone who answers:) | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jXzIyeUJ6LW1ueDB4VDNpbTItdWY0TXhkM2J0dWhiT05LenExV29jNmpBYVlTYUNWUG82dkRJRXYxcERjUXlhU1BzYlRDODhPNXdTNHVRYUhqWVVtM0Z0ZFdaUjJWSkVnMEtqaEh2bi1QTkE9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kczRLd0tVS09mSnVQZHB1c0xhQkg3UEg4SV9mSDhyUWZIRHBhM1ZwTVY3V3dzUVJ6VkZwNG9XOEFNVjBqSTNnUGNkandGTkVaUVVtVEl3dkNRcGIwMFo0Si1EalZPT0VobFVMRTk2cXRMakl2Q25tZmtqM3hySG1CZ3ZNdnhnZzE0VUZlaTZJUDhDdlVpeC1uWlpZcTBjeDJBWXdCN3pqQWVJaEdiTENsdy1XTjRZeDZoOGJLVE1YLXo3U040MXMxWm9VLURSVzNWVEpYdVRIQmZHYmV1UEhmQkY5TDZRNkotWHlYdTZrUEdaOD0= |
I hope he gets what he deserves | r/teenagersbutbetter | post | r/TeenagersButBetter | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jdEN6cHR1dm8xRXpSVzNZc21fbmhjN2p2WEtVRDZuMnRmZTljQ29kRGxOWlh0djYxOHhuWlNWaGpjbnQ5cTlIQkYtZDNFdEFERjZFSkNxbi1WUUJGTEZwdjBuSl90alFuRGt2UVR0SkdLM1E9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kcDhmSmZSbmx3amVaVVlpNkFDdm9xd21PYVBUcTNRYWlrWjktS3I0YXlzSFZlQVRONDBVWGtFbnN5UmNjdlpMU09JLXd3UUQxRzdSNkkwYnVacFNiNWsxVU5pS2EyNlIweFdXOWN4aHh3dWxmazlhanlzNTZqZkoyRHNuM21JZHRoaWVPbVV5eEZBRlk2Q1JwT0JsTmE2b19LY2xPTmpYdkhRdzVhZlBMNlBmcGQteFY3TVRJbEUzal85V092eG9CTWY3V2JnSldaUkFFNHlrczcwNDdGUT09 |
1. Deadly Viper Assassination Squad (Kill Bill)
The Bride’s former squad, both movies are about her tracking each one down to get revenge for them killing everyone at her wedding, until she gets to their leader Bill.
2. The Assassins (Batman Arkham Origins)
Early in the game, Batman learns that Black Mask has hired 8 bounty hunters to kill him, and he must take them on over the course of the game. This wasn’t QUITE as well implemented as it could have been, with two of them being taken out early on and the other two only being side quests, but it was still a cool idea.
3. The Seven Deities (Asura’s Wrath)
After they betray and kill Asuta and his family, Asura claws his way back from the dead to get revenge. The game is you fighting each one in their designated levels and it’s the best thing ever.
4. The Terrorists (Die Hard)
This isn’t PERFECTLY this trope since most of these guys don’t have much of a personality and some get quick death scenes, but it’s still very fun watching John slowly reducing their numbers over the course of the movie.
5. The Evil Exes (Scott Pilgrim)
After beginning to date Ramona, Scott finds out he will be hunted by her group of Seven Evil Exes, and must fight one in each volume of the comic.
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As a man I can probably count on 3 fingers how many times this has happened in my whole life. | r/askredditafterdark | post | r/AskRedditAfterDark | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jbWRiN21Hb2QxaEdBNXI2bTFqbEdVNEVlLUhRZWZEU2JrOEdUemtYMmFaQVkzNmh5LWNDY3hNeVI1c2RQOHphc01KQ2lGbmZlSVB2TDF5czMtU3dXY3h0aWQwOGJPRGNSQnhYWTI2ZFpTd2M9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5keGlIVmtId2owUFlNTHVoZFlYc2F6MXBZVjhma2xIcUxjNFRQblRFel9aMjQ5SlF3MWJ2Y0RTcG9SVEVlMXRZd2xuRVlOWmZCLUhxVmwxZUQ4b3c1WWlCckZhTGllbnZxYlhYWlV4TEMwa05tZExTYVlmSS1lQzVtMlF5OUdSQllGWTVPSEdfNzhZdmVWNGZBZ0F1R2tQRDhwak80TkZLVFBFcDNZcnliUEJ0d1JyblJBZEJUT21sMjg1bFc0V3pFRENBMlNQbU03VWhzelJmX25TSm1xUT09 |
As the title says, I am a black woman, currently engaged to a white man.
I met my fiance 3 years ago while in college. He played basketball at a nearby University outside of Chicago. When i met him at a nightclub, he stood out for a couple reasons..
1. He was the only white guy in his friend group lol
2. He had a country accent (not common in Chicago obviously)
Even though he was the opposite of what i usually went for, i gave it a shot & the rest is history. He's everything I've wanted in a partner. Both our families get along great & I'm the happiest I've been in my life.
Growing up in inner city Chicago, my family, especially my dad, rarely spoke nice bout white people. For that reason, I waited awhile to break the news to my family.
After a year of dating, we decided to move in together. I ended up sitting down w/ my mom & told her about him. She was very hesitant at first, but once she met him, all her worries disappeared and now she loves him. He's always over at her house fixing stuff lol.
My father (who separated from my mom when I was 16) is a different story tho.
About a year & a half ago, my dad showed up unannounced @ my moms house, while my fiance was there changing the oil in my mom's car. My dad asked who he was & I introduced them to each other. Needless to say, he was really upset & refused to shake his hand. He ended up cussing my mom out for allowing it & hopped in his car & sped away. I tried to call him for a week but he refused to answer. Turned out, he blocked me on Facebook & posted hurtful things about me, my mom, & my "redneck cracker" boyfriend. Since then, we have not spoken.
Fast forward to now, we recently found out that my fiance is inheriting his Grandpa's beautiful home & ranch property down in Oklahoma. With us getting married in June, and plans to start a family, I informed my family we will be moving soon. Word got around to my dad, and he reached out to me through Facebook last week, and said he's sorry for everything & wants to meet me & my fiance before we make the move. I told him I would think about it. My fiance says he's open to it which I figured because he forgave my dad awhile ago. But it's hard for me to forget the awful things he said about us & my mother. With plans to have children soon, I realize I will have to decide on whether their Grandfather will be involved in their lives or not.
I'm really torn. Do i accept his apology & meet with him, or choose to continue to ignore him?
Have any of you ever chose to cut a close family member off from your life? If so, did you regret it down the road? | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jaEU5eW5OS19zNldYRUZFQXpWdzZad1BVSl9BOXE4T3VpVWxXMHBMZm82dUdUUzVDOHlHV3BjS1RGQk9HaXRLVnhBMk9OZlhiNzVIZGpUTzltUkVmQmc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kbVNpV3ZkNU55WW9ibjlERDltcWJXUkxmbUo2RGQ5ZlRmZW5hZXFCR1hIZENscW1hM0F3ZnNONVhKMUVtRUdKRnNxUXdWSGgtTEVKSjcxUE9nM09BNlpoTUJmd1U4YTRSUWxqSXM2QU9mRnFRSkw5OWpPZFU5ckpnNW5faWZUaDB0dnYzMlFtOC0wZkpWMVFHa1hvamFFWTJGMi1TcEE4SkRZc0p2UldrMk4ySHMtUDk3S3FFc0RKbmp1MmtGek5xTllDSUl6cDl3bnpYb1c2VzQ4bnlvdz09 |
I do it at times as a man but I get shy 🙈, I do more grunts , does that count as a moan ?
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All bc I said I like Kanye's music in my bio | r/teenagersbutbetter | post | r/TeenagersButBetter | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jelRNLVAyQ2c2QnlnQlRqRlBMd09QNzE3R0JEMzZtUWNZd0wxeDBpeWFfQ2Z4UFVqVUhROUpCUm83VWZkRGIwZGN6bUdhTmVZbTdZNlBQUTBiUVhTQjJwQUJYR0k3aUZXOWMwaDcwd0VselE9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kNzFfNHRkZTlIMkQ0enRBdENlSGJKbVZRaHZHd1daLVNSUmp6QUtucHExVHYwWXdjekZqQ2FRblA5WVZrSWVhamNOQWw2Z3gwWnY0aDdQRmVNTGdyQWJfajNxSEJJa0g5X2ZpTmt4UzVmQW12RjU0VktmSE1YaHNOdTF5end4VlFEQWRMbTE3RzJfN0VBcE52Y0dIRHNwWVYtdWlHV0pqTmhOTEVGbDBGOUtBPQ== |
C | r/golf | post | r/golf | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jZWtNOVFjZ3FwU3ljeTJPdzduOUx2MXBzX1FQR3NfVDZNQjc3eUU3Qm9teFhPbld3Vlh6d2Fld2lSQ2pWd2JhSW1WaUVMTDBHdzg3ZXZzRlBVZ09ZTjdwWGh1MUozblJhNmliTEZBNTdrRk09 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kQm9tdUhCVjV5ZTYxMFJuSzVSeFZtN2tkRm5ReTI0SjBJaHZhS1RQNmc5Ry16cEQyY0JJTk5JWjlTV0dfLVM0aXFDaC1jSUw0cmpscVY5cE9KMGlXbW1mMlY0bUU1cm5OVE9CajBDd0duU0JHTXEzanhXQWktWEp4c1Z0Q3RieVE0ejU2RlZ4Qjc1Z2EwYkJzNElaMENLSTc2eVRxSUl4QVlZUkRFWnBWQTVWVjd5RHdUVHR0bHdvS3I2Zl9BZG53 |
The dog lobby wins again. | r/askredditafterdark | post | r/AskRedditAfterDark | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jR2ZtUmZVR0tJMG1wTU5ydnVUOS1lUTM1bXZGaUNCRnFVdnI0MUF3N2o0TzZBQ2VVR0VHVGFIOTdyNnBhVnJYRlJKN0tBTUZMSFJfcG5waV8zSEtGZjNRRHN2LWNmWUI5dG9uNGQtcy1lVDg9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kaWM1SWIyamd1LXRaY2kzaFhRUFl3SmItaXRuamN1cm1kQkY5WENuY0hhRVRSck5rY19PWDRubk1WX3J3OFJzMmZoWDFFRVRjaUJIOE9FY2xqNndjOWJNaDhaU0p3MmMzY1RoejZqTFY3dkgyN081Z1BOTERuSmJCUGVQMGt3ZTR4UUVkRVJUd2YydkNCTmRZekljYllJRWw4cjBDT2U4NTc0djJiUHoxbkVfOWZLSGw4d3dPb09ZekV5cXBhYVBMNHJGYXhhR0JZNlNicG02RDBabVMwQT09 |
W | r/neoliberal | post | r/neoliberal | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jdGVWZ0ItRlZ2ODdsdTRQbFNJUDRsRDljT3g2ZjRRSzVNMndKd2FBM3JsWGMzRlVMUXZpaVJ3V3hNdVhkSXVhN1FWSzR6QmppeVBNMzJ6WGR1OXNpX3c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kNHJaVTRzTll3d1FvQVIwME9YWVUtTTBwSDByUXZOa29aN2RoTDc3QjdWLW1hb2lkS0M1NG1pd3p5LUREQ1dva004OHRtX2RqeGJhdUpaVV81MC1iUUEyS1lObjZhSi1oZTNzdXZoOGxmUjN6aThYVllkbkZ3djdtTURLN0FpeUZtc0NmYVhPRkxBbWxEZUl0MUhWckp3WFp4OVpfRUR2V1dPYll2WkswNTJZeHJIWjF3MXBEMVJHNnJLRjJoeVc5LUNILVc3YU92a2xQSzlIQTRfY0NDZz09 |
I'm home alone, I've done all my chores, so I don't need to do anything rn. But I feel like something is wrong and I wanna cry my eyes out and idk why😭 I was just so happy, blasting eminem and now I just randomly feel like I need to cry!? I fucking hate being a human, also wtf is happening!?!?! | r/teenagersbutbetter | post | r/TeenagersButBetter | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jQ1pnc2xLekN6S3AwOGhWZU1vT1Q2NFdQRTVfZ1dCTTdkd0xkaWlJR3NXbk1iLWdZd2pLNWxHaHpDQnpTNjFGU2VrZWQ0VHJ0Vkw5SXNKUnUtc1V2QndLSWFKZFlJRkRWRUhQWGhOeUJzM009 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kQUZ5NWFzaDQ4MXJlbHZ4N2NUNkppVXNjWHllOElaaUxjaTdaZ1pYdUwwOVkwS3dVRWFCTE9mQ0JZSEFvcy13MG16bzNhblJELU1LV0tOT05NVlZkV055UWs5VGd4U1RxMGdGX0FzOWhHcHZkVXl3WkZlbUJVbzNMRlVPTXh4VmlqOExnQldydjdTNkNVU0U0cUFYcjc3WlVyaVRqd2lQWUN3aXU1M3JzVTBvPQ== |
My girlfriend and I are extremely close, shes my best friend. We’ve been together 3 years, eventually we’re getting married but its not a huge priority right now due to college and other situations. She’s very innocent, and therefore believes its impossible we would ever split up. I admire her enthusiasm and dont see it happening either, but coming from divorced parents, obviously I know rational people dont get married expecting a divorce, and that anything is possible. Neither of us want kids, but especially not her. I could do it just fine if she really wanted them, but Id prefer not to. Now with that being said, if we were to break up, and I ended up with another woman who really wanted kids, I’d like to be able to have the option. Ive never been a fan of burning bridges, and I’d consider my balls a fairly good bridge lol.
My girlfriend has been cheated and had rough relationships in the past with other people, so she struggles with trust. I’m worried that if I tell her this, she’ll have the thought in the back of her head that I’m planning to leave her for someone who wants kids. Obviously thats not true, but why create unnecessary stress? Therefore I’m not sure how exactly to tell her this, or if I even should. Up until now I’ve just been telling her that I’m just afraid of the operation, but I hate lying to her.
For some more context, she has major anxiety around doctors and related fields, so she is super against tying her tubes or something similar, which I definitely understand. She also doesn’t do well with OTC birth control, her hormones don’t agree with them unfortunately. Thanks!
Edit: I hear you guys. I definitely agree, we’re young and have a long ways to go. I definitely should have prefaced by saying that this isn’t a decision we’re wanting to make this instant, just a conversation that has come up before, that I wasn’t exactly sure how to go talk through. We’re working on her anxiety, because I agree that a doctor could have some good insight as to prescribed birth control or even other options. I also hear you guys that vasectomies are reversible, which does make it much easier to stomach. I did know this, but I guess I didn’t weigh it as much as I could have.
Additionally, shes not pressuring me to do anything! I might’ve accidentally given off the message that she was pushing me towards getting it, which isn’t true. She just mentioned it, I said no, and that was the whole thing. I just like to always have reasons for things, and I feel like she deserves to hear mine. Thanks for the insight!
Edit 2: didnt expect this much attention. I hear everyones insight and I greatly appreciate it. I definitely have more maturing to do, thanks! Im going to ask the mods to lock this post, I’ve got the info I was looking for. | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jZ1ZFSFp3RzVkNzZUMVh4NTc0MnZuVDJYVHlGdmdGMU1CZDBiTjFJTmtscDJnY0kzclVUMjVCc0hVTFVhQkpGMGt2UkFBSF85QVBPbUlkdm5Td2ZPYkE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kdzVJZHpneDZnMjF3NWJYa1d4alctTFVaUWM5WHZmSUdvbndWemhMLUxRNjJmNDUzZmZ1Q00td0pFeFFtbmNLN1BPcmlPQlRFbzhEenRjemlTSVNLWC1uVnBaNlkwUVNNQ0MwM2RlcVBqeVhsY1ZDUFlfZTNLQ3ZsY2ZlNm9pTFFBNXBKMTJqOVlOZU9UXzM0UmVNTFREa2hVaXhlbmtjVTRDMUlRRklySzN4SEFmd1pmRVNCMURvWjZhTGpmdkJ1Tjhkc0JLbnJzT2IxVDNBaXZqVVlFQT09 |
So my gf (F20) and I (M21) have recently got back together around later November of 2024 after taking a break for a month. we have been together for roughly 4 years. But recently in December 2024, 1 found out that she was sexting her coworker and plans to have sex with him from the last time when we broke up. So it hurt me to figure out that she used her rape case from two years ago as an excuse to break up with me just so that she can continue sexting her coworker.So I wanted to obviously work out, but then I started to think that maybe it's not right, but she talked me back into it and apologized. But I told her I would not want her to be talking to him again so for the last month and a half it was going really good. Until this guy came back around and she was talking to him for about a week until I found out and I told her how I feel about her talking to him and that I don't trust that because of what happened last time and she made up a bunch of excuses like she has to talk to him outside of work because he's a coworker. And then she proceeded to blame me and then call me controlling so then I told her that this isn't gonna be working out. I know that it's hard to deal with a break up, but just doesn't really sit well with me and I just feel heartbroken and betrayed. | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jWDFhNzRqM0UxSWlWdDg5NTZoMHlDTm8wZFBGcWJwZ3pzYjdjVzFyX2k2M1FNdk5zb3RUajYybmlNN290enlHR2lQajdmMHloUzhQV0JxWDd6OEl4SVBYVTA0S0tVbXB4U210emhyYll5MEk9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kRlM1UVRmTDVaNEt5azJlR3pDWThuQTFmZG9mQ3F1X1gxWFBOQkZqVUtwdHdkN0pFVXVaOU9KTVVvS1diX2hYTUZOVnhBSVVtUElIS2hGb29vVTVqdWVPRzFJZ2FmcElxeTZHUW9DcFJpYm13YURHU080bGE2Q0huYjVUd182NElBUnRyNGhFZndmcEhpcjd4QTByZ0lBRk5lMXFxbGlPR05rNktLV3ByMURrNWRWbjBzaFdqcmFuc0c1b3NDZWd2WXlzbEwxYmhmeVMtREEzd0RMQzJ0QT09 |
I went to Bethpage expecting to have to wait a little and probably play Green or Red. My surprise when I saw Black had slots available all morning. So of course I grabbed it. Course was in phenomenal condition.
Shot a 95 | r/golf | post | r/golf | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jXzhXZEVRY3RiYzVTYzFIOFlZaUx6Tk9qUVJUbEs2dXF4UERaRHBoeTFJdEdXQkkzdi1aNWFHWjUzNklzMjU1T2RGZ0tvNk1rYWwxdWJQNnB5Ykh3cFE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kY3M2OExPUmp6UW9wdGhpRHRoaG1famVWMVl2RnVoMWtVWENhQk5Bb3lvcUJCeGZqREpaQkgtRWpNS2l1alcxbWk4Z0tSanhMTmc3VThfTjc3dEk3dThFYkJyaF9aMC1IbldVV1J4Mjc1UEE0ek5rRW1vZUZTdlV2TGxydDFTdlJ6c1hLR21vVklIWnVfQUJjeTR3X05vRjM3T0tkcTBWRWNDWVpXN1JoLXFRPQ== |
For context: my boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years, we have a house together and we have children together. He went out one night with coworkers and got really drunk and then this girl sent me these screenshots of their messages (she is blue and he is white) from that night. We have already discussed multiple times that his drinking bothers me, once he starts he can’t stop kind of guy. I’ve asked him to get help or just stop drinking because it bothers me but he hasn’t taken me seriously.
I feel so betrayed and disgusted, also, I’m 4 month postpartum with our youngest child. He shouldn’t even be entertaining another woman, whether he remembers it or not.
I just don’t really know what to do or if I’m over reacting for thinking that I need to end our relationship and that I can’t move on from this. | r/amioverreacting | post | r/AmIOverreacting | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jWTY1SDlhMnFtU0VNVTVSVnJLZ2lkLWlPc0FYc3l2V0hNMVFtS0w2dUJFTUh2SEJnaEJsNzI0TnlZdHRPb1NYNWhoakFKdDBwYW1rVmxIOG11WWZNNXc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kNlAtVHU5Vm1oN29GVWN4WGxvMXJaUW9lT1QwY3BhZXM3d0d5dDRqRUE3cWJDNW1GY1hxU1pCcUhWcGtiNzFqUmVLWUdQUTYzSDBDREkwRk5FUm5GcWJlOWNMdllmQ25TYmNHY01LcXRmUm04Mk1uemFyUDEtdXQ5enhGWVlmV1ZoeEUxY0N0TTFqZ19PejFVUGRBZXctbjQzTWJuTklIS3RqaWl2YWZTaTA5ZFE0NjZRcVltY3d2bjhnYVVxdDBVQU5hMkE5Q1M5Unp6ZldvRno3Rkd5QT09 |
The Weasley parents ( harry potter)
Subarus parents ( re:zero)
Madokas parents ( madoka magica)
Nagisas parents ( Clannad )
Debbie ( invincible)
Whitebeard ( one piece ) | r/topcharactertropes | post | r/TopCharacterTropes | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jaGJQaUExQjk4Qzhyb2VrM01mSUswN2pRb0VTVF9qUHFkRDBLb3VHRnI1bXRnZTd1cDcwUnpNbVFlTHBwdGpPRVJnNjJzU2Mxcl82ZHY4dlZnYU9jbXc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kQTU1TFdBdGNOUlh5YUxzaXVKX2NjTFBiNVBHOHlTWXByamlWcHlkQWRadFFqd3NicXhITkphejVnTzdaYThvS3BqVEU3eGJOS1I4WXNwbjdHMVpqTXY1ZGlNYWNKeTNUcXNEMks1LTVjamVUdFJmQnpBM0pObHlSc0wzcUgxTzdlcWZWQlRXRWtnd3BuSV9BempRVng5Ylc0Q1BCR2Q5WndnMHlPNFNnRHM4VVlTc0RXd2ZpcWlpcWtYT1U1WXdMSEZHNDRNMm05Snk4VzVnSUpiNmg3dz09 |
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Don't fight me grammar nazis | r/askredditafterdark | post | r/AskRedditAfterDark | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jUjJBUkQ5R0htRlI5eEZCNV9lSjFUUnpmV1ZzLTRKTGVXNG5XRTZBazZFbWlDc2tGcmduQTlkMDB2bERCaWVpU0FQT25PdTk4aEhrNF9QdTlJWVZ6NVE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kZmZLZlRQUGd0dms5c0tNZTFManl6aUo0MnktODFkNzZWa2xFZmYwSWtRZTBCaEVDVVUxU0pGM2VFTDFYaVZndFU0Y0l1SjdxVi1rZ0ZDcTFESVB0a3JUQVZHVkQ2M2JDZkd5N0hrX04wdGYzeGhxSDdiTWxNd28wNE5ranpFdEJSUTBMVmNkNDFpdEg0VmhIQmJUcEFVdWY4V0hKZl9IQWJ3SHlUemJZUXRnYTZxN3lnZVNBdVBVdHFpNThkYjVtaWs2YnNnS2YyT3BqTU1vZ2ZTQkg5dz09 |
I'm currently at the hospital with my grandfather and I stumbled upon the chapel. I didn't know these were real because I'd only seen them in movies. It's beautiful and peaceful. | r/christianity | post | r/Christianity | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jM2J4aXZWMW90N0FGTFFZWFFxc19MQm1ETHFNcnNySUl4VlIzN1g1YTFZaHJZbjZyRFMzZU5YOUpSOXlwVmJ4UGhaZVBUTktOeTZwV05MOFFtU2ZVNDZzWlNBQ2Vncm5OWWlsWTJFRjVUTWM9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kODJqZXVKTXZuZzBVZzZPZDE1MXNXTFV1NDFvblBUUWxBZG9MS3Bibzh6c1JiUmJlWG5ERGl4dkVzbTRuOEJqRHNHTGVDTU8tQ0E2Zm96Tm1JR0FabmhKVnRCMTZ2VlZ6WjNjOUtxTkptdjI4TTBYazBsdjdTcXZNaW0xd2JodmpGRFdRLWpjNm1HbmtJRnA5dVFZcExFaXpsNy1GQXJiMFlMbjQwM2NMakFnPQ== |
He's real into slapping, and I particularly don't mind it and I enjoy seeing how he gets aroused seeing my reactions. A few days ago we were having some fun time and he held me in a position that kept my chest exposed and slapped my boobs.
Until then, it was only legs, thighs, butt n face. I thought it was fun, but I wouldn't be ok with it if it might harm my health long term. | r/askredditafterdark | post | r/AskRedditAfterDark | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jZHpxeTBLak9tVlFTSDVISkd3TWNYMVhkOHJLaWpXZlVjZk55NlRucVFPenp3TUdxNk9IdF9SZ3VwNExGYm5mZnhxSEFaaUZscGZDVDZOZEZxQVpJc3c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kU0lHZnBCcmFBNHd1aE1GcVd6SXpwaTVJdVBJcFZlNzJzWE5jQ2g3cGFiOEZLTzhjZjJXaEpJd2JhRWRUWmVlcU1TRnBHaW9TWDN4dTlkc3owTldTdUp6eGtCUm95LTE3X0JIcnM3S2JKbFd1eEpKaHFpUjExREh1ZFRYTUhRekpHUVRmbFFfbXpVUEgxYm5KSnIwRTRzTkFVcWFyNllQSHhGNFF4SVJFTVZDeU1sb2g5QnBieVhFYWxyUEZXMUFudzVfM3QxaFhBTU5WcHk2YjhTTlFKQT09 |
This conversation happened earlier today and the more I read it the more annoyed I get and im posting this to get some anger out and get opinions. Me(F18), my bf at the time(M19), one of his friend and my best-friend(F19) had a sleepover together last night after a night out. We stayed at my bfs house and me, him and her all slept in the sitting room on his pull out couch thingy. I woke up early in the morning about 4-5 am ish to HER riding my boyfriend about a metre away from me. I immediately shot up and pushed her off him and she ended up falling off, tried to save her landing but ended up hitting her head off the side of the coffee table. Whatever way she fell she also injured or bent or idek my boyfriends dick so they were both in agony while I was going ape shit, screaming at them. I stormed out and that was that lol. I feel guilty for what I did especially after seeing the cut on her forehead/eyebrow. AIO? And should I have done something differently. | r/amioverreacting | post | r/AmIOverreacting | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jWjI5d0d4b1ZOdWtaZXA3V3FBdURhOFZuZkp0bXAxVVp3V3RsdzJmc1Q2RmxWbDBrY09TX0RwWlEzcXJ4RXRLeWE0QUsxN2VFU2tNVzFCTFlYdHBiRUE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5ka1VDZHNfa3JtZGNpRDJBbEd2ZGkxZ2VQV2xmUUpjLTBtUzVZVWg0d2htNElwNVp1Qzh5Yk02aTh5blZXY05VcDZSXzFGal92Ulo3Q0YyNmQzUmpzdEtkN1FtWl9rVFZXX3ZWeW0yNkhyd0tGZEd4TV9WWkhlcmJIa1EwbTNmQkFiSXZqWHEzLUdOXzU3U2k0RHJkYTdURzZuRl90eDRaRE45MGFiYV9TRThYT0hqRkxfbzRwSkYxNUZKaFgxblUzb0ZzbmFwMUFzMm5ZR1J1ajQ1RGEyZz09 |
Very lucky to still get to play with my amazing grandma. She still plays three to four days a week too. | r/golf | post | r/golf | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jR2ZfSWNIT1o0WjZKVmNTVkxDSkREMTVWQTRHenNXTE9hcU5OZWZMMjNqUldUSjlTaGxzTndFZUFaVlJRcWg0eThHM0tLWEUza2ZBUnlldkdsNm1QRnpWTDJDdUxKM2N3NDFtc2tqblp6UUU9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kVWdTSmFGYk5nTjFxM0drM1haWTJ4cDRSaXdYMUlfU3JCd2JQa3kxMDRtLUM3aTl0TUNlMnlUdk5wbElUdGdra1pWbU5wak5Dd0VBVHJIa3QtZjk0a1FPZ2hTNGZlWUpFekhwWUtTNElYclFkekVKZjRIbmxBLS0zTkI5S2lGM0QwajhLZ2sxc1ZManc3SFlUZ3dNUUViZDVoSE1VVFIxNzdxWjlqaWF5SlhFMkgtTm9QWi1vNm9hdE0xaWZmdUFy |
I have been married to my husband for about 5 years now and we’ve been together for over 9 years. We have two young toddlers and I am currently pregnant with number 3.
The other day I came home after taking the kids to the park and he asked me if I wasn’t doing anything in the afternoon if I could plant some seeds in the backyard. I responded with a simple no and he kept asking a few times and then also basically pointed out that I am lazy and never do anything around the house, and that’s when I blew up and said that I wanted a divorce in front of the kids. Again I am pregnant, entering second trimester and I am tired all the time and I feel like he doesn’t understand how consuming it is to take care of young kids while being pregnant.
I also recently lost my job due to the administration so I’m currently on unemployment benefits and we pulled the kids out of daycare so I am now a SAHM for the time being. He claims that I am not proactive about things and tends to focus on negative things that annoy him like the laundry sitting out because I haven’t had time to fold clothes or complaining if I buy take out a few times a week when I am at my wits end… or if I am on social media when I just need a break. I constantly clean and cook throughout the day plus try to be present and engage with the kids. He has the audacity to really think I do nothing all day and that childcare does not equate to his full time job (to him it should be “easy”). Mind you he also posted something and received some comments about how I could have undiagnosed ADHD because I felt tired and fatigued all the time?? Like what? I’m pregnant seriously.. but of course it’s in an AskMen forum.. maybe I’m tired because we don’t have additional childcare support to help us. He also makes 170k and let’s just say he won’t entertain paying for additional childcare support. He is more frugal leaning.
The other thing is that he says he pays for everything but financially nothing has drastically changed as in when I had a job I covered childcare costs and groceries/household items/kids items and he covered the mortgage and utilities. The other real changes that occurred so far are that he may pay more when we are eating out now but I’m still paying for groceries and household/kids supplies with my own money… and now we’re all on his health insurance. Previously we were all on my health insurance plan. I feel like he is also partially frustrated because he wishes he could save more to try and get more rental properties for himself.
He also claims that I’ve always been a “lazy” person even before we were married. I feel like this is just one of those situations where if I don’t meet his standards about how a partner should be I’m going to be just seen in a negative light. He also thinks I threaten divorce to manipulate him because I haven’t followed through in the past when I mention it. I know that it’s not something I should just throw around and we just usually make up but in the back of my head I feel like we will never be on the same page and now it’s just more difficult with kids, especially in this current economy.
Seeking advice on what could be the best path forward? | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jakVWT0tsczg0eUlNUHhRTUt5ZzJFVV9Zdy1DVXlvSnl3M0Z5VGF5b3hqSWZWMFpqUEFvNFhBYnFhNGs3VFNXM1YwREkxMTEydFIzd1ZXa2pDQ0U1WmlkVW9SWC1PNnc0SVl1VG13dmlhX2c9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kQVJocmdkNDhIVVUyWlJadkE3YVBla3hRVWpXS3BfRUl0SlI3M1p3cEd1NDFGLUdjbzduOXlrTUFJWUh5U2tWTFV0ZWg0bHlRWi15MER5dnhBb0trU2lGZUtSNmlHV2JBeUVONElUTUplTjVoMmVTM0xKbXhLMUt5VXJrRUF2aHAySndncWxnTmJKTzNOY29FZUFjUGdyaXN3OVd6emtkUjRxeFVBN3dtMVVjYVdMOXpkWUhDN1JPUjRZU3JuOWFZRDVPM0xSNDlfM2xzTTZiQzh3RnRfUT09 |
Had my husband and I dying of laughter | r/golf | post | r/golf | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jcmZ2TFhEM3NOSjF6eC1acHAxSzRLVU9rSERsRG5IcFlHTENzanBJZHVXTzQ1ME1nUXotbURLS3lHTndsN0pTYk1uSEJjVDgyak1Fd1lmb1VTdGs2LU5rTnplNE1tYUUtcncyblB4S0JmS2s9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kT0t5TklMb3RxcE55Y1JHTEEzMVdyQl9Jb01SU294RkxQSlB2YmVLOU56RFQ5OG1nZ2d1aE0wSzNSUm82UWNXcHlFcFBfdXl5V3oyaHdncXM4SlI2dUNYMU85UXZ5aWRSNWlMa3Z4Vnl6b1lvTW9FbFVmVFpDQmlfa0M2cVZFVXkyUE4xekhMR2FTMlBYbTlkS0pWcm9tVmdGOFNYUnhmQ0VFb3M4NXRDX0UwTEQyblgxdUxEclFrQzJoeEg3T0E4cFdXd2FCZ0c1VEpmMTg1MGlOV05HUT09 |
Together 4 years. We got into a pretty big argument last night. I have told him multiple times we have communication breakdowns but he is convinced that most if not all arguments are caused by my behavior.
What was supposed to be a spat about having the house cleaned escalated into a hurtful argument. He told me to “take a fucking look at the house” and said that I’m the one who’s home and I’m supposed to ask him for help if I need it, but that I “love not asking for help.” I told him I’ve been so depressed and I clearly let the house reflect my mental state, and that I’m on it to get it clean. He said this is an excuse. The reality is I work from home and I’ve been paying all the bills since 12/2022 so he could quit his job, run a business, and now go to college since the business wasn’t successful. So this is constantly a touchy subject, because I’m in theory “always home” and he’s always out—either at his shop or at school. My position was that I shouldn’t have to ask for help. If he sees something—do it. Not to mention it took him a month to fix the broken vacuum and broken dryer, and take the trash out.
We went back and forth until it got to the point that he says I’m inconsiderate and I don’t care about him. That all the sacrifices he’s made to make me happy are slapped in the face by my ungratefulness and lack of love for him. He said the women around me can all see his worth as a man, so why can’t I? I was admittedly pissed and asked are they the ones supporting you, are they the ones uplifting your dreams and nurturing you? He shut down and said that I completely hit a low blow, that I meant it in a financial sense and that regardless of my intentions he never asked anyone but me to support him, so how dare I say that. I did apologize to him for saying this.
He accused me of being toxic and argumentative. Then he said my problem is that I’m too masculine, I never know when to just shut up and take my mistakes to the chin, instead I have to argue. This cut deep. I’ve told him my struggles with femininity and my lack of feeling like a good enough woman. So this just took the cake. I don’t even know how to process what this means. I’m so incredibly sad and I don’t know how to address this. For the longest time I’ve felt like I’ve been forced into a masculine role, constantly worrying about the budget and keeping us from evictions and hunger. And now I’m accused of being masculine? But then he says he doesn’t want a “housewife” and that my worth to him doesn’t stem from cooking and cleaning, even though that’s literally what I do on top of working and paying our bills.
He says I have to take responsibility for my dealings in this argument, which I have. I just can’t shake the feeling that somehow I’m too manly. And I don’t know how to fix this if it’s truly a quality of mine. Like what does this even mean???
TLDR; A spat about cleaning the house resulted in a huge argument, causing my (25F) BF (29M) to say that I’m too masculine and argumentative. I feel like I’ve been pushed into a masculine role and I feel out of touch with femininity/“acting feminine.” How do I work on this quality in me? | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jNzg1MkwtZkctSC1tWEV2YXhudjAzQlhVcjV1YjBmc2hyS3E4MmlGeHNsT1lTczlkb21zbk1TRldvUFEtbk95VmcwaXM5Wl96OHF4ZDlLcWZIMXB1eHc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kYW1kNjZKamZiNlpMN25obmQtcmRtLUl5X0hjejBwSDRhTldfckxYZ2YxYmlOMjYxMHFEa2RWUGtjMklmYXhJQ0l1a055SWdLbUV0SUlRTWZJTDhhOC1MZlZWU0NPOEZrZW9lREJ2cml2S05DZnhra3d0cklKa082UmhoU25HN0x6SElmdHpaYW9KdkZvRHhwQ1dWQ0M0djZfTzJscExZSVZ2aHQ4eVpHYnloa3poMlZxeTJOYnBmS2hlWXppOXdYUHlXR09DLXRPMm95aUx1Vjh2eE4yZz09 |
I have been married for 3 years. I met my husband through a common family friend and they introduced us with the intention of arrange marriage . My husband was new to the country as he was working in India and then USA before and relocated to London due to his work . I have been living and working in London from 18 years and a British citizen (Hindu by religion and my husband is from same religion ). His visa is sponsored by his company and he will get his PR in another year or two . We started dating during lockdown and post one year of dating, we agreed to get married . He moved into my house as he was renting before and the whole idea was for him to move into mine so that he can save enough deposit to buy a house for our future. My house has 3 bedroom and my parents come down every summer for 3-4 months as it’s their summer house too. I had made this clear to my husband before getting married . I earn a good salary and my husband earns well too, his salary is more than me ($150-$200k a year ) so I thought he will be able to buy something soon but that never happened as he made no effort.
The first two years of marriage we had lots of argument on silly things, he would always hide things from me , he would never speak to his family in front of me ( he would go upstairs or out of the house while speaking to his mom or uncle ) , he would tell all tiny details about our life to his mom . His mom lives in a different country and she would call us daily asking about all our routine and all and quite often we would argue as his mom would lie and twist facts . I also found out that when he visit his mom , they would share and sleep on the same bed. He has also accidentally called me mom once in his sleep !
Before marriage we had only kiss and made out a bit , as I was quite old fashion I had told him I want to wait till we get married and he was okay with it as he had never been in a serious relationship before either. Once we got married, we never got intimate, i thought he is still shy or may be he doesn’t know how to do it ?! I questioned him in the first year of marriage as to why we are not intimate , he use to only kissed my cheek and hug me that’s all . He never gave me a proper answer and kept blaming on my family stating we never had our own space ! I pointed out that my family comes down only for 3-4 months and no one was stopping him to move out and rent if space is an issues . We have been on too many holidays together but he never made any effort of being intimate with me. He use to even argue with my parents with loads of silly things . My parents always treated him as their son so they would ignore his arguments thinking he is being childish. Also , During those three years , I only asked him to contribute to some living expenses which was kept bare minimum as I wanted him to save more . I would pay for my own mortgage and all other major expenses. We never had a joint account , I asked him multiple times but he never bothered opening one . He would never tell me about his savings. I would pay for my own holidays trips , flights , shopping etc . He never had to pay for anything towards me and neither did he offered . When my parents were down, I would pay 95% of times all restaurants meals as a family , all grocery shopping etc as I didnt wanted to burden him . My parents use to cook for us , do our laundry , maintain the house for us .
I have been asking for marriage counselling from last 2 years due to our conflicts but he never made an effort , I kept asking why we are not intimate and suggested separation as this is not the life I want. He kept saying he wants to work toward our marriage but I never saw any effort or change in his behaviour. I stayed with him as I believe things might improve and also no one in my family has ever separated before ! I didn’t speak to any of my friends regarding this as all my friends thinks that I am quite a catch and my husband is lucky to have me. So I am really not sure what was going wrong in our relationship .
Recently, a day before my birthday, I found out ( I checked his phone )he was dating another girl ( using telegram app) , she is from his home country in India and he was her sugar dad ! He even met her in person ! I confronted him and he lied so I asked him to leave my house and since then from last one month, all he has done is send one text message once a week asking for forgiveness and for a chance to meet in person (no phone calls). He said he liked the attention from another girl so he strayed and that was wrong and that he will change . I spoke to the girl and they have not been intimate . I believe he is hiding some sexual issue from me . I don’t believe he will ever change considering how he made no effort towards our relationship from last 3 years . Am I insane for not giving him another chance at save our marriage ? | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jcm04eHVycEVfWDhLQ29yUzBSMWxpWFgxZ3lwbEx0Zk1MWVpjZmpsT3lkaDNSU1FVdHVJbXZaMlQ5QjdvamJ6bk52dnE1NzRvVk14VmhaN29zamlnZmhzbFp1S0FYTUZYTTlKQ0w2SklOUmM9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kcWhzM2JURmtON184bm1PUGhxb25pVTdJY2ZEWElydHU3blU2VXBDN3FwOTc2VVM0X3NyWm1uUHBndTN6R0lPUDAxZHRlQk1IcUVva3JQaTJKVVQyRlNrYWFmV1ZMNkRQVHhyZnJwMC1JUUp5ZmVTNnJSUXJrZy0yVHNtbGVNV1R5S1NiLWptSDZyNEdQZWJ2aFhqOE5DN0tzUVN3Z3hWdXdVZkVMZjJiMUdMSDNNdUIyRUxua3BjWjFQb2gtdlAyN2xDSHREMllETU9iMDNCLWZxTmJ5dz09 |
TW: Talks of suicide
I was at a pretty low point a couple years ago and I was started doing what I guess would be called “retail therapy” to cope. My wife had no idea but I had bought:
⁃ Ping G430 driver
⁃ Ping G430 3 hybrid
⁃ Callaway paradym 3 wood
⁃ Fitted Taylormade P790s
⁃ Taylormade raw full face 52, 56, and 60 degrees
⁃ New grips for all those above
⁃ Precision pro nx10 range finder
⁃ 4 dozen Callaway triple tracks and 4 dozen Taylormade TP5 golf balls
I played with them all summer and absolutely loved them but at the end of the summer I decided to take my own life and decided to sell them on Facebook marketplace/2nd swing so I could leave my wife with as much money as I could.
If it’s not obvious I decided not to go through with my plan and I’m very glad I didn’t. I have an amazing wife and daughter, a much better job, and have been doing a better job of taking care of myself. My parents thankfully still had my previous set at their house so I’m not without clubs but damn do I miss those new clubs.
| r/golf | post | r/golf | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jdnIzd3FvZXZidW1sZGRVbmN0cGVIVkI3ZmtBRlVaQkV4WFlkZG03ekNqcjhCMGctY1M2XzlLLW01MHhoVTZCMTEya2ZiZE1vZlZTY1JhWnZkXzhoTVE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kN2xBanVVemljT2M4Q3R5NF96RVRwNlRoRDZYc1FzcjVRT05YeldXai1aa1JuY2Z1cVJKS0tUNV9XU0ViNExGVVl5X2dveXhzMDdnM0x1Z0gwM083LXAwVE1TQndaTVctNUhNZVEtc0U1YVZQeG01VnVwUk9McGZPNFR1OG9HVVdUc083VVNRWnJxWEZtSlJSVGMweXdYVkhjcWc5XzRZR09hWDlkcTdpNUc0PQ== |
Hi! I love Minecraft. I make my characters based off Minecraft mobs. Now I want you to give me any ANY of your Roblox characters. And I'll assign them a Minecraft mob that they remind me of.I WILL be using some from mods I play. I'll give you a photo of those mobs of course. Here are the boys (and bees) in order in case you're curious: Jasper, Addie (they/them which Is why I said bees),Gio, Maverick
Last slide is Minecraft tree I've still yet to finish trimming. | r/robloxavatars | post | r/RobloxAvatars | 2025-04-27 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jMVZTeXJISlR5SnExam5Zd205eUhTd3BwNXIzbTdxM1Y4RUZMaUdWRVI1RG5YRHd2VTF0Mi1TOU1hWDZfblVxUy1QT1NrRThOWWEzcUQ1eFNQVXBIWGc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kU01tdDl6WXZ4RWVUT2dUTjNTeVlaYzFBUUlXaFRvMDd6TDE2QWx3cVZMYW1uQ21UcWd2WUJVWmZoSDF5ODV1SnZyYzVGU043SE5xU2NFb3hYcVVGYlEyYmE0QnRxRmF5M1ZTOThRUl81WkdYbHZKb3lLSVJQRDd1R1NsMnRoeDZQWTVxXzA4b3VOeXZSaGQxSHFhRHNlcWE2ZmgwUGpXRzBjamJhZWV0dWNjUDk2Wk4tQkJQekJ6N1kwSExpbHZ1b2p2X2NwaEZMWVBBOG50TmJQYmNBQT09 |
The perfect putt won’t always go in the hole
The greens are imperfect, enjoy the game :)
Have a great Sunday everyone | r/golf | post | r/golf | 2025-04-28 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jcXJuU1hhc18tQ0I4QjJYZGk4Vm9MdjQ4ZG9sVklOaU9PLU9ROGlvbVBqVkVGMnN1cDBKNnBTM3Z3N0lzbE1qc0NpUGFVQUpqc3lvaUxrbGxwRVU5bGc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kb1IzUFozZm9qd24zaWwtVEc4dlljeTZobUtMZWVkR0xVVk5mX3lFZkEtd2JjNTc5UlJUT0N0eXJLeGNYdS1hMjJQUnR2c1k5amU3czdDbzkyX0VqNXBKNXVCMEFXU3cybV9yUlZjTl90WjBhUEZNSGVIdXltUVo3WURiN0NBSmc1bThhTE5aRHF1VnBDaXVqeWFXczhMdzVnOUxIRDJRLUJuVnNVVTN0XzdDSDJod1pUR3Fua2RicklaLVd5TEU2 |
Earlier this year I decided to go solo to Bandon on a whim after reading about people getting single tee times pretty easily... Booked a couple days in Portland for brewery hopping, then an air bnb in Coos Bay. 21 days from when I planned to be there I called and was easily able to make tee times. I played 90 holes of the most amazing golf over 3 days... Just walking around grinning from ear to ear that entire time.
Day 1 was Pacific Dunes in the morning then Sheep Ranch in the afternoon. Pac Dunes was awesome. Walking up the hill to the third tee and hearing the ocean get louder as you go up then the view as you get to the top of the hill is something I'll never forget - perfect intro to the property.
Sheep Ranch was my favorite course out there. It was brutal when we played, constant 20mph wind... 40 mph gusts. Brutal, but so much fun. So much variety of shots you can and need to play. One of the guys in the group came 2 inches from sinking a 190 ft shot with his putter. Felt like I had been in a fight after, but just an awesome experience.
Day 2 was Bandon Dunes and Old MacDonald... Bandon is a great course, but #4 on my list. I was still kinda wrecked from 36 the day before. Still a lot of fun though.
I got a second wind for old Mac. The concept is really cool - a tribute to CB MacDonald and his template holes. I played this one totally solo - there were only a few groups on the course playing replay rounds. It was a real meditative experience playing playing classic course architecture with the only sounds being the breeze and the ocean roaring off in the distance. If I could I would just live at the turn shed - isolated at the top of a cliff overlooking the Pacific.
My last round was on the par 3 Shorty's on the third day before driving back to Portland. There was only an 8-some in front of me (and who quickly waved me through the second I caught up to them). Holes ranged from 50-150 yards with lots of variety and fun greens. Prefect finish for my trip, or beginning of it as many other people do.
The golf in total ran me a little under $1k in greens fees... Totally worth it for the experience. Getting in and out of the resort from town was very easy. Bars and restaurants on property were great. The staff and everyone there were fantastic.
If you are a golfer, you will love this place. I can't recommend it enough for a solo trip. Everyone there was awesome. The staff are great and knowledgeable. The caddies all know their shit and are awesome to be around. Everyone else playing are having the times of their lives too and dgaf that a rando is paired with them. I can't wait to get back. | r/golf | post | r/golf | 2025-04-28 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jM2xWb0FHWFNhMWhzUEVuVFh6SzV4bVA4YlVPcEFxZDIyM3V4ZFFyYms3T2U5NVV4ZjR6WTZ5YmJXZUx3UmxPMWRxOUNjSGgwVk93eEpnZGN2N0hKbVE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kNEdHMkEybFExUGRKNFFVbXlSV0ppMkJ2c05DU3YxR0Y5VXFOcTRYdnRPTEswM294VGg2bTNrWmE0dFhaeW9nRWZYMFlnVnh2cU9kZGw2ZzBNLXN3QldOQ20tcU9rQkhDTzlRaEthTnhQcEd3V250a1J3YkxDZnl6SjlMZF92WFBOUGVTVkU4aFF3SEdPM2ZqdGF0emVRNkUzdC15bGJ6UkxXbVNFN3k5anZNPQ== |
Kind of a continuation of my last post here. | r/robloxavatars | post | r/RobloxAvatars | 2025-04-28 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jc0doQno5VV9qbTE5ZTBXejBFeHV2emd6UGRyTHpnYjlkZ3pDNzVRWVNKU3Q1WGVXVk1RTkZra1hqN2w2dnFZR3hKcFdoNkZJZmVHV3Itb1p6QlgxWHc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kV2k4ZDY0MEhZYW9odnkydl8tSFN4NGlsNUtrTGtvXzc3VXlZTmpGd0Q3WHhyZENTMjFKN1FrcXk4VHpON1NWM25pWk5LV1RnMXpPX0lOQ1ctV0FiSWFSU1dqSm0yNTlGcmloZ1BtUXlxV2VBdE1PY1pvT2dKT1dEaG54VlA5T2tQbHY5Rk9sWWRGZmhYcDJoeWtTdTNoSTR2bjFqcl9OVGd5c0xQOXhPNkFHVnpXNGNRS2Ftbkd5YXFZRUpLQVpu |
Some thoughts.
There were three attempts at Chelsea’s life and she died on the third one.
Didn’t get clarity on the 3 friends equation. First their story was about feeling better about what they lacked in their own lives but then the story line got muddled.
Didn’t understand Greg’s kink of watching other guys have sex with the girlfriend? Wasn’t he gay in seas2. He gave off killer vibes.
I am happy for Belinda. She didn’t have to commit.
Also, Saxon…was he a really a narcissist? Did he like Chelsea? | r/thewhitelotushbo | post | r/TheWhiteLotusHBO | 2025-04-28 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jdnpjX3NEVDBHYm40YTBwOVlLVDgyUDlYWjZPYW5xTHNSdzNxM2R6UXJ6Qmhtdk5XSHpiZDExRmFMTUp0dG9aWC1iUDMxamxFRjY1ZmZxaU81MHZCV2c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kUmtlbXdjTVd4RkVveEwzY1ZxMEY5eEp0R0I4RnBiTFFmZEF0dWljcDVzOS1GQWwtX3BjZ1ZZZms3VFJvMTh5d1dESENDOW9ycW9YUDJHc2Z3SU95UkNieTFCS3hqVDZMSXJlaUdDbEhnX1BtVHA1WFlFRHpmTnRoYi13WE5ZM3BwZ1dKSlJOd0kzX2VnRnQ5QUxEWTlNZUVsNmtLUEVxbmFPdHJDNTh3dVZsZXhKZ0NhWVJoak0tREpxTXFsc3dp |
1. Squidward from Spongebob Squarepants.
2. Wallace from Wallace and Gromit. | r/topcharactertropes | post | r/TopCharacterTropes | 2025-04-28 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jOXdNWlAwbXdNajZqOE82bUFmN1U5S2dVeDhpMFZJejVWWF90UlFJYkt3QWUwWDRDcnViTERfZVlzaHNBTU50d3Jxa0ljNVltRE5MdzJrOUpPUlE4dFh3Y1ZmSUIwWVpRbC1wbEduczNWV1U9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kWmJkZGpyQjNEX3FxTm5GYWpyc3Z2MzZxV2NhcTM0Z09aOHNieDhLUlkwTm9wR29uMk00Znl0R1U3TDlMMFlVVjRIei1FejRwcHhnQXJ1NkZCNlRaZHdqZzMtN1Z6UXZvR2RkRDE5UEZwTFRsNGh0azAtQjQzb2xHbWZpSlh6WkJUWWJjWEprYkJseTFWTHBmR3h3eHhvU0RUZVg0Z0t3UkxZUDVoM05LQlhkZ3Z5T1lCcG5scDRaTFZJaEVOS0kya2NqWVVXenZYLXRUM2dNaFhhVGJuQT09 |
Assume it’s two average size women getting hot and heavy in the backseat of a medium size sedan. Also assume you don’t have the option to have sex any other place due to children at home. Tips are appreciated! | r/askredditafterdark | post | r/AskRedditAfterDark | 2025-04-28 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jcXVnN19kLVhHQ3BaZHdqM0ROTlZjaWNCRTBTVmZZSjcwdWtBYjNmdXFNV3ZodE51LUVDY2M2OWJsTXhPbVNtV3Mydkx1d3N4NUtFdnUtcWRNaGF4Y0E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kbVhhS2kwVXNydUs1aDV1cjk4ekY1dHk4eGZxbm1FQUZwd19qM2RQQTZzY00xZWgyNmdwRFc5aW9rMXZUcUc1X2N4YUVCTm9IODBqV1l1dnRHb2VUM1FtczA0TXJFRk9XZnRzOFhRRWVZV0Z6cjRsaU9ETU9ya0pmbnF5b1BMOHlLc3NuVnZLdHNIdURkdkpkTDR3OVFsR1VQQkRGVmNwX0NSb2hkMnRoa3ltdjJubVZVNnBpaEh0R2F1Tnl4OE1FU0hTUEpKaVdZd2d6c3ZuV2d2WWl3QT09 |
My boyfriend and I were grocery shopping and at the checkout when this lady walked up to him and said his name. He immediately looked flustered and kind of brushed her off. After that happened, I asked him who she was. He got super defensive and rude about it. Mind you, when she walked out of the store while we were sitting in the parking lot, he LITERALLY hid his face. I was driving home, and he was screaming at me, calling me an insecure bitch, saying, “I’m done with you, go ahead and be single.” He called me a piece of shit and a bunch of other names while I sat there, just taking it because I didn’t want the argument to escalate further. I told him I wasn’t mad, just suspicious of the whole situation. I ignored him the whole ride because, quite frankly, I was scared of escalating the situation while driving. That was getting him more worked up and he seemed so aggresive and angry. I told him to get out of my car, drove to my place, and now I’m blocked on everything. Am I just being insecure? | r/amioverreacting | post | r/AmIOverreacting | 2025-04-28 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jRThnWHNxbEZycnhNbHk1dXI0V2c4Sjh5NkxrR1YwUUFYN1NkU2Fobk9kRDhBNVFJRFFrVmF3UEgzTFJ4eGJzM1REUzQxYjZLTnpDNlliNnhJZnVxSUVFWGR0eXV6UXd2SXVtZ29aRGxTWlU9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kdzJ0ZjJrTWRqNEIyQS1DaF9DQnVuZkFlTW9OTHU2ellIX2tYZm1qbzQwVnI1dElSZzU4dDFKMG8xTmVsTlF6RWRBM1FmUmg5ODFWcloyUmxLeHVmR2lWcUIzbGd6b3RmQ3VrMERobFB4X19tVHhkVDZfaUdyZXZQaDktdG1pd052Y2JaWllKN1NoQ1ZHWVphUUZGS0RlZ0N1Sm5KVmE2Q1FjaUp2ckowbFJ5R1RWY3VJSkphS19pQnNpUDVwajZR |
So I go karting a lot, and today I was going for a few quick practice sessions. I was placed in the same group as some nine year olds birthday party. He was very cocky, saying he was going to be the next max verstappen or the next Lewis Hamilton. He was wearing a full Red Bull racesuit, and bragged about holding the lap record at this place. I knew he didn’t have the record because I had set the lap record here a few months ago. So this goes on for 20 minutes while we wait for the track to clear up. When the race is over, he starts to cry because i was two seconds a lap faster than him. His parents start to get mad at me for no reason. I hadn’t made contact with him on track, I hadn’t spoken a single word to him, I hadn’t done anything wrong. I think they were just mad because I had beaten him on his birthday, but I’m not sure. Did I do anything wrong, or did he just have too fragile an ego? | r/teenagersbutbetter | post | r/TeenagersButBetter | 2025-04-28 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jNTRYOW5wZEpxWm1zb1dLalR4SUZxZy1fNFkxZWdXZkM1OWM0RFMzei1KdEFDcVZ6RUxsdmRQalFiTjZFVFEyZE05M2UzNmJaNmI3dkg4V1hWemV3VVE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kaHhUT3lVUXRiQnQ5SkJEZEctZnFoSkFrTGlUdkVGV1dnQTBXeVZBdzFzSmpCYnNDSTlDeXFmQURxUUtydFhvZTZRcTNDVzVwem5Lakl0T182OWRxTFpYc0NjVW9nVDR0dFBfMWg4UzFuWTI1eWtuR0dESXhsUC1vcTc5czR6Q0VmLXRtb3U4Tll6NndjVWlCQ3dQMGdBbDZmZDFnX0Nmc2t5Z3czXzUxRFQyRkJPVFJNMFA0ME5INzM3R1RoZXBjQ29kbkl0dVZEZ2dYT0cwTlV4b05uUT09 |
Mention your gender if you feel comfortable doing so 👍🏻 | r/askredditafterdark | post | r/AskRedditAfterDark | 2025-04-28 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jVDlYNm5UQm40QThjeXo3MzFJRjBDZFBQbVBjcWFibl85WnVFWEFibk4tUFJ1cHd1THduaDVlRmpiNi1zS0tFbWRYcDlEYXBxZW5oS2UtMEpDbkplUFUxbExNTWh4WVZnbTdpekI0M1g4a009 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5ka0RWWFhXc2pxcjdLcVhLeUI3QkVsa1JUQzFzaHNZWG1rcV9LUElUY3ZoSzRURlU0ZlQ4eURiZVZETjh4OHhobHhkb0dwMk1jcURHVFZOZk8yTzhIVlA5SW4wT00zYkFBLTNXNFd2a0piTTNxUDRhN0txbG9LY2VDalprX3hmdG9fUkQzbV8telpvX3RoZHRrUHdFbDVvVjB5UlZvcDF4VVNuZ0NubFdRUFhvRjY4dkVFS3lnQVZRMVpIUFM5ZjlhT2NJcGZ6MDBVcDczNWdCY0o3UTA5UT09 |
I was pleasantly surprised to see these two acting together in The Perfect Couple. Separated by a season in TWL but they’re both standouts. | r/thewhitelotushbo | post | r/TheWhiteLotusHBO | 2025-04-28 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jTDhuNE5Nc0ZOZUtPNlRacmVOMEd1M3ZfdE9WSmlzTmpITDVEeFpYRXFZaERpY0RXb1hsaGllYnBtMTJyS1U1SmlKYVJtWW5WdkJ3SEYwRm01QTZrSHZLWFNKRjc4QVhrbUJvengxMXlhaHM9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kdjlhVTFNcHZvVlg4UnVkOFUtMk9acUNiYlZiTUxrX1lfSmFkUThjN0ZjcjZRU1FfUHFfOXIzcTBZcUJNc1lveF94bS11QnFDdGI0S3ZMdUFPbXlhQ18wcjZQRE5BT2ZjRTJVQk1ITnk1bEFVUmJuOHkxNHgxdk1rbkVCOGM2blJMbTZGVTczTFJVRThZNXljc05WMzVaZUhndkVGR0dVZWRLbG0wYXBMUlFnSDBVdG93dUx1WjZEanlkOExrNEtvYzhRcC1BTUdlWFJjYnZXeUZRR1ZTZz09 |
Indian cricket authorities have clamped down on The Grade Cricketer podcast, compelling the show’s creators to take down every single video they have produced for this year’s Indian Premier League.
The Grade Cricketer’s daily show about the IPL, which has been called “The Big IPL Breakfast”, may now have to be renamed. The show’s hosts Sam Perry and Ian Higgins are due to travel to India for a series of live shows to coincide with the IPL later this week.
The producers of the show, which is watched by an audience of more than a million people in Australia and around the world, received a legal letter from the BCCI and the IPL over the weekend, demanding the removal of photos and logos from hundreds of videos on YouTube, Facebook, Instagram and X.
According to a source with knowledge of confidential discussions, the legal notice was related to claims that Grade Cricketer IPL videos featured still photography shots from the tournament that the BCCI considered to be used for “commercial” rather than “editorial” purposes.
The Grade Cricketer videos have featured sponsorship placement for BigBasket, an Indian online grocery platform. Cricket boards have been known to make periodic crackdowns on the use of video footage on digital platforms, but the BCCI’s pursuit of still images is a new development.
Rather than risk a suspension or ban from any of their digital platforms, the show’s producers instead elected to take down all their video content from the IPL so far. Titles and graphics for this morning’s daily episode were devoid of any mention of the IPL or official team names.
“You may have noticed that every single video from our coverage of this year’s cricket tournament has been removed from YouTube, YouTube Shorts, Facebook, Instagram and X,” Perry told podcast listeners on Monday. “This is something we’ve done ourselves, it hasn’t been done to us, we have removed these videos.
“On Saturday evening Australian time we received a very polite legal letter about elements of our content from the cricket tournament we speak to you about pertaining specifically to this season. As a result we decided to take those videos down.
“It’s very important to note we’re going to continue to post coverage of the tournament, at the same cadence that we do. In fact, there’s going to be more in the next couple of weeks because we’re going to India. But our approach to content has been consistent for five years, we just now have a deeper understanding of what is and isn’t passing muster.”
Perry declined to add to what he had said on the podcast. The BCCI was contacted for comment.
All images taken of IPL matches and distributed globally by Getty and other companies carry a warning that they may only be used for “editorial use – strictly no commercial use”.
The Grade Cricketer has featured a host of interviews with prominent cricket figures over the years, including Australian captain Pat Cummins, Glenn Maxwell, and also hosted Australian Prime Minister Anthony Albanese at the outset of the Federal election campaign.
The show’s creators have invested significantly in growing their Indian audience in recent years, something Perry explained to this masthead in 2023.
“The actual take-off for us was after [Indian wicketkeeper-batter] Rishabh [Pant] smashed [Josh] Hazlewood down the ground at the Gabba [in 2021] and we had a fairly nascent YouTube channel at the time,” Perry said. “We recorded a reaction to that moment, which to date is our most viewed video. It starts with ‘Higgos’ swearing wildly, and continues on to us announcing the commencement of the Asian century, and Indians love that.
“When that video happened, we made a really conscious decision to engage as best we could with India, which involved us flying interstate to meet people who could help us learn about the Indian market and to learn about the way of doing things commercially in India.” | r/cricket | post | r/Cricket | 2025-04-28 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jbDVtZGU4S0w2M1V0WWo4UlNReUZualdjeTkwRGttTGNSNzhFTkt1VFlPdl9JeFZOX1RycDliRFJ0VFpUdG9pQ241NTR3QWFlLVVvR3VpRDBNckY5QXc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kcmd6QjZYV2lCU1VDZVRxcjhKUkFtY1VzT0hwelpjcVcxZThBWFpYNkZ6dDNPNHlmeC1HM0dHb0dTdExRNW9zVTdLQjR3cjQzS2dCTlhrb3RpeVVrZTl6RkdfNm1rT3FLcW50V1hvR2RoVHlZVDF0clBSWFg1cmY2U19sc2pseFFCTndnY3Z0SmVjd0JsbEs1YUxSUWhtZjdYWmtuZHYxWGxSNUJaQVFLUHlaRmJJNjNueDNuYUZZV0FIY19vMERadnc1UXktenI5TDh1dEJLYm84UmR6QT09 |
Bruh i'm so tired of people calling me that i smell bad ONLINE. Wtf is wrong with y'all 😭🙏 | r/teenagersbutbetter | post | r/TeenagersButBetter | 2025-04-28 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jbng5clg2ekxuYlNLUzdQakhvU3dmMjNhSXhwRVhtb2FTa1hXYXNmV25aU1k5OUhtN1p1WUxZa3RfYlhTdnp0Qi1MNU1hOGwtck51cDZfU3NuOGtIcWFncGs5UDY1VmhaVFV0blJQOGtDSVk9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kUTBOZHZGMC1WWV9fV0lUMTBOMXl5NGJoWlYyTmZDalRsWW1mcWJyWVRJUlRnYnRObW5rQWVCaW9ZcWtMejBDVUhTTTUyUUFnUkZMeE5RUV9zdnQwTWxKc19vMU1la0hob3Q0ZC1pdmV4Y05KdThtNTNYOWJTRGNUQV9nYV80T1Y4cGJ1ZnF3Zy1PQ1d3cndWYmRpRE1nZ19XN0d0U05yVlBxNWdJTkVZb3lsUkE1a2ZJTmhrTFhoZHpFRVdweDNzU1lEOGNTbVZuMkh2LUZUVHE5Y0tHUT09 |
I read in one of the interviews Sam Nivola did that he didn't think Lochlan really actually changes at all. And is still lost as ever. Which really isn't consistent with the idea that he has a major spiritual awakening. I think he whats to, but really doesn't. I think he's still the same insecure people pleaser he always was. In his vision, Lochlan doesnt actually see God, he sees the 4 Buddhas. He tries to escape the merky water and reach the surface but fails. I think that's supposed to be a metaphor for the idea of how the lotus flower grows in the mud, travels through the muddy water of suffering and reaches the surface symbolizing spiritual enlightenment. Which would make sense considering could have learned about that idea when spent the night at the Buddhist temple trying to win over Piper's approval. I think the idea that in his vision he dies in the merky water represents that he is still trapped in his suffering, caused by his insecurity and trying to please everyone else, which ultimately results in him being rejected by both Saxon and Piper. It stops him from finding his own identity. The only person who he experiences any sense of approval from is his Father, when he says that he could live without any money. So when we he wakes up, he compulsively describes his vision in a way that he thinks would make his father proud, stating he thinks he saw God when he didn't. Making his final act in the show an act of people pleasing.
I think Timothy viewed Locklan nearly dying as him being spared by God. Earlier on he asked God what he should do, only to go through a drug fueled identity crisis where he nearly murders his entire family. But then the one person he didn't want to kill makes a protein drink out of the poisoned blender only to survive and then say he saw God. I think Timothy views that as a sign from God that he is on the right path. It might explain why he didn't take Locklan to the hospital either, thinking he is safe now (and he probably gaslight Lochlan into thinking he okay too, considering his pattern of lying to his family so far)
Anyways that just my theory what do you guys think? | r/thewhitelotushbo | post | r/TheWhiteLotusHBO | 2025-04-28 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jdy1ZNUktOXJzX3hGYmczdDNkNm1Pa0R0MWIxZTJCNWlqM0paVnRUaFlhRDYwWjZtU0FiVzZxM2xfbm5xVU5NWUVTMzZoVTFKaWtCQ2NPSUxtQ1JhRXcyanRuQU43ejBYa1lkSVB1X1YxUUU9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kNWl6b2JPLV9vRUhTbW5sdW5zb25UVm1WYVNsSjJ0RDhkS1phazZrNnhXZVJNVlZ6Z2xYZDFiTEdLMUhOQ3dXeXJPX0JzQ1AtUTBZeTE1ZGZoTmI1RWdxM0g4dzdKNlhySUdRMUxJZWcwMXZNdV81Mjg3TlhmZDVPQlFIUExzMV8tSlk4dlUwcWtMeElJTzhhMG1UeHM3WnRRN1lab1Z2RkdpTEpxMmU2VV9KeGpGdjVENDlpWU9pX25rdDBfaGdaN0w5QnZ6V1lFUFk3bWtqOXJPV0ZnUT09 |
I feel sick to my stomach and don’t know how to navigate this situation. Been dating for 4 years, we have a great sex life and have lots of fun together and always get along! I don’t know if I can look at him the same ever again or feel comfortable in sex with him. He is denying he said anything but my name but I clearly heard another woman’s name. If he would admit what he said it would be easier for us to have an adult conversation so I can move on, but he’s denying it. So, here I am looking like the crazy lady, who misheard and making something out of nothing. I truly know he said a name that isn’t anywhere near mine. He treats me well and we get along great. How do I get him to admit he said it so I can take the right steps to move on. If he doesn’t come clean I don’t think I can ever trust him | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-28 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jZVppZUtyRDBVWkZ4ajk4R0d2ZlU3aDBETGlMYVpDSlRfckJCUWpaUERlbGw2LXpzTW5TUWQzcmdsUVNzVF9Ca1hUM2JaMHA0UnZVMmpUMVd1MGlWcnc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kNnVrX041ZGdGYWFzMFZyRE1lNVQydXlZRko1c3p0aUZGaFhNM1VPRVFRRE5RNTJTVEF4RFlyZDc3bG5yTWVhNlN6RkV1MWMyUG5oeldEZjA1MU80MkpZR3JCS3E4cHBReEUtckxrcFpha0pmV0V5Q0hVWm9uZGlSSGVoa3c4SmJLUEVURmEwWTZpMUludGFUOFFtQzEtdGtFNTNLUUp3aGZidEgzRUtZYk5EZVJreDl2cGVaWHZIX3VBQmFxSUt1SWI0MkNIb2p1N0NUc2ZSNWY1bzRUQT09 |
After his discussion with Lochlan where Lochlan says he would be okay with not having money, Timothy and Lochlan both join the monastery while the rest of the family departs without them and without money. | r/thewhitelotushbo | post | r/TheWhiteLotusHBO | 2025-04-28 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jWk1rYkQzMTRCNURMckFocW1MNnJHUXBrMzQyT3N5MmNKb2JkTmc1alRrbmpRcmRwX3F3X2Uxc3QxQzJkN0kyUXl0cTAwQjRyZGtkT29VQlpUZ3plRmxpUnBCTkliQjZXN3c5UTNFMmFRTlE9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kNkxJcjZJaDBud3Iwd21PbC1hV3Bvb3NydU5mZWxCSXhRQnFKMkR2V3Fvc1BsNkRwZ0VjZE8yWHdBM3p4T0NJTnd0eWFtamNKdDlvOGRsZ0dDYkFnVUMtSHlLbERyVld1R0NTSnN0a2hnaWZQZmg5YWhwMWd0aDBPNnlCa2NldmlPbjNFRVgwZGM3YlpLTUhvYTFoOWh6MWc2UjF6NDFFTXNVVGhJR0paQWlHcFNKTlpfWGNQQW5Gc2YxRFRHWFNlY3ZhTnJYNlYwcmZnX2ZIWkpDdlhLdz09 |
Hi everyone,
I’m in a bit of a complicated situation and would appreciate some outside perspective.
This summer, I’ve planned an 8-day sailing trip with my four brothers, my roommate, my stepdad, and my uncle — so it’s an all-guys trip. We’ll be on a 40ft sailboat, which is pretty small for that many people, but since it’s just guys, we don’t mind being a bit cramped.
Last year, we did a similar trip — a 5-day last-minute getaway abroad. I told my girlfriend a few hours after we decided to go, which ended up causing a huge fight. She was extremely upset that I didn’t involve her in the planning or give her a heads-up. She also said it was the only week she was free to travel with me (despite having a 3-month uni break). She asked me to cancel, threatened to break up with me if I went, and only agreed after I promised I’d tell her in advance if a similar trip ever came up again.
This year, I made an effort to plan ahead. I asked her early on when she’d be free so I could request PTO accordingly. At first, she said she wouldn’t know until just a few days in advance, which I found hard to believe. Eventually, she told me she’d have a week off two weeks later and that it would be her only chance for a holiday before starting an apprenticeship. I managed to get time off at short notice and booked us an 8-day holiday (not abroad due to last-minute costs). I thought it went well — I paid for everything, we did some nice things — but afterward she told me it was the worst holiday she’d ever had.
A few weeks later (around February), we were at a family dinner when my brother brought up the sailing trip, and everyone started planning it more seriously for August. My girlfriend got really upset afterward, saying I broke my promise to tell her as soon as I knew about a future trip. In fairness, we had talked about doing this trip for years, but we had never set a date until that night. I apologized and offered for her to come along.
She initially said she’d like to join, but I was honest about the conditions: the boat is small, we’ll be sleeping in tight quarters, and there’s a 3-day stretch with no sight of land. She’s scared of large bodies of water, boats, and cliffs, and she needs her own space to feel comfortable. After thinking it over, she said she didn’t want to come. I felt a little guilty, but also relieved — it honestly seemed like it would be better and easier if it remained a guys-only trip.
Fast forward to last weekend: my stepdad suggested a list of possible dates, and we picked one that worked for everyone. After dinner, my girlfriend found out and was upset again — this time because I didn’t tell everyone she’d decided to come. I reminded her she had said she wasn’t coming. I told her we could plan a different holiday together, but that maybe this particular trip wasn’t the best fit for her, considering everything.
The next day, she told me that since I didn’t tell her the final dates (which we had only just confirmed), if I still go, we’re done.
So now I’m torn. I feel like I’ve tried to balance her feelings and make room for a trip with her as well. But I also want to enjoy some time with my family and friends doing something we’ve planned for a long time.
What would you do if you were in my shoes?
TL;DR: I (26M) planned an 8-day sailing trip with my brothers and male relatives. My girlfriend (23F) is upset because I didn’t tell her early enough and says if I go, we’re done. I offered for her to come, but she originally said no due to fears and discomfort. Now she wants to go and is angry I didn’t include her. Not sure if I’m being unfair or if this is a bigger issue in our relationship.
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I don’t even know where to start.
This feels less like a relationship issue and more like the tragic opening montage of a very sad indie movie.
I (29M) have been dating my girlfriend (27F) for almost three years. She’s beautiful, smart, funny — basically everything you’d want. Meanwhile, I look like a before photo in a gym ad.
Lately, things have been… different.
Colder.
Like I’m a piece of furniture she used to love but now walks around without noticing.
The main thing?
Her “guy best friend” (we’ll call him Brad, because of course his name is Brad) has been around a lot more lately.
• They text all the time. I used to get “good morning” texts. Now Brad does.
• She laughs at his jokes like he’s the second coming of George Carlin. I tell a joke and get a polite nod, like I’m the cashier at CVS asking if she wants a receipt.
• Last week she called him to “fix her sink”. I literally own a toolbox. I just didn’t know she needed help — or maybe she knew I’d mess it up somehow.
I even suggested we all hang out together. She said, “That would be weird.”
Weird. Like I’m a stray cat trying to force my way into a family photo. | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-28 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jYlBYeGdlQW9HMW1GR0U2c295TnBVYnZfZFBtUlVVUkhtY2tiU3B6cFBQa19ucW5iTktqMHd2bmxsamgzaTBjV3BHU2YxNjJsa0FsUng4OTNTdGR3LWc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kN0kzbjJBakpmQ0lwVW9scU1CWXNHbnV5TzJlX2VGRUpHODJoU0JrZTJRYkhNNl9iQUxTR2t3eXctQ01IWXdFZmQ0YW52T2FMMW9DdXFnUWVZTThfaENsOXkxV0JBRjFlMV9aa3ZvMWE4S3piRnBLYWEzV0ZGdnN2SDRtNnpxamYyajl6c1NIOW84aXo3REo3SjZnUEdyRFlsMkhSdTF2VWZZNEZ6amRjOVlYY21hdmlaaDcwX21OSjhWUi1RVV9rVVhQY3RnZS1JdkY4eVFLUW1nYkJPUT09 |
My husband and I have been together for 12 years, married for almost 10.
When we got together, I was unsure if I ever wanted children. I was always very honest about my doubts and fears surrounding motherhood. He, on the other hand, was sure he wanted a family someday.
Over time, my uncertainty solidified into a firm decision: I don't want kids. I communicated this to him openly as soon as I realized it (around 5 years ago). I even told him that if having children was a life goal for him, I would step aside and let him find someone whose dreams aligned with his.
He chose to stay. When I brought it up again and offered him the chance to leave, he told me he didn’t even know if he wanted children if it wasn’t with me.
But over the past years, our relationship has changed. His resentment is tangible. Although he never openly blames me, his sadness and bitterness seep into everything. Every important decision feels loaded. Every disagreement feels like a reminder that I "took something" from him. He started guilt-tripping me.
We live like roommates, no intimacy anymore. He won’t talk to me, or anyone else, about his feelings. He refuses to go to (couples) therapy.
I built my life around him, leaving my home country, friends, and family to be with him. I have struggled with dysthymia since I was 14, with occasional severe depressive episodes. He is the main moneymaker in our household (another reason why he guilt-trips me), and leaving would be a huge deal for me. I don’t want to go back to my home country, but my support system here is very limited.
His family and some of our friends have started pressuring me. Even my family thinks I should just give in.
I don't believe he's a bad person. Wanting kids is not wrong. But neither is me wanting to honor my truth, my healing, and my body.
I just don’t know how to take the next step. It feels like no matter what I do, someone will get hurt — either him, or me, or both.
I'm lost.
How do you walk away from something you love, knowing it's no longer right for either of you?
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My husband and I have grown apart over the issue of having children. I don't want kids; he does. He chose to stay after I told him, saying he wasn’t even sure he wanted kids if it wasn’t with me. But resentment has built up. I left everything behind for this relationship, and now I feel stuck and scared to start over, even though staying feels like slowly drowning. How do you walk away from something you still love, but know isn’t right anymore? | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-28 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jT0N6X3dvNWpNcDdwcTZEMkJ2eUNxRGJEQVptS0ZuYWUtblRRUllla0hqVDMxM2hpMmlwUWRnOUJ1N3B2dUs3d2l2aUZpR0Y5UXlZTExqNmRQR3Z6bVE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kekxrWDRndm94c3BfY1V2dUt2M1JlZ1hTNVZHTklGQkxGZ1gxdFdpUU5nZzE4TjdzeF93Wm8zSjZ2WWRVYUNIOU41TWJGZS1vbVdGS1dyaWZnWHFNWDVrRkpySTJYQ3B1UlF3X215STNKb2dSLWV6WVV2bk1TcEtORmhvZjJmRDZRcWNSLTYzdWRDcS1KbTNCM2VvcFp3UHVGYjVVdzlOb0NYOFVLVDJOSXNJWFRWZzFtdFAyc2lqMWlJQkN1aUkyc19CeGZaSHppNjFDRDFpWFNxS1E2QT09 |
Kankuro (Naruto) is a Specialist at puppet based Jutsus, but unfortunately for him, the Akatsuki member hes forced to fight against, Sasori, Just Happens to have invented all of the techniques and designed all of the puppets he tried to throw against him
Mikazuchi Rei (Kengan Ashura): To be fair, Gensai Kuroki is literally the worst Match up for every character in the Series, but his ability to predict the Future was a massive Counter for pretty much all of Reis techniques, and at that Point in the Series he was the first one who Perfected it | r/topcharactertropes | post | r/TopCharacterTropes | 2025-04-28 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jVDlETUJmZWU0R2Fpb0pXQUdSYVdHTzJwcEJQMFI4blpacUcyc3hwOVpzbGdIWVRabGY1UklpZkFJdEtMejNTTnYydEZYNjA2UkRySC12MG1MYmxyYkFZY3pjTlJuVGR2MUkzbERmTGZmVnM9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kdzYwek1UajRPeTRzNDdLMlpHT2I3MlU4TFRwaXlGOXpZLXZCcllUdWpDTXliWVRVTzM1Z2RVVWVDdk16Qk9xQ2hUOFZfTXJwU3RKcEpaMGgyRW5rUFlBOEFsemNqMkV0TWRzeUJPeVlpQjdpR2xqWnZoc1pQSFB4RlJoMUZfRHMxakh3b1lkWEJxeDk1WWJObDREVjBjN29VcGpjMDlkUVhCaVVHWnVqSE1jM2szOFk3ajh6X0RVWk9ZbUdJZUh4anJjWTN3dVN4dmFiMmlqYVRLN2tmUT09 |
Cobra Darkspeed X Stiff | r/golf | post | r/golf | 2025-04-28 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jLV9RekV6TGxOV1FwUmJuRlhfOGN3T3BZN3Y1UDAyZ2FmSmlTcUhQNjh2U3AwZzVDVDBEd2dBLU9jenpod19nakx3bF9qVWdHMjFYaG93QkNhT25GMGc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kSmF6WHBsQ05oYl9sUHMxR3JvRUZXZXVBb005VmxOOXpXT09iMTVlSy1xNWkwcHRDMWtOWFkySkVvTmNpVG9vNG80VVdxLUNqWkswRFhXdGFPRi15UFpsMlhBQVZHMUVYbkIyMHVnOFNDX25LaEt2eUh6MjY0US1Xd2JNZFlydm4zQjdqdUxaTWRGZXhXTmp5ZEdtc1hMUFZjS2tlTkd2WTEwLVBNUlEtdzJjcjQyWF81cGdzWlRLSUN3TUFFUFJ5 |
i am asking because i get “that was the best head i’ve ever had” a lot… and i feel like it’s just a ploy to get more head. so im wondering if guys just say this, just to say it? | r/askredditafterdark | post | r/AskRedditAfterDark | 2025-04-28 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jT2hsbE1mNnZWUW1TdElhTElhbGx5UGdCUVhwMGo1ZVhzUk1JMTd0NmRNRjEwUVJxdFQ5WUlFNVByenlXdTJJYzUwS3RWMzNOdVVQRmRQRnY5RzhvTnc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kd1JLUEhRY1Bzd1Bpb1dkVm1jVnJHaVF2SHNRWDRqQ29PMlNBU2pWYlNqQWQ2Q0cwTUpNM29Pc3JxdFFXSHRMNkM5VkFMREkzZlM3QnVwRzBrc19NMHdnclhhTnVDWEt0ajNPMjUzMVhGLUMzRmFzRGE3cXdqWEtaVjRBU1cyQ2NiaTNzX0tHcVlreHV1REpFQm54dUJ4VzJYREl2Zk5wMEhHckZHY2JwbFRCYjdJaEtQQmE4ZmJNQ1BRTExvWXhtZm5jcmNOS1VBOE5EdzRUek50Wm1qZz09 |
Hello,
Almost everything is in the title.
I'm a pretty shy person when it comes to my feelings, and I had this idea yesterday which I initially thought was a good idea, but now I'm having more and more doubts about it.
I don't want to put any pressure on her or anything like that.
We've known each other for about 1 year and we get on well, recently we've become closer and I've already told her that I really appreciate her, and she's told me the same.
The other evening she invited me to her house for an aperitif and, as I was about to leave with my cousin and his wife who were already there because I'd been drinking and didn't want to drive, she said to me 'Where are you going like that?'.
So I stayed, and we laughed together and drank, and so I didn't want to start things off drunk, so I slept on the sofa. The next morning she made me pancakes for us lol, I don’t know if she does that regularly but that seemed sweet.
It was also that night that she offered to look after my cat while I went away for 5 days. Even though she already has a cat, a dog, and most importantly, a 4 year old girl.
She told me that tomorrow was her birthday, and it's also the day I'm leaving, so I won't be able to see her.
So I came up with the idea of leaving her a bouquet of flowers next to my cat's kibble, with a little note saying “Thank you for looking after my cat while I am away, and happy birthday”.
But I'm worried it might be too much? I haven't given flowers for several years.
In about 2 hours I’ll decide if I buy her flowers or not, just wanted an opinion on this. | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-28 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jSkNDejdncnU4MlptREM1U3ZJSFJ3NU9FSFpMNFNYMW5wS0tCano1SFc1Rkh2UG5aSUpiX3ZlQ0JpQmhpZDdCcVVkcTIza09Db0FNV2VIMU5lWVBGVjRLb3lzNnU1WFV4b3l0Mm9xTHdRbE09 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kcDVLSUh3RF9IRUNpdDZjUWhmRWdnTEtZWFpPVndIank1X3BPQlZCd0wxSnRvOXpoN091dHFIVWZ2TzlHRTFIZnRSUmVDMnNteXdrSGlQM3duVkotajBXNTkzWGt6M0lMRFp5dHpBTXJKQmNrcU5ab3BELTZ6dnUwdFk4djFvcWRJZ2RXUUZXcDd5blhBR0VKdmlnQ2xZUGtUTVNQRXZiRmxGTTkwQ19xVTRrR1ZZTGwyUUNCR1M3dFF2LU5yNkFTQnZDcXFwYnlUc1dyNjVPMXlsa0RHdz09 |
i posted this at 8:30 PM i might not respond
also Tower of Furious Chicken Brawl is a really good obby you should play it | r/robloxavatars | post | r/RobloxAvatars | 2025-04-28 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jY3Boa19MZE0xeUtTTGM2aVFNT3BGbjlCelZUeXFvdTBJOE9rbzliY2ZhZUNuQ1VBVElEMzZoQmlvY1d5RUhBSjN6MXl1TV92cVhxRkxjUlp0Qm5vdEN6SThyWk0xcDAtV1pkMjE0anZtLXc9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kZVVaNFo3dENfQVlHZU9Nb3VmM3ZFZGJOUE5EaTVyS2NETGhoN1FpVF9oSGxPdTk2ZUlWZzdnd3hnS3otc3VvTjMwNXFkUEYwSF9KM0gtWFdYOFluZjVTb2hBMjdmLVlGN2JIVlU3TkpuNnhuVzQzeEhHUFRJc3FMWGdLdDVsOXRzVnkxOUtPYmhONDUxa1ZKX1J5VFgyUWh3amJNQTYxeW9xQVdGdENndkg5TzVHMjVBQXN5eTdvUm1nZXc5OFdIYVQ5eXAxRmpnZ2lyX1JQRG82aU5XQT09 |
Good morning, Reddit!
Thanks for taking the time to listen to my problem.
Long story short: my girlfriend's lease on her apartment is up at the beginning on May. We agreed to do a 2 week trial (at the end of April) to see if we were compatible.
Sadly, she thinks we're compatible and I'm not totally sold on it. (Note we've been dating for 1 year and 5 months, and we both have dogs - mine is 110lbs and hers is 65lbs).
She thinks that I was abusive to her dog when she left for work all because I wasn't texting her updates on how her dog was doing. She thought I just locked her dog up in a closet and said "done". When her dog was literally sleeping on my bed the whole day. (Note that she has some bad abuse past drama that she still struggles with, but when we did this "trial" I went out and bought two dog beds, a bunch of blankets, two milk crates of toys, and food and water bowls.)
For the first week we were room-mates, it was terrible. Cold shoulders, anger, and not much laughing/interacting together. The second week, she was literally the best. We did laundry together, we kept the house tidy, and a pretty solid sex-life.
We talked yesterday about our "trial" and I asked her to renew her apartment lease as I wasn't ready for the commitment of living under the same roof.
I said this because:
1. The accusation of me being an "animal neglector" really hurt me. I love animals.
2. She gets really mad at me (huffs and puffs) if I try to do anything around the house without her - eg: mowing, dishes, etc
3. She won't let me work on my house (115 year old victorian) for fear that I'm going to "fall off a ladder and kill myself" and because it "takes away from the time she spends with me"
4. We live in a legal recreational Marijuana state, and I was sick a few months back. I didn't smoke as it hurt my throat, and she went around telling her friends (and even my mother) that she "couldn't deal with a [OP name] that doesn't smoke". This kinda hurt me because it made me feel like she doesn't care for the sober/real me.
5. Our two dogs fight - like blood sport level. Her dog leaves scabs on my dog, and my dog gave her dog an ear piercing about 2 months ago. We keep them locked away with one another using baby gates, and we even do separate walks and they still fight. (Even got her dog on Prozac because her dog provokes about 75% of the time).
Well, that threw her into a total spiral. She had about 8 cry breakdowns through the day yesterday, and make me feel terrible for not moving in together.
I told her that my brother (34M) moved in with his fiance (31F) after being together for 4 years, and that it was reasonable to try again next year. This set her off again, because she said that all her friends and culture move in together in a year or less (super religious upbringing).
I guess this is more of me venting. I was just wondering...
TLDR: Is it too petty to leave my girlfriend because she's wishy-washy, called me an animal abuser, and our dogs fight? | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-28 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jZlpTc044SXJtdVBlbFlvVHVvN2kwcXh2dnc1WDZZYmpaTm5IX3M1QzZsWlpwY3Y5SXgtMWkzR0c2WVdZTkJzZHA2MENjVVhfYXVUcUo3Tmg2MFFraXc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kRVlWVHJja2J2VkdCekpzUWpqakR4X3NqbGd1UUp1Q00ySTQ3dWhZbXJBdWp4T3hycDNpbV80bWJrS3VOdzNpaU1mSGkwWTVpRGs4QUMtQ2w0T1AzOGgxUVA0QUFJR3l2S1RWYnpmNEVkVUZDWUFjSkN4VjczUTlRUU5OQXdJVC1DYWYtMXF5OGp6ZzRTcTA0Y1lTVU1heE1taDlvbmZvMm85VXVfY21kVXRxTzZQSTdodEVkc1FkY3ZJVlZXTVpQV20zM0RfLWRPUjJWUjVrTGdEOTgzZz09 |
First off, obligatory I'm on mobile, so sorry for any weird formatting.
My girlfriend and I have been dating for the last 3 and a half years. We've always said if there was a problem we would talk it out, we wouldn't go to bed mad, things like that.
For the last couple of weeks we were on a break in our relationship. I won't get into those details here - it basically came down to the fact that I wasn't attentive enough of a boyfriend and I'm fixing that.
Yesterday, we went out on a movie date - the first one since our break, and on the way back to my place, she mentioned how I needed to earn sex back, which I agreed was totally fair. We haven't had sex since a while before the break, and during the time leading up to the break, she rejected any advances I made.
Now to the point where the title applies. When we got back to my place yesterday, we were laying in my bed, and at a certain point, we started making out, really getting into it. At one point, I kisses down her neck, towards her breast, and before I even got to her breast I stopped and asked if this was okay. She confirmed, and I pulled her breast out of her dress and did my thing.
A minute or so passes, and my hand is working it's way up her thigh. I keep checking for signs that I needed to stop (I know, incredibly stupid of me, I should've asked outright like I did with her breast), and my eventually my hand is down her panties. She doesn't stop me, so I again start doing my thing, still kissing her. After a couple seconds, she looks me in the eye, says "no," and breaks down into a panic attack. I obviously stop and hold her until she is able to calm down (we're both prone to panic attacks, this has always been our routine). Once she calmed down, she turned away and told me to go away. I tried to apologize, saying I thought it was okay to go that far and I wouldn't have if I didn't think it was. She went home about an hour later, and hasn't said anything to me since except to tell me she feels violated.
I've never been in a situation like this before - where I thought I had her consent but didn't. Is there a way I can fix this? I feel like I just got her back and I'm already screwing it up again.
Edit to add: I'm seeing a lot of replies trying to either directly take my side or hers. I want to put out there that there are no sides to take - I know I pushed it too far and I know I'm in the wrong.
Edit 2: A lot of y'all have brought up the "earning sex back" comment. I said this on one comment, but I genuinely think that was just poor word choice on her part, and she just needs to feel comfortable with it again. I agree that it's not something to be earned, but when it comes down to it she and I haven't had sex in a while, there's been fights in between then and now, so she simply doesn't feel as comfortable with sex as she did before.
Final edit: First of all, thank you all for your concern and support. I've tried to ready every comment and taken them into account. I'm writing this edit the day after the original post. I want to say I made the very difficult decision last night to break things off, at least for now. There's been a lot over the past year that I'm not going to get into here (don't worry, nobody's cheated, and nobody's assaulted anyone). We both agreed we both have a lot of growing to do as individuals. We haven't let ourselves do so, and our relatives was suffering for it. So we're both taking time to focus on ourselves before we can even think about relationships, whether that be with each other or with other people. Again, thank you all. I'm going to step away from Reddit and pretty much any other social media, so I likely won't be seeing any further comments. You're wonderful people. Don't forget to take the time to love yourself - you deserve it. | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-28 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jYWxmOUZaeTVWb2ZobWlrVTZPVnE4ZHlDVGhCek5ma1lZa3JRUzdoVUtfelp0SGQ1WkVMaVBfeHJRYVJ1NFhiYjNiX0hpaDVOcFdubzg4OFZ3NGtzVXkxUXRNc1N3ZkhudmxCWXE2V2hacjA9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kUmVvS0JwcG9fSWNGa1hvQmRZVGVtQ19KMklzZ0luUk9aRjdTMWhtYVRaZlptZS1SbkxHTWNmV3pyeW9xSDl1VEI5dEJqLXdqRG1BMUU1djliV2tfakZBemhCdUdSZzZKb0xNNm5oNmVfSE9ZYUxBTllFbUZZV290RFpnc2lUNXBhWFZMdlRKcFJ1NzRFMDZyQWd6X1RyMl9ya1pjOVZwZ0ZpMEJwX1ExeEJJRnRxTEp0MEN6MXVoZmZnQUVfMEl1N3dmTlFzZGc2TERObHhOOF96U3Nab3dhR0VYR3dENndsRjQ3U1Jpa3Vsbz0= |
So an ex girlfriend of about two years dissapearend on day without explanation or any indicators. She started trying to reconnect about 3 months ago.
I had changed cities, changed phone numbers etc and when she made contact I asked on here why people do that. With help I decided it didn't matter and I wouldn't engage.
I don't have social media, I work in a high security field so my job shields me from outside inquiries, keeps things intentionally vague.
So I got to thinking exactly how did she get my personal phone number, my current private email, my work email, etc?
This is Monday, on Friday I found out my girlfriend of 2-1/2 years has been in contact (over social media) with my sister I went no contact with 4 years ago (she knows why), and my ex for about 8 months.
She supplied my sister (and I suspect my ex) with my contact information, information on my life, etc.
Although she didn't have any real explanation on why she did it, Excuses don't matter since I've shared my feelings and decisions on these two subjects several times.
I sent her back to her apartment on Friday night and haven't spoken to her since.
Over 100 calls & texts since Friday night when I asked to have time to think...
When I get my head together I will return everything she left in my apartment and break it off officially. Until then I won't return any attempts at contact.
I'm 38 years old, nearly 39, so this is probably the last chance I'll have at a conventional family, and I'm having a really hard time with that, so if anyone has any advice I'd like to hear it.
I have a therapist appointment for later today and I'll pick up packing boxes & new locks when I get out of that session.
I can't figure this out. 4 times the women that were supposed to be closest to me, professed to love me inflicted the worst pain I've ever experienced on me.
What did I do to deserve this? I've never cheated, I've never back stabbed, I've never stolen, I followed every rule on what I'm supposed to do. I got the advanced education, I have a good income, I'm stable, I stayed in shape.
| r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-28 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jNDhrVXBzOTlTOEE0ZllsUG5PY0JVb1lWRDF2RndfNW9yVHNnb0xTSFN6dm05ZXZSV0NMV0Fpamd3X3dmUXRnUDM2VjdYUno1MTBoZ251cjVBNlVVcU80MlJiMVI2dk04LThWSlQ2RkdLZEU9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kN21RYVZYNkdUMHpOUXUzQ09xMm1aSVRZR212UUp0VlZNVU9xMFU3anFYeHRxTTZRaWZqSHpkRUxwLUc0VC1meUtEbjRtTHlmaDhwX2EtazJRdTZXNnlIZzVYalk1RmpjRHpob1ZBQXoxSmhaVDJmVmlzdGdCbHpDOGRNOHM4bnpENGRNRk1jU0o0RUpRMHJKTjE5b1g0QTltWXVRYzVQNlZsc1R1aUExTWs0bUpBS2tsQUpSUmYtZ0k3QzZyaGRvR1lWRkFkQjBuLXV2bktjMC1aYlFUUT09 |
Just finished the season. I have mixed feelings, but I found Victoria to be a great character. It was fun that she's such a snob and feels no shame about it. She certainly delivered some of the funniest lines.
The performance being so over the top works so well because Victoria really feels so detached from humanity. Completely trapped in her own bubble, and she's happy about it. | r/thewhitelotushbo | post | r/TheWhiteLotusHBO | 2025-04-28 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jeHptazMyZDhLNVh5ZkhnM3VkU2pDUUVndnZLVGhoLTFMdmxjRmZQTnd1ZjV3VXh2dDhUMmRSQjdPLXQxQzVERGZndDdkbXlnVVVCZGotTFZBWF9JbVE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kT0Q3em94bW9mSWJ1ZnlhQkwzSFJHLVNDVVRETkx2QzJNektRVzR2aTNVeG5zUzhZTnR1LTI2SlN6Q2tZcE9COTVXczctRjZOV0pIVnRsQkNrNmVOV1RBT09QaXg0eFlMd3dwNGJORDBUUkp5Z0lobmxadVRCNjE3bkJfWTJjQkZMSmVQSHhqVk1Oem9uNEVCUHlNM3dMM2FjWGMyQl9UbHdKZGZQZnc4ZExueFdabUsydjFYeWgwdXZ3X1VydzdCcVBFQmtPa3pIQXV0SzBNSGFDZEN0dz09 |
Hulk repeatedly slams Loki (The Avengers)
Leon throwing his knife through Salazar's hand (Resident Evil 4) | r/topcharactertropes | post | r/TopCharacterTropes | 2025-04-28 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jemZ2akhKakVzcjd4NzBDTjR2U0xja1Y2QWxOeEdMYUNpR2R3TkFFMktiRTMtUEdmMks3b0dRSFBPZHBzb2VqZmRSQzlKMXFkMDk3YldyRFJfN1ZHY2c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kYVlUczJ5Skw3VlQ5NG1kS1RDMjBIaVRERl9fQkNjc2lhVVNWWURiY0lzMlJ2c2ZuUWdZcG5KMHp5NVUzd0c4U25lbE9JVVNYYlp4LVJWUy1tQ1RYcDEwaFpkRDQxME1Gc3NONjV6TTFsUUNDdXZGcFFpQVJ6M01WemV6WFRnWnFhNkd1cVpxeWhWTVlWU0EtdkRPYW85Y0dtdElUem9zYXdReUU3ZDhoSElfZmNTSG1FMmh0eUtIN0JBdkVwS1BtY21fVTY4bzVRNlFQM3BCMFpOYUZyZz09 |
Top 20 qualify for the PGA Championship. | r/golf | post | r/golf | 2025-04-28 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jdVpqV1MxZGRvc3A5bmZPUTE4TXVYdU5rU2tWbVFQaDZ5Njg3OXRmanpFWmNZaFVzZ2prRHRmLVhEdVZ4dFZoMXRwQzdBRlAxa1BBSlpQMnkzeWhSYVE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kVC1laEFBY043R0Q3NU5kRk9oUjBYSzRES2VGV3ZzSzk5NF9HV2dacE83Si03Zm5EamZ5MnBqTHVjellmTmpCZTFJaXlIdkswbjZ1bGd5TUxzNnlPeFhEN1BLb0VNbnNhVkNzQ0diaVA4N2pwTE8tMFlXTXBnRGFiaXdUSFJxZXlRUEd6NU9yUFhvQUZUaE52VDZrWHBXb1FkZHpVbExZUEZlN3hqZmY0YXBTQVF6SjhYTDNOaHMwa1pNdlJITGJC |
How are the laws of face to path angle affected by the attack angle? ie. down-blow with iron vs upper-blow with driver | r/golf | post | r/golf | 2025-04-28 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jM1hnYmdtdl9tdjdoSVZCVDk0TE1qekpGNXVVcHUwblFUMUJVWXdXZ3h0RzFMd1FDanVMN0hxbTdNdEQ0S05KTFhtODFCd21iZVZuVC1tV1dWMGE2NW5NRXRMRl9fcnNvNTU0MFVVazNjazg9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kT2oxNkNNX0JLN1JhS0gtRDl2Yk9qWHl4MmFwQnluUFEzWGp2OE5hZ0NGUVNTUlBmbktHLXJpdGNBeWVqbUNCeXZsZjJPTnlXU1JXcmp2OFlJRVpqTUc3SXc4OV9FZjBHWG03cUxacUpqcGRmY0pEcVN2Ym4wajJORk9JZzBUMWt5dUZyLUZfbzlXelk1aVprZVl2LUNpOGhoUEF3azhKbWZPNUpadm5LdWk0PQ== |
Roast however you want | r/thewhitelotushbo | post | r/TheWhiteLotusHBO | 2025-04-28 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jSWlmdko2dWhqMzNjWHQ1dHBPOWxwMlNwaHM2Q0M1aVFnUkgtUG96T0lIeWJoLVRRU181RUc4UWc3U1hxSjZyazFIcjYwU1Z0ci14dk0za0hJUDRRanc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kenB3YnVpX1ZGNzdteFRQeUlrSHMzYmliZGtYQ0VkMEt2SDZHRURQQktXX1hTbW1ISHBraUVvX3M0RW1RdDBSZ05BNWtvV3FRTjNZT3p5OVBwanN5SnR1Y2VibWlBY2NxWklPaEhwWXV3RGVnUmxaamhUTjJ0Rm9rd1kyMmt6alF2b2hrWUUyRmttX2YyTFNVR2lCcUpQQkJqNjItNklxaG9NSGpNUVI4bUhfNFZ3Y2JyVjFhXzNuRWJrMmNkU3BoOWxWOElobmZkR0lwWWF1dEg5T3pxUT09 |
Was it one timr thing or you did it for a period of time? | r/askredditafterdark | post | r/AskRedditAfterDark | 2025-04-28 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jaUlNRGo2U3BoaUpra0tWQjh6VXdLT2djY1RYbURjcGprR3NIMURyNDFzdnZwWm41TldRZEtIUXpfaFdsZkoxTHd1ZXRTNWNKTlg3dkZoSWJBTjQtWXlMajRJX0xyUlVXeXdhZG9iNU9JWWM9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kenNBeWxJY3BtRE03RHdUMkthXzJicjBQeXNWSGM1Rk9hdTdtbzlmdklDOVBLRjlBMkRTcy1JQVV4SHI4OWVBZFI3YVl4bi1CV1N2TUU5R1BKSjFNUUhVZWRPbG9BSlo4ZnR2WWMzdFBKNVplUUxSVXFSWVhObGhtalM3cDBwd2lyb2VvRHQyNjZuSDVYU3I3LThhR3hZV0tMZVl5Z1VGWVY5dGxEQ0dud2ZWc2UzV0dqelRMbXJSck5Tb2N2RlRwd213WWJCazM5TjlTMV9BcjhSV2JNZz09 |
For some background: We’ve been together for a little over a year.
Every time I open up to him about my struggles — whether it’s being sick, having painful periods, or anything else — he acts like he couldn’t care less. He’ll check in on me occasionally or visit only if I ask, but overall, his support feels minimal. Eventually, I stopped leaning on him for emotional support altogether. Especially every time I open up about my feelings, he shuts it down immediately.
Recently, we went swimming during a family outing (he was invited because we consider him part of the family). After spending the day in the chlorinated pool under the hot sun, my eczema flared up badly. I’m allergic to chlorine, so I usually don’t swim much — but this is a once-a-year thing for my family, and I really wanted to join.
For the next two nights, I could barely sleep because of how painful my eczema got. I didn’t mention it to him until he asked why I had been waking up so late. I wasn’t sure if he was genuinely concerned or just pointing it out, but I explained that I hadn’t been able to sleep because of the flare-up.
Instead of showing any sympathy, he immediately jumped into blaming me. No “how are you feeling?” No “is there anything I can do?” Nothing. Just pure blame: “You know damn well you’re allergic, and you still did it anyway.” He insisted I should have just stayed at the cottage with my mom.
I tried to explain that swimming once a year with my family was worth a little discomfort for me. It’s my choice, and I accepted the consequences. But he kept insisting I shouldn’t have swum at all.
Out of frustration, I told him, “You know what my mom did when she saw me suffering from my flare-up? She took care of me and showed me love.”
And what was his response?
“That’s not love — that’s just spoiling you.”
The audacity.
And to top it off, he said, “I know there’s no chance of me being right in this conversation,” as if I was being unreasonable for wanting some empathy instead of criticism.
I get that, logically, he’s “right” that avoiding the pool would have avoided the flare-up. But emotionally, I don’t understand why he had to be so harsh and unsupportive about it. If anything, after all the fun, I should have been the last person left out — and if I chose to accept the price of a flare-up for a day of happiness, that should be my choice.
I can’t help but feel like he just doesn’t have any empathy for me.
Why do you think that is? Is this genuine concern, or is it something else? | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-28 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jMFptRlFkaWxYaTB5cjdPc0pocm9mcWszNTMxSVZoUV9ZU1dqYzBLeEtDVjQyNk10azJNRWluRzkyaW5sMVQzZ19RVlhsVElibm1sbHJZanU4bWlnbUlMUGZQZHlUUldjWmNRYzFvSVV4bHc9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kZ2tOU0NZclFUd3gzaXcwM2tlZmRSbG1WQVN0NC0xVmNKYURsUFB5cVB3WkR2S1ZuT2oxeVJkZzRtSmw5bjdGS2h0YzhEMHM3LTh3cDNSREdTYXE2WEkxdnpIaEJIdHZoNDVwYzVqaXpyOHdPdDRFVjEtR05hU3BHT0oyRU5DTm9oWWdqUGw0U3FfSnNxbFZlTzdYNC1sd0ROSXUtRUc0XzdDdXdSNzF0SWE4R0t6ajRKMjN3cnM2R3lxOUxIdGl1cmRRMllwU1k2RENEMG1feFJ0aWpZZz09 |
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