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This guy. You totally probably won’t die, Mom. There was zero concern for her safety. | r/thewhitelotushbo | post | r/TheWhiteLotusHBO | 2025-04-07 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jV0dNU0xrQjZYTlJDWllvUTdkeW12Q29uVWxsNWJPWkg3QnE5NmpvaE9QU2tTaU44bjVNYUt2TXFnd1labWhjUWRCbGMtMUs0VTMzODlUUmRDSGdPcnc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kYlZUTEY5Zl9UbXJ3VENzaTdVZVdJRGNoUFlLa2pqUXVSUkVxaHdRd1M4ZXptb3hnNHhoOEZIVUdaZ0NfWk53N1NvUDd5bzdEMUNiREEyQzhPZ1VubEZ2UXpqOXplSWVWbnpMZEprMjhhNGFNa0lhSkM2VW5xQ1FCMHEyalRBUVVsMmdic3lMb2J3cUphbGFYNlVfS19RN3pNV2d3bFBFZlIzLVRZbW84ZW9jNllyN29mMjZwQjhrSFBkVWlVUjlQ |
"It broke my heart to put that tumor in her head" — Ego, Guardians of the Galaxy
"Your mother, she's more like a pet to me" — Invincible | r/topcharactertropes | post | r/TopCharacterTropes | 2025-04-07 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jaGEzcVAtaExFakVDZ1FlbjhRb0ZNeUFZWVJhMVBYZzVqVHM3aXFQN0NCTTJ0emR0R0c0aGZ6TUhhbHFsYm1KSl9QcHFDLTJ4UmVyYnlCVGVma1JmZkE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kdHRRUmZwcl9MN1FadUtIZjhzZXk4T3FOa0diQ1JRZ2RXLTBQMEttVjJTRGY4RThTb0s3Mms0SXVRajBDaHFOMjVuQ0QwWHE0NHVZSzF1aWpPMXpYS2JkQnR2WWJCZUdYeFZFc3pNaTVId2NNa3JKVWlveWI4V1JLUlhMVmdpeEZRb29Wblp5a1FCS0RNekN2NHEyLWx2alhLOWVLMUdPcElOcWd3bUZKNW9TSURpYW02SHdhRmVxV0Qwa256Q0lXd2hQbVFFLTdkbnFsbkoxa01TVnh4Zz09 |
It has been three seasons and Murray Bartlett remains the most GOATED White Lotus actor. I wish Mike White brings back the Hotel Manager central to the plot role in the next season. | r/thewhitelotushbo | post | r/TheWhiteLotusHBO | 2025-04-07 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jSWFHQ3Vob1RUQS1WdEZPaDhaZDZtUGU2ai1ORVZsbHpfOXpzcVlpS0dSdGxGNlNlS2paV2ZYOEFXWjV5bm5YWGFneF9fcDYzcUQ5VEZjcEktWGhUZ3FpUTNoaFpHalV6aXg5aHFzeHBoelk9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kR1dPZ1VwRk1NQllEcFR1ZlBnZUlpSTh5ZW9lUGNNdHdEd2pvNkFVY2tvc20xVlp1VVJpenlmd3BqRG1tV3Y4ME9TLTFtRHFIZFMzeE5JMlI5VWJFakl4WlRJdFhYTWxwSExyTUJhSmlXWEZJX1Z4ZldRejczRUJaWFJQWXI0Wi10c0V3NlJOUkR6bG1tSFQ2Y2RldXg5LUxBLWNwc2RvQVNyM1BPdWE4dm11TVhHdDA0VGNUbVpSNGVvdlpiVW42V3FoQXc2am13a0RKTFp5Zmlzby1mUT09 |
She’s a runner, she’s a track star 🏃🏻♀️ | r/thewhitelotushbo | post | r/TheWhiteLotusHBO | 2025-04-07 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jNTBVbTd3TlllZFM5N0Via3VoV2tYOFZiRXBiZzBYeVJIelMwb3RLVUxNNFh5d29RM2hKUExuWV8zVkVCUHFwdFNubFBVX0xqY0x3am9CWV9WUi1rV25HeDA2bTRUVTFVSkpzZjF4ZkR4VTg9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kcEVYZXQ2OUY4NHhvUktadUlySFVaYXluYk84MmI5ZUdlSnNSTU5DZy05QjRvR2dzUnItbU82TFk2UEwweDdtVVZkMk8xbTlmZWRhQzJoQ1hGQnE1dUkzVXNRZGZpdUhEN2hVWVRrRlM3UGJYT21STF9HTTdHMWVyelNzb1hDMkZiU2tNMmJiRjRHX2ZhTzRjZmNHcndWV2VzUnotbE1XM3ZqZGxCMG9EOTJJeFdrSEVOc2o2NW5JdDZGVGdwbExp |
Uh oh | r/wallstreetbets | post | r/wallstreetbets | 2025-04-07 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jOXJMVWdsOS11c05pSUZVSUR2czRNOUlTM1htd3A3Q0JkSU0yQmN1R1NVbHZZRFVvWGozX0w3dHZla2Y4enNCaTR1eFk5Z25jN01mOE1pekx6TTAzWXc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kLXBhNlZzWjVhZjVQOENFREgwVDM0Tk9taWU4ckNyYVduVWpSZjFtME9KQWRYdUxPRjFNejFiZFhqX0g0UUdmVlBYNExtekRTN0VzOC1KbEY1RE0zOGRsTm9DcDN1RDFPdUtWZk9RWFU4ejViZ2RHM1hVa21RUTN5Nm83dTlRc3N5UjhrYXpiVGc4c1JTMlJBVDVCcTdYNkhEUFY5dnZfZ3JEaUJOa0ZvZDh4bW1sRmc3TV8zaUJJOUUyaWNGT3ZDSUdKOUpFQXNFVzg2VnpyYzRSSXNQUT09 |
That’s enough YOLO for today
Good fucking lord thank you sweet baby Jesus | r/wallstreetbets | post | r/wallstreetbets | 2025-04-07 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jYldUdmFUeGlEUjNLX3RualU0QmhpU1IwcFY1VlBxWEQyWDV4dDFHc2R6M0RkMUdBMVJ1cmowa1I3aDZFaVB4bVNjZEQ2WDRMbGo4WnV6MVlneGpLd0E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kcUU0S2Vud1h0eXp1ZC1CaXI1dXAwRnNTZTNZYnFDb095akJRZlBZU0pEcGNaeXBvTVB0SmN0bFcxUHRKeUM0Y1BNOXFKYVdHMDlfOGdObm94VFFRRTB2Vk1SN0U2eU5NRWtCTmFzSzNfLVhrSndad0ZTZks0dmZaNjhnSnFJRk5hOUFITUFZQjBUR0JacnBFMWZCQkxkSmhzQzVzcnR1b01lTWEyc1EydnRJPQ== |
Mikasa (Attack On Titan)
Loki Odinson (Lokie Series) | r/topcharactertropes | post | r/TopCharacterTropes | 2025-04-07 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jdjVWaHpnYk8xb0RTS0p3S0tDN2VQeHpPNWZPY0NUUUZ1b1dZdFNKQkUyQ3hLQ0xFWjUxZ3FKWFJBRTF3Vk9PMC1WaGRHSzhWUF9EZ1h3Sy0xcmRMRVVPLVZieW14NmliMDRqazdkWVR6OXM9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kcFRJSzM0UnFROU1XOUJsSG1qUHpIcmtldjhDbFFIVGVvcW50bHdlNE50N1M2RkFqLXYwb2k3ZDNPQVlSelZyZW9ERC1XX2xRbjFINVpDWXlCMlVPOWhZcUpMOXpoZFJaejBqMFpiUDVjUjQ2eU96SzczNHprSmdvTGFhOHVBUXZtcW41UUxSNUl2WmJKeWJ2bnFfbi1hNlZVS2xuNmFRODNLc0RCUnpkZmlmX0Q3ZzR5STFpM0d5MDNuT0ZEOVFBVGxVREJSTjc1dUtmUXotM0ZMZXpUUT09 |
Remember when people had the lowest expectations for him at the start of the season. Turned out he was the one who showed real range at the end. What a fantastic performance. Can’t wait for his Emmy nom! | r/thewhitelotushbo | post | r/TheWhiteLotusHBO | 2025-04-07 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jS2lIUVBlZ2V3UDF0OHRqNUtVS1d0R29RcmY3NDJHc0IxMWVCc0NxdVVnMFZnRzZ2TFpoSWh3Q1FhSTA5MjJwaF92c0dpdmM2czJGbGhZRmJOWV9fZy05SVRENWQtMmlmRVZONnRoMVdMWUU9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kYldTUm4zdFJJdUFFN3FkYWU2Mk9fbXJpRjJIdmlJMGxxV2VMNXFFLXA0WkhCSnBhWjJRNUxDUkhVdEVyNFB2ckx5UTVjVm9YV2xObk1GMUhSZkI4Nmt4N3JIX2MzZkZPYkN5VUJCUGZUZ2FlMXNRRGNydGtFNENqMnp6bFpGODJxZFd6NGFCVEZLbTRza1FtSTZnRkJseEhreWdYZ3dJbVU0VzQ2XzNHMlBkM3BzOGR4aDBfd0szTDZtSE9HRkt2bkhTTXYxNDI1WmwzTldFQ3lHTExSQT09 |
There is no Armond or Valentina's epicness in this season but I'm okay because at least we got Pam. | r/thewhitelotushbo | post | r/TheWhiteLotusHBO | 2025-04-07 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jU0lnTlpHbEN6Yks1Sk1vUzFfSmtYZDM5b2hHakZrc2ZRYWthRUMzWHVrZVduQU12SzRLb3hKVnBHNDloZWhCcEZ2enZFU2ZqeHkyZnJsaEJSYU50X3Y1T2N1RHJRZUZ1SXd6NmxZUVNqYVE9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5keDNNaVBtbllLYmJJdDJxOEVsMGRUQUVlWHJIWkZHOTFySWFmdDItNmZXQUx5OFhaTXNSTDJ6b1BaRV9lNmQ3Vi1vWDFFSmIzZ0lTV1YyVjZKc0RtSzF5ZHJiWDNTV000UGhaNng3bzB4eWxaTGgycFlTTXhvNlZFTGtQbGxKazBYMVlDUnhFelBRQVhaZGI0LUlFTlEtdllXWkhwSnRDVkxlN3kyMUhvenZ1c2dUUjNkWDdIVDNOTVJ2dkE4bGpuelBpSG5ITzRfSmEtejZzd2JiUTNpZz09 |
My husband just got accepted into med school, which is very exciting. He got accepted first round of applications, and I am extremely proud of him. BUT, this means we have to move from our home state. We are moving 8 hours away which would be tough on its own, but we also found out that I am pregnant with our first and due in September.
To say I’m freaked out is an understatement. We hadn’t planned on getting pregnant this early in our marriage (and med school) and I kind of feel like my life is imploding. Yes lots of good things are happening but it’s stressing me out like crazy.
I’ve been holding on to the fact that despite having to move to a new city, away from anyone I know and having a baby as a first time mom, I would have my two cats that I’ve had since they were 8 weeks old. I rescued them from a bag on the side of the road and I have loved every second of the four years of having them.
Well, my husband took me for a drive yesterday and told me that his dad called and talked to him and thinks that we should get rid of the cats because it’ll be too much for us to handle first year of med school. And he agrees with his dad.
When he told me this I just started crying because firstly I’m pregnant with raging hormones and second these are MY babies! I’ve raised them since they were tiny and they were my rock during college while my husband and I were long distance dating before getting married.
I pretty much cried all day yesterday because I feel like I’m not being given a choice. My husband already has a person he plans on giving the cats to, and he agrees with his dad’s reasonings. I was totally inconsolable yesterday, so he called his dad to talk to me and it just made it worse because his dad was like, “I know it’s hard, but it’s for the best. You need to be choosing what’s right for (husband) and the baby.”
But I feel like no one is asking what’s right for me? I’m about to be a mom in a new city, with no friends or family. I’m putting my career on hold because of this big surprise, and I already feel like I’m losing my identity. Half of my friends and family call me “mama” instead of my actual name. I’m still me!!! I”’ still here!! I’m losing my mind!!!
It’s not fair! I don’t think it’s fair at all to expect me to give up my cats while I’m already giving up so much. I said this all to my husband, and he said I was being selfish. Am I?? I know this is big for him and that I shouldn’t be upset but I am! Everything is out of control and now his whole family is telling me that my cats are a burden that I have to get rid of. I don’t understand and I feel like going crazy.
How do I explain to him that this is ripping my heart to shreds?? How do I make him understand that I’m not okay with these cats being removed from my life?
| r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-07 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jLWF3MWgtU0tiWGN0N2NkQmhSWkw0NjZjSmpxVXN6anVSTVZaeGJ1eHIweFI5bmJrTzdzM1FWTGtLeUJOR2xsTkJRdVBxSkFyMWtrMzRGdDZnZndMM2c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kSkNaWHFzc3plR1RkSTRxUmdxOHdGaG52Um13bUJUMEpxU1JWNkNSUGtkQzBGMXl6VGh0ekVqM1lqdkRYTmpFcXJQaURKYzV2M2t5SzJnMG8wT3VOckp5X0puQ2N1MF9kdS00YzdtbllJSE84blkxSndISjE1d19SVmFyRFJQZFZNN1QtVW5SZlIyX3I2YmpVbExSS1BzaHlFQWlQWkNXU2IyeGZ0ZUxFc2tCQWlPaUJtcU9BSkU5di0tcUhwYWxiaE1tZENudDV2MWVEcmtSMklMY3Z0eU45NEhXVUtrN0RwcGRTLVRFN0FfWT0= |
[https://finance.yahoo.com/news/eu-commission-proposes-25-counter-175733800.html](https://finance.yahoo.com/news/eu-commission-proposes-25-counter-175733800.html)
(Reuters) -The European Commission proposed counter-tariffs of 25% on a range of U.S. goods on Monday in response to President Donald Trump's tariffs on steel and aluminium, a document seen by Reuters showed.
The tariffs on some goods will take effect May 16 and others later in the year, on December 1, the document said.
The goods are wide-ranging and include diamonds, eggs, dental floss, sausages and poultry. The counter-tariffs on almonds and soybeans will take effect on December 1.
EU trade chief Maros Sefcovic said earlier on Monday the counter-tariffs would have less impact than the previously announced 26 billion euros ($28.45 billion).
Bourbon, wine and dairy have been removed from the original list the Commission was weighing in March.
The Commission had earmarked a 50% tariff on bourbon, which had prompted Trump to threaten a 200% counter-tariff on EU alcoholic drinks if the bloc went ahead.
Trump's threat worried France and Italy in particular owing to their significant wine industries.
In addition to these counter-tariffs, the EU already tightened existing safeguards on steel on April 1 to reduce imports by 15%. The Commission is also looking at import quotas for aluminium.
EU member states are due to vote on this proposal on April 9.
**TLDR** \- *EU is way behind with their own tariffs.* | r/wallstreetbets | post | r/wallstreetbets | 2025-04-07 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jRTd5d29kbmczUXZ4LThfYXZrTDdJNXFIM0ZremdOMU9BWFRuanl2bEd1SF9wSGNsWWdteHhZN3V3cU5NNWF3U3BBS1ZfVk15d1Zrd0xJdTh1WFlPYnc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kR0VqNzVCalcydUQ4TE5wSW5VcDUtaXV6ejlnV1lRWkFydHA1MkxIczhUbmV2SURYYUwyb240N0s1NHdpQzlXZ180M0FBckxEeFBwbDZWOXZGUFVFZE4ydV9kNnk0NEttdkhJSFptY0dJak00NE1RY0s5RWJUaWlWcUhNX2JGWHZRdl9yaUttVVZ5cUZNMkdwOEVkS3FoOV9QOURMdHpjVkVmM1lPU0NiY25BSjhick0tT3JWYl9zdHJzTmhqY3hEODBIMHNUckhDaGY0Qll1dzA4VFo3Zz09 |
@Prime | r/thewhitelotushbo | post | r/TheWhiteLotusHBO | 2025-04-07 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jVWRHellXUUY0Wnp4OGMxNGVnaTY2Q0E2dTVBeWJ5dUZiN0xlUXJrOVpLUWpLNUNhTGtiX3VFYmJzay1ObUpZVHpIWldlYXg0ZXZvZUFaanZQdHFwbFE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kNC02UjZiZ29OczJUTG81NXlCVjRsSnNiZ21wV0xCTTBGVXZNUU85bFI3Nzh3MmJZYkJsX21tVDY2dWEzWElTS2V6dG1ZdlE5LU5vUzVIYXdfcEJ2S0ZWTk9CTGFNS2JWWjdKTmlmZTVaMklPd29LRXZ4cXE2V29veVZFRTVUbU5Xd3ZCQjJBTl9XMXZ1Skx0QzUzSzFnMWlvdEpJRGhzbzZvTDYxTFZqcTZJZzlobjAtdnd5RGd3eDhzeWZ4RXpV |
* For Rick to check back into the hotel whose owner he just assaulted and who he believes to be a killer is beyond stupid. I mean what does he expect? He should've told Chelsea to check out right away and join him in Bangkok, or even just move to the next hotel over or have a sleepover at Gary's at Chloe's place. Even from the other perspective, if I were Sritala I would phone the hotel the same evening and tell the staff that Rick and Chelsea are not welcome anymore and should leave the premises immediately.
* The Darth Vader twist is a real eyeroller. Everyone had already anticipated this scenario from E3 at the latest. And for it to be only a footnote serves no real purpose, other than a plot twist which surprised absolutely no one.
* Amrita is not "to blame" for Rick's actions, but it is true that she should prioritize him. My SO is a psychotherapist and she says that the patient who is having a crisis has 100% priority in this setting. *(Edit: A few users have pointed out that Amrita is not a psychotherapist and may not be equipped to treat Rick or handle the situation. I agree and stand corrected.)*
* Gaitok has no idea what just happened. He doesn't see the shooting. What he sees is an unarmed man with his back turned, carrying a dying person in his arms. There is no need for Gaitok to kill him, he isn't being a menace. Rick's death feels like an execution. There's no heroism in killing him. *(Edit: A few users have pointed out that this is actually by design. I agree and stand corrected.)*
* Mook not really being interested in Gaitok until he kills someone is pretty cliché. The simple fact that she is turned on by his violence should be a red flag for him.
* Timothy, come on. You don't "save" your family from poisoning and then leave the most fatal part just standing there, also considering that the one family member you had decided to spare felt left out for not even getting a sip. And Lochy, wash the damn blender.
* *Cerbera odollam* (pong-pong) is crazy poisonous. A single kernel contains a potentially lethal dose of the compound cerberin. It is pretty survivable when treated, but we don't see Lochlan going to the hospital or receive treatment elsewhere. So him not dying by "divine intervention" or whatever seems weak.
* Erm... I wonder what the bank would do if suddenly I got a deposit 400 times the amount I have at the time, and (I presume) way, way over the highest balance I have ever had. They would probably freeze my assets, inform the IRS, and investigate the shit out of the transaction. There's no way Belinda is getting away with it.
* All security personnel in this season is dogshit. Good luck to Sritala with her brand new guard. I'm sure he'll do a terrible job. | r/thewhitelotushbo | post | r/TheWhiteLotusHBO | 2025-04-07 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jVXdQdy0zMFFQQURtV2tDbFNDTVhCQ3M2THhla2pGZlFZbDQxU3ZHU0xENkE2UmVMOFg4blA4cmpNVWdwRkVqdG5mNUhrTHNDN3ZSUjNJNlZWX1IzMnc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kTEViSERiLTNVU05wa2UtRDdGaFZMbVBuUy0xb0lWQ19oX3AwRTU5eENBeEhrbzlDcXY0Vmd6VEV6bG43TU5sRHM3bGQ5WnpwS255azZqUHdCWWdTR0ZSOTV1aXVkZVg3dmpWQlU3ajM2a0NidTZOX0JuaUN2MVlHZ1RZamdBdjdtTkFCMkp4d2lhUEJuZGY4akN0blBnVG55QWdXeDhwQTNER0l4dEh3UWdoOUdZY2lKcE9ZWGdKUmNDLWNtaVp2R2FObEM4cGNKNzBldEpYRGk0OHl2UT09 |
The largest lobbying force for corporate America is considering suing the Trump administration to block the implementation of the president's new tariffs set to go into effect Wednesday, two sources with direct knowledge of the discussions told Fortune.
The US Chamber of Commerce, which represents millions of US businesses big and small but which is heavily funded by industry titans, has been weighing taking the tariff battle to the courts and is being urged to do so by some of its largest members. The move would effectively provide cover for companies distressed about the tariffs' impact on their businesses but fearful of incurring the President's wrath by openly criticizing his trade policy.
While the exact legal argument behind the group's potential suit could not be learned, the Chamber could argue that President Trump's invocation of emergency powers to impose the new tariffs is illegal. Last week, a nonprofit called New Civil Liberties Alliance recently took a similar approach, filing suit on behalf of a small business owner who imports goods from China, arguing that the president did not have the legal authority to impose his February tariffs on China. Trump had done so by invoking the 50-year-old Emergency Economic Powers Act (IEEPA), arguing that China had not done enough to help stem the U.S. fentanyl crisis. | r/neoliberal | post | r/neoliberal | 2025-04-07 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jdVd3M3RONUczQ1BxdDd1SUp6OF8zVVVsazNFeXZTYnpRZWxrQkwwcUtkam9Gc3F6VE1IMlRCV1ZyUDNrMUJuZm9Ganh1X2JXNF9XZGZqTHpseTgzUGc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kb19qR1FzNm1WbW9hWTk1NUROZW1zX1dBcVNDdHV2a1oxY180Z21KWjZYTnFzSHBhVlVZcWcwUTBkaDd5VjJzZlZvLUdCZUREZ0I5bzNnQWlTRHhrM1hsMDgxSGN5cXdYbjBWN3p3WjhvYWNhNVkxcFlnd05FbWFYNjJuWklGeGt2QWUwNHZLNHZiTW9aVmhFQ2FKS1VaUHNBczZHenU3NENCZjhXWS1EbTFDNXA1WlZjejRoSnE4ay04S3ZPZXRj |
My favorite ever half century is Mohammed Shami 56* on a crazy day at Lord's which made a huge impact in India's Lord's test win in 2021 | r/cricket | post | r/Cricket | 2025-04-07 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jTGtBVDg4QWRlNEVsUW9LeTZIV3JDLTVCWHNnVTVUbHRoSThNRUdZcXF5am43cGMzWGZlbVg2TUxkTGhwd2I4ZWVwT3N4eHFQS3VJMkFvZ3pVWVVqc2hhTkNhdTZFQjlsSlVjTzduM3VnQm89 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5keGtoTWRFODM2OC1FVndwdDJ2Z2FmSkxEX1FhU0hnX2M2aGZXc2VldEFmUjlMOF9pLWtYRHdTZEJBVUx0U0VWaXhfUDZvWVFJQ2htUERwcExmVmtTbXpGSk9TbHlYZWRNVUZZdWFzTk9qV0MzZkxiS3F1d3ZiVlFGeGhlWWhmQzNjZmtpa0lVeUVPTDNxNVRPb3NFVkNoWHdUNmlSUjl5SnYzM1cyVEVGc1NORnBxTlJIYWM3c1NFSWFEa2x2dWk4RFZ1T3JtZ2d0NWJlcXFQWXB6aWpadz09 |
1. Gomez Addams (The Addams family)
2. Percy Jackson (The Riordanverse)
3. Carl Fredereckson (Up)
4. Dracula (Castelvania Anime) | r/topcharactertropes | post | r/TopCharacterTropes | 2025-04-07 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jcGJRRURDbHhYRGVQSGRvVTQ4MDNlVUtaQnFxXzZNVVF0ZkxqbUxLM3lmeWh6a3hfSGtzdkxQZ0hwVTdaTWt3a2UxbEpOTmVEcWxZWmYtWGd5dk1vOWd4c0NRdkRmZjFwb1JkSll5dHQyakU9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5keVIxdXhkMlpzLWF6WTIxa3pTTmNFdnhTN0dvOWdGRzg2WkpSWjB3QjF1U01OeEdScHpORUxmSWM4aWp0cHR0Q010bDdVaTQ0Rl9tTWlFbjdXdXhHYWpEckRJVG4tOTFjd250QkZEUEh2Rlk2X0dsN19Fa0JjZlVDSnlBaHVKcm00enB4TW16ME5yT3RqdEc2bHVkWHhGQkhxUXZocXZsLVFRTlhKQjNpWThtVzBhQ0VaaHhoX3M3RUJObE5CWDZhaVBQNHBhdVNWMF91c3NBa080Mk00dz09 |
I want to start saying I have always been firmly child free. I have never wanted children. I also have endometriosis. I was diagnosed at 16 with laparoscopic surgery, but it wasn’t able to be removed because it was too close to arteries. So I have been treating it with birth control since then. That’s been no issue because I didn’t want kids, so I was ok with never stopping it. My husband is also strongly childfree and has overall, been supportive of my endometriosis journey.
But I’ve been on so many forms of birth control. Multiple types of pills, the patch, the depo shot, nexplanon, and latest is the IUD. with the pills, they tend to not help my symptoms. And the few that did, stopped helping after some time. Each method that followed did the same thing. I’d be mostly pain and symptom free, but after a year or two, the symptoms would return. My latest method was a hormonal IUD which helped for about 2 years but lately I am cramping every day. It’s starting to impact my life.
I moved recently and had to find a new gynecologist. I know how gynos are with endometriosis, so I sent them all the medical records I had relating to it. I had a yearly exam and made sure to bring up how it’s been affecting me lately and all previous methods I tried to treat it and how it couldn’t be removed through surgery.
The new gynecologist brought up a total hysterectomy with the ovaries. This would remove my cervix, uterus, and ovaries. I did not expect to be offered that and I told my husband when I got home that I am not sure if I want to do that and he got very upset.
He thinks because I don’t instantly want to do the surgery, I secretly want kids and am going to trap him with a baby. That’s not the case. I have been very firm on my birth control and if there was even a slip where I missed a pill or got the shot late, I would insist on a condom. I do not want kids. Being pregnant is one of my worst nightmares.
I am not sure about the hysterectomy because I am not sure I am mentally able to handle that big of a surgery. It’s a keyhole surgery, so it won’t be too much of an incision, but the recovery can be rough. I don’t think I have it in me to deal with it right now. I also am so reluctant to have my ovaries removed because I don’t want to rely on HRT to get my necessary hormones for the rest of my life.
And I need the ovaries removed because I have endometriosis beyond my uterus. It’s growing on my bowels, I have scarring from it. That can’t be removed and also a normal hormone cycle might cause flare ups in those parts, from what I understand.
But he thinks because I didn’t immediately say yes, it means I want kids. I’ve tried explaining to him why I am reluctant, but he just won’t listen. I’ve tried telling him it’s not like a vasectomy. The recovery is longer and harder and the effects are more. And other people I’ve talked to about this tend to agree with him, just less intensely. They don’t think im going to baby trap him, but think it’s a sign I’m not solid on my childfree stance.
How can I effectively explain that me being unsure of the hysterectomy is not because I secretly want children?
| r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-08 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jRld0ajhLWXNKX1FIb2k3MXV6MGZRYVg4YXBCa3B4akdGTHZ3NnZZX3hDYjNjOHNISlE3M2dDNk1NSEZYUV9LSy0xaTNlWHcyTTZsUTl5ZUZETm5nTXc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kWG5vMXFsZHdjelByRE9QNXMyRzFxLV9LX3VuekxwUWJMS0pwOWZnLURQRUJEbTg2dUFrUzJwQWRIYnBaUm9rSVNyckFCeVFlbGk1ZGZGbHR1dnY1ckJnX2JIQVJ6aEpHZmFtYWc2T0pvMXQycDlSbV9ZVE1aekFGdWRtVXlLb2p2ZFVpRUJFMllvOVBWWXl4bG0wcW5UOGZQNjhHdVd3NmRfOTNxRVFMYXpNSWhGdm1icTNOTTZWWUNnT2xsNjJIcUlUdGRoVU5SaUNtUmgtdHdsLXhBUT09 |
I'm no tax lawyer but I know you can't put 5M in somebody's bank account without the IRS coming calling. How would she get away with this? | r/thewhitelotushbo | post | r/TheWhiteLotusHBO | 2025-04-08 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jRlU0SDZYVUU2RHJrU0Q1WG9NT3ZxQTdLN3BxLUxFUDA1SlVsSFJfa0R4SjFsc0l6b1FuY05pSUhVdW9tVU51a0NSejRRVlY5aC03cFFyU2F6ZzV4NHc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kTmNORVM1alFkVU96ck1kUUh5VW15SkVESjA1cXlrZGl6OUpoWDhMZEx6Q2dnWVlGR3gxUW8tWFJhNEN5blItcEZMSkpQWGJHM0Ntcnhva181NzNST1lBZmVvZFl5MkFGMEh0YVBGeE4wT2Z3OFNVNncxMWRCd1h2aElNcDZWWE5mV1dDZGlJeGRTSHpxdmNoMDUzSlZVbXd2UGJqSUhoOE1aTjVPQnFQZk5NPQ== |
was inspired by a few posts about fictional crushes and the recent "can your avi get bf/gf" post, so i made this!
I'll start with Grady:
As the image says, he really, REALLY love tomboys, especially short-haired ones. Simple as that
(And also I'll be taking a break from more ambitious posts like the ones I've made before because of school finals coming in a few weeks.) | r/robloxavatars | post | r/RobloxAvatars | 2025-04-08 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jRnEwUjdpaDdyanR2bEotUmdvc3NyMHpiTmFaVFB3Q2liRWVvcXd3b0htU25yRHcwOFJLcmJOZlBYMHQ5YXNlQ3Z1NXpWeGVfUDBTSmVTNXpuUFd5LXc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kRE5jMHdYT1ZmVWR3V1oyeVlYdC1aSV9GSVVRMUVhbGNCd3F2VXJNdi1kTmhfc19oeFBLTWFXZ1JIM2NWa3ZyQlFXX1dpQVBqZHpnUHRCcUdKaWFONnFoQVZ0Sk9BM2pVMkM4Sm9EUHlXQVE0ZTMzXy1VSTR6TkprR3g1M0JkTnNoYUNMdUdtWnNFY1NEaHNDVnVlM05WN1FKLTkyQ1BhMjRKTHB2bk53SWR1anhDdnhDMHlMdUFyT2x2dW10QzR3SFEzOTJwM3JTRXc4Zjg5TEVrU0NUUT09 |
My boyfriend and his ex-girlfriend broke up about a year and a half ago. She has a substantial following on TikTok and frequently posts about her journey of moving on from him and her new relationship. A few months ago, she began browsing my TikTok profile and inquiring about me through mutual followers. She requested to follow me on TikTok, and I accepted her request, subsequently following her back.
About a month ago, she posted a TikTok video claiming to have broken her leg and required surgery.
I work in the healthcare field at our local hospital. For some reason, she believes that I provided medical care to her while she was undergoing treatment for her leg. In one of her videos, she mentions that the surgery was performed at an outpatient surgical center that I am not affiliated with.
Last week, she posted two more TikTok videos alleging that I violated HIPAA by sharing her medical information. She claims that I took advantage of her while she was under anesthesia. She also mentioned that she reported this incident to the management of the surgical center, and they are currently investigating the matter.
I am concerned about the potential consequences for my medical license. I was not involved in her care and am not employed by the surgical center. I reported the videos on TikTok, but they stated that they did not violate any community guidelines.
Our mutual friends are aware of the situation and the fact that she is making the videos about me. She had previously blocked me before posting these videos. I know that I did nothing wrong, but the fact that multiple people know she’s talking about me is worrisome.
She has a long history of mental illness, including schizoaffective disorder, bipolar disorder, anxiety, and depression. Despite this, she still reaches out to my boyfriend because they had pets together, and she can’t afford their vet bills. | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-08 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jMWd6TlR2U2RwWFhQMlh1cS1abHpTa05kS1hlZ0Fia2l4bDF0QjJ1VUtWZldwMjZGYktGNndPcGlRazUta1hUbFFrMmFCeDhNTkZVNE5ta2doQ3R4MEV2dkl1cDFrb0NqVTJIQnBMaS14SjA9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kZlh3c0VMWDhrYlA2LUZ6ZmNQSlI0cTdNUXVqZnlCTHJyWGpoeFVEUk8zSlJ0U1J3VGxpR3ZyVWwwSTF2c281a05RNkZYbXhUOUNaR2JDaXlPS2paRGQ3OUl2aEVqUzFnb2lEVDg1aXd5bVcwaFRJS2RCa2EzSVRlQjhuZFA4NUlZc0N3QXVqdzdyajMzcld4ME5ZSlFNcWZEb1FSUHIydUlZZ0plWHJKcEFrd3J3cXh4M3dVdkxmbFNVOG9pa0s2VEc1ZWtwT2lNUlB0ZVRzMDA1R1pMZz09 |
Probably a loose fit but I figured I'd still post | r/publicfreakout | post | r/PublicFreakout | 2025-04-08 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jYWZ0ckdWcngyZUpnUGxPMFFIaWhXbjZaMXBWUUx3cFZ6Z2FzVmh6c3FWekVkMkxVMnhYNjhCQ3g2TFZhbHJOdF90ZmxBd2E4NnN2YUVwT19XVUNpN2dmVF9JcVhISnBuN0k1X1dmdGFPLTg9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kX0QzNVF6c0xpWVJnNDNiS1FMOS0zMWh3a1FZSnA2d0hVNnJQOWdHM3JjcTl2X2VaUGg5SXBnU01xZ2ZPU29JQjUydmd2V2ZFaXZOSUVhSm9ITDRoRzh5dk4xdk02X2Q3Wm1zQVdoT3Mxd3BmOEg2enVva3hiUkMteXhJamFBVmk3ZU5xVU41Y0RLM0RhcDZxNEJkYzJVc1dJbExHazFWS1M3SEd2YmI5Qk80UXE0S29RWmd6dW1XY1Y5Z0ZfZGdUdTJxT0htSnByWG5LV1Fmak1xOWszUT09 |
A little bit of back story:
I 22M don’t want to buy my 32F girlfriend a house just yet. She has outstanding debt over being sued which is why we are not qualified to get the house. She wants me to co-sign a loan to pay off her debt, and I know she won’t pay the loan because she hasn’t made any payments on the debt she’s had for almost 5 years. To me it just feels like I’m getting played.
I think she could possibly be cheating and she is pregnant I’m not 100% it’s my child which makes me want to get a house with her even less. For details about this check my other recent post on this sub. | r/amioverreacting | post | r/AmIOverreacting | 2025-04-08 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jTFhYNThsSkRWWU5kX1lQSkNPZjZfSnVHUm03Wm05aXJtdDZ6ZmZ5NEVTYXJaSVhVVXZ6aTg5Z3ZVOFViYkNEUl9iM0xmT1o1NUV1RmNHUEN6bXNJREdCZllhVHhOdFIzWEVWZ2dvT0N3TVE9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kUG0zY1QxNkh4cHBva3lHaTFDYklnbEVYNmpIeE1PZWhtRkZNamFVUkVJdWxpVm5hc2dXSmNpQkt1TEhMYS0yYzRPQnlBTTZzZ2tHb2U3eDVQcUZNSDVrS181eUw3UzgyQmhSQVNvQW5UWU9OOXRiZUtOS0E1TFZhMEFtUjVKVzk4NEpnMlZTbzlRbjlpc3FiZFZmQWV4QUJCc0xyWjJEQzhzWWxJRmtsVTQ1SGh2VFhGTXVsaVdWdWoxUWRxbFR0aktqeEFyUndkUjlVRndaUnRIaDFkQT09 |
I’ve been with my boyfriend (30M) for 7 years, and I’m 9 months pregnant with our child. Lately, I’ve been feeling like our relationship is no longer working, primarily because I believe he has deep feelings for his best female friend. Their friendship started when he moved across the country to be with me and met her at his new job. While I don’t have an issue with her, I’m uncomfortable with how much effort he puts into their relationship compared to ours. We’ve been through a lot together, but I feel like we’ve grown apart.
He’s never been open about it, but I’ve noticed things like frequent texting and giving her a Valentine’s gift (despite never acknowledging Valentine’s Day with me). These gestures feel too personal for a “friendship,” and it’s made me feel increasingly disconnected. I even snooped on his phone and saw he sent her flowers when she was sick which something he’s never done for me. He basically ignores me when I'm sick. I’ll give him some credit that he did actually send me roses for my birthday a couple of weeks prior to Valentine's Day.
I tried to communicate how his actions make me feel, but he doesn’t seem to get it. I only met her for the first time last month, and it was because I’m pregnant and he felt it was time for me to stop thinking she was the “big bad wolf.” Even though I made it clear that she wasn’t the issue and it was about his actions for her. After meeting her and observing them together, I don’t think anything has happened between them, but if she were to ever show interest, I believe he’d jump at the chance.
There have also been other issues, like him staying at her house after drinking without telling me he wasn't coming home, and sending her elaborate gifts under the excuse that it was to help her with her relationship. I’ve stayed because of life events/challenges that made it difficult to focus on a break up while trying to deal with and cope, especially since we live together.
Now, I’m at a point where I just don’t feel emotionally invested anymore. I’m tired of feeling second to someone else, especially with a baby on the way. I know I want to break up, but I’m torn between doing it before or after the baby arrives. I feel confident we can co-parent well, but I’m unsure if I should wait until after the birth to avoid adding stress or if it’s better to do it now. How do I break up with him when I’m 9 months pregnant? | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-08 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jbzdsSDJjQ2JZbXRVUDJseGFoZWd6S0hhZVgybnkydnlHOXNBVG9Kc0I4OThJVEkwdG81M1ZFb3MzUFJ1cE95TzBRcDR4aTNqTV8zbnZfVHFlYTZWbkZ2ajRCQU5sdUVVbFU4SzJoalJ0OXc9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kVy1SMWdJZlVNNGF6Z0F0bnZPQjBpRmZUeGo5a29aclRNT2NHUTNHRWhVLTZJRjcyQlIxbFlkNWlHd3llRUxFQUo1Y2l5UzFiWDg0ckxLcmw5VGM4WGQxN0VTdkwzN2hqY2ZvdWgtSzkyeGJfRmlRV0ZXTnMwd2JyWS1oVk1CUkJiQlNscWJmRGp0azBTcTI3RWFzMjFZc05vTnFmOXRJa2NlMUM0R1htdUxOMnVBNlAxeXJrMGhUSGg4eVZxNU5vQkhHUFBwY3k3YTNwMHdJZkgtcjlLdz09 |
None of the actors really popped like they did IMO, with the exception of Sam Rockwell’s fun performance of Frank. I’ve seen a lot of people say “well the acting was good.” That’s true, but many just weren’t given a good opportunity to shine this time around. Park Posey was hilarious and Patrick was able to develop character development in body language/ looks alone | r/thewhitelotushbo | post | r/TheWhiteLotusHBO | 2025-04-08 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jN1VKVmdmRVJ0RVdPVlpybk00ZVF3cElNdGlDamU2OThpczAyV1kzUnBOcFpDNi1RLXZuTThyeG9QQW42a2N3Y2M3SDF1NnlnNDBla0ZUTlhxQ3g1LVE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kLWt2N2VKeUtNTlpkWkpUN3V0dmx5VWtGR3lnbnpyendLSzdYVEdaLUIxRjV0anF5d01SUnZ5aENSSFhUX20zWG43aVJ6YTM3M3ZPNFZQRVo0dFpYT3hybmhuOGtSWHlablhlYkNJWFFPMjhnMmp3WXlYVkhNT3RrRFA5S05BdkxHMm5Nd0VtU2tFdW1Zd0xYZHJnaS1TNm1OdnFwTmhOc3B4cFAza2NYVl9iVHhHTXRLdFRpbmh1TmMyR3M0dnh0 |
1) All Might - My Hero Academia (especially after the Kamino Incident)
2) Gojo Satoru - Jujutsu Kaisen
3) Robert Baratheon - Game of Thrones | r/topcharactertropes | post | r/TopCharacterTropes | 2025-04-08 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jOTFLTE1Ja01RdGI0V3RiZU5ZNElKdGE3bS1QMDZRTGtQdHJvYjZfMUhoUVF0cGl3cmpNZzJJVExMTlJKSldKa21HTzhrckh2S0h0eGtCUGUzWGxFdUE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kRnJYTjFXSGUzOXBxejZRZFpSVENWbHB6RzJ4QjZrbEQ3c3JWOHNUVE1INEZ6cFZXSkZ5Z3U3WEJHbE1wR1MtalNXNW1GZmNDdE5nb3F2YzJqSlhualRJVE5aQm5ha1FMcEZlUHcwejl4M00xTWFpOGE2ajBHdW1BZDUzS2JyQjIxWkxISkNLb3NfdjlXdk93cF9xTHFoSjE1UncxQzN2V1B1VGZkNUZ0Um9mVEFLZ2p1eFJ6azlwRGZWMk96djZkb01nbWlXZVlQOHFGdHFEV0FNV0wwUT09 |
Mama's girl 🥰 | r/thewhitelotushbo | post | r/TheWhiteLotusHBO | 2025-04-08 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jMHg5bTRQM1pVeVgtQVk4LUtfZmZMaGdVR0R5WlVoUFVmdGhVb19rQzRjUHJSaWVORmhrVjlSelNWTEx0TkRULXdWekNteXBjRTlIbDBXanlzYlZyX1E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kd2N1UnM2MWJpZ0dkUDZHSHNBVDdPVDJhNDFYT0xETFFjRVU3VnJRYXVCQTRyQU5xRlhBZFprWEg5cHgyQXhxY1RDWTZHLVR3LW45V2s4Q1k0d3FsNVNjVlRhdlVnUFZaUW1ReTdfMnVXTDQ0S1V4REJteTZYZHk1ZTJySnFWbmZfeTY4YmZGbEZRMlhHNTFUVC1FLXJuV25iVUhzMFF0MVpUUEczTzlLZTMwUExqQWV3dUpfZVZ1VUNlZVEyM1lC |
# Stat Sheet of Jesus:
|Trait|Score|Notes|
|:-|:-|:-|
|Wisdom|10/10|Luke 2:52, John 8|
|Charisma|10/10|John 7:46|
|Strength/Endurance|9/10|Fasting, crucifixion|
|Compassion|10/10|Matthew 9:36|
|Courage|10/10|Luke 9:51|
|Holiness|∞|1 Peter 2:22|
|Humility|10/10|Philippians 2:6-8|
|Power/Authority|10/10|Matthew 28:18|
# 1 John 2: He that saith he abideth in him ought himself also so to walk, even as he walked. | r/christianity | post | r/Christianity | 2025-04-08 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jLWNwZHlrLUJ4YTktd0k4dV9kZEhENkdNczZvT1czWXFKUjIwRnFTa0puQlFEaktlaHdMVDZNcGlrU0UxaThzbHhab0VjQXdWY2FxejJHb3BicUpiMGc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kYnhqd3NRN1ZsV0doMzJ0YV9PSEJfVzlMMzQzT2lobmY2a2lYZGcwYS1CWFlRa0xVcG4tZlZTWm94LTdkNE51WlF1UkxVOFJDdjlvckRLTVFSdjFvejJYZUxnWlUtbzBPTDN1T25CaXNZcGdqN2sxZ3cya1BtLXNJaGx5TVNnUTdXZVZNejFVTDRmMmdQdWMtVndYTTltNlZYYl9tdjlqRnpYbGRYUENRWFFrenZwdHdLSHQ2aFZuc3QtbTdxYm5R |
Title | r/thewhitelotushbo | post | r/TheWhiteLotusHBO | 2025-04-08 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jR3lhdHdGYnRwQU5Ndlk5WlAxenVfb3loR2tRVndleFpBX2Vwa0xHXzZ4YWRINllGWnZrekd4a0lJSTZfeks1SndSVk9LbGFsRmc3cXNmUnRSQUdrY2c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kLTJ1clh5UlVkdzdEbjM3dUQ4Z1dTWnBEbVluQ18zZUVrSzdfandlamVtQUFrNllNTDdxN1FhQTZ4VzZ3Y2tKbG8ySlpSMTNMZlgteTExLVJxTTZqOUpZRVdLRS1aOTB2bXNLUy1TYU5ISmN4akhsc3lXY3F3NXRfZTZyNnNLZlFpbnMza28yMGViNGtjRWV2WEwtRHZjQmJXem5VUDBrVW16bzA2cmQzYTUtbnY5YUZqS3RVQjNvUEJFM0Z1ckZjTEI4NlZxcVRiaGoxY3JleUwxY2s1dz09 |
He nuked them off the face of the earth because they were hotbeds of depravity.
I do not mean "a man kissed a dude" levels of "depravity."
I mean depravity in the realm of "And when they get bored of your holes, *they use a knife and make more of them*."
I mean with the exception of Lot's family *literally every single person there was some form of murder-rapist.*
Does that mean some of them were gay?
Yes.
However, i am frankly tired of seeing people regurgitate that S&G were nuked for specifically and only that there were some gay peoples there and that being the *only* reason as if it was a city of nothing but saints otherwise.
The children weren't spared because the life they could possibly lead in them was so horrifyingly awful that to grow up in either city was to know nothing but sin, fear, and trauma.
Gays existed literally everywhere back then, just in hiding or they were persecuted.
I'm pretty sure being the originate for the word that more or less means "to anally rape" is more of a concern than a dude and a dude liking each other a bit more than is socially usual. | r/christianity | post | r/Christianity | 2025-04-08 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jVGhxV3Z6dk5GZXNsbGw4ajBGcDdnbGU4dFl0eHFWSXIzUVZSWHlTNjNUbV9aTHdYbEZzWmlLRmtWLWFuNUxZc080ZzNBdG9SQmQwTkhvZVVWczNDUkZsVnZtMGRiZ1ZBdmREcnk2MUZzMTQ9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kT1hJbTgxbUpVOXFncy1GYndPNFNidTg2QmlEYlQ3RXV5UGhIZzhZVXB0QnkxRUliVzdDaFhwd0xWb2xmMXl4MmEyalY2dWtYSnJxcXNJdVhycXQ5aFV5MUFTODliOFZ5U0NMbXNadG80LWtOS3lzbEtYamZKRk1KbUgtUURteE5zUXpFUVBmc1czZVVhbzVObUZRZGJCLWcyeWdzcjZZamRoWkpKRldabDBqNmVncWpBT0RLM04tdDQ0OGgyWW92NkVuWUFhMGRhc1lZZXJCcFFRYi1jUT09 |
Rick desperately asked for a conversation and she asked him to wait for an hour. In that one hour that same man managed to kill the hotel owner, two bodyguards, and gets shot himself along with his gf. 5 people dead, and she could have stopped it all if she had found time for him.
This is quite a burden to carry, but we never got to see her again. It’s funny to think she could have completely altered the ending of this show with one conversation. | r/thewhitelotushbo | post | r/TheWhiteLotusHBO | 2025-04-08 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jdm1MeE4zQlFZQWtjRnNsa01qSXAyczhRWnJlM0FRaTQ3UTVtSEhKb3JxbThOTXJsVlR4aFJpNjdLZDNTMzYwZkpUcmdUN1dWNEtUSnYtMF9BTTZ0ZkE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kb3JKQV94Y3Jnb3A3RTNhcllPMjNLSTY1MTY0d1dtYnBxcE1oUk1HVmVQSmJiSkUyeklCZUdXaXAwb3BBM1BxLVJpLVcxV1lzXzJ3bTJkV2htTVd2SEwzaFFvWEtuNnFyTjJvYXJKQ3dhcElBLW9qM3Q0cUhaaHlsU0hqM3liUGZWZG4xYmhvSkxRc2xnWmlCRkZfaUs4ZFpLQ1hfVW50amNhX3dFOEViejBOWUYzU0lPalJfbnZJN2t6dVRrczZJT0Q1dWZTT0EwUTRRMzVoWDBIcjN0dz09 |
1. Doctor Who
The recasting started when William Hartnell had to leave the show. They explain the recast into Patrick Troughton with a transformation. It wasn’t called regeneration at the time, but the transformation was shown on screen.
2. George of the Jungle 2
This movie features some fourth wall breaking from George saying that the studio was too cheap to pay Brendan Fraser
| r/topcharactertropes | post | r/TopCharacterTropes | 2025-04-08 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jODhjWDlZZ2ROV1g4YmNNblBRT1NBTUZnQ095YXAzSU5NeDFxM0hBUTdqVG03U1I3ZnVnSHBFT3FTYmczSXR3Mzk2RkFWbDUtVkV5MloxWjlaVHZYQVE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kM2JWUEJLVXBfM3ptUmgwRk8xQ09RaFIwLVJ0c1AxWXFaSWhaYTRJR3hMRmljR3RnVlpUT282MXNYRUw2VEVEZUVVMVg5WEpSSEFzZTlveC1sQ3FtbjhVM1NfeTJqTm1yMXU1QVROUEFrVzhGWldyQW1EdWkycnd4bW9iYzJwbmJkd2pwa1JWNTZZZHBDa0ZLb0FEZURURzFUMkIyU3hJNFNfbVFMaTRoM0ZSRGc2cUZ2WnQzbUZUWkJkZlZSVWhSMTZhMFgwdUM5S1V4N2hpV0cwZjVIZz09 |
I love this shirt, but I know my family is going to ask why it doesn’t say “love the white neighbor”. The response that white people aren’t generally oppressed isn’t going to cut it, they’ll have some example of white people being oppressed. Happy to answer any questions, I just want to be able to respond to my family thoughtfully and respectfully. Also, does anyone get any message other than “love people” from this shirt? | r/christianity | post | r/Christianity | 2025-04-08 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jc3JnazlOMXdWWkw4X3laMG1nb0hzNUo1MXc1eUZPSXlxQnJvbzY2V2lXSGNmQjZUTU5zbWtWS3VqM0tfdERkSGFVUmVabWRLaktTWk5RWlV2T3NOS3c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kNE4yd2p3a2U2Sl9fMlNCZU9QOWhYZXkzb0IxbGJ6M3BZY214WVpSelF0NVNBdEY4eVFDdVFWeG9ZUDJOV1o4SGE2S2pTRDBUcU1DaVFBWjB1Ml9Qa3ZGUkxYTl9hUDVSbEE5SW91andjVmJjQk9idUlNZUxHc2Z5c2IycHFKUlVnVmwwY25Ba3pNdHJzV2V3WEtFOHItVWl2amVTb29ieS13aHUyRmh1UUoxMmU0aGlCeFplUU1aeGNoNkd5WkZrSElRcHlkTzNtMG52OXUxdFlOQ0lOUT09 |
Thought this interview with Aimee Lou Wood in [Hollywood Reporter](https://www.hollywoodreporter.com/tv/tv-features/the-white-lotus-season-3-finale-chelsea-death-aimee-lou-wood-interview-1236183887/) was really interesting, particularly this bit when she's digging into Chelsea's character and the walls she has up:
>>!**ALW:** Rick has made his pain his higher power, or the revenge his high power. So, they’re both trapped. And Chelsea thinks that fate is external, but it’s internal. It’s her stuff that she hasn’t faced. It’s her unhealed shit. It’s not big forces outside of her pushing her to Rick; it’s big forces inside of her pushing her to Rick. But she doesn’t look inside. She pretends to, she says that she reads these books. But then Saxon \[played by Patrick Schwarzenegger\] tries to look inside her and she can’t do it. She chucks those books at him and says, “Here, read these.” It’s all the stuff that she uses to deflect: the spirituality, the zodiacs. It’s: don’t look at me, look at this. And you can really see it in that moment where Saxon came and sat on the beach with her and he’s gone and read the book. Do you think that if she’d said to Rick, “I need you to read this book for me,” he would have done it?!<
>>!**HR: Not a chance.**!<
>>!**ALW:** It’s never going to be read. But Saxon takes it, and he reads it — he’s still reading it on the boat home. That end shot of him is him reading that book, which kills me. Because he’s looking at her and he’s listening to her. He’s not saying she’s stupid, he’s not shutting her down, but then she sees Rick and she runs to him. She literally runs towards her fate.!<
Part of me thought Chelsea was brushing off Saxon at the pool because she thought he wasn't being serious and just flirting to be a flirt. But I like Wood's read that Chelsea has these defenses up, which pushes her to be with someone like Rick who seems pretty uninterested and dismissive of her (which is safer than being with someone who actually wants to get to know you.)
What do you think of Wood's comments, or your read on Chelsea in general? Loved her as a character, >!sad we won't see her in upcoming seasons (I assume!) !< | r/thewhitelotushbo | post | r/TheWhiteLotusHBO | 2025-04-08 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jRndwejA2Z2N5QjI2ZzY2S3U4VkNZQjgzYmxacnRVRjVBLWk1d2RjY2ZJS0JJLXpOYkt0MU81M2xTTDNPalJIaDUxTjFsZEc2cGFKN250Ull2dnBsSDJBcFAtaXFxVHdhejBYM1FvTHRlMHM9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kLWJBVXMxUllhckt4Z2J3YjBZX1AtZnptWG5YSXNxcXZqVU9ncm5ZRGwyV2Q5aWpnQUhHM1FYeHRaR1RwcERqTHBSNG5VZVlkZ1E3aWk3SzcwcU42bG5BOE9WTGFRVEhaQmVSei1abzlud2RsblM0c09Uak9xYXdzN25vT1gycUpSazlLdHFuM09VNGxyTHk0ZEVtWmo1U2pnYTZzcFZUTGo4cnNMTnhwQTQweW9zN2tkYUJySXc0dnB2WHNLeDJvTkRHb1llaWtrOVRJOUVLY1RRaEhrQT09 |
This conversation happened yesterday and two days ago was my ex’s 3rd anniversary of his death. Me and him were best friends since we were 11 and we ended up dating at 16 until 18 when he died. The current guy I’m dating is the first guy I’ve been a relationship in since. And before anyone comes at me saying I’m after getting into a relationship while still having feelings for another person, that isn’t the case at all. I understand my bf can be hurt by what happened but is it really enough for him to leave me over it. I’m kind of lost. Am I AIO or is he?? | r/amioverreacting | post | r/AmIOverreacting | 2025-04-08 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jOGx2T3Vvak15dVAwT1U0N2FrdmtkWFY5dkI0U1RkQUF5OXRELV8xTHFYVFZ3eGF1bFd3LTlWa194T1YwTzV6TC1XaVVtZm9QeHA0VGkwRlkwblpIOFE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kQlAtNXNaTG5yZ3ZjUnU1UE83OERDTGtTTkN4R0RGeUF3aUNBa0s2Njd5eUZQVmxncDVCY2YxZEF0WjI4dEd0dUxvaGJ0LVJ5akNQVmFlSzVTNThBWE1HOUV5SUxPVk5JUnprc3R0bGpQUTRCenZIb2wxQVhTZFBvajdJYnBMcXNFZW1IMlFBdk91RHI3TTJPekRtenlhUVhEQ3FjeVhNcy1Xazc1amRqNVJTeFpMYmtyNWtONVYtRUliUTRVbk45RWJPVlUxV3hxZjQ4N1lnVkRXN2YxQT09 |
Holding over night like all good degens. Also, I hope you all have a great week. Kiss your loved ones. This is just money. You matter. | r/wallstreetbets | post | r/wallstreetbets | 2025-04-08 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jMUhVaXBDcGlXQjdZcXBDaWhrY2VSa1N3YV9JMkRlYU9rSUpSek1mU1Y3WkVtRVg3V21uMkVja1lBeldxUTRWZEtPMXdRS1pkM2R4UmhWdnd0ZEwwa2c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kd0JxN0E2Y0FFaDdCVmFPcVhobmpMNE5JOElJUEdyNFR2X0N0bGZRWV9xSEVoeHhVbkJZbXpjOWgtejlOMjUycWNjOFFPbUM4Rjc5bEN3RERkV2VTb0s0MXI1eG1kQ1g5R2QxcW1Dd0dUSEhpSkZ5YjVhV1VVZTlpOEplV3FGd0hnd0lpVWJyRUZaaW1WU2cxcUJlT3pkeFlVNVdDblNnLTN3STBrbnJaZUZHcHh3eXlkRWtERU55V3VjSWNISm05 |
It seems that WaPo has not adopted MAGA is Maoism trope lol | r/neoliberal | post | r/neoliberal | 2025-04-09 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jVWtoVjFEd1dMT2pncHF1SXhYczdsanZ5eUFnSzFzZFBnNEp1emx3SUNxbVZKeGUyREk4cjdpTnFKSGtrU192cHRiUjRHVkhtZm81Nm4zMUxITTlCUFpadVBVQ0ZhQ3A5R2REc1RDbzQ0MDA9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5ka1NnSTlzZW5DcU52SmNqQ2hUS2NBUUxRQzQ3YzJseE4yNmhXQzFEYS13OWIwTkt0S2hLakFFbUZJeG1HMG9fSjcyRmZmMm52aTBRSm9Pa2M4dXNIZXJHei0zVC0taVpYQks4QURpSkpaalpoZDA5WmZUU1ZkWTFPYnRYam5iZFlVQU5UaUZDMDVKaEVaNEgzUkQzMloyUVFIc3pjZmxxWUtxRXN4bE9KcUdGMThsMjZCZmNmQ29fU2pZNXNsblA4NWdxTnhsMmU4VTFsTjE2ZEFwaXA5QT09 |
I thought about why season 3 gets such mixed reviews, with some calling it the best and others saying it's the worst. I boiled it down to this image I made.
Thoughts? | r/thewhitelotushbo | post | r/TheWhiteLotusHBO | 2025-04-09 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jaExzVzdLTDA0QVlrOFBBSFRkaGc2WjVEOUNyRGdXNWl4Q2p0R1ExUVU2dWl5YVFreXk4Qm82a29sT2ZCN1FfMWN5ZTRoTXBzaDQwTkJpUm9PRGhzd1E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kZ3FIOHZ2M0ZzeTBkT3FpdmFVU2FhcFlFRjlnb1JRdnpaNzBiMDdaa1J5REpUSXZtZ1FPNkhNNDNVd2lyTzJWMmxGa29VQkJZcGR4R3NOcmhhTWVVaGVVM0x1NTM1VXR3WXR2RHA4NmhZR1ZveU5FRl9JbDdjUlI2WFh1Y2IzYjN0Tm5FY3RreGlLdFRtRFdjU3R1TkRwSERFR0JvX3Q1dE9ucnAwbDZEMEd4V3hOQWlVS1FBcWNySVlhZTVaSVAz |
I’m sure this will be fantastic for drug prices. | r/wallstreetbets | post | r/wallstreetbets | 2025-04-09 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jdGllR2NTajRlbmxpRlpuQW53OEwtQ3V6S1NhU1czQnBmSTBpRDItQWQ2Y0ZpSWNHY1FhajFOMmc5dVFUamItZ1dPV1ZCOWNTUXJObkhQLWdpWkFKLWc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kVU9VZXlpZ3FadWhtaHBHRUVKUUg1V1ZNNHRoNVczVzF2bFlxSUVrbnFybGhfWDJJZkc0YW81dm5MRkE2WjA4TTBvWUFwSVpLOFRkYUlTQ01uVHVFYXJGYzNqcVJCUWdfdXFqVk5FWm9FZi1sYUxwZVpmUEQybjJMQzRZM1lSb3k0Q3dWd21vbVJReFZEd1F1dkl5clNPcjFkSmJ5NFZUNHB6bHlyaUtmSTR0ZGpEQzN6czZGMGpmV3JUUHBHZGxZWE5hSjlCZV8yVGhzZE5tTWVMN25Odz09 |
The guardians of Oa (green lantern)
The elder gods (mortal kombat) | r/topcharactertropes | post | r/TopCharacterTropes | 2025-04-09 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jLTZoMjVUYW1CUTM4alEzT3JRTzhxRkRkM19YalA4SUR4ZktWQnNPVzZIZFMwVXAxeFNuNFlPS2c3cGJQeW5yZzhOV3NIZ2RzZmlJRW1tbEZkckE2eEE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kSnpjUE9lTW81WUZtZXpqTmVadmlQLW9Wb0hybnZEVkF0LXlOTGN0U21oc1R2MnhDemNvLUQ3M0NjM3RmVVl1eHRwajN1VHV4VEN0ZGRfTVRHanY5aGNVMVJ6bkZMQWNsQW85dEFLRlYzcUg1bU8wLS13NlZUT0ZaUjV6NDVSeXRvNzI1Nk5zS3pwWDV2Y0owWkJOS2xyRS00NjZHdk9peEJwcmhMQXdBSy1VeDF0c3lyNnBxaGRLbE5vT1M1RXhOU0UwcGw0dHFmWTk1UHRLcXg1REZqZz09 |
Male avatars preferred!! (though I'll probably attempt to genderbend female avatars too)
It is required to also include your username! Also note that I might not get around to everyone due to a few reasons. (Incompatibility, barely any change, or too much people) ALSO, NO TROLL AVATARS OR COSPLAYS PLEASE
Anyways, include the 🤑 emoji in your comment to prove you read this and *not* get ignored. | r/robloxavatars | post | r/RobloxAvatars | 2025-04-09 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jMEx0U255c0pWR2xsejFzUUZXdVYtY3JKQngxcU10b1FxVXhmMnppOWRodVFSQTlVRXFYMWFneWg5UFV1ZjNLSV90anNiQWk2NG5mVGxRYjFLdVExbFE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kZVdmYVRmd2k5YlhhRWJ1ckVBYTlFR2dSdWpqa2N1Q0doVFRyN2NCdmF1Y29VekNULXRYNVotMm1PSTl2ZU5ocy1QLWwxbjRwbHVzT0NVUkczanlLM09yNzlfVGQzMXpmaVpTQjlyYTBGaFVJOFdNWkxRX2g4NDdEVXZveEdUUldJTlExeHRFeWcwdXlkTEhJNlBZbWZfRmhrdmMwUHB0VmZLVDZRUHRjem9MTFVEM1lmOWhhUFlLMTFxc1hGYjFVejJJQXcyVHpTR1JCYkgtd3ZjTjFMZz09 |
FULL LIBERATION DAY TARIFFS ARE HERE
THE WORLD ORDER HAS FALLEN
BILLIONS MUST PAY | r/neoliberal | post | r/neoliberal | 2025-04-09 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jN2pvNTJkenU1VnhvU0NnSnpTbUVMX08yTUpHNnNnaFg5RU16UFp5bXdpU3NkNzFmVU5ncnhOZXh4dE52azRRcFZsUFNIenYtOHV6SHJjYjBLcU5KYUE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kbzdwWTQweFJ1eFZLM0hKdWtVMWM5TW5Wa1dNRVh2TXNPcm5XaWg4MzBjbkhaOGw4VFAwZHpjeVlock9UYlZaY3l5OEc3Yk1FNm1aSVZad295SjRiVzVUMURDQUZJYW4tU3kyVDB6eWJhSDhpMGlDT3FkOXlEUFBaZWlLZGwwTVpOZ0g1SjBZcDlsWGFmTENsMEp1RW1uZFRHTXZQY2xDRnhDT3QwVHZFRHRnPQ== |
Yields are spiking. Bonds are dumping.
The world is running away from America | r/wallstreetbets | post | r/wallstreetbets | 2025-04-09 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jbV9sNF9neEUyRjNLOXBLb3huaUU1RlhhaWRoMllOR3BLSHJnSmxjaGczYVVnRUNscVJEYjB3SFhWM1E5Q3YyZVRvcGpaUXM4RTlsa1kxQVFNM19hdmc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kZl9FR09wQ2hpanhwdkd4dVlhb01mSUYzRF9MZUZDX1ZaaFBwLThaMjMwY1lHZzdBd2IzRHJtZFBrYWI2VUM5eVZsVk5OVDJtNS1MRWZQYlBodExvYTBKcGx2V1czaUk1NWhUZnlFRXpMTFlxU2lwblpfYzZwaTBlQjF2MU1FWG5NTVFGS05sLUlma2JhTC1RcTBtakd0WTdnY2Z3Y1dFSHdfYUxUV3czd0ZsTW5KRzBBXzg5cGZ2U3NGa0tDR2ZF |
Okay, so it's totally okay if you go to your partner to talk about things that are upsetting you. Same for them coming to you. I get it, it's normal to do that.
What my boyfriend of two years does is a bit much. Literally, we were having a completely normal conversation. We were talking about a TV show we really enjoy after I had just gotten off of a twelve-hour shift. I just wanted an easy evening, and I told him that. I told him that right now I don't have the mental space to deal with anything else on top of what I already am dealing with(a friend of mine just killed herself not even two days ago, and I'm a nurse, so I'm exhausted on top of everything else). It was cool and chill until I stopped talking to turn on said show for us to watch. Then, out of nowhere, he started talking about how much he hated his dad. This would be fine if it didn't happen every time we spoke.
Like, even on the day I found out my best friend in the entire world killed herself, he started talking about his dad and about how much he doesn't like him and how he doesn't feel respected by him and about how much it sucks that his dad won't change. I get it, not having a good relationship with a parent is hard and I give him the space to talk about it usually, but I just can't handle it right now. Literally I got off the phone with my friend's sobbing mom and I was in a weird foggy headspace where nothing felt real. I told him what was up, he said sorry and hugged me, and then not even fifteen minutes later, the same conversation that we've had a million times came up again. I ended up just sitting there barely paying attention while he talked at me for over an hour before I excused myself and took a bath.
I told him very bluntly tonight that I really just need a few days to mentally recover, and I don't believe I'm in the space to comfort him the way he needs, and he totally flipped out on me. He called me a bitch, told me I was completely selfish and that he needs to talk about his dad so he doesn't obsess over it. He told me I don't understand what he's going through because I never had a dad in my life to begin with. I got defensive because that comment hurt my feelings, which made everything worse. I told him that, yeah, I didn't have a relationship with my dad but I don't spend every hour of every day talking about it. He ended up screaming at me that I need to shut my fucking mouth and he hit the wall beside my head. Then he got his car keys and drove off, leaving me there. He still isn't back and it's 1am. His location is off, he hasn't returned my phone calls. All I got from him was a concerning text message around 11:30 saying, "You're completely unempathetic to what I'm going through. I hope you think about your actions."
I don't know what to do going forward from here. I want to have a conversation with him about all of this when he gets home, but I don't even know where to start. This is the first time in our entire relationship where I've told him I don't have the mental space. This is also the first time in our relationship where he's stormed out like this. I feel guilty because I know the relationship with his dad upsets him, and I absolutely shouldn't have gotten defensive, but I just don't have it in me to offer comfort. Is there any other way I can say to him that I don't have the space?
Edit/update: I’m not going to lie, the moment comments started coming in about abuse, I felt sick. Luckily the panic I felt lit a fire under my ass. I freaked out, spam called my brother at like two in the morning to wake him up, grabbed my basic essentials and a few bits of clothing and left.
I’m staying at my brother and his husband’s house right now because that’s what they told me to do. I turned off my location, I haven’t returned his calls or texts. He got home an hour ago and started spam calling me when he realized I wasn’t there.
He’s throwing out a lot of apologies and begging right now and I feel completely overwhelmed with guilt and this need to be there for him. But I don’t want to be the thing he hits next.
I just want to say I am eternally grateful for everyone here. And I’m grateful for my brother who was absolutely horrified when I told him what happened and opened his home to me. I’m going to talk to my mom and we’re going to figure out a way to get me out of there and away from him permanently.
Thank you all so much again. I’m going to get some more rest, I just wanted to let everyone know I was safe.
| r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-09 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jN3Q3RDhIbkJXRzd1d1M1dmFUMmlHNVhVVkJOVGl2eHljNEQ1dUd3VTMxUkhNMTAybkJMSUI1YTF0bVpKWHNldDZfYW9Sc2NzaVM2MWx6SmpKZ3ZsMlZiaWhFTlROMGJ1alQ2MFVCX2dIbkE9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kODhSNEN2dWFtaHU1OTR2eVB1MzNyYzdYLUE5MVphbDZmTHZoWFlJb3Z2cVE2YjVMTnE1UjVwdVdGb0lZZXZlUkljdkRnNFh4eC1qU3VFcW9xeTJmeTRNMnlDOVlsamdFMFhQUUNaNFJxMHlNNjdYTzRJdENLQUZ2REk2Y1BBeGN5bTBzTjdsV1dxYUJyY2NVTGlialdhQkk0Xy1saDQ1dUdEcHFWSTFBcFdkWGdUYzhmM3FwYm9MMUZPbjYwcW1JYXVTaVJsS2xjeS1tbk9EcTRQbHlaUT09 |
Basically, what I am asking is what event shaped your avatar’s personality. Was it because of an interaction? Was it because of trauma? Was it because of a sense of duty? Was it because of something else?
Jasolynn is sadistic and insane, because, since a young age, she was fascinated by blood and guts, much more than the average errot (the name of her species) would be. She’d not just consume them, but she’d also use them to create art and would sometimes just play with them. Because of this, she sees beings of flesh as just beings of flesh and nothing more, without caring that each of them are actual living creatures. That’s why she’s always cruel to every living being and believes she is superior to them, and why it is so hard to actually earn her friendship or be on good terms with her without just being used by her. | r/robloxavatars | post | r/RobloxAvatars | 2025-04-09 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jQmw3Sm03R1FISjdsX2lmVUFHQVdOVnBhN2htLWdkNVUwSzZRRWpuOXpUT0ZpRHplbWJxVEN4WlVCY0hLSFQxZkhkT3lBT2xtalFwMldYTFpHYWJpTHdZenJ1N0pxdlZBbkFXUy00SlZzdVU9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kMFVDam5DLWpKWkM3T0V6VHZHckpoZXVhNjhDLVFJeVN5TDlidHMyTDBWRXZMQ0JyT3NXNjQwSlQ3SU1qbm1PUkEwSnFlRXk0MjlyZVFyaVpBbHBOMkZ2SDhOZkRhaVFMV0hITUttbTNPbnRrbC1STFpzY1NPOXhSYk1iTEdVbng5Z252eTJqaDJxTzJLYnA0aXN2OWZoSmJaZGh0N1RHUWtjYmJfZVAzX20zaVZKeEtScVR3QVFOSVJiV3lRSVEz |
I (F32) have been with my husband (M30) for 12 years.
Yesterday, I posted my first ever Reddit post – I’ve been a passive user for a few years but rarely interact. My only past interactions were upvoting and commenting on what my husband posts.
When I checked the activity on my profile to see if I had gotten any comments on my post, I came across my husband's profile from our previous interactions. I decided to take a look at his posts/comments without thinking too much of it – he was actually sitting right across from me.
To my surprise, I saw a comment he made about a year ago on an 18+ NSFW post where the OP said something like, “Comment on this post and I’ll send a sex tape of myself,” along with a fully exposed picture of herself. He had commented a “.” on it, just like many others did.
When I asked him about it, he repeatedly said he didn’t recognize the post, had never seen it, and never commented on it. He said it must’ve been a glitch or that his account was hacked or something. We checked his login activity, and there was no activity from other devices, only his own. I also pointed out that it seemed very unlikely to be a hack – why would someone hack his account just to make a single comment on a NSFW post?
After some back and forth, I accepted the “glitch” explanation, as he’s never given me any reason to doubt him before (his phone is always lying around, we know each other’s screen passwords, etc. – nothing suspicious).
Today, though, I’m second-guessing myself. I’m not very tech-savvy, while he is. I’m thinking: if he wanted to hide something from me, he would definitely be able to. So now I’m wondering – is this something he does regularly and just forgot to delete this one? Or did he maybe use the wrong Reddit account by accident and not realize it? Are those kinds of glitches actually common, or did he just slip?
(Mind you, I don’t mind if he watches porn – that’s never been an issue for us. My hard boundary, however, is interacting with women in porn – like through OnlyFans, for example, or in this case, via Reddit. I consider that cheating.)
What do you think?
Thanks! | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-09 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jLWctSVJwTEVTcFNNODF2b2ZqWmg3Vm9KdzhBZWNIeHczNEtlOHpuOVp2RjNhbzJvSENHRndaNjF1VXFlQ0NxdUl1eW1iVHN5dHhzMkJCcFAySHdzcVE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kaEdTaDAxVWVSdWFaVGpTbnR4Q2lQdnkyeEtwUG53bHBmTUFNRE1lVGVLelRidDJjRGNoemtrSVRONkdac0tLNXJ5c2pCSkNKakxpaEVmUDFEM2Izb2F4TzdMaXhQRmxEN3pYVjRtOFQwZmZlWjg3NTUzT1BfbEpoc1YxWXNVV1lPbGFBb1lmWXRDLVJSY0x5UEZpVDJDZDNJVnE4Ui1EcTNQWjI2Y2xyWlRUWGI4Y01MekhHU2ItN2VjTmJVTklEVmJNMlVjcVVEemxUZjJDbklXR0hxQT09 |
I mean, it's Sam Rockwell. One of the best actors of his generation. So there is that. The man could have played age appropriate role in this season and absolutely nailed it. I found out in this article that he is partners with Leslie Bibb [https://www.hollywoodreporter.com/tv/tv-news/sam-rockwell-white-lotus-monologue-acting-coach-1236175014/](https://www.hollywoodreporter.com/tv/tv-news/sam-rockwell-white-lotus-monologue-acting-coach-1236175014/)
His character comes in like a hurricane with that story about the ladyboys. Then he's got his friend's back no matter how dangerous it is to his sobriety and growth. He falls off in front of our eyes. Then just nails that part with his diving roll. Then back on the wagon at the end.
He was the most enjoyable part of this season for me. Rock on Samwell. | r/thewhitelotushbo | post | r/TheWhiteLotusHBO | 2025-04-09 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jNjRER1g2MXRrTUZFbGtITGRuS0s5OU1wVG5WTGIyd19NR2FPbWJkVndNSnJrOWVWQ0Rnb1RRWC1IcnJfbVRrUXRVSXF6VHlzdG5oOWhtQmpJdXF3Zmc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5keXJrWldZb01PdXFUWEpNRlhJbVJoQzV3ZlhLdWo1T0pFM2ZMYURyXzQ2cXMzd0JfM29tUDJuc0JGS3JCZS1PRy1FTC00NGJmelp4NVhwQk5WQkx4WjhBTHh3WTlORGdqTUhjYVRvU2Jqbk5UY0VIVlRqNzNUZjU1dUd2SWI3X04zcmNpcHRuQzNEWlNodDdIM0dwT1VhX29kcUROdWxlSWllbUdsYm42WW9oOEliSlVWVHhLQk13LXY3Ui1nQ1lDY2hIMjZGa0Zna0d4MU5FUEpTQmd2Zz09 |
The art historian in me cannot ignore the parallels between Rick’s death scene and the famed Ophelia painting by John Everett Millais. Ophelia was driven to madness that led to her taking her own life, trying to live up to what her father wanted. Rick essentially took his own life trying to find the father he thought he had.
Shakespeare people might have more to say as I’m speaking from the art side. Thoughts?? | r/thewhitelotushbo | post | r/TheWhiteLotusHBO | 2025-04-09 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jMHpmRXVpUmwwazAzUk40bGU3UVg5WGtsZXd0LWk2eGd6bDVZUGFCaWhiVktvZENPVVBmZjBQb3hyZ0lWR0ZWWS0yRS03M0c1SUhKX29EdFh2WTd1T2I4QTRCRDhiMHFnN3hzUlM4cVhlaUU9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kSnFYTVVCdnpicHk2SzhsMDBMUjZxeTJZdGdNMWNoTlpYajUtZ3piTkctaWxQTjBvbmIzTlNpcjBOVzhDaS1FZWw1Y1RhcFVFaHRZTEZCaGNadmZNUWdBdEg2X2gwdlEtYU5ublgtR1IzNDRfYTN1Rmh4djJzWEk5Z3g1RHZUSzdpRlZRdGZENi1hY0VVbEM1LTZ0eUNIb1NSVk5jREw0VWFMOVBjUHY5QXpRPQ== |
“Just one more thing…” - Colombo (Colombo)
Ezekiel 25:17 - Jules (Pulp Fiction) | r/topcharactertropes | post | r/TopCharacterTropes | 2025-04-09 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jcktuQlJOaU5hNnhkc0hlNmZHRS1rZ0FhTUo1MHc2SE1TeUhFR2lQcEp6NDBkMHNoTGRNMnJCeFl1SGpET1lnT2ctdzA3MDR5NkdZNm9vMlU2UXpuSmc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kaGhCMVp6ZW5xa0stNlNsNjA3NFoxNXFWQ0Y1NTVjNDlYTGR3ODBxNTIta2RBUGZaUWMwM0RTczJPMnhhU05YemVlMWc5WmJIMWZ4WGwyY3dYc2JxQ3lHUWI3SmJ6Y0JTRHpIM0ZaaENKVlY1S3dCSkJRNnc5SXBEejlhVmdIZ2JydXNkUFhPbUQyaHVqS0pmaUV4RnpVN0JrMFp3cFQ1WTZ4cnA5TDBLZXYyc05tM2tyTHZlRnFRRHgwZmNQVkdQUTFCOFBWSHZpMnM5MThsam1jaURtZz09 |
GTA 5: Trevor Philips kills Johnny Klebitz
Prototype 2:James Heller kills Alex Mercer
American Psycho 2: Rachel kills Patric Bateman | r/topcharactertropes | post | r/TopCharacterTropes | 2025-04-09 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jZ0s2X2V2TTNla1Y0ZGZsWVpIUEF5TzN2SnpfS1o1aHVDbkVFU0FjNzRyRndnVTRDR1l6MXRBbFpMMGhRWnJodTRSeW1XcWJOaHZHaDZkQjV3VjBjUUE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kMlZ3RWVjT0xfV0w2c1daZDNYUExtZG91cmgxdVZzS1dXM3pEYmt3a0J2QXN1VW9JaUlPVWRianB0QXA0dG95WXN2cDZCekpxSmNqYVZ1bkgta1M2MXpjNGZDaEVRRmFLWER4QjFiVTNqdll6THJwcFQ1bmliZnNqUGJsdlBoSjM2eXMtMGtESk1PMWVHM3dTUWJkVnduN2dpNHFvNE5jLVVYWTBLWW5jT3ZsVWhTUGhXdkVPMmh1MlFPRU1KUkhfZ05NOExvVWxPZkZMalRHdWx3eVZ3UT09 |
I always saw people losing their life savings on WSB, never did i think it would be me.
Don't do options, you lose.
(Positions included) | r/wallstreetbets | post | r/wallstreetbets | 2025-04-09 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jSWVnVmswTEljY2VHWklFYzVCU2RQUmtlWlpiUTZaZHpoQVJnR2lDemRmaFdoNHVRWTJERVhIZzlsVGU5eDlZOUlIblluZmJud2wxai1ZUWhFM1RGYVE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kcUdyMDVpTXdkeERTTWxfNGw3Y0Vna1VGcGEyTzdFOHAyVmNWNzFnbDRhNDI3SkN3Wkg5Um5fMnJtMEQzdEN0Yi1USkU0QWp5SUM5ZGhBMnJGMGxyeUhqdTczVXpVcXNOQURYQ0pxcTRXcGdCQnM3R1FzZU5FZ2hMWjdLRVhpbnlvYXVRR0dMNzEzS0Q1QWo3M1JZQ1A1WjA1ZXo2bWppYzRpN2JwTWl1YzlTSW1iU1psUGRHZTBqNVNPUERpNEc3LVpXOWJ2MmFqT21jNVRHN2NYSmgwUT09 |
This spike just killed all of my puts. ChatGPT tells me it’s a bear trap likely cause by big players shorting out retail traders — can anyone add credence to this or add their thoughts? | r/wallstreetbets | post | r/wallstreetbets | 2025-04-09 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jTldobnVUU3lrczNkenFSZWhjb3BjendtWmtrcm5VZmFqZGdQYXE0bTFOS0ZyNkVuZW1qTVh4MG1Id3VrMVotdFZUT3Z2eVVGMzI2UVlUbF9nOFBIVFE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kX1Vmb2pVSmttWGhxTVAwVEpRN295TGVySkZfV3RHQWxTUDhhak1BSExhQVF4ZDF0cGFjemxNTEJWVm5kZGZ1OUZCSE9TdG44ZWtqU1htWTU1T2hWWFlGZ3ptcWJBc1BSVFJCZG5EOGZmWlVzbDJaRUZ1TDgxaGtQblNJMDlMN2JtaEZDQ2FveTNsbTFHaUp2N0d6YldiaVlBRk9IT2lrTTFKSWp3SjVVcDZlOU43QnhEWUYzd1RHamdrYm9WYUlX |
I'm building a house and I live in a very rural part of the south. I am trying to hire contractors to do some work and one of the workers with the company has a 1488 tattoo on his neck. I don't want to hire racists. I'm canceling my contract with the company.
Edit: Just to be clear, it's a worker with the people I'm hiring.
Edit2: I was trying to keep up with responding to everyone, but I can't keep up. I apologize and really appreciate all of the genuine, helpful feedback! Thank you! | r/amioverreacting | post | r/AmIOverreacting | 2025-04-09 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jT0dHLTFIVnlKTjdmcmc3X3ZIWExMR0paaVZWZExxOFZVZnhRS1BqU1c3bFB3M3hVdDAtZWxXc2dKbEVVT1RjZ1Q1Yi1NSUE1bHVma2FaQjQ5b0k2NVE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kSjFZSHFVZk1ZdFBiWnE1N1lyYmluNmpNZUg1R25KVm5aMHA3U08tQnVZalhBODNuempqUWFlenp5U29xZkNWYkxOYnlJRVpfOGthbzZ5YUllN00wMEVYbXk4bUFoaUk0bVljQWE4c0k4dHlBaFRfQ2RuOG9TZmJZUGNOMWttTnRTWnBRX2doZjJJeEc5WngwY3hIU1VfYTdJcnc3cEdPLVQ0Sk1SVnZFMHc4c1lubk9SNG1naDd1b19zZi13QklRWkpJU0Z6aGJZZXNuNTFSdENOVFpsQT09 |
After volume dried up and trading went sideways, it appears a small group of insiders discovered a strong reason to buy at 1pm ET, before the news went public at 1:20pm ET. | r/wallstreetbets | post | r/wallstreetbets | 2025-04-09 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jSnZCRG5RT2xWSld3OV9ndHE1cFBfUmRDaEJmUnhDNU4yU0lxLWlHdWoybWd0MnJjRTQyeFJiSmFlbkJYcjN1NlBDdnB1REJfcUtRV0ZhSlVNd1VzeGc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kcy0xa2dPVzlHTmZqb1FYNTFqVGVWUVFQeFY1VzNsZnM4TkxQTWVnQXZvYkh1OVAzVDBndlBjR3NKYVFDRXJnN2NtdmlRYkdjOV8yZTVFTHlEd2RjbGNsR1VPNXI0TTgtQ2FmSUViTlNCc1NJUXBzbFpZMUZqVFdsMXF4emZIN3ZVM1ZBLUJGZElDQlB0MUxaMU40WTFER1dTSTdPY1JVN3B3WVZsZWxZNXFSOGhaNW9vWjc5ZzJ4NFNtZ2x0dkFJVG45Slk4UC05WXNvUElkY1hGY2w5QT09 |
The Mask of Zorro
Jojo's Bizarre Adventure: Stardust Crusaders
Spider-Man Into the Spiderverse
The Animatrix - Kid's Story | r/topcharactertropes | post | r/TopCharacterTropes | 2025-04-09 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jcFBjT0gxNnFrRjRzYVMtV0hUWlY3NEdCVWRpcGM5UzZBSGJMNmxSUTdrdWpaTEFRVVowT1VHTjQtN0UtSWExNkNzdTFWVW5SdWswYzZ1M1RYNldKWlE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kM3BTa2NQTjNENk1RaUhweGVYSU9tYlY5NHdUY2VNaS04bGxRUmdPMTFCdkF4OENBenNhMTNjaTJvNEY2b2ZKeHpwT1B3UXo4M2NHcV8zQ2Fvd3RtdElWbXhPMVotbjdBdmczUTRQbE5wTy10OGhYSFBsYlRncUtKX2NXNl9lYnJQdFNzRHgwYkVUMDFVWkNqVjJaRHk4V2dVdGNmVkpaUll2NFkwYjFwMmZCOS0ya250UTdFUU1ENEFMeXh3UG1DbFFMcE8tcGtBREV0RlZkYlR0bUJHUT09 |
How do I (23F) tell my boyfriend (25M) that I don’t like having sex with him anymore?
So my (23F) bf (25M) has a very high sex drive. I do not… anymore. When we met I was a virgin and after our first time, we went kinda crazy. I’m talking 4-5 times a day, 3-4 days a week. We were constantly talking about it and touching and teasing each other. You know, the honeymoon phase. And I thought he was good about taking care of me but looking back, he would only go down on me for short periods before “giving up” and he said it was too hard to rub my cl*t while having sex.
Those should’ve been the only red flags I needed but alas, we’ve been together for a year now. My drive has slowed a LOT, like, I prefer maybe once or twice a week. He constantly complains about us not having sex enough. When we do, it is imperative that I go down on him, if I express that I don’t feel like it, he gets huffy and puffy and makes me feel bad until I finally give in.
A few weeks ago, he held my head to make me keep going after he finished and literally pissed in my mouth instead of finishing a second time. Afterwards I told him I didn’t want to do that again (i literally threw up) and made it obvious I wasnt in the mood to continue. But again, he guilted me into having sex with him to make him feel like he was “normal.” Just a few days ago, it happened again, but I stood my ground about not continuing and he got very upset and wouldnt speak to me for the rest of the evening.
On top of that, he never goes down on me anymore. We have a toy for me but he complains that he can’t finish if we use it, and makes me feel awkward because I have to ask if we can, he doesnt bring it up himself. He also complains a TON when I ask him to use a condom, usually until I give in again. We do whatever position he wants, for however long he wants, and once he’s done, it’s over, he goes and showers and then goes to sleep.
All of this is making me not want to engage in any sexual activity with him anymore. I’ve tried multiple times to talk to him about it what I need and he apologizes but doesnt change his behavior. I haven’t straight up told him I don’t want to anymore and I don’t know if that is even worth it. In addition to some other things, I’m starting to think this could be a reason to break up.
Hopefully this makes sense, any and all advice is appreciated <3
ETA:
yes, pissed in my mouth. he said after that it was an accident and that he thought he was going to cum again. the second time, i asked him if he had finished (surprisingly i couldnt tell) he said no and pushed my head back down, and then did it again, again saying it was an accident and he didnt even realize
ill address more comments in the morning, i appreciate all the support & YES i am making a plan to break up with him!
Edit 2: First of all, again, I appreciate the support, harsh or not.
Second, after a long chat with my therapist yesterday, we came to the conclusion that he has been mentally/emotionally abusing and manipulating me for a long time in a lot of different ways. the responses to this post gave me enough confidence to tell her about this abuse as well. And we are working on a plan to process it all. BF and I live together (worst decision ive made i know) so I am planning on silently packing my stuff this weekend and getting out.
Third, about the piss. I’m going to continue to mention that this is my FIRST sexual partner. How am I supposed to know it’s not natural, especially after googling it and seeing that it can happen? He acted embarrassed after so I just did what I could to comfort him while expressing I didnt like it and dont want to do it again. Also, luckily I could tell the difference between the feeling of it and cum, so I didnt swallow it, just fyi.
Finally, those of you saying things about “why do women” shut up. why do men? why does this man that i thought loved me choose to constantly manipulate, abuse, and degrade me? why isnt HE normal? i grew up with a narcissistic mother and it, by default, makes me more susceptible to falling for a partner with the same tendencies. It’s not a choice, it’s truly what I believe(d) that I deserve. I AM working on it, and this plan to leave is the first step. dont blame me for what he is doing to me, or say women in general are weak for staying in a situation that you have never endured, therefore know nothing about. i’ll try to update when i am safely away, thanks again | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-09 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jSENsaFkta1JlSzY3RkVFNTBCWUR6bmM3TERWTXZNNFliek9jYy1CNVl5R2FHVlE4YUxZd2hZcXhkYlNqU0VQcDJ5M2lubG5KTWFIMUFoQnE4N3lKdmc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kaTM5VUtyN3p6dUduTzJfcVpWS0dpeHZuaC10WUIxYTFsOVRfdHVOa2ViYXM0MmdzOGNHUVhscGRJM3pLRmM5NnFGc0swMzRUaUt2cEZGNzVlNXNzRVM5MXk3NTV4aExfeFpNMU1UQXhXdGltTDZZcWRGblZXQnFmbUhGQVRzdGYyaTFVb2FkeGh4cnU5NDliZkQteXlZeEoxdHd5MHczZkIzaUx2QmNScjVtYWl4OThUSnFMR2VyNTZ6Z2o5RFZlRklvM2FYMGVnRkNJNm5hczh0c2pnQT09 |
I am one of you
12,200% | r/wallstreetbets | post | r/wallstreetbets | 2025-04-09 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jbjBmOUlDVkhva2NSTWk3aTM0X2tzNFdWdW5GQlptOTdDLWNUa2tLLTRDd1NMeEtkbjZWTldXdlhqc1M4MUJfdFJIWV9YdjY2STVpMkh5eTNUWkMxaGc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kNlNyS2xzeDZyc01TdllKc0NCa1NVZV9TeVVCSUwtcFNuVy0xWEVlTURDZGdlYnYtdVFMSXlmTDNHT041TmVUUVN2RkpMWW9FRG5wSEM4X3d4MDhlSHJnN2QwR3BNMHBEODhsYk5VU1duZUpCMGp1eXd1NDdCaEtnVmRRZ05tUDZhNFpCZmVuVTZEa1lJS0NaSEdVMXpGd1BqZXdUdmNvSURvOUhQY3JhOWJFPQ== |
Puts will print bigly. I am convinced there was a lot of overbuying because of misinterpretation and misreporting around the tariff pause, I expect flat trading tomorrow and huge drop on Friday. We have tariffs against China, Europe, and Canada still. There is still 10% baseline tariffs on every country (this was misreported/corrected). There is no world where apple and amazon should be bullish when we are entering a trade war with China.
Positions (been averaging down even though im down 50% today)
SPY 533P 4/16
SPY 515P 4/10
SPY 498P 4/11
AAPL 180P 5/9
TSLA 232.5P 4/11
QQQ 415P 4/14 | r/wallstreetbets | post | r/wallstreetbets | 2025-04-09 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jZUtMdS01d0hzalpHeUtjcU1WODJhSktqSHZWWHduT3lQdTlPUVZBWmFXMEtnczZmQ0lmMTd5Ti0zczRxNmpHdjRrMDg4SnJVTG11bkpXUlBWUl9HajBjRHh3c0ZoUXhqcHFhUFlQVFFkX3M9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kRmFSenZjOFE4djNZY2V4cDM2NEtkWEk5bVViOERRaExaM1RsSHhIX2dsSG9wMGctcV9sUVFPSXoxbmQ1NXdLaUpSd3BpYXdCX2w1VTRJOUl1c1pvS1BzZFk1MUZfbFF0OGw3RC16aDc1cG9TZ0Z2b0hacWZvaWdCWUpTNjV1Sy10RmtOc2RtYk52SGllQUsyc21VdHJ5UnZwclN2bFpiOG0ta2RNUU9fTzVqLXJNa2t5YlU0MTNVb1hEc0hFcGFKVnMtYnJoWk5ka0VOcnhVUDZEcVRTQT09 |
I’m really torn and could use some perspective.
My girlfriend (29) and I (35) have been together for 8 years. We’ve built a life together, we’ve traveled to over 12 countries, supported each other through career changes, family stuff, highs and lows. For the most part, we’re incredibly aligned when it comes to values like loyalty, kindness, ambition, and the way we want to live our lives.
The only difference is politics. She’s a Republican and voted for Trump both times. I’m a Democrat and very much not a Trump supporter. In the early years, I brushed it off because we didn’t really talk politics much. But lately, I find myself thinking about it more and more, especially with the way things are going in the world.
It’s not that we fight about it, she’s not extreme, and we try to respect each other’s views. But it’s getting harder for me to reconcile how someone I love and share so much with sees things so differently when it comes to the bigger picture, like human rights, leadership, and what kind of future we want.
The real reason I’m writing this is I was planning to propose this year. I’ve been thinking about it for a while. But now I’m starting to second guess everything. Am I overthinking this? Or is this the kind of fundamental disconnect that could grow into something bigger over time?
Has anyone else been in a relationship like this, long-term, committed, but politically divided? How did it play out? I’d really appreciate any insight. | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-09 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jOGNKN3dnaE85UG4xUFJjR1RucE9hWkpPTVNZRlBBZFA5ZEloX211dGN4azdUbGowQmtPb3VrRnlrMVl4djJnN3J2YlI2eTdZclBJVEZhTkZKajhWOVE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kbHc4VklRZ0Zvdy1ZUUFKS3RQR1BTTlk0SEhxN3p3QnBJYnYzRUFtZG81ZjU1VUU5RUVZeXhabk5aaHpjSjBabEJmTEY3clZLd1dEa1JxSFkxNjJMUWNFd0RaVjRVbmtfamhlVFJKbWNCdFlDVndleEJpbDZtWVhfdC1CWmFDMzhhVk5ZYlZtdWZhWi12c1JzWXg2M2Utazd4ODcxbnJPTm13amZabEU0c0s2M053Mzd0ekF1NzB2ZTNBMEtkMmIzLUhyYWJMZjhXUkJ6aXNMMm4wcy10QT09 |
I’m at a bit of a loss and hoping someone has dealt with something similar. My husband has a long-time family friend—let’s call him Jack (54M)—who is deeply involved in his life, and now increasingly in mine and our child’s. My husband and his mum (MIL) have known Jack for over 25 years.
When we first started dating, Jack wasn’t an issue. But after we had a child, things began to feel… odd.
Whenever we visit my MIL (she lives about three hours away), Jack is always there. He never hosts, never cooks, never helps tidy up. He’ll have his dinner sorted, but won’t lift a finger. He even has a key to MIL’s house and will sometimes be there waiting for us—even if she isn’t in.
Jack is constantly trying to engage with my child in a way that feels excessive. For example, when my baby was less than a month old, Jack completely ignored the adults and just sat cooing at the baby. He often tries to hug my child in a way that makes me feel uneasy. It’s like he sees himself as some sort of uncle or even a father figure—and honestly, it creeps me out.
To make matters worse, MIL won’t babysit unless Jack is also present. She says he will be upset that he missed put on spending time with my child. If we want her to come on a family holiday, Jack has to be invited too. Lately, my husband has started behaving the same way—as though Jack must be included in everything.
Jack is single, has siblings and nieces/nephews, but never seems to spend time with them. He only ever wants to do things with us. He’s basically become a permanent fixture in our family life, and I can’t stand it.
He and my husband also run a business together, so they’re very tied up professionally as well. But at what point is it okay to say, “this is too much”?
Jack spends most evenings at MIL’s house, yet despite her often mentioning jobs that need doing, he never offers to help. He just hangs around, doing very little, and still expects to be involved in everything we do.
I’m trying to understand this dynamic—Jack and MIL have never been romantically involved, they’re just “companions”—but I honestly don’t get why his presence is being forced into my life and my child’s life.
I have tried several times to discuss this with my husband. He doesn't see why I have issues with this. I don't see why he doesn't.
Has anyone ever been in a similar situation? How did you deal with it, and what was the outcome? | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-10 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jM0VIaHpaV3BMMWVTVGU5cUhVaHB2d24xaTNnaUYxTDhFSVlEcTdnYXFKbjMxSVFjcm1TcEFxc0ZBQk01bDNNZk5uQkJqNXp6RUdoZURZZGsxQm9yanZqVkZweHRnREVWdzlhTWk2Zlk0ZWM9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kb09SRDNhd0ZRc0ZTS3liempyZjFTTnRWR1ZNVlVjWjVDalRKNVo5b3dfeDM3WVJSemlnbXB6QnZaeTd5V1hBZXVIQ1VKVUt4S0FrTTkzREpmUUNYVkZpd2tRVDJFVXoyT1lUREpmbnJsRmtrZGEzZnFZU3FOalRqVlptdlF5NkNOV2NVSk95MThGdEl2cDNpUzRXZ1pBWVBTbVRDM2xzd0s4cFNIUk9xUzBFODBjbTkxamlRcmZlVVRISmJKd044a0Z1cm1laE5icDNqd1lTalRqQjVhTlh5cnJjMVF5YU1vWVduRlhyY2FBdz0= |
This show is a satire. Every issue I had I've reflected on - and they all really do work.
Sritala's guards are AS BAD as Gaitok at their job.
Rick is AS BAD at communicating as his father.
No one in the Ratliff family knows how to clean up ANYTHING.
None of the rich folks react to the murder - of course they don't. They just move on with their lives like every rich character on this show. | r/thewhitelotushbo | post | r/TheWhiteLotusHBO | 2025-04-10 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jZkgwVG9QNk1QS2dBVHhmSEdNZ2h0czRubWtmUnh1M2xnMDdLaHF6MlJLQXFhemdySFFfV0k2UzR4anJVN2J3SExJS25kRkt0SGRLOEdmT29rcktDZWVZWEpwczBCWkdhZkxiLXoyTEFzZjg9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kWWRuNUtNaHRsY1FhdTRFdTdkbmpQWTQ2M2xQVUI4N193MmtHbVY4RXU5Q3lsVVhSbmFYak1KallsOXBNZFNvNjZ3U05HNjVianpTTk5jY3RkVEV0NThGb2hKWHpWSXZzMkVRVDJRejRzQ1hkWE5Xa1h5b2tqWnMxLTFNZzQ5aWFXbFh3bEJvUEtuQ0NrMTJzNTUxbDVMT1UyeUU5T1hIS0V5SzhibC1wUU5WM3h1dFBkcWwtbXNBVzJRRl94Sjllc1BnbHBnUzN0U0RpZnR2aDl2b2tDQT09 |
I wish I could find more examples (since two DC comics hardly establishes a pattern), but basically I love when villains, especially morally bankrupt ones, have a line that they will not cross, and actively punish those who cross it. And yes, they can justify the logic of it however they want, but deep down, it's because they know what's right.
Joker hates Nazis. He may be psychotic, but he's not a bigot.
Flash's Rogues don't kill kids, and woe is you if you cross that line. | r/topcharactertropes | post | r/TopCharacterTropes | 2025-04-10 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jUGpERGN0aWVnQnA4TkxGZnBVUlF4RXp0TkczdE9EdDhNT2ZtZXpyV3JlakMwUGRxV2o4My12dDBwV1FzUjZZNmlKZzNRN3BtakhXbUJLeUZBYVFfQ0NIZEVISVNUS1RNc0VaU3Q4c2FIM289 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kUnRBLXVoaG50My1mb1dmdmU2dG5LYXlHMUZVSGc5YldQQjIzTWZmamVLaEc0Ul9GX2xFNWQ5cU9vTjF5TEsxVjhrNm9CLXVwT05HOEZRYV9VWFI2NTlOdy1JU09MMnBIa0NLOU5xUGRZTkg0QlpEaGdGZ2RtcWUxQko4Z3duanY0blhjWjg5ZjNfWFdGc1hHTUxXYXZzWWt6bHJXSTBXWkFOdXBLZ3JMZmZjYW92QnQ5QzMtMGpITEZWaUJrVjc2 |
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Odds are it's already been asked and answered
Stop flooding the sub with posts like that and use your brain to use the search bar
I've been here for like 2 months if that and I see 5-15 of those posts a day - it's old
Use the search to find your answer or ask God for an answer, we've done our part now do yours | r/christianity | post | r/Christianity | 2025-04-10 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jYnRpLUlTd0lzbnRueFJpQmRVMGIzMWpxU0JPTnRnR3pONHlfUFZUSjhDN0ZWWXlZUkdKa3pCYlpyT2tQdzY5T2JNWEE5QkJaQUpTR2J0cXlTVXZWenc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kdUJaX25KN3NFNU53dndibzhyTHdYUDFNbjZFWTIzRjJmZEhlZng4ZDc5ZEdVQUduVHNpdnBNRnZ6Y0J0MTFvczZQdGZWN1RRMkdIcjJCRzNEcHBkd1ZWdnA0aUdCN2hsVVMwU0V1X3gwSFdnRVZSbjlybmwzRVZrUjVQN3V5NEZXR29Zd2loeDhMWFhaWXFLSVBra0NSZXFlQUxKdE51N1hQSUZfMlh0WXpGTVVVbkRZcUlVRDhuYlBFQTNpSWhO |
Physician here — much like with alcohol, someone who has been using a benzodiazepine like lorazepam daily for an extended period would almost definitely go through withdrawal if they suddenly stopped. Physical dependence on benzos usually comes with a pretty recognizable withdrawal syndrome: trouble sleeping, irritability, heightened anxiety or tension, panic attacks, hand tremors, sweating, trouble concentrating, dry heaving, nausea, some weight loss, heart palpitations, headaches, muscle pain or stiffness, and various sensory disturbances. In higher-dose cases, you can even see seizures or psychosis.
So the whole time after Tim took her meds, I kept expecting her to start unraveling — and it just never happened. Parker would've absolutely crushed that kind of arc. | r/thewhitelotushbo | post | r/TheWhiteLotusHBO | 2025-04-10 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jbzVyYnNab2duTHg4N095SGU1dzJLSzBiQzVrT25velhTQ1NDb1Vyam5BYVQ1dkhtUTV5c3U3UWo0UzlpM0ZHa0c3T3dZZmpDcUZCTUpBMEhSaWFfS2c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kNjM4d3Y2NmNyMnl6WXpoZURRS2xIT3h3UUVpdXNvbWtzLTBRVEowYjdVMmU2NmxGclRXVUVMcHNyTFRZZ0VGczdyZXkycnEtTUllRjF6RXJ6MW1yS3ZBd2V6eDUxVy0xUU5HT214WEdzbDNRYnl0eWpMSFpwUXZfQmRzNVg2Y2tTdWFSRTBoR0FDQU1oX1dKOUdUNDlVSXgtekFadm04QWJJbDVjemNvRUc4TUZJTUFORHpGNGxxa0FsdkVOOEV0cVdtdGZhS0JhVHZ4UEgyTHo0VHZTUT09 |
What episode of South Park is this? This doesn't exactly scream healthy bussiness landscape. My guess is that we got a nice relief yesterday, but the disturbance from tariffs will still be felt for quite some time. It's going to be a long time before we see ATH. But then again I'm just a regard like all of you. | r/wallstreetbets | post | r/wallstreetbets | 2025-04-10 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jZEJ6eXp6UHdDTzVlTXlqUGdtUHgyYTBxNUt5d2c4dGJrOVdqSlplMEZpRHhoUmxXVHFxcm1wMkFvUlNQeG9FS1M5aERMM19BN0VHYU51Zm80OHJOTnc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kbFFCY0NHWEZxUG9HYXF2enBKT1h2SGUzZmFLVjNNTzhxRHFDVFFWRlMxcGdNSE01R0VKRERNdFh6S2ZnM2VFQ2xJZmpQOGhFdEhWTk9aXzFKVUFITDNteE95Ti1GOEE2cFQ1OUdfQkFscWF6S2NyMl9VZ0dKOWtSd2Z6Rl9qTVJVU3NHaDBCSkxqWVVaOHdiQXNsa1dhd1JZeVdtdVB3N0lRSi1NUlhEVDhyQ1dBWm9vRDk3dzNGNHA2TkNUaFRZRGczWlI2dmExemNDdUM5X0FJbjJsdz09 |
I'm not upset that I declined to humour him, but I'm not proud of the way I responded.
For added context, I have no idea who this guy is. His name and face are absent from his profile. He laughed at some of the memes on my story and participated in some very minimal small-talk throughout the week. He beat around the bush to see if I was single, and then he said he had a question.
He wasn't impolite in his phrasing. I just can't get over the subject matter. But I'm genuinely floored every time I'm reminded that some men think we're Pokemon. He claimed to be 27, which, if true, would have to be the sourest grape in this cornucopia of sheer fucking chicanery, and I feel like if we don't hold others to a higher standard, they'll never realize how little they expected of themselves. | r/amioverreacting | post | r/AmIOverreacting | 2025-04-10 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5janNwNHYwSlh0bFJtdzNybkxMY05FZzhySVhQR3p3bjUzdWJzTUJXY2txTUxYelRJSXhFOTdKbVE3aURZUVh2TjZGSDEtNWNOZDVOcVJSTF9CdG9SeGlha3FSeUpVUkducFBZVWtDYkZhZTQ9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kcHVhUjRqbVF1bWo0SGtuNV9PT1RfTlZaWlc3WEV5Y1VvUGlwTVZ1OWpxRTZ1OWxPMXhGZGtSdWxndXJRSFZIYmJxc1dDUHBkLXBwanFUZFJsNV9nM1BLVzQwb0NzNTh4X0VFZFphVUxTZ3cxaHhiSFRIeEp0LUNibFZKTHMzZm9tazdOV3BWal92YlBQcDc0N1NLQXFCZS1sYzV6OUJfbUdySDROWVNvQkNWcWhscXpORnRGOGpHV24ydS1Ya2s5RFBmR2htTU55YXV6cG9VckN0QTdmZz09 |
The Beast-Over The Garden Wall
Vilgax-Ben 10 | r/topcharactertropes | post | r/TopCharacterTropes | 2025-04-10 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jWjQwNnVxM3NxcFc3U2E2aHdXMDczbE1LM3ZJejRfQnEzT3plaHVWaWxNZEIwWjk3ZlVwV1JqTmEzN3hiXzljdDNoeTB4dEV1VnQtMkxHeUFuT1E0SkE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kOG4xWElBVExWV2VabWdJSXczWVY3RzJGNUJ3ZEJlNkpWd2xZWkhmNUhNQmw2RjhIdjk3MGRyaVFPN1JoLThSYUpqSDlSRS1JYUplZkc5NGJYaHIwVGw3UzV4OTA0WjJGWDFEaHZSRUJGNkY2YnEyY2RGeU1Ja2tXWDctVkpRMzBFUEUtZC1QaEtZT2FlMGZ5NzVEdC1NUWhRVUhFNFh5bkdxN2RLOWZIWmkydk9RLWcySkFJSWFjN0Z5eEI2emlHa1ZQX3VZTUtUTTdnSW9yaVI3YmdrQT09 |
My boyfriend ( M37 ) and I ( F30 ) have been dating for 8 months. Things can sometimes be tumultuous but we generally have a good time together, we have similar values and treat each other well.
We have a reoccurring challenge that I frame as a lack of community from him and that he frames as a lack of prioritisation on my side. I let him know that I will be at a sleepover with my best friends on the weekend since one of them isn’t having a great time and we’d like to cheer her up. I could hear his disappointment over the phone when he said ‘I don’t operate as someone in a relationship and I want to have my cake and eat it since I should be hanging out with him over the weekend’. I spent the whole of last weekend with him, I saw him during the week, we talk for at least an hour everyday multiple times throughout the day and I will be spending some time next week on a holiday I planned for us.
I’m struggling with fulfilling his time needs because my other relationships with my friends and family are important to me. How do I maintain my other relationships while also helping my partner feel fulfilled that he’s also a priority and important to me? | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-10 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jSk5PSkF0OFRrU2RLdnJSUHR4YTJoU1pBcEhQTWpoNXpiNHlvdm1peEM4dnhOQ0ZSdG5XYkFSQTI3cnJGLXR3eXZKUllGcWtoaDRvenc0dFVpa3dNSlJIYjloXzVQWnYwcWlnelA2anhQUU09 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kLWxlQllUOXJEakxRdlN4a29tLUYxMy1MRzVSNDJpRHh1SFZlaDRmdTU4YWNBT1JoS1hfR0o3TkFKc1RCZ0JXUFI5MzFqVmd5RHc0ckhidXFxMzUtNUVTLVdfWTR6aDlTVkladW43cUJhV0pnNm1yVkRxM1V4blBhNGlSVkJBdmdpTzZpcFRVc1NtU1VlelVnTFFtZjZSdFBDeEt6dlVWcDJ0RWtSckxXQ21nV1VLbUtieFpoendYQ09QclEyM0dQOFhXQkN3a0VOdEQ3azRPbHd3WUNqQT09 |
[\[Gift link\]](https://www.bloomberg.com/opinion/articles/2025-04-10/tariffs-will-prove-us-neoliberals-right?accessToken=eyJhbGciOiJIUzI1NiIsInR5cCI6IkpXVCJ9.eyJzb3VyY2UiOiJTdWJzY3JpYmVyR2lmdGVkQXJ0aWNsZSIsImlhdCI6MTc0NDI4NzczMSwiZXhwIjoxNzQ0ODkyNTMxLCJhcnRpY2xlSWQiOiJTVUhXNVFUMVVNMFcwMCIsImJjb25uZWN0SWQiOiI0QjlGNDMwQjNENTk0MkRDQTZCOUQ5MzcxRkE0OTU1NiJ9.LvkU58UNkZB2Wnf_KUrJIYScm0PwoItK20-aif74y5c) from Bloomberg Opinion columnist and economist Allison Schrager:
*While much of the world recoils at the turmoil in markets, the upending of the global economy and the overwhelming uncertainty, I am feeling an odd sense of calm.*
*Why? Because I am a proud neoliberal, and after President Donald Trump’s tariffs destroy what is left of the post-neoliberal world order, policy that values free markets and free trade will be due for a comeback.* | r/neoliberal | post | r/neoliberal | 2025-04-10 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jYWl1MV9tNEZKY05LcTc0T1pySlNJakJNMGJRdmZJOWxsLXZmLTcyaEt4eUllY21sRXBnNjgzNjd2NEg0MEpRSWVNSkYzWkxIcWVIOHJjU2cxbGFRX3BSbzVPNTJLWVFBV092TG95YzdmZXM9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kamtfaTQ0VGZHQXZPVXo3UE9pUjMycl9MTWJUdHJWelV2WElpRUxKRkI3b2N2UUlfYWxSa1dhcF9KalNQVm5zUFZMTXFydmRYQ0lBNzl2TlpxWEYzc0h1V3ZwRFpTRDZZNnNaYlJIRy1PWDJFMk9qMS1LMy05cTlMWmdGU0JES1YzSEhVUFQ4RS1VX1ZGM2ZVMzd2V054TkZ6QUQ3MXNHS2Y1YnFqMkRXMjUzbzdMeHVxN2pfWFZiZXd6SVJBUkpacHMtNDVzMVJBcV81bV9ILVNYZHVNQT09 |
My husband and I have been married over 10 years and rarely ever spend time together outside of parenting our 3 kids. Maybe 5 dates in the past 10 years, if that. My parents are estranged, his dad works a ton, and his mom prefers not to babysit much for whatever reason. She doesn’t work but she keeps busy with crafting and socializing and appointments.
We have celebrated very few anniversaries, and this year I asked if he could ask MIL to babysit so we could have a lunch or dinner date. I WFH and he cares for our youngest, who will be starting preK in the Fall. So it could have been a lunch date while she watched our 3yo or the unlikely dinner date where she would watch all 3 kids. My husband explained she would be busy all week packing and planning for an upcoming trip (4 hour drive away). Disappointing but no surprise. I didn’t block my work calendar.
Fast forward to our anniversary morning and he lets me know he and our youngest have made plans to go pick strawberries with his mom at lunch. And would I like to go. My calendar was full of meetings because I thought there had been no chance for us to grab lunch. Also thought his mom was way too busy to spend time with family that day, which is why he refused to ask her to take an hour of time for us to share a rare meal just the two of us. I cried and yelled at him for planning a date with his mom instead of his wife on our anniversary. And then I had to juggle work and parenting while he showered and got ready. I was furious and it honestly ruined my day.
Today he maintains he did nothing wrong and that I “acted insane” just because he wanted to spend time with his mom (whom he saw just the night before our anniversary btw). What do you think? Am I overreacting or is it hurtful to not have wanted to make plans with me, not been worth asking a favor, saying he wouldn’t ask because she is much too busy… and then making plans with her on her busy day?
Honestly it isn’t lost on me that this is just a day in a loveless marriage. We both love our kids so much, and it’s been so important to me for our kids to have parents who love and support them, are present for them, and who stay together. I love the dad he is, but it’s been the loneliest romantic relationship I have ever had. For over a decade. Sometimes I mourn the feeling of being cherished. Of someone enjoying my company or cheering me on. Of not being frustrated and annoyed every time I speak. So a lot of that spewed out after I heard about the strawberries. And yeah maybe I way overreacted, but I just want to feel like a person who matters to my partner whom I have to interact with and compromise with every single day. | r/amioverreacting | post | r/AmIOverreacting | 2025-04-10 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jd2FrYlFZWUZ6WUtGWngxbVFoZGxlbklhODFUakVJQlh1dm56dWoxeGo1QnROTjVPQTdKVThoMWQ5OEFtWndzYVpIT01oSkx2ckgyS2J0dmF4cHRNcEE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kSGJDZ0lZdGtYenpSM002OGNxT3BWX0FaSWZqSEY4YUZMbFhKUmdGN2tlOW5senk4a2hUeXJNcDBsSVRMM0RMZkNTSU15Tk5GU21DRWszcEVNLTctcGlYZUdPU0xWc1NCcDFJNEQtTHBxREc5TzFuQk9FR1c4VzEtZTl3anRfenJvT1FqNG9kTThFWkdlWlJIN2RhdnpQOHhIemJqcXcySHR1SGVyU1pxT2R3WHNwSUwyU0FNU2RpcDBKUG1SSU9DX0s5RDRVUVdkSXZkU3MyRjJCQXhrQT09 |
for context, a little over a week ago he came over to my place and he was showing me something on google, and i noticed some of his other tabs had searches that said things like “gay military porn”, so i pointed it out sort of out of curiosity.
i have always believed it’s very healthy to be open about your sexuality with your partner so they can better understand you. i’m bi myself, so i was curious if he is too or if he’s questioning or possibly gay. however this did not go as i expected at all and he got super aggressive with me, started yelling, backed me up against the wall and punched a hole in my wall beside my head (a hole i had to repair myself, since our barracks are inspected for damages.)
then just on tuesday (the day before yesterday), i saw him again to try and work this out and he ended up punching me in the eye; we haven’t hung out since. i’m just confused. i know it’s not right to hit someone at all, and also not normal to be this offended over someone suggesting you’re gay.
also, we work together. we are both in the military (army) and in the same unit, we see each other at work pretty frequently, so i don’t know how messy this is going to get if i do get police involved.
i just want to know if i’m handling this the wrong way. i’m only 18 and this is my first real relationship so i haven’t been in this position before. thank you | r/amioverreacting | post | r/AmIOverreacting | 2025-04-10 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jcktnTG1hbXQ4V1lqZ2VMNGJseVE5MWk0dUJkRGczc3ZVcFBpUHRraHUxRG9zbkd1MDhXWEt6T2FkbkFkbGk2a1FsSXIzUmxScWxhVFgzUlRndU5vOXc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kZDA1bzZvTzJEMGJSUTJITjEtVEIwNlBUQTZFSEFBUkNmOG0ydTJ3R1lTSFVhV2w0WXo0QUc4LVVPRGMzRjVOZm9GY0dxSlptZEZnaFluQ1dib0xxVkZKWUJ4dWZ5YnVuUG1ZNmtMeDFtT0RCSVp5UHlnTTRUQWhjUDNvWnRLQlBoSkw0cG55VzZ0M3BXOGpsMVNFcHpiZzNndkFkaWFFYXBjNVZFYThmS3RSRHVfVEw1amF6VlAxc2xibThUSVN3QXBJdHdiNndGcmJPYUU3NnpiT2pZdz09 |
I was thinking about getting my tongue re pierced as I had it done when I was 14-16 and now im 18 and I want it done again. I was on a phone call with my boyfriend(M21) and at the end of the call I told him I was going into the piercing place just to make sure I still had the right anatomy. This isn’t the first time I told him I wanted it done again and then once I hung up he sent me this paragraph about 20 minutes later. I find it a bit insane and over the top and that he is overreacting. But maybe I am and he’s right in a sense I honestly don’t know 😂 just want opinions on this | r/amioverreacting | post | r/AmIOverreacting | 2025-04-10 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jQ1NXVkdNR3JPeFpBUk9KZURPNU5LdzN0ZU5HMXdkVUpjaG1EYjV2bVNjd2c0enZjc0NOMUYzN2hobFZtQlNpWTcwbXdGUzI0cjlGbXhWaDFSN19PLXc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kSE9GbFFQWkJNWFMtZlQtNzZaU3UzZk1nY24ybFpUT3YyRW5xMDhyUlFPWERTTXRfY0pBTjMxYjhHT181V1QyMUtDTHU0MEFpWjFQOE9NMW5qTnotNFdjNXVxMjFSQ1RjaTA1NkhFdDhFcENqWndfWUZ1T2E0V2tYT2lsWUszeVE3R2NWS0g4MmdZLTF5WnZhT3RVX245bFdwd0Z2bVBISHkxZXJZLTc2bHVyLTc1SHlINlZfbV9STGh2cG54cDJKR1Vob1dhOTRmbzNyNFcwRXBVVmp1UT09 |
What else could two businessmen possibly have discussed when Belinda left the room. | r/thewhitelotushbo | post | r/TheWhiteLotusHBO | 2025-04-10 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jX1JuWmJyZ05FODhHYXdfVVo1c0ZKM2paaHdvcTVhRlI3RGNxOUhsSGloeE5ndTRVTDRrNFB6R1lVRUtvU19Wck9sdDktWjNhNmdkS25tREx5a0x6UGc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kSVdvbDduaGlQZ3YwNUs2Y09mdFRobnhqdmlxS3plS0cxVXlDNlIya05vODc0ZjFDTHpVNVJNN05yV2RtdEJCRE9tcjlmdGpLeHVEeHFWMmk0ZjMtdnA2bGNCU29NcTcxTFBPc2Z6N2lzTFFKZHl0SHUxQ2UxYVZxNlZYRVpyZjRvc0g2MUpyX0Q0bFI5QXJkUm5WaDJuX2VDUk5qMUdXSTNCMFg4eUJlWEFjVWRtY0NxTjMtWVQxMkZBQlZCeFRyQWZVYm5FTWlFWjBqRVRVYmRvRmZWdz09 |
Hello, everyone, I'm a 26 y/o Christian trying to figure out how to be a better person and be strengthened by the grace of God and seek Him more and more.. Today morning as I was preparing for work, I was listening to a Christian show I've been following from the past few days. Then I hear the words "The Lion of the Tribe of Judah" and that's it... Before I could realize, I had tears streaming out of my eyes. Even now as I am thinking of it, I am overwhelmed.. I am trying to understand my reaction towards those words.. Your advice and opinions are most welcome and highly appreciated.. God bless us all.. | r/christianity | post | r/Christianity | 2025-04-10 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jZHJtU01XcWFxUW84cXVCM3I0WV9MRGVrd3RNVVd0ell1WklDU1NZbDFBdnpjQzlWZDlTLWJsOUdGNTM2dngzUkpNQU9yaFZRQUEwNmtOb2ozVTNlOGltbjdzaHdETllDX183R2NKU09tZzQ9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kOFNsbm10VUY2R0JmOFdlQ2ZhYWJ3R3haZHFWa05aQUlVVUdyc21KRjZrV3lTNVd2ZDBCTDRLcE9SV3diSHdhVDFGMUZHbVBZd0REd3lWZzZGY3lhY25CRll0UWE3RXgtVjYzMHNwSEQxREdxZEEzZDRrT0hqS3BvRjNxU0lKUnpYM1FIVThCSWNZd0EyeHZ0UmE0RGd6SkZ3TmNLZkxXTjJ3ZlBkVlZodVVkSUFCZzVUMDU4NElWc2lGU1l4VHh2 |
Throwaway account because people we know use reddit and I don’t want them to know about our sex life. My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now and nothing like this has happened in our relationship before. We have always been very open with each other, as we both like to hash out problems before they escalate. One of the first things that drew me to him was his brutal honesty. We also have (or had) a pretty regular and healthy sex life - never having problems with infidelity or anything of a similar vein. In short, our relationship is more or less perfect.
Until the other night. My husband and I were going at it, when he said something pretty strange. Everything was normal until I heard him moan “hooby dooby.” At first I thought that I had misheard him, but no. He completely froze and looked mortified, I was just confused. Mood ruined. I asked him about it but all he did was take his pillow and leave. I knew he was going to sleep on the couch, which isn’t something he’s had to do since we first moved in together (not gonna get into that). We spent the night apart and in the morning went about our routines as normal. When he got home from work I tried to bring it up but he pretended not to hear me and kept watching TV.
It’s been a couple of days and I haven’t brought it up since. However, there’s been an air of awkwardness between us and I don’t think we can truly move past this without discussing it. I was hoping he’d be the one to bring it up first but that hasn’t been the case.
I don’t know what “hooby dooby” means, I have theories about maybe it being an anime character as he enjoys watching that kind of stuff, but to me it doesn’t sound like someone’s name. If anyone knows what or who “hooby dooby” is, or has any ideas on how to approach this with him, please let me know. Thank you.
Update: First of all, I’d like to say thank you for all the helpful (and funny) comments, they showed me the humor in this situation. Now for the moment you’ve all been waiting for… What is hooby dooby?
Last night after dinner I sat down with my husband and brought it up. I reassured him that it was nothing to be embarrassed about and that I was just curious. He was reluctant to share at first, but it didn’t take long for him to open up.
For context: my husband is in a bowling league and he goes bowling with his friends every other week. While he does this I stay home and have some of my girlfriends over, so I don’t know much about what goes on. As it turns out, he’s been thinking of bowling to stop himself from “arriving” early, and “hooby dooby” is his “bowling catchphrase” (which isn’t something that I knew existed). At first I was surprised, but then it turned out to be hilarious and we both laughed about it. Safe to say, I’ve never loved this man more.
Also it wasn’t “hooby dooby” that compelled me to make this post, it was his reaction. I would never let the words “hooby dooby” ruin our wonderful marriage. Again, I can’t thank you all enough for all the kind words. Hooby dooby to all, and to all a goodnight.
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[https://finance.yahoo.com/news/eu-china-start-talks-lifting-173917473.html](https://finance.yahoo.com/news/eu-china-start-talks-lifting-173917473.html)
BERLIN (Reuters) - The European Union and China have begun negotiations on the abolition of EU tariffs on imports of Chinese electric cars, German newspaper Handelsblatt reported on Thursday.
EU trade commissioner Maros Sefcovic met China commerce minister Wang Wentao during a visit to Beijing at the end of March and both sides agreed to resolve a dispute over EU tariffs through negotiations, Handelsblatt reported.
The European Union imposed tariffs on Chinese-made electric vehicles (EVs) late last year, saying they were needed to counter cheap loans, land and raw materials and other subsidies and the goal was a level playing field, not shutting Chinese car makers out.
The European Commission has said it is willing to continue negotiating an alternative to tariffs with China. | r/wallstreetbets | post | r/wallstreetbets | 2025-04-10 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jMkxmUjRzQVc1alg5SEVyUWMtbjBkWlNxMXFBc0NYOVpDbzN2ZmV3MFJrUW5jTHBhM0w5QXh4NDYxaTdmcHBCdmFxVTJsZ182X1NNRVdid2FsaEpTTlE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kWmZKRmg4VU1tUW9qZmpKRkFYSkt4VDFldTZtYkc4dEdqWUVWSWJ4VEtCWERIdmxLSkZyT2R0azN5WWttR1dSSEdOcEpDUnhCeUtreG5feEExV2Yza2xkOVN0UVBYRlc5Um1YR2g5XzY2M3poTXJuektSbmR0aVAxajd4RElzYnVkblI5OUV3SnctMUpzN29sM3BoNWFiSHZlUnZUUUZIRTI2WFdxUGFETFFYYkJVaUcybzM2ZS1tb0E5UGlMWXI4b25DNldIT0FGNHNtZUdRbFBKeF9kZz09 |
Me [26F] and bf [25M] have been together 2 years. We were at park today. I was admiring a plant I thought was cool and told him to come look at it. He came over, glanced at it, and immediately stomped on it. I asked him why he would do that and he said “I was just messing with you” which seems to be his response often. I expressed it was upsetting to me and he apologized begrudgingly. This seems abnormal to me and very weird behavior to destroy something I was enjoying. Has anyone experienced a man like this? Did it ever get better? Or am I being dramatic | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-10 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jN1lacHUtUnN5N2E0clcwa2Q2eUZnanFKY25HbGdBQm5xTU1xV1dXZ0pEeE1pYUp1ZlF1Y1VabXNWUDRJbFdEcjl3Y0kxZFp5aFV2Y212OGVUQ0x1MkN1bmMtQ0l3ajFQelhJNlJhM0hfWWs9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kRUthaUxad09JT1FwcjE1aHNQZVM0WHhDUUJLbmVLNEJzNEY3QWI3bUlzS0RrbFNKRnJZWVV1U3M3dGlNd0oyX1R1dm9ubTF1UFRiVzJUU1A4ZGVtc1JMN2x0ZTc4bG1GekJLWW0zOVFzM0g2dzVKSWdqa2FtNTF1R1h3aldoRzFkcF9vWFVNdDRraWVraVFwbmdYYVBJN2NZcEo5OUtJVk5YbFhaTUlLaEltT1F0WTBJNS13THMydk5rR0V5YjNTcTBCclpTOUZIZmhESnFnOVRFaUlPQT09 |
P.S. Please send help he is being carnaped | r/robloxavatars | post | r/RobloxAvatars | 2025-04-10 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jMGxpOG5TeWNZQnBFSWh6Y24zajhtZVZuQmxDbjN6S3luQU53UUQtX2gwOWRxdkMtalV3dlk0d1VDQTZUODVXRFg5dF9jUWlXVnpzdVl0Nks3NjRNZEE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kUE5LZ3QxeGROMG5ZaXZNSWJzLUhMZFBBZkczNFBaTTJlN3pOVDJ0QUZnSDhQOUZUS28wNG5nMFN5amlzZjFrNzFDTVk2RHp6WWY1OTJ2UnBYRmlSTFBuYmxFNTJNSmtlY0lseVV4Rk40b20tWjJrdk9mT25qS2JjRVpmSG11bE10cTAtTGFoNTlCNTRKS3VsOWpTTU9peWEzdmU4QlItUUpRNmNlY3R2X2hvbXc0ODBIYWItOTJRbTV4MTd6NkFzNXVPOXZaQ3VkeGNOUHhuTUFyNGlfZz09 |
My(F19) friend(F19) died nearly two weeks ago and my boyfriend(M20) hasn’t seen me since. He has never been good with emotions but I’m not asking him to say a fucking speech to try and help me out. I just want him to be here with me and he literally won’t. He was suppose to come this morning but he cancelled and I went split at him. I honestly feel like I overreacted though since he gets awkward when it comes to being emotional. Idk what to think and I’m currently curled up in bed, looking for answers on what to do or if I AIO so I decided to come here. Me and him haven’t spoken since this conversation. | r/amioverreacting | post | r/AmIOverreacting | 2025-04-10 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jR2hYRVlDR20yUmlkV2szZl82S2xocEtSc1p3REFrRUNuM08taTJ3a2NZOFZHVmRwQWxmcFc1Vlk1cDAyQVU1VDgzbU1TR2ZQTlJGS25Pa0o0cVpTT3c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kQVdrSlYtSzNubGp5ZHFUUjF0MnhqaGNDbnEzQUNOazVHRUkwVEY3cHJuRzdXeUpwcTBwZHJKZGRzZVlDLUFoN1FwRTJzN1NtTHIxdmpUcGZfLVh3Q3djQU8tU2NPQjlNR3RrdDlMWUM4Q3J5dTVpZUhhREEyRnlUMTRDNjdiai00clIwT01fSW5NcVhWMjNsdU55OUtxMW95SkZET3hxMFJkSnNJdkFqV3BzVTYxa1lnbkhOMWl4TVZNWHlZV3JtUWExeHA3WlU5dmhoS3pSdWl5MTNGUT09 |
1. Phineas and Ferb
2. Ducktales 2017
3. Tugs | r/topcharactertropes | post | r/TopCharacterTropes | 2025-04-10 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5ja1gzcDB6b2I4cDRhT3llZGJsMW5peVluZll2VXQ1RzRyWmdtMDJsOGY0dlVtWnRYYTRhMUNGNmRRTEctX1BiU2YwbXdjSWZ1WHloR2U1VjBlWWJTNlE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kVlBCUENUekVLRTJTRWVqLXZ4RmNPOTJJdHFjQ1d5Ni02SFVyTnlVWEFVaEZUX3VRSGN6c3BvdU41Vnd1V2JmbUdHZVhaNnhKS2hkcU1fZzctQWEzZWxiVllIUUJKUm41X0lYMmZuYmNCZmlWSVBlb2s4Z2hSVXJsVmFDMjN2eGdmcWZnYWNBUEZFQmlGckE4Q3VJaDAxTTFrdDE3VUZSUVFaeEZUbUhBZHNMQUY5djh4b1ZyV1dZTlpESHZqQ3RGVTJmWW1Cck5VdlJwQUo0VGlta2xIdz09 |
Buzz Lightyear (Toy Story): "I just want you to know that, even though you tried to terminate me, revenge is not an idea we promote on my planet, but-"
Raiden (Metal Gear Rising: Revengeance): "I said my sword was a tool of justice. Not used in anger. Not used for vengeance. But now.. Now I'm not so sure. And besides-" | r/topcharactertropes | post | r/TopCharacterTropes | 2025-04-10 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jTVRoSUtubk1mbGFDNnBLMkxVMHBGSWRCUDVoNzl0TXV3QlhudnJHSmVCOEJNc0U1QjBEUFZmQWotS3FwUUtZZDd6LWpLOVJYamx1VFdDVFVWTHpjRVE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kNnZKMlNPcmhPZE9kMHoxNVBFVXY2YlhYZ2ltUVR0WWtrWTVUVTh5dE9maUdud2dQR0xmU1QwYzhONUNVbzBaZGpiWlNfODJDZkRUbUZvYnZLM1g1clcwVE1fR1FMeE9yRE91azQtRS1DaGlwMm1MVnpHQUJfMkNYVG9TdDBCbjR4b2dvd1VRX1lod2t4ZmFFenpmV05YOHkzeThtWC1JTXdfaWNkQk4yb2dIRV9ST3d6ZHl4dUxnWWxEaUFOVDdfZEI4VFhWcldxYVVoTDB5cXJjMjVpQT09 |
It's | r/neoliberal | post | r/neoliberal | 2025-04-11 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jSnE1azdoYUIxRG4tOUJHTGJ1Tjc1ZHByZFhpWldRNC0wZXpfU0ZHVV9JX0xoRVhWVmtIbkdSVjVuZFVnSEF4X3lxcnprcVUtdXI3Vk5UZHluWGdNTWY3dGpnZExGc1d3RFY5N2Q0Ni1tUGc9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kbVFSMWt1d0FxZG5MOUx5ZXNFOFdjZUV6Q2ZGZVVTY0k5LTNaajI4cjJpUHpqWGFyUXZQa0k0OE1TMGU3akxKM29tVHBCUHprbGEzNGx4TUt1eFNQb2U4VURBU0EwMEpBVjBVY1dlMmJUQUpLaWY2cWVCTWk5cENOamFzRmhMLUxHS09QQTZLVzBNeEp1bE9qMTRiWWk3ZFhCajBjekZMYnJleGFmRTRtS2RFPQ== |
Would they die? Escape? How would they escape? Give detail. | r/robloxavatars | post | r/RobloxAvatars | 2025-04-11 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jSTRub05mREJ3RDdaUWM4dnR1aWJaa054VS1ZSzU1dUY0S2R3cW83NmJZTDNEeVpDWmNLZWREUlU4clNocnV4TjhfN1ZiMnRmUXBHcVltZURmMkYta1E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kUTREYXZxd2U3a2R0X1NSX0Vob3Jka2dmeVFCVjlpWFZxQ1VzSjhYWVl2QkxMS1Z2OWZydTFFbDd5Um9QZEVjRS04bzVMMzFwWGlXQVh4MklCUEMyc0VPUVoydVVieE9mQjQtaFp3MHRMWXNuX2hrb0dBY3ZoanVjbWhab0ktN1JJQXFUV0ZjUUo3ck16eUFMSUNvQ3U3WUoySXdQS1hYY3pMdjRHY1FEaFVTM3VNU2oxeVVweEhQXzVNQ2ZBRUVkSXJxUFFNdEd4dWtDdzZBb3ZIdEpTQT09 |
First off, I would like to preface this with saying my condolences to those who have incurred any losses lately. It has been a very volatile week, and I know many friends and family who have suffered heavy losses in their portfolio and are stressed/anxious for the future to come. With that, I would like to share my experience betting against the American economy by holding one of the most volatile stock for 6 months, UVIX.
As many of you may know, VIX is an index that grows rapidly when the market reverses from a peak. I personally witnessed this during Covid (when TVIX rose almost 2000%) and the recent "Yen Carry Trade" of August 5th (when UVIX rose 400%). I've always aspired to time the market successfully with UVIX.
Last year, I felt that the economy was overextended for many reasons. You guys may not agree that these are factors to what led us here, but these are why I ended up taking the biggest risk of my life with such high confidence that the market would crash short-term.
\- US National Debt: We've reached a staggering $36 trillion debt, a large increase of 8 trillion post-covid. To me, this was a huge red flag indicating a looming recession, especially since the market was still pumping.
\- AI Bubble: I think AI is heavily over-hyped, and the rise of NVDA/Tech stocks were not really warranted. I saw this as a bubble bound to pop, much like the dot-com and housing bubble of 2008.
\- Terrible job market: I think we've been experiencing a bad labor market across all sectors for a while now. Employers look to make lay-offs/cost cutting in order to artificially inflate profit margins to boost stock prices, which is not sustainable. I do not believe the numbers released by the Feds at all, they seem suspiciously low compared to real-world experiences of people struggling to find work. This article was one example:
[https://www.nbcnews.com/business/economy/us-added-818000-fewer-jobs-thought-adding-concerns-economy-rcna167555](https://www.nbcnews.com/business/economy/us-added-818000-fewer-jobs-thought-adding-concerns-economy-rcna167555)
\- Suicide rate is apparently one of the leading indicator of a struggling economy: In 2024, we reached one of the highest rate in the decade [https://www.usnews.com/news/health-news/articles/2024-09-26/u-s-suicide-rate-climbs-back-to-highest-in-decades](https://www.usnews.com/news/health-news/articles/2024-09-26/u-s-suicide-rate-climbs-back-to-highest-in-decades)
\- Trump winning the presidential election: I was aware of his tariff plans during his campaign, and I knew that if he actually did implement these, it would shock the market. It was only a question of if he would actually deliver on his campaign promise or not, which he did.
With all these reasonings in mind, I had a 90% confidence that the market would crash soon, so I YOLO'd my whole portfolio into UVIX after election.
https://preview.redd.it/ovma6m9vj3ue1.png?width=1093&format=png&auto=webp&s=dd719e0b6d0ff7892d07461aa3eae2312d52caea
Holding this ticker was mentally tough, the market kept rallying from 580 to 620 post-election, and my position was decaying and I was holding a -200k loss for the vast majority of the time. Many people discouraged my position, and some think I should cut my losses. I even isolated myself for a while because I was so sure of my bet. There were two moments when I could have sold to break even: Federal reserve announcing no future interest rate cuts and Trump's initial Canada/Mexico tariffs. But UVIX didn't rise as much as I anticipated, so I kept holding.
https://preview.redd.it/e5e6xfsxj3ue1.png?width=512&format=png&auto=webp&s=9f45917088fa769ca5123420f1fec427851fbb2f
Fast forward to last week, Trump announced a severe blanket tariff, which crashed the market as we know it. This was finally the moment I've been waiting for as UVIX went from $20 to $100 in the span of 4 days. I kept my eyes on the news, set my alarm to 6 am to watch the market open. UVIX could rapidly drop/rise in matter of seconds, and I did not want to sell too early/late, so I was shedding 1k shares a day to be safe. 1k at 70, 1k at 90, 2k at 100 on Tuesday. At this point, I had 3k remaining, and I was hoping that UVIX would maybe rise to 140, but then Trump sent out the tweet that he's basically cancelling the tariffs, which shot the market back up, and plummeted UVIX to 40, luckily I was able to salvage and sell at 56 on the way down. It wasn't quite the finish I was hoping for, but overall, I did get to gain roughly 250k off of my 400k bet.
https://preview.redd.it/k4bzie1sk3ue1.png?width=1093&format=png&auto=webp&s=f788c3fce00964a3a5e9f9202b6db85d3f5bda4a
Now that I've been able to cash out on the big -20% SPY crash I've anticipated, I am completely out of UVIX for now. Even if the market continues to fall, I have full confidence that we'll eventually recover back to our previous 620 ATH, so I'll be DCAing into SPXL/TQQQ from this point on until we reach that price.
https://preview.redd.it/8j48yvnul3ue1.png?width=1093&format=png&auto=webp&s=b68d62402c4fdc3ec905d7c036fcd3cee5ff37f1
In the end, I would not encourage anyone else to do what I did. Even with my conviction and accurate market reading, I had to hold UVIX for 6 months, which ended up being one of the most stressful thing I could do. I've lost sleep, became disillusioned with the economy/government, and absorbed more bad news than I could handle. I've internally cheered for bearish news, despite knowing it could mean hardship for many people.
I was somewhat lucky that Trump did indeed enact his tariffs, otherwise I may have been stuck holding a decaying position until it went to zero or was delisted.
In the end, I'm just relieved that I could finally exit my large UVIX positions, and I will never all-in again the way I did. I hoped you all enjoyed my perspective/story and I wish the best of you luck in navigating this volatile market. | r/wallstreetbets | post | r/wallstreetbets | 2025-04-11 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jbEhKb0dHbmp4bHd0QmJvdDNicjV5NVFzbGVQRHBwSDhQSWJHVkFpaE1PQzVBalotY1NIUFhhN2thS2d3MEhwVG5ydEJiZEdCRDEyWllfTVIwdjRoS0E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kS3JXNG1vaVg4SUpwQVJqRGxWWlBGR0pDeUFiZkR4U051aUJhdTZHdEZLRUNSWkFFbEcxU2NnN3hYdWFLMkxZQi1wVXl6WFBaU0NsTWJCSUVsWlFKS3c3SWZOV0NySGtIeWJCVlRWeWhLbUVac19jbDJ0a2JhdUJWMVU1WENEbHZnLVhRc0ZLRmR0VnJDeHlkYzVWR0xjNGVXdEhtR3FOcmQxLUVWMWU3MnFXcGRLNUtLdWdXVnRXYWhoaThRT3Ita2l1cWJfdHR6c2dQSThIZUV2QUl6QT09 |
I’ve been with my boyfriend for 10 years. We’ve been good and very solid for a long time. This year has been our hardest with multiple instances of infidelity, lies, and betrayal of my trust on his side. We used to enjoy anal together and it was a regular rotation in our sex lives, but his behavior towards me and towards our sex life has changed. I never knew, but apparently one of his exes was an “anal Queen” and he was into a BDSM relationship with her. He got drunk at NYE and cried while reminiscing about her and telling me this. The ONLY reason I was into anal with him is because I thought we were each other’s firsts. I thought it was something special between us, not because I needed him to be a virgin or anything, but because he TOLD me I was his first. I believed this as truth for 9 years. A few months after this, I found out he is following her on IG and she posts lingerie and boudoir photos, and he messaged her to get in touch, and he signed up for OF…when she also has an OF that she has since deleted so I couldnt see if he was subbed to her before he deleted his account after I confronted him about it. But with the infidelity, I no longer trust him and for the last year, I’ve had zero interest to ever let him do that to me again.
But now he pressures me for it. We can’t have sex unless it involves some time of anal play or penetration. I ask him over and over to please just let us try normal vaginal sex without any ass play but he doesn’t listen to me. I’ve noticed his orgasms are not as good when we don’t do any type of ass play. Sometimes I think he does fake his orgasms because he used to cum so hard and now he doesn’t.
But now my heart is broken from our most recent fight when he said my v*gina (it’s a shame they will censor v*gina, the CORRECT ANATOMICAL TERM, but pussy is fine) is plain, boiled chicken and kink and anal is the spice he wants.
I’m at a loss because he’s never mentioned this to me before and he used to act like I was very good in bed. I’ve always tried my best to please him and to do well and make sure he’s having fun. I entered this relationship with a lot of sexual and body trauma and i’ve always hated the appearance of my pussy from years of online bullying from men when I was young and dumb and needed validation and thought sending nudes would give it to me. They just made fun of me for what I now know is a normal pussy, it’s just not a porn ready, surgically altered pussy.
I’m devastated, truly, and very very hurt. He apologized and claims it was a poor metaphor but how could you say that to someone you love, knowing my past body image issues? He’s the one that has helped me heal from so many of them and now he has hit me on my most vulnerable insecurity. I don’t know what to do. I’m spiraling in self doubt. I need help. Or clarity, or something.
TL;DR my boyfriend is upset I no longer like anal after he’s betrayed my trust and our relationship with his “anal Queen” ex and now he’s comparing my v*gina to plain boiled chicken | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-11 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jbjZFWnpLc2JxX1JxRE1LZkZQb1lKS3NXaXZ6X3ltSzVfdFhmeHJFNG80ajVOeTk0NllpRUFYUEU1MVlZUGdOV3pIZXI4R0QzVDM0SFZ2LWZjSTlsOUE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kQ3VXeDNPU2xZdnUwYU4zbENIOFFvMTc1WVJjemp0elJvWTU5RFlYM3dwNE1fVTlaYm9OaklKSmUxN1F2VENPNUNBWDZrV1NQUS15d2VaNXVKR1hjNUtMWmhIdkJwMk1rdGdoLS1CMnJVLWpYeEc4d1F2SmpSUEFDSjZzbmkzdEVuUnVUbm85dVUtdmdaLTVEMWIyZnhNci1VbTl1a092YXBwVVVhRjJ1U1lMbVFrNGxKVWRGaVEtSmlXREFLc284T1pOWlNzd0wtRWN0WDU3aUFTOWF6QT09 |
I (19F) live in an apartment with two other girls, and for the most part, it’s chill. Except one of them - let’s call her Kayla - has this habit of eating everyone’s food, then pretending she didn’t.
Like… girl, it’s not a ghost eating my Hot Cheetos.
At first I was nice about it. I’d label my stuff, gently remind her, even offered to split groceries once. She always hit me with, “Omg my bad, I thought it was mine!” But this girl doesn't even buy Hot Cheetos, like ever.
So last week I got fed up and bought a little lockbox for the pantry and put all my snacks inside. Petty? Maybe. But I work and pay for my own groceries - I'm not feeding a freeloading gremlin.
Now she’s sulking and telling people I’m treating her like a “thief” and making the house “tense.”
Our other roommate says I probably should’ve just talked to her again, but how many “friendly chats” do I need to have before it’s not my job to babysit the damn Oreos??
So… AIO? | r/amioverreacting | post | r/AmIOverreacting | 2025-04-11 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jU3RWNk92NU1MSlF5Sm1GNVNXcGF5UWc2YWZUMXdsNHpsOGtkRXZvN3RSYjJCSHp3LWVtMUVoOWllWlJ0WXlua2N6UG9TZUFXalpLNkx4YndSOFBkdEE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kaFNNRGpURkp0ZGhGOG0yQ3cwSjhycTlfZndCMHRZVXpENGwwVFdjWmRRdEZSaG5FekhDeXZqM19qV2hWNDFoN1ZsS1pNSFMzbVRUWkJzd20yVGlTM2phN0xFeG1kVFFCenc1RjFjaUtIYW42TVBfNlIxc1NoeWlTczdtd0tJWm5RS0ZTNXhwcHBDbnBkUERUV0JNUGUtdXRPX25EUXp0eW5sU0ZqQUczSF9aZ0RYTDZodmZCbUpHQnplUWQwbXc1WTZ0RUZfSnQxMHBDdm5Ga2FmZDM3Zz09 |
I’ve been seeing a guy for a few weeks and we still are in new phases/getting know each other. Let’s call him Brad.
Last night I was out alone with my son (he’s a toddler) and a weird strange man approached me and made me and my son very uncomfortable to the point the restaurant staff had to get involved to remove him.
I get home and tell Brad the story. Instead of asking if me and my son are OK. He proceeds to say “it’s because you’re pretty haha”, sends me multiple selfies, and says he’s excited for our date tomorrow (which is today).
I don’t want to see brad anymore, how do you cancel the date? What would you say without writing a person a decade older than you a storybook? I want it to be firm, short, non explanatory (I’m not explaining a grown man why his behaviour is innapropriate).
Edit: sent off the text excellently suggested by
u/Blackwolf7653
Thank you everyone.
Edit 2: Brad’s response was confusion and surprise but that he respected my decision. I don’t think he’s a bad person, I’m just not interested. Onto the next! | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-11 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jX3lVT1p0dkRiWmlldzF6NEZCLVVJZFBrNGN3VEJvdlBxa2ViZ1o5RVhpM2lzY0tRWnlYem1jNE1FYWZyZm9UX2FIUXQzVmU3OV9PSzJGVl80Y0RQSGdhdU1aYmxidlh1OGxOWlUyOW5kdVE9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kRENIT1Vacm9FamVJUEdaQUtmZ0lncnlmREtwbmhTbGhHdHRKNEhEaEZNYi1QY1h2X1BMLUluTnJvanl3bExfMEdGNTFseFByWHVSbUZudHZqU1MxcFpBNTZ6QzI5MDRic1gydUVscHBiUF9DaXI1UkZEUGlRUlNKMnRiNnRCREJuSllGX3E0VWdOSUItSG5vQ3VVaGl6emxVbXdfakFzR2ZQWWRMRzg1NHNnRndZdWRkRWdjRkVPWDc4VXRxOUd6dU9LczNTWkRiUmkyeTRvWm4yTHNMZz09 |
He may have gotten the promotion he always wanted but it went against his morals. I felt bad for him because it shows that he doesn't have a choice. He already planned to leave and find another job, but all those years he spent as a security guard and will be all for nothing if he quit. Plus Mook doesn't want to date him because she can't rely on him and keeps forcing him to take the promotion. I appreciate Mike White for showing this kind of story. We get to see the side of people who are barely making end's meet. | r/thewhitelotushbo | post | r/TheWhiteLotusHBO | 2025-04-11 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jY3NKWjRuQ1Mwel82em81MFk2TEUycnl4enJucEN1RXhMMS1MWGk2MUowZktCWUM2LWFZLW1ReGpsbGNzeVNMUFlCM0R2djA1cGlfWnNfWnV6YXV2M1E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kczFidHNmLTNZS0FjS3dTdE9jYmZ3ZnF4c1VYZWhrSHhEYjJjWHR1WE11cW1maTdLbFE1SDhCb2ROcDhhbGlsb0F1dlAzTEdPSU9BdWlINDh2QnFoY3FNbEhSVVRBbzZFQlNSalNyM0FBREI4QlYyd3NBb1d5cjlzTnR6V2pWaE5JbHdjMk9QRk9mZ0JBUzR5a3VialkxV1hhU1BvZVI4Qks3Vnhma3BFMDdpWnRXT1kzNnJTamY3WVh6LUpBc0Q0 |
It’s so simple, yet done so beautifully. The performance, music and presentation. Everytime the music and choir kicks in combined with the beautiful shots. You really see his appreciation for nature grow after being forced to REALLY look. It just warms my heart especially when I’m caught in that technological trap myself way too often. | r/thewhitelotushbo | post | r/TheWhiteLotusHBO | 2025-04-11 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jRlFkanRqdndtYmtLall4ekkzYmZ6UWU3X1RXd1Y0NV8wMFhSUmVIbkFvYnRic20ydkZWaWNMMnFlTmotMlp5NzNVX014WVVBbFhuMHN3VGVENlFNLXc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kcEZYek56Wm00LVFBZUY4YnJhOVhOSjJFM3ItRFJRUWNBbjI2X3N5THlGNC1WYTAtNXNNX1liS1ppaUpPZ002WjNtZzZyaEJya0xTV0pRcE04Mmg5V0ZQLWRNQjhUdVlGcGhTZ3Zib1ByU3pqMmhmM2pZdUhFT2ZMUmZYV1BvMGw3SUpyVWJOQmNUVkhIa3FKR2dtNTBjNGl4VThCQlV4cDBhaGVSNkpWZzhMcG1KX245c0ZBeFZkOVQ4SmNrekI4WGZFX2RqeUZhdGxqT1NWVW1MZS1DUT09 |
Mandarin (Marvel)
Apu (The Simpsons)
Pepe Le Pew (Space Jam/Loony Tunes)
Gandhi (Clone High) | r/topcharactertropes | post | r/TopCharacterTropes | 2025-04-11 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jXzRTVk1UNVRNMEhhczZjRjVzZkxyWlpBNUhXWXlyR2Y0VTNXdkNWbUx2QW9DRUh5QnJ0NDdWLWp6bnJPek1jQnh0TXg4ejR4bV9rU3dxNXZlb2xwWl8waGd2dWVRYk9rNTlJSlVsMlg4WWM9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kOGxTNHphdFdDY0xvUXhzUGtkZFBfRVJFRUcxWUw3bXIzZW1hWU1CenJOR0YwLVdscFdxM29aUC1ocnZKV2FTRzdaeS1ZcWxfWDRHT01NUlhjVEhTc1RGbWZMdjZOS2d2aGxUaWxjeFVicURqdTJUWFhiQWY5RkRhaXVTTERjc3RRSGpLdGNFYWNCSmQyZEJCNUw2UXFzSGdnWkdLUDRIYlZhR09aZEQxbVBKQ3c3cjBsY2U2enhlYnJLeDMzYV9YLUJHUGJESGRKa2RiYW5ZYnVJQnZWUT09 |
Hi Reddit. I’m F25 and I’m honestly at my breaking point with this one. I need outside perspective because my entire family is acting like I’m Hitler for standing my ground.
So, I (25F) am a student software developer and a pretty serious PC gamer in my free time. I live alone in a one-bedroom apartment that I’ve spent years making cozy and functional. I saved up for a long time to build my dream PC setup … triple monitors, custom mechanical keyboard, ergonomic chair, the works. Altogether, my rig is worth a bit over $2,000, and I take care of it like it’s a damn child.
Last weekend, my older sister (30F) asked if she could crash at my place for one night because her apartment was being fumigated, and her husband was out of town. She has a 3-year-old son, Max, who’s… let’s say “spirited.” I love him, but he’s a little chaos goblin. I hesitated, but she swore she’d keep an eye on him and that it’d just be for one night.
They show up Saturday afternoon, and immediately it’s clear she wasn’t kidding about Max being a handful. Within ten minutes of arriving, he’d pulled four books off my shelf, thrown my houseplants on the floor, and spilled juice on my area rug. I tried to stay chill, he’s three, I get it … but I asked my sister politely to please keep him out of my office, where my PC setup is.
She rolls her eyes and goes, “He’s just exploring, he’s curious, it’s normal.” But she closes the office door anyway.
Cut to Sunday morning. I wake up to screaming. Max had apparently woken up before his mom, managed to open the office door, and decided my setup was his new jungle gym.
He pulled down one of my monitors, cracking the screen. He stuck crackers into the PC tower’s ventilation slots (I’m not kidding), yanked out my keyboard’s keycaps, and had colored on my chair with permanent marker. The cherry on top? He poured apple juice INTO the tower. INTO IT.
When I tell you I went silent… I mean dead silent. My sister comes in, sees the damage, and just says, “Oh nooo,” in this incredibly flat tone, like someone knocked over a cup of coffee. I start freaking out, and she has the AUDACITY to say, “You should’ve baby-proofed the room if it was that important to you.”
I lost it. I told her that 1) she KNEW he wasn’t supposed to be in there, 2) this is my space, not a damn daycare, and 3) baby-proofing a $2,000 gaming setup is not a standard requirement for adults living alone.
She told me to “calm down” and said that “he’s just a kid, and stuff is replaceable.” I told her she could replace it then. She said she didn’t have the money right now, but maybe in a few months she could give me a few hundred. I told her that wasn’t acceptable and that she needed to take full responsibility.
She left in a huff and now my whole family is blowing up my phone. My mom says I’m being “materialistic” and should understand that my nephew didn’t mean it. My dad said I should’ve “locked the door” if it was that important. My brother actually said, “Why do you even need three monitors anyway? That’s kind of overkill.”
I’ve filed a claim with my insurance but there’s no guarantee it’ll be covered since it was technically “guest damage.” I also told her that if she does not pay up, I'll take her to court for what happened.
Now I’m getting texts from my sister demanding an apology for “blaming her kid for being curious.” I told her I’d drop it if she covered the cost of repairs and replacements … or at least met me halfway … and she BLOCKED me.
So… Am I overreacting if I take my sister to court over this?
UPDATE: Wow. Just wow. Four hours later, I wake up from my nap to this. Thank you guys, it'll take a bit for me to read all of this.
My sister still has not unblocked me, but her husband reached out to find out what happened. I'm sorry I don't have more to tell yet, but I'll update again when I do. Seriously, thanks for the insights everyone. My head is a lot clearer now ❤️
UPDATE2: Hey all. My sister’s husband reached out as mentioned earlier, and we’re working out a solution if possible. He’s been really understanding as have all of you.
Also, to clarify the office situation: my one-bedroom apartment is on the smaller side (33m2/355sq ft?), so the landlord converted an old ex-clothes cabinet into a makeshift ’office.’ It’s weird, but the building is from the 40s, and ig they had to get creative with the space with an old tenant or something. So its living room (sister and her kid slept there) + kitchen (i slept there) + the ’office.’
Thanks for all the support. And the award. I really don't have the words for how nice people have been in both DMs and the comments. ❤️🩹 | r/amioverreacting | post | r/AmIOverreacting | 2025-04-11 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jT2drOGN0cU94bDJvZC1DZzZnYUFnaDNMQUxMRU1OV1ZhRTBwT19taGZ4SzdYQnI1YmswM1FlNmowdGVkd3R5azBNY0JkVTRiVFNjN3FpNWttTWpmekE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kZ1NCa1VCdWNYaDJYYm1Zb09pakJSa1VIUVNrRnViNkUtNXZadXM5amlTTVBJakYydmZBLWhtNTFYRVZRbnJqXzBpT2dIX2VIVmlQTE5GZEkxMVppWG9Sb0U4dEpuU1BQY0c3SHV4WUp1MVhPeVVuQUlrRWxJVlZfaGNGTnNIU0RwWEx4SXN0NjB5MDI0TnNSYXVEa1JQdzhoMUJ0TzdhWHBJa0taSFJsY1pPZWZULWNvVlFvUGxGTk1OYUduc01aYnpaRFN2RkJEZkZOajhUMnZqeDFSUT09 |
1. Todd and Copper - The Fox and The Hound
2. Magneto and Professor X - X-Men
3. Randall Boggs and Mike Wazowski - Monster University/Monster inc | r/topcharactertropes | post | r/TopCharacterTropes | 2025-04-11 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jaFFSbmFENUlVNE5WclUwWXVjcjM3dndJWWt0MEtMR2JnT0M1eTFYWHBpcTV3R2hxMmIzazJXRjJqZEkycGRPLWdoc05wdjltdzJiWU8zTVNjbENkQlE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kU29Ib1VrbTYxQVF2aGlTSnV5YlRXY3pwZDB1QVUzb2Z5R3cxSUdrTWRnZ1IxbXNJZWVDbDlIc1k5eVYxZ2hvSDZMNGdQQ0hGX3FOZzBHbi0xVnhzNlhuM1lfb0pVS091UmxjSnkwYXFUMW14elVhQmdJTEJEOUxvWVpiWFRBS2hnTmpCV0tZU0xTWmNtWDdOdkE1QjBOSVZ6aGI5MzFIeTFMaU95NWprY1Z3dE1kQ29SWDZYX0Z0M0xwY3FjSDBuamlPNmVMWmZXTGxLQUpNdWlqb2kxZz09 |
Hello everyone, this video came up on my instagram feed and I’m honestly feeling disturbed and uncomfortable. As a Christian, I don’t think churches should be idolizing Trump like this and I don’t think we should bring religion into politics at all if this is what I came down to. And I’m honestly very disappointed in the Christian community for praising Trump like this as if he’s our savior when in reality the one and only Jesus Christ is our TRUE lord and savior. | r/christianity | post | r/Christianity | 2025-04-11 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jTFRFSjUtaWJGd2VRQklzUWlDQWVYckpGRi1zVHRxVnl5dWFkRHhIRUdGckkwYkJrbFA5SzZMMzE3bFdzRUhrUWpmeFhrYzVQdkxUckdfd3FmZE1QTUE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5ka2FVV240eEkyc2wzYWlUQWlvOExaRFhUSTJUeWNDLWxZQlhMUC01dEJ6aG9TZUxoSUlZd2p4RlVLOVl0YlUxLUZ6T1hoY1E3bHFSQXAwMUxzWFFBcC14VXVwWW5lbjRNMHc4WFVhSXg5MVlKR0twQU9NWE9TeXRjM0t5b1RoSVdaUlVYNC1NNjNaek5rUDE3QzhUWE9YdEhWZFJuYVRqR0lTdXphSWpyaXRlcUo3U0Vpdk1nMHZYMjZTWkxIelN0 |
President Trump’s immigration crackdown ensnared Kseniia Petrova, a scientist who fled Russia after protesting its invasion of Ukraine. She fears arrest if she is deported there. | r/neoliberal | post | r/neoliberal | 2025-04-11 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jVGdqcGJWX3lsYXVWS0ItZFZfTGtIZzFEQWgycEhYOTQ5anYtcS00M1U0N1g2bDhlWEJLSUpHVkVOMWc0VXVUOVhlY25tMW5wbHFhQU1fUmpRT0Z5ZEE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kMFlLTnFiWnhYRUFVWXdNek9ULUNfSWhNTFZkbWp2RXowLWFIOGE3R1p3Um52WDRLVEMzekpNV2JCeGRLdHFOTEJqV2JvUnEzNmFpZG9Md09BNDlIdmhjNXBCbmVaQXkwZ3U4M3kzVk5sMGJKOTF2ckQwN1pjUGxZTnFEbHVYWjNlT3NnS2R0X1ZsSGg0VWdST3pIQWJXeENFYVktR3Q5SmlHNEt5bTNHczJ4WktzazBFTlNNXzdsdFhiZ2VJYndvcDVtTHc4aXZNVlZnWGVOYS0xUVF2QT09 |
This short conversation seems so unhinged but I’m looking for opinions. So I(F19) was in a talking stage which this guy (M20) for two months and a few hours ago he asked me this questioned and after I responded he ended up blocking me a few minutes after. I might be crazy but I feel like he was either testing me or I actually offended him from how I answered 😂😂 So AIO for this or is he
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my dumbass posted this in the main sub not knowing you cant post images in comments | r/robloxavatars | post | r/RobloxAvatars | 2025-04-11 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jWFdkaGtCTW0yNTR6WHpZRVoxVTd0ZjdhemFZQ0ZDUVViTjcyQUZtdkUyY3RTQzUyTHk4YUhxdTM3aGZwYjFYZnV3MTNfR1BPakEzcDV2Nlk3MXJWOFN3NmJ4NWZDRjkxVlUwRThUM2gxMDA9 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kSWRKc3NSelpOdHZseGVlbGVpNGZGZlVkMkxPelVhSlBaYkhINTJSWFhrZkpmU2xDMldfSnFNbFlxNTNIUDdRU043TlNQTU1femoydVJ3UWdQM2ZyVkhfV1dKWnBfNXhMVmNMQnk0OUZjdTJNRVp5NU9fMnBtRDZkTXd5VDhMQXNfUU9CV0licGRLZWRnUl94S29QNjhrN2NscldObkd3NzcyekQ5dkdKQk9tcEhDMkMxcFRvYVlHandRa25hYUlV |
Thares to meany 'Anime boy' hairs | r/robloxavatars | post | r/RobloxAvatars | 2025-04-11 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jaGV3MFNOM1dhUk0xVGphUUU3QnVyVjZIUzlwSmsxUTVPNExPZVl0UFRheVRQWndSN05LSlktUjVGYVhTZy0wQzE0bnAwZEdzVDNYUHFMdXJwTTRUOEE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kNWxtSXkwQzgxWVNRbGxiX3FGTjlEYmFyNDQ1XzRJN19UVV9LXzJSa1VwZDREWUZESy04eUpPeHJSZDlucDViQ0FlNGVxcUJTTUpKNXNlR3V5enktbnVrcnJJeC1YUUFMYnd4a0JETzlrOENQZmU3QkdsVHBpeGZuTGdrSktic29qY24wWlBuZmZZZThTb0xLQ3VZRmtnY2Vxc2hRSUxqRWp5MHVoN1EtcV9FWVNleEY1djFQZ05pSW4wOUx1TTg1WExyTzJhREp5SjJBX3ZiNW9TVEpYdz09 |
This one is a little nsfw so be warned. For context I am an out and proud bisexual man.
I invited my friend "Jeff" over last weekend. His girlfriend who honestly sucked had just left him, so the plan was to order pizza and get crossfaded and watch movies and just shoot the shit. Well the weed I bought was a little stronger than advertised and we were pretty fucked up after finishing a joint. The beers didn't really help either. We ended up talking about his and his ex's sex life, how it was pretty bad from beginning to end. We started talking about sex in general and he kept asking a bunch of questions about gay sex, eventually the talk and the weed got me kinda bricked up and he noticed. He asked if he could go down on me just to see what it was like and I'll be honest, he's really attractive and back a few years ago I had a pretty painful unrequited crush on him. Thought it might be healing, so I said yes and he did. It was kind of amazing.
We ended up in my bedroom and we went all the way. He stayed the night in my bed and when I woke up WAY too hungover he wasn't there. I called him and he didn't pick up, texted him all this week and he never responded. If I had to guess he's embarrassed. I don't want to hurt him and if this is just him experimenting that's fine, I was a safe person and he trusted me, and if he's decided he isn't into that kind of stuff I'd just applaud him for trying something new and discovering himself. I'm scared he hates me now. The only way I know he's alive is that he's been posting workout stuff on insta. I wanna give him space to work stuff out but the silent treatment is kinda killing me and I want to hear that he doesn't think I'm a bad person for saying yes. Any advice is very welcome.
Edit: just sent him one last text that said:
"Hey J, I wanna give you space but I hope you know that I never meant to hurt you and I'm really sorry if I did. I know you're probably going through a lot right now and I'm sorry for putting more on you when you were in a vulnerable state. I won't say the other night didn't mean anything to me, because it did, but I'm more than willing to leave it in the past if it means I get to keep being your friend. You saw me as a safe space and I betrayed that trust and I hope I can earn that trust back. Text me when you can, please. Miss you, man."
If he doesn't answer this I think I need to just admit defeat. He was my best friend for 8 years and I'm just a useless fuckup that can't keep it in his pants. I don't think I've ever been more heartbroken. | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2025-04-11 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jNGQ3Q29NVXhOeFJGZERrQzNRd2VhbUtNVkZnYTJnazJieHdnUEJPLS1lVS1VeXF0N1REMHFOVGVJZzYzejZPQkJMZFFsQmlnc0Vxb1B3RnlaZ3FTNXc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kbm5iVFJ0cFBnSERpd01yN1NNV2RLYkZwU1Rockk0LWhuNGJzSVlpZGszajlWM0laQWZOenRlZlBzdHpmSEZ1TktQYVV4eC1CaXBfT2tXLW0wazdjU3N5cU56S2VVR0tHRHdnQXdDb2pYeGJDYlh1cFhvaEZUejdRek8wVE53YURzNkFSa3pNSHI2bnJTRXJkS0JaenJKSDQtVjBSSmU0VUV4cEVWLUtral9mWm14Mk15Ulc0MjdDTnFNTzJLeGRkRTFQa1VjRnc1QXFpSUpTUFotUGp1dz09 |
this is going to be fun | r/robloxavatars | post | r/RobloxAvatars | 2025-04-11 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jTEIxdjM0cGFUTHNBSDhFczV6SHRUV0RtdHFNRXVrcTNuQXNJamY3UUsyZ3Q1dC1IcndRSnoyXzQ3c2FIaW9iSUVkN1FBbXp1V0RiSnFKMkh4UmlQeWc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kRU5BcFpKV3hSSWkzblZkZVpMVFJRbUxJQUlNUWJxSG5SajFTZW95eHpaT1VsLVk0VFQ5TnZTUEVBSkI4ZU5LMy01Z1ZEZEpTeXpxODJuLVBpNmxmYXloY2xlNkVFeHhtVEZQWHFwdWU1MTM0QTRNUVFIajdhMFo4MVl2MThnbFpuYVhMdHBocTVicUcxV2Z3Z2ttV1EzUVRXTXFoUlpEdDZYOVpyUTJKVW03SzRabHVHUUhBZ2JlQkRCUWU4Sk5PMlozekhqWnMxOVdwenc0UmNqTjlRQT09 |
Last bible I had was a small NIV, which was fine at first but eventually left me wanting more - specifically the deuterocanonical books. I also wanted one that had a larger print because my old one was too small with the font at like size 7.
Finally had this RSV2CE delivered today and love it so far. It looks great both inside and out. Only things I dislike about it are no red text for Jesus quotes and that the pages are super thin. | r/christianity | post | r/Christianity | 2025-04-11 | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5jblNOLXB2dnNzWFFUYmhaMkFsa05Jd0dOTUl5dUlNa1NpeEZ5bnI5STRrbDZTMUF0T0k1dmxyMGlCSXhlMF96MGp0dUdPMG9zT19wMWpNSVhoTnloSVE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm9GbE5kcFN5NGVETHJvT0R6MV8zcWh1c0lXODFveUF4MkNxWTdvVjlIRF9aZC1haHZBWnZOaHRad3h2dWFaVk12Skx2SjFkOW9vX0FJNmJORF9RSTZNOE82YjdXRDZXT3k1UUNYdmhtSExsZ2pHekpaVHZGSzhIY0U1MXFzeEtFbmx2REtyN0VSX0F5ZDBFMGRaR0hSLWdBQXlicWZoR3lzVFo5cENsdENkUnB6R00xVURmX2lXME82Zks0Wlh3VFRSNUtU |
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