AnnoMi-client/test.tsv

id	text	label	dimension
116_163	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
116_165	Mm-hmm.	 neutral	communication behavior
117_1	Uh, just I'm sick of my drinking. I'm drinking too much. Um, I just thought, uh, maybe I need someone to talk to, get some help about it.	 change	communication behavior
117_3	Yeah, it's just- it's just got worse over the last six months?	 neutral	communication behavior
117_5	Well, I guess, I drank, you know, like most people do before, um, but I broke up with my boyfriend, uh, about a year ago and then six months ago I guess I wanted to go out again and see if I can meet people.	 neutral	communication behavior
117_7	And I've been, yeah, getting into this habit of going out every Friday and Saturday, now, uh, drinking a lot.	 neutral	communication behavior
117_9	Um, to try to meet guys.	 neutral	communication behavior
117_11	And, uh, in the last few months I've been, you know, just drinking even more on week nights, and I never even used to do that before.	 neutral	communication behavior
117_13	Yeah. Well, I just, I don't feel comfortable talking to guys normally. [chuckles]	 neutral	communication behavior
117_15	I don't know what to say, um, and I just, drinking helps.	 neutral	communication behavior
117_17	Yeah, for sure.	 neutral	communication behavior
117_19	Yeah, definitely.	 neutral	communication behavior
117_21	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
117_23	I mean, I guess, like most people do when they go out they drink.	 neutral	communication behavior
117_25	I've been doing that and just drinking more and more I guess.	 neutral	communication behavior
117_27	Um, and it's just-- it's not even working, I'm not really meeting people and I just end up with massive hangover for the rest of the weekend and—	 neutral	communication behavior
117_29	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
117_31	Yeah, I mean, I've maybe talked to people but it's just, uh, that I've just I think I'm just too-too drunk and I just, my friends drive me home and just the end of the night I don't-- yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
117_33	I guess I just wanna stop. I just feel like I'm drinking more and more 'cause I'm doing it now in the weekdays-	 change	communication behavior
117_35	-and I mean, I just don't-- I don't wanna do that every now and now I just think it's a bit too much.	 change	communication behavior
117_37	Yeah, I'm just I'm not eating properly anymore, I'm just eating less or just getting takeaway, getting crap food and-	 neutral	communication behavior
117_39	-um, I'm just, I feel like I'm not exerc-- well I'm not exercising like I used to. So, I just wanna cut, you know, stop drinking so much.	 change	communication behavior
117_41	Yeah. Yeah I do. Yeah.	 change	communication behavior
117_43	Yeah. I don't wanna- I don't wanna, I mean, I don't wanna stop altogether, so.	 change	communication behavior
117_45	Yeah and just and all my friends go out and drink. Like I-	 neutral	communication behavior
117_47	-I'd have no social life if I didn't.	 neutral	communication behavior
117_49	"If I just said-said, ""No, I'm not drinking at all,"" and, you know, I don't feel like I'm an alcoholic-"	 neutral	communication behavior
117_51	-or I don't feel like I need to	 neutral	communication behavior
117_53	Yeah, it just got a bit out of control.	 change	communication behavior
117_55	No, this hasn’t happened before.	 neutral	communication behavior
117_57	Um, due to just circumstance of, I mean, I just yeah, had my boyfriend for six years before that and-	 neutral	communication behavior
117_59	Um, before that yeah just my friends weren't drinking so much, and yeah it’s just not, it's just new. Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
117_61	Mm-hmm.	 neutral	communication behavior
117_63	I believe 80, I mean I guess that’s why I’m here so—	 change	communication behavior
117_65	Yeah.	 change	communication behavior
117_67	Um, I don’t know, I just-just I don’t know, it just sort-- it just got up to a point where just, um, it seemed just too much, like no-nobody else is really drinking as much in the week as well and-	 change	communication behavior
117_69	-it seemed, as just, yeah, for the reasons I was saying, just seeing like I need to do something about it now.	 change	communication behavior
117_71	Just seeing it’s just gonna get worse, uh, wha-- that’s what it seems like.	 change	communication behavior
117_73	Yeah.	 change	communication behavior
117_75	Yeah.	 change	communication behavior
117_77	Um, I guess that’s why I’m here. [chuckles]	 change	communication behavior
117_79	Just to, uh, but um-- I is-is-- I think the weekdays is what I really need to do.	 change	communication behavior
117_81	Um, and then, I don’t know, try to plan it out a little bit more on the weekends-	 change	communication behavior
117_85	Yeah, yeah. Yep.	 change	communication behavior
117_87	No, that’s good, that’s-that's, yeah, that's- that is definitely what I’m gonna do.	 change	communication behavior
117_89	I just, you know, I'm so out of the routine, not exercising, I need to get back into things.	 change	communication behavior
117_91	Yeah, but I mean, I guess, just talking about it makes me think oh yeah, I need to- I need to do something about it.	 change	communication behavior
119_1	Well, I, um, I did get an interview for a job. Um—	 neutral	communication behavior
119_3	Yeah, but I wasn't able to go, um, cause my kids, I didn't have any one to watch them. And, um, you know, so the- that was sort of game over. I just, I had to cancel the interview and this, it's too bad because it was a really, a- actually was a job that would have been good, but I don't know.	 neutral	communication behavior
119_5	Well, yeah, because it's- it's, you know, I didn't really have a choice. I guess I have to be- I have to make sure my kids are taken care of first. And, um, you know, I'm worried that this is gonna keep happening.	 change	communication behavior
119_7	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
119_9	Um, it sits about at a 10 because yeah, I mean, I'm the only one supporting my kids and, um, you know, it's just, what I'm getting from welfare is just not cutting it. So I really need to have a job and soon.	 change	communication behavior
119_11	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
119_13	Mm-hmm.	 neutral	communication behavior
119_15	I mean, right now, I think I'm about at a three. I just seems like, you know, even if I'm able to get into the interview and get childcare, you know, when I show up, I've got this resume that it's- it's not impressive and it's got all these gaps of employment and I'm not as educated as other people going in for the same job. So I just feel like I'm not, um, I don't know, that employable.	 sustain	communication behavior
119_17	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
119_19	Yeah. Yeah, because it's so limited and I've been out of the workforce and even when I was working, I mean, it's not, I don't know, it's not stuff that I feel like can lead to the job that I want now.	 sustain	communication behavior
119_21	I just want something that is- is gonna be steady and where I can be, you know, even if my kids are in childcare during the day, that I can be home every night and spending time with them and, um, know you really like to get something where, um, I'm just making good money and- and I don't have to worry all the time about money.	 change	communication behavior
119_23	Yeah. It would be huge.	 neutral	communication behavior
119_25	Yeah. And it'd be nice to just know what I'm doing and just have my routine.	 change	communication behavior
119_27	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
119_29	Right. Well, it would be good if I knew, you know, that my kids are taken care of too-	 change	communication behavior
119_31	- so I'm not worried about them while I'm at work.	 neutral	communication behavior
119_33	Right.	 neutral	communication behavior
119_35	Well, I mean, being able to make the interviews would be the priority.	 change	communication behavior
119_37	Um, so chi- you know, taking care, having some childcare, having-	 change	communication behavior
119_39	- having someone I trust that I can call when I know I've got an interview.	 change	communication behavior
119_41	Right. Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
119_43	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
119_45	Um, I just wish that I had- I had more experience or, um, you know, more education. It seems like everyone's got a college education and I don't have that on my resume.	 change	communication behavior
119_47	I get asked about education and training and –	 neutral	communication behavior
119_49	- um, you know, I just, it, as soon as I asked about it, I just feel just like I'm not good enough-	 sustain	communication behavior
119_51	- since I don't have that.	 neutral	communication behavior
119_53	Yeah. Well, something I could talk about in the interview too. You know, even if I was some type of certification where I could say, I could, you know, with confidence talk about- about that.	 change	communication behavior
119_55	I mean, I guess, I just don't really know what it's gonna be because I need to have a job now so I'm not really sure.	 change	communication behavior
119_57	Right. I almost feel like that's more important than what I'm interested in, you know, because I'm like, I'm not going to go back to school for four years right now.	 change	communication behavior
119_59	Yeah or something-- yeah, something that I could get immediate skills that would, you know, get me into some kind of a job now, even if it's not my long-term goal or, you know, career just- just get me into something and then I can always focus on.	 change	communication behavior
119_61	Yeah. Great. Exactly.	 neutral	communication behavior
119_63	Mm-hmm.	 neutral	communication behavior
119_65	Yeah, because even those jobs right now don't feel accessible for me. They seem like, you know-- seems like if-- maybe if I were better on the computer or you know.	 change	communication behavior
119_67	Yeah. I think so- I think so because I don't-- I can't-- I don't really have anything on my resume that talks about—	 neutral	communication behavior
119_69	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
119_71	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
119_73	Yeah, that would be great.	 change	communication behavior
119_75	That would be great.	 neutral	communication behavior
119_77	Well, find the childcare resources-	 change	communication behavior
119_79	- is- seems to be- that seems to be the—	 neutral	communication behavior
119_81	The priority 'cause I can't even do an interview without that.	 change	communication behavior
119_83	And then, um, I mean-- I guess getting into some type of- some type of a training program that's, you know, short-	 change	communication behavior
119_85	- like maybe there's a weekend, I mean—	 neutral	communication behavior
120_1	Oh, thanks so much doctor. I'll just take it easy for a couple of days.	 neutral	communication behavior
120_3	Yeah, I suppose. I know my weight is a problem, but every time I try to take it off, I end up gaining it back. I don't know what to do.	 change	communication behavior
120_5	Okay, thank you doctor, but I'm just concerned about how I can possibly lose weight now since work is so busy and the kids take up so much of my time.	 sustain	communication behavior
120_7	Okay, that sounds great. So, what should I do?	 neutral	communication behavior
120_9	I knew you were gonna say that, but I don't have time in my schedule. I can't afford to take an hour to go to the gym every day.	 sustain	communication behavior
120_11	I like to walk.	 change	communication behavior
120_13	Wait a minute, isn't walking too mild to help you lose weight, though?	 sustain	communication behavior
120_15	Oh, wow, that sounds good. You know what? Come to think of it, I have some time before I have to go back to work and I saw a nice park on the way over here, maybe I can take a short walk after this appointment.	 change	communication behavior
120_17	And you know what? I used to really love to dance, but I haven't done that in such a long time.	 change	communication behavior
120_19	Hmm. And I know my family would support me if I could just find some place where I can go dancing.	 change	communication behavior
120_21	Yeah, and you know what? I really like to try that.	 change	communication behavior
120_23	Actually, I really would. I'm kind of excited about it. What else you got?	 change	communication behavior
120_25	Mm-hmm. I can do that.	 change	communication behavior
120_27	Diet, the D word.	 neutral	communication behavior
120_29	Yeah, I like that. Okay, I'll make an appointment and I'll start dancing right away, doc.	 change	communication behavior
121_1	Thank you.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_3	Mm-hmm.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_5	From my GP?	 neutral	communication behavior
121_7	Uh.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_9	What's led me to come here?	 neutral	communication behavior
121_11	My GP.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_13	Well, um, you know, I had my sort of, uh, checkup.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_15	And it revealed that apparently, I might have diabetes 2. Well, that's what he says.	 sustain	communication behavior
121_17	Um, I-I think that I feel perfectly well. I-I'm, you know-- I understand people with diabetes are a little bit plumper than I am.	 sustain	communication behavior
121_19	But, um, that's really why I'm here. I'm on his command, almost.	 sustain	communication behavior
121_21	Well, he did. He says he's going to put me on some sort of program if it gets worse.	 sustain	communication behavior
121_23	But as I say, I-I feel absolutely fine now.	 sustain	communication behavior
121_25	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_27	Mm, I'm very surprised.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_29	Yes. I think it did.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_31	Mm.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_33	I-	 neutral	communication behavior
121_35	That's what I understand.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_37	You know, and I'm not overweight.	 sustain	communication behavior
121_39	I-I sort of look after myself to a limited extent in that way. Um, but I'm a busy person, I suppose I burn off the calories. And-	 neutral	communication behavior
121_41	I don't know, really.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_43	My lifestyle—	 neutral	communication behavior
121_45	No.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_47	No, not at all.	 sustain	communication behavior
121_49	Well, I-I thought he must be joking. To be honest. I thought-	 sustain	communication behavior
121_51	-you know, why you are-- Look around you.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_53	um, I just felt that, um-- I mean, I don't think he was wasting my time because why would he do that?	 neutral	communication behavior
121_55	Right?	 neutral	communication behavior
121_57	Um-- Absolutely right.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_59	He's got a job to do. And obviously, the tests have come through. And I have got these signs of diabetes 2.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_61	Right? Um, I just think that-- Well, I just don't feel like it, Mark.	 sustain	communication behavior
121_63	Um—	 neutral	communication behavior
121_65	I feel absolutely fine.	 sustain	communication behavior
121_67	Yeah. Well, physically, I feel absolutely fine.	 sustain	communication behavior
121_69	I'm-I'm-- I didn't see anything wrong with me at all.	 sustain	communication behavior
121_71	I mean, I get around, I sleep pretty well-	 sustain	communication behavior
121_73	I sort of you know-	 neutral	communication behavior
121_75	- I'm-I'm compos mentis. So I don't—	 neutral	communication behavior
121_77	What is the problem?	 sustain	communication behavior
121_79	Well, uh, yes. I mean-	 neutral	communication behavior
121_81	-I must admit, I haven't done too much research. I've been a bit busy.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_83	Um, but he-he was saying something about, I don't know, family or whatever. I don't know.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_85	And I don't know if it's hereditary.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_87	I think he said something about it being hereditary.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_89	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_91	Yeah, it could be-	 neutral	communication behavior
121_93	-because, um, my mother mentioned-	 neutral	communication behavior
121_95	-that, uh, my father had diabetes-	 neutral	communication behavior
121_97	-diabetes 2. And if I think about it, um, his brother-	 neutral	communication behavior
121_99	-uh, I haven't seen him for years.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_101	But he might well have it because he is-	 neutral	communication behavior
121_103	-a pretty cuddly guy. You know-	 neutral	communication behavior
121_105	He's pretty big.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_107	Well, yes, the stereotype,-	 neutral	communication behavior
121_109	Yeah, I guess.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_111	Well, yeah. I mean, as far as I know, I hadn't seen him for-	 neutral	communication behavior
121_113	-I don't know how many years.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_115	Apparently so. Yes, apparently so.	 change	communication behavior
121_117	Mm, I mean, it is hereditary, is it?	 neutral	communication behavior
121_119	A genetic factor. And so, does that mean that if you've got, um, if you've got a history of this within your family-	 neutral	communication behavior
121_121	-if it's a gene-- you are more likely than not to get it?	 neutral	communication behavior
121_123	Also, it's—	 neutral	communication behavior
121_125	Right. Okay.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_127	I'm sure you're going to tell me what they are.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_129	To be frank, Mark, I honestly don't know. I mean, I honestly don't know what causes it because I've never had any reason. It came upon me from the GP and it took me back.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_131	Um, the hereditary thing I thought, well, maybe that's the explanation.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_133	And why go any further, it's there?	 neutral	communication behavior
121_135	Can't help it.	 sustain	communication behavior
121_137	They live pretty long lives, they did, all right.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_139	Relatives relatively went into their 70s.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_141	Well.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_143	If there's something that you think that-- Yes. Yes, of course.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_145	Okay.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_147	I've heard of it yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_149	Right.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_151	Are you saying that they-they like they can't digest insulin or is that?	 neutral	communication behavior
121_153	Oh, I see. So-so it's like a-it's like a balance.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_155	So insulin you-you.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_157	You have yourself draws bar.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_159	Or something, and then what balances that out in the body is the insulin taking off the excess.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_161	Or-or digesting? Should I say the excessive sugars?	 neutral	communication behavior
121_163	Is that what happened?	 neutral	communication behavior
121_165	Why?	 neutral	communication behavior
121_167	Right. Okay.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_169	You mean, personally?	 neutral	communication behavior
121_171	Well, I didn't know. I mean, the thing is you see that-- I mean, I did think about this a little bit and I thought, well, over time, if things happen slowly, you don't really notice.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_173	As you get older.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_175	I mean, I don't-I don't leap over five bar gates like I used to, you know, um, as opposed to, uh, running with the backs now, I tend to spend more time, you know, with my old mates in the bar.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_177	At the rugby club and-and-and the such like, yeah. And, um, the fish I'm hooking, I'm not after the kings anymore, I go for the snapper now, it's a bit easier, you know.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_179	Yeah, absolutely. You just do.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_181	You just do. Um, so you're less demanding, I guess, on your-on your body, you realize, and you don't really want to do these things anyway. You know, you let the youngsters get home.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_183	"Been there, done that. So you don't really notice. So I'm coming back to this diagnosis I had from my GP and him saying, ""You've got diabetes 2,"" well, I should feel like that, shouldn't I?"	 neutral	communication behavior
121_185	Yeah, I mean.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_187	Yeah, I mean I'm a busy person. All right? I uh, my work uh, I work in insurance, so I'm always hopping from one place to another place.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_189	Um, I haven't noticed.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_191	I really haven't noticed how, um, okay I get a bit--I suppose I get a bit out of breath sometimes.	 change	communication behavior
121_193	If I rush too much that-that's true. Um, I suppose, um, I don't go upstairs two at a time anymore, I use one at a time.	 change	communication behavior
121_195	Oh, certainly the energy I have is-is not what I-what I had. I mean I do need to, you know, I'm busy but I do need to sit down, um, uh, I do need to sit down and relax with a cup of coffee, you know, and, uh, things.	 change	communication behavior
121_197	Um, more than I would normally.	 change	communication behavior
121_199	But that would be, that would be about it.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_201	Um, is it getting worse? I don't know. I-I-I suppose. What worse? Is it-is it increasing? Well, to say, I don't really notice it.	 sustain	communication behavior
121_203	Yeah, yeah. Um, at least, that's what I think. I mean I don't know if you're telling me that I should be more active or my GP is saying I should be more active.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_205	Um, as I say, uh, you know I-I don't do any regular form of exercise, I have to say, not anymore.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_207	Um.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_209	But maybe I-maybe I don't know.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_211	I mean I've got uh, well I-I mean I've got a great lifestyle. I mean if it's very-it-it's very good. I mean I've got all my mates in down at the rugby club. And I've got uh, you know even in the summer when that's a bit damn. I used to coach rugby and I coached cricket when I finished playing. So-so I've got the-the guys in the cricket club, um, you know, for the-for the, uh, for the summer evenings. And, uh, and then, uh, the-then, of course, we've got the fishing, and that's all of us combined. We're a big gang, really.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_213	Oh, I think my life yeah. My life is great.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_215	"My life is great, and then you turn around and say, ""Hey you've got-- you-you're ill, you're sick."	 sustain	communication behavior
121_217	And um, no I'm not. But you see, he said to me that he's gonna put me on some sort of, uh, a daily monitoring of, is it sugar levels?	 neutral	communication behavior
121_219	And I'm gonna have to take regular pills.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_221	Well frankly, the only pills I take are sort of paracetamols.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_223	For a bit of the head in the morning, you know.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_225	Um.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_227	Come on, you know.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_229	Well, life is too short.	 sustain	communication behavior
121_231	You know it's the truth.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_233	I mean you know—	 neutral	communication behavior
121_235	Well there is-there is something that you sort of prompted me to think about, and, um, I split up-- My wife and I, we split up several years ago now. And, um, you know we've been married for many many years.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_237	And um, I think she used to look after me because she used to do the cooking and-and-and stuff like that.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_239	And I have to say that I'm not the best cook in the world.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_241	Um, and-and being on the run all the time and you know once I get back home, it's, you know, it's time to go down to the rugby club or whatever it might be, uh, we're out with the mates. And, uh, I-I do I suppose my food is not as healthy perhaps as it used to be when she was around. She's moved down to Hamilton to live with her mother, if you've met her mother. Anyway, but, um.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_243	Yeah, I mean mates and their wives are pretty cool about it sometimes.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_245	Because, you know, they'll invite me for dinner and so on.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_247	And, yeah, yeah, yeah. I guess, you know, that's when you, well, or whatever reason, you split up in life.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_249	"You start looking at the home life of somebody else, you're thinking, ""Hmm, I use d to have this."""	 neutral	communication behavior
121_251	"And you think, "" This is nice food, "" isn't it? and you know."	 change	communication behavior
121_253	Oh, she would do all the cooking. Yeah, yeah,	 neutral	communication behavior
121_255	I mean, I never bothered to boil an egg in the water, you know.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_257	Totally. I mean, I was just in charge of the wine, you know.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_259	Well I-- This is what I'm saying. Maybe I'm not thinking about it. Maybe that's the thing.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_261	Maybe I'm just—	 neutral	communication behavior
121_263	You know, because it-- you know this-- the pizza shop's just on the road.	 sustain	communication behavior
121_265	And then there's-- I mean, okay, I confess that lunchtime, occasionally, it's uh, I'm hungry and McDonald's is very convenient	 neutral	communication behavior
121_267	-or Kentucky Fried or whatever.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_269	You know, it's very easy. and then, um, then you think to yourself, well-- I mean, I do think of myself that maybe I should have a few vegetables around here or whatever. But then you go out into the supermarkets, you know, and you can pick up, uh, your- one of your TV dinners.	 sustain	communication behavior
121_271	So you bring those in and you open them up and put them in the microwave and there's vegetables there.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_273	Yeah, it looks- it looks fine, you know, et cetera. I mean, so that will happen occasionally if I've got a night in. But cooking-wise, no, I haven't cooked anything, um, other than boil the water for the kettle for a cup o coffee.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_275	-for ages.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_277	Yeah. I do miss her breakfast. I have to say, we used to have get a nice breakfast.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_279	Well—	 neutral	communication behavior
121_281	Well, I used to be quite a heavy smoker, right? I mean, I'd smoke a pack in a half a day. And I knew that wasn't doing me any good.	 change	communication behavior
121_283	I mean the thing is when you're a-- I mean, I've always smoked. So, but when you're young and you're a sportsman, you know—	 change	communication behavior
121_285	Well, the two things they balance out, you know and everybody else is	 sustain	communication behavior
121_287	You know, you pass a cigarette down the backline almost, don't you? You know, just before the game gets—	 sustain	communication behavior
121_289	Yeah, part of the of the whole thing. And it's changed a bit now, because in my day when we were playing, of course, it was a very much more of a social game, which was spent-spent in the rugby club.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_291	That's why you played and it was a big buddy-buddy thing.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_293	That was rugby and cricket was the same really.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_295	Um, but now—	 neutral	communication behavior
121_297	"Well I-I, yeah. I was getting a bit sort of-- I was getting a bit, you know, a bit wheezy and I thought, ""I'll cut this out."""	 change	communication behavior
121_299	But I enjoy smoking. I really do enjoy it. So I cut it down to I suppose it's about 10 a day now.	 sustain	communication behavior
121_301	Yeah, yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_303	Yeah.	 change	communication behavior
121_305	Yeah, yeah. I sort of—	 neutral	communication behavior
121_307	"it-it-it's-- you know, she will, ""Why don't you give up? You've gone so far, why don't you just stop?"" But I don't want to."	 sustain	communication behavior
121_309	It's-it's-- I-I enjoy it, um—	 sustain	communication behavior
121_311	Well, yeah. I mean, you know, the thing is that you get to, you know, you've got to-- when you get down to that, you, uh, you have to regulate sort of-	 neutral	communication behavior
121_313	You know, you have to be quite strong-willed about, I suppose, in a way.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_315	"So you say, ""Okay, well, you don't have a cigarette unless you have a cup of coffee. [laughs]"	 change	communication behavior
121_317	Of course, that's a double-edged sword a bit, because then I found I was drinking more coffee, you know.	 sustain	communication behavior
121_319	Oh, yeah, yeah. I have two sugars. A couple of sugar in coffee. Yeah, yeah.	 sustain	communication behavior
121_321	So we cut that down as I say.	 change	communication behavior
121_323	But the problem goes that coffee, we're up to 8 or so, 10 cups of coffee a day now.	 sustain	communication behavior
121_325	"No, you know, there's a friend of mine, one of the guys down the rugby club, he said- he said, ""I'm going for my annual, you know-"	 neutral	communication behavior
121_327	-warranty of fitness, sort of thing, you know. And I thought, now that's an idea, not been to one of those.	 change	communication behavior
121_329	So I'm 55, and you read in the papers, you know, it's that at 55 you will-- you know, heart disease is more prevalent	 change	communication behavior
121_331	"-and all these sorts of things that you get around this middle-age time. So I thought, ""Well, I'll go and have one."" And frankly, when I went along, I was very confident. I thought, you know, the doctor is going to saying, ""Hmm, I wish I was as healthy as you,"" sort of thing."	 neutral	communication behavior
121_333	Um, but unfortunately, uh, he-he came up with this. And it's the only thing I think he really came up with. I think-	 neutral	communication behavior
121_335	My cholesterol is quite good, not too bad.	 change	communication behavior
121_337	Yeah-yeah. Not too bad.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_339	Well, yeah, I've cut it down, yeah. I mean, that's been three years, mind.	 change	communication behavior
121_341	Absolutely.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_343	And then we come to this-	 neutral	communication behavior
121_345	-too much sugar in the tank, or something. I don't know.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_347	So, yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_349	No.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_351	I mean, yeah. I mean, you know, the thing is, you see, the thing is, and I mean, and probably you've-- I think you've heard this before, but people, they turn around, oh, uh, you know, doom and gloom prophets, you shouldn't drink.	 sustain	communication behavior
121_353	You shouldn't smoke.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_355	"And then I think to myself, ""Well, maybe I shouldn't socialize."" And then after that, ""Well, maybe I shouldn't be alive."""	 sustain	communication behavior
121_357	You know. I mean, what-what-what's going on here? This is- this is- this is so many people's lives.	 sustain	communication behavior
121_359	"And um, I suppose, you know, if it came down to it, then, and somebody said, ""Well, you can solve this problem by taking a pill once a day, um, you know, it will keep it down, and there will be no problems,"" Then I-I could go with that. But what I don't want to do, um, the doctor was saying, or insinuating, that I'd have to change my lifestyle."	 sustain	communication behavior
121_361	Yeah. It was um, and I-I said, well, no. I'm sorry. [coughs] I'm not going to change my lifestyle. I've got to where I am. I'm reasonably happy. Okay, I wish I wasn't separated. Okay, I wish my kids were-were still around, um, you know. One of them is off now in, um, in-- back in Europe playing rugby in France.	 sustain	communication behavior
121_363	No, I don't want to, because I don't feel that I need to.	 sustain	communication behavior
121_365	I mean, it's you know, why?	 neutral	communication behavior
121_367	Um, I can't argue with a medical professional, Mark, because I know nothing, you know.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_369	So, I mean, what-what-what-what suggestions would you have? I mean, what-what sort of-	 change	communication behavior
121_371	Is smoking related to diabetes then?	 change	communication behavior
121_373	Oh.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_375	Don't help.	 change	communication behavior
121_377	Is it okay if you have one without the other? I'm sorry, it's a silly question. [laughs]	 sustain	communication behavior
121_379	Where would I start? Well, I-- What if about if I cut down on sugar in the coffee? If we could have long blacks, no milk, and no sugar.	 change	communication behavior
121_381	I think I could- I think I could probably handle that.	 change	communication behavior
121_383	Something of a rollover effect.	 change	communication behavior
121_385	Domino effect, yeah.	 change	communication behavior
121_387	I mean, how much exercise should I do a week?	 change	communication behavior
121_389	Right.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_391	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_393	Okay, so—	 neutral	communication behavior
121_395	So, a-are we saying then that-that, really all I need to do, for this moment, is I can forget about everything, but cut out the sugar, uh, in the coffee and the milk-- I don't know, but you might as well, you know, milk without sugar is silly. But, um, if we do that, is that where we start?	 change	communication behavior
121_397	Well, I mean that's something that's not difficult to do.	 change	communication behavior
121_399	You start off at breakfast and get yourself an apple, a bit-a bit of apple and-and so on. Um—	 change	communication behavior
121_401	Maybe.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_403	Yeah.	 change	communication behavior
121_405	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_407	Well, you know, and this is difficult because I don't feel unhealthy now.	 sustain	communication behavior
121_409	So, I suppose it would be fun to-- Maybe I should join a club or two, that's what I'm thinking because I'll be with mates.	 change	communication behavior
121_411	I love the social aspect of it, and, um, there's-there's-- I know there's a bar in this club as well. I-- Don't-don't misunderstand me, I don't drink-	 change	communication behavior
121_413	-till-- You know, I'm not an alcoholic or anything like that, I—	 sustain	communication behavior
121_415	So yeah, so to get that balance, and maybe that's what I'm actually missing in life, and maybe this is, um-- I mean yes I do get up in the morning sometimes, and I suppose I do feel a bit—	 change	communication behavior
121_417	You know? Even after a decent night's sleep, you know?	 change	communication behavior
121_419	And you need-- I'm getting this cup of coffee and maybe I'm—	 neutral	communication behavior
121_421	And that gets me going. Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_423	Yeah, the sugar gives me the boost, I suppose. I-it's fantastic.	 sustain	communication behavior
121_425	Hmm. If I give up sugar in my coffee, give up the milk, black coffees, right?	 neutral	communication behavior
121_427	if I find some social form of exercise, like squash.	 change	communication behavior
121_429	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_431	Yeah, and then—	 neutral	communication behavior
121_433	"And then, you know, give this, say, six months, I don't know what period it would be, then go back to the GP and say, ""Test me again."""	 change	communication behavior
121_435	And so maybe that would, uh—	 neutral	communication behavior
121_437	Maybe it's an idea. I mean—	 change	communication behavior
121_439	Yeah, like my wife used to. Yeah.	 change	communication behavior
121_441	"Well, you see, I mean, I'm thinking, ""Actually it might not be a bad idea this,"" because [chuckles] it would mean I could socialize harder, couldn't I? No, no I'm just joking. Uh, but, um, yeah, I mean, why not? Why not? Why not? It might be fun, it's a new path."	 change	communication behavior
121_443	Well, it would appear that there is something to gain, and-- I mean, I-- What do I lose? I don't know until I do it. But I'm thinking that if I do it and I do what I'm enjoying doing, I won't miss what I'm not doing. Does that make sense?	 change	communication behavior
121_445	Um, yeah I don't mind. I-- It's not a—	 change	communication behavior
121_447	I'll talk to Billy about, um-- Billy is, um, he's the gym bloke.	 change	communication behavior
121_449	I'll have a word with him because I'm due down the club tonight.	 change	communication behavior
121_451	Really.	 change	communication behavior
121_453	Yeah, I think that you say where-where you're at now, where you're going, where—	 change	communication behavior
121_455	-and-and-and this is what I've got to do. I think I'm in a rut. I think that's where I've—	 change	communication behavior
121_457	I'm-I'm just-- I'm-I'm satisfiedly sort of contented, uh, sitting in this- in this rut and, um, that my doctor has actually di-diagnosed me with diabetes 2-	 change	communication behavior
121_459	-which he says can be managed, and you seem to be insinuating that it can be managed.	 change	communication behavior
121_461	Uh, maybe this is a blessing, actually-	 change	communication behavior
121_463	"-because I think to myself, ""Well, if someday, I am diagnosed with diabetes, I'd just carry on and-"""	 neutral	communication behavior
121_465	"""-sitting in the corner of the bar, and chat, and talk and probably get fat."" I don't know, and make it worse. And, yeah, maybe, maybe, maybe, maybe."	 neutral	communication behavior
121_467	Yeah, that's cool.	 change	communication behavior
121_469	That's really cool.	 change	communication behavior
121_471	Mm.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_473	Yeah, I mean, I think you're quite right. I think you just—	 change	communication behavior
121_475	I don't know, you become sedentary, don't you? No, it seems that-- No, actually, this is quite exciting. It quite [unintelligible 00:31:28]	 change	communication behavior
121_477	"I think to myself, I think, ""Oh,"" I think go—"	 change	communication behavior
121_479	Yeah. I mean, this is- this is- this is cool, it's like an old challenge again.	 change	communication behavior
121_481	This is good. And, um—	 change	communication behavior
121_483	"I think I am. I mean, I never thought about it, but when I think about it now it's, ""What am I doing here?"" Why am I like this? Why am I just happy contented to drift?"	 change	communication behavior
121_485	Yeah.	 change	communication behavior
121_487	Oh, so if I was obs- if I was sort of-	 neutral	communication behavior
121_489	-observing as it were?	 neutral	communication behavior
121_491	Watching myself, what would I say? I-I-- Well, I would say, you know, are you happy?	 neutral	communication behavior
121_493	That-- Are you contented with that performance of you and your team?	 change	communication behavior
121_495	Yeah.	 change	communication behavior
121_497	I think you're- I think you're right. I think, um-- And again, you put them together and it's-it's-it's becoming-- It's-it's a sort of a-an individual team job, isn't it really?	 change	communication behavior
121_499	That, okay, do a bit of this and do a bit of that.	 change	communication behavior
121_501	Yeah, but I don't have to give up anything really, do I?	 change	communication behavior
121_503	No.	 change	communication behavior
121_505	No it's not. It's not.	 change	communication behavior
121_507	Mm-hmm.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_509	True, true.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_511	Now that I think about it- now that I think about it, maybe.	 change	communication behavior
121_513	Maybe they were.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_515	Yeah, you see—	 neutral	communication behavior
121_517	Mm. When your life comes to a halt-	 neutral	communication behavior
121_519	-your family splits up, or whatever, and you don't have anymore, I-I think you stop caring really. Uh, y-you know, you stop caring about yourself	 change	communication behavior
121_521	Because everything is just f-	 neutral	communication behavior
121_523	Nobody there, [crosstalk] it's true and so,-	 neutral	communication behavior
121_525	-you know,-	 neutral	communication behavior
121_527	-you don't care.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_529	So that's maybe [crosstalk]	 neutral	communication behavior
121_531	Maybe, a bit selfish but maybe why not?	 change	communication behavior
121_533	Why not? Yeah, that's a good idea.	 change	communication behavior
121_535	Oh right, well, wha-what we talked about. Now, you know, uh, okay, uh, coffee. Right? No sugar.	 change	communication behavior
121_537	I'll start with that.	 change	communication behavior
121_539	Um, I'm gonna, um, I'll be talking to Bill, uh-	 change	communication behavior
121_541	-about the gym but-	 change	communication behavior
121_543	-I like the idea of, actually again doing squash-	 change	communication behavior
121_545	-or something else-	 change	communication behavior
121_547	-and I'm gonna go down to the rugby club and I'll- I know that will be accepted. I'll offer my services again because-	 change	communication behavior
121_549	-it was reasonably successful.	 change	communication behavior
121_551	And, uh—	 neutral	communication behavior
121_553	"No, [crosstalk] oh, well, okay, yeah I didn't- yeah, I'll go back and say-- Well, look, I'd-I'd rather not go back to the doctor and say, ""I'm gonna do this, this, this-"	 sustain	communication behavior
121_555	-this and this.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_557	This is between you and me.	 change	communication behavior
121_559	All right?	 change	communication behavior
121_561	But this is what I'm gonna do. All right? And like I said, I'm gonna make the inquiries, I will start there-	 change	communication behavior
121_563	-I will give up, uh, I'll give up the V drinks,-	 change	communication behavior
121_565	-I think, um, look for some better wine. [laughter] Um, and-and I-I'd take an interest really.	 change	communication behavior
121_567	I'll take an interest really and-and, uh, but it is quite exciting, Mark.	 change	communication behavior
121_569	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_571	Not too much.	 sustain	communication behavior
121_573	Yeah, yeah.	 change	communication behavior
121_575	Just give me a bit of background, really.	 change	communication behavior
121_577	Oh, yeah, and what it is-	 change	communication behavior
121_579	-because I don't really know. Yeah, yeah.	 change	communication behavior
121_581	Okay.	 neutral	communication behavior
121_583	Wha-what are we talking about, sort of few months down the line?	 change	communication behavior
121_585	What, in about a month's time?	 neutral	communication behavior
121_587	Yeah, okay, I'm up for that.	 change	communication behavior
121_589	I'm up for that. Yeah, now-now that's putting me, um, that's very gently putting my head on the block	 change	communication behavior
121_591	-and I don't mind that because, um, yeah, that's cool.	 change	communication behavior
121_593	Yeah, yeah. I'll see you in a month.	 change	communication behavior
121_595	No worries.	 change	communication behavior
121_597	And I appreciate it. Thank you.	 change	communication behavior
122_0	Well, I'm here because my mom wants me to be here.	 sustain	communication behavior
122_2	I don't really wanna be here, but it-it-- whatever.	 sustain	communication behavior
122_4	Um, she-she found my stash-	 neutral	communication behavior
122_6	-and she freaked out, and she's going crazy over it. Um, I don't why she was going through stuff in the first place, but whatever, so, now I'm here.	 neutral	communication behavior
122_8	Um, I've been hanging out with a new cool crowd of people that I really like.	 sustain	communication behavior
122_10	Uh, a-and-and that's-that's basically it.	 neutral	communication behavior
122_12	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
122_14	Yeah, basically.	 neutral	communication behavior
122_16	Mm-hmm.	 neutral	communication behavior
122_18	I am.	 neutral	communication behavior
122_20	I mean, it's my stuff, I don't know why she's—	 sustain	communication behavior
122_22	I-I don't go- I don't go through her s- I don't go through her stuff. I don't go through her purse. I don't—	 neutral	communication behavior
122_24	Right.	 neutral	communication behavior
124_1	Well, I think, um, like when I was really active in the past, I enjoy going to the gym and I like that regardless of what's happening with the weather outside, that-that's always an option. Um, so I've kind of already started to look and see, like, how much gym memberships cost in the area. Um, I really like one that's like month to month and doesn't require me to pay out for like a year because, in the summertime, I just don't use that when the weather is nice, I like to be outside.	 change	communication behavior
124_2	So, um, I do think that that would be an option. Um, I did enjoy doing yoga in the past. I, um, I don't care for swimming, uh, because it requires a lot of extra prep time, and like, I don't- chlorine in my hair just doesn't really go very well usually. Um, but I really like walking, um, weightlifting, running is okay. Um, that was more at my, like, peak activity level, so I don't think I could start out running now, but I'd like to work up to it.	 change	communication behavior
124_4	Mm-hmm.	 neutral	communication behavior
124_6	Mm-hmm.	 neutral	communication behavior
124_8	"Yeah. So I just- on my phone, if I'm like in the grocery store, I'm kind of just looking through, and on Google, I'll type in like ""Gyms in the area"" and I'll look and see what's there. And, um, I don't ever want to sign up to learn more 'cause I feel like then they just keep emailing you forever. So at this point, I'm just trying to kind of figure out what I can, based on their website as far as cost goes, but that, um, month to month is kind of really important for me. Just like I mentioned, I don't want to be paying for six months or a year out."	 sustain	communication behavior
124_10	Mm-hmm.	 neutral	communication behavior
124_12	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
124_14	Mm-hmm.	 neutral	communication behavior
124_16	Yeah, I think, um, you know, I've kind of looked around and seen what I- what's available to me. Um, I think the next step would be to maybe go visit one place and just see, like, what equipment they have. Um, I also think too, I'd like to be outside when the weather permits. I like to walk. I just- I don't like rain or snow or cold, like, um, I don't like doing things when I'm just not in a climate that's enjoyable. So if there is, uh, decent weather, I think going outside and, you know, getting some steps in or just walking would be a good first start for me.	 change	communication behavior
124_18	Right. Yeah.	 change	communication behavior
124_20	Sure. Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
124_22	I don't know that I've looked closely at that. I don't know much about their pricing or anything like that.	 neutral	communication behavior
124_24	I agree.	 neutral	communication behavior
124_26	Yeah, definitely.	 change	communication behavior
124_28	Mm-hmm.	 neutral	communication behavior
124_30	Yeah, no, yeah. That's a good-good recommendation. I'll definitely check it out.	 change	communication behavior
124_32	Mm-hmm.	 change	communication behavior
124_34	Yeah. I think, you know, finding ways to walk more would be good, um, even if that is inside somewhere. Uh, I've done the like trick of parking in the back of the parking lot and walking up to the store. Um, and like I've also been in Target and taken an extra lap, which is kind of dangerous too 'cause you might spend more money. Um, but I- I think if the weather's nice too, I would like to get outside and try to find a place to walk. Um, and two, I really did enjoy yoga, it's- it was good for my, like, flexibility and posture, and so I would be interested in maybe seeing too what classes are available in the area. I haven't looked at that at all.	 change	communication behavior
124_36	Home workouts have never really worked for me in the past just because there's so many distractions, and I can, like, set the mat out there and everything and get everything ready, like bottled water, everything's good to go. And then it just sits there and I don't actually do it, whereas if I go somewhere else, I'm already there. And so I'm doing it.	 change	communication behavior
124_38	Mm-hmm.	 change	communication behavior
124_40	No, that sounds good. I-I definitely think, um, I'll walk probably more than one time in the next couple of weeks, but, um, I also have this app on my phone that tracks my steps, uh, and it was like built into the phone. It's nothing I downloaded or anything. So I can also use that to kind of see if I'm getting more active 'cause right now I think I'm averaging like 2,000 steps a day, so it's like a lot of sitting.	 change	communication behavior
124_42	Yeah, I think so.	 change	communication behavior
124_44	I think I'm at a 10.	 change	communication behavior
124_46	Yeah. I think that, like I said, I think I'll find ways to walk. Um, and I'm at a point now where I've done as much research, I've found out as much information, I think, as I can on the gyms that are local here. Um, but I will check out the- the Y to see if it maybe is a bit cheaper and also a bit more, like, welcoming and doesn't require a- like, a six-month contract or anything like that. So I feel like those would both be good starts. Yeah.	 change	communication behavior
124_48	Um, well, if I'm trying to walk outside, the weather's always going to be one, but I, again, like I said, if I'm checking, uh, using the app on my phone to see my step count, I can maybe make more of a priority to walk indoors, um, and just find places inside that I could walk, even if it's just around the hallway or whatever that looks like-	 change	communication behavior
124_50	Yeah, but hopefully there's one. So, yeah.	 change	communication behavior
124_52	No, I feel really good. I think even coming in, I didn't have a like step-by-step idea of what I wanted to do next, but no, this has been helpful to know what those small steps are, and like you said, hopefully, I do start feeling better. Yeah.	 change	communication behavior
124_54	Thanks for having me. All right.	 neutral	communication behavior
125_0	The baby was up all night and I'm exhausted.	 neutral	communication behavior
125_2	Yes. She was up every three hours to eat, I don't understand it.	 neutral	communication behavior
125_4	Yes. My mom told me that I started sleeping through the night when I was a month old, Lilly is six weeks.	 neutral	communication behavior
125_6	Well, what is normal for a baby this age?	 neutral	communication behavior
127_1	Mm-hmm. Um, yeah, my asthma has just been out of control lately and my doctor says that might be connected to Oscar.	 neutral	communication behavior
127_3	Um, I've got allergy testing. It's just, uh, the dust makes it bad. I thought the smoking was the main thing-	 neutral	communication behavior
127_5	-that's cut down. Um, and then they said the drinking might contribute to it, too. So, I got a lot of different things I'm working on. So that's what I know.	 change	communication behavior
127_7	The drinking, the smoking and the dust that I got, the, um, the scratch test for.	 neutral	communication behavior
127_9	And-and-and that's what I know, and that I take the medicine for it.	 neutral	communication behavior
127_11	No, I've had it for-for 12 years and now it's a concern. I don't understand.	 neutral	communication behavior
127_13	Mm-hmm.	 neutral	communication behavior
127_15	Mm-hmm.	 neutral	communication behavior
127_17	Mm-hmm.	 neutral	communication behavior
127_19	Yes, just that work with the [unintelligible 00:01:24].	 neutral	communication behavior
127_21	Mm-hmm.	 neutral	communication behavior
127_23	Mm-hmm. I'm a little I'm a couple of down. I used to drink four at night, now I'm down to three at least.	 change	communication behavior
127_25	Uh-huh.	 neutral	communication behavior
127_27	Mm-hmm, what's next, yeah, yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
127_29	Mm-hmm.	 neutral	communication behavior
127_31	Well, we keep them clean, like he's cleaned. So, all the dander doesn't really make sense, but I have been noticing that sometimes when he comes on the bed or just beside, I wheeze a little bit, but I think it has to do with, um, the hair, the, in my lungs cleaning itself up from the smoking.	 sustain	communication behavior
127_33	So, I don't know if it's that-that's where I'm confused. I don't know how this could be happening.	 neutral	communication behavior
127_35	Mm-hmm, Mm-hmm.	 neutral	communication behavior
127_37	But-but the wheezing is something that I've definitely noticed a little bit.	 neutral	communication behavior
127_39	Mm-hmm.	 neutral	communication behavior
127_41	Mm-hmm, Mm-hmm. I just want some medicine and I want to keep Oscar and I wanna feel better about myself because I'm making all these changes in my life and it honestly feels like my-my nose is just above the water.	 sustain	communication behavior
127_43	Mm-hmm. Yeah, no, that feels good. That I, you know, at least it is my choice. I just feel like just about, I'm not feeling happy about just all these different things that are coming up. Um, and I'm kind of sad about things.	 neutral	communication behavior
127_45	And I don't know, I don't know what to do.	 neutral	communication behavior
127_47	Mm-hmm.	 neutral	communication behavior
127_49	Mm-hmm. I want- I want John Carlos to grow up with Oscar. So he has his friend when he's young, too. And, um, I just, it's a lot of stress and a lot of things you-you gotta think about then, um, I'm not feeling good about it.	 neutral	communication behavior
127_51	Man, uh, how would I know? I don't know. I think if my asthma got really bad and the medicine- she gave me the strongest medicine and it wasn't working.	 neutral	communication behavior
127_53	That would be the way right now 'cause I can't see, I don't know how I'm going to give this dog up.	 sustain	communication behavior
127_55	Mm-hmm.	 neutral	communication behavior
127_57	No, no. It's something I got to just sit there and-and kind of, um, put the pros and the cons on the table about, but-	 neutral	communication behavior
127_59	-something's going on.	 neutral	communication behavior
128_0	Wow, I can't believe he stopped crying finally and fell asleep. Poor guy.	 neutral	communication behavior
128_2	No he wasn't.	 neutral	communication behavior
128_4	Yeah, absolutely.	 neutral	communication behavior
128_6	Well, you're right actually, I-I did quit smoking but just last week my mom took Jake for the first time. It was a Friday night, so friends were going out to celebrate a birthday.	 neutral	communication behavior
128_8	Yeah. At one point in the night, though, they all went out to have a cigarette and I joined them. Since then, I've been having a couple of cigarettes at night, but never near Jake and never near his clothes or his toys. I mean, I've heard about second-hand smoking. And I-I don't want to be- expose him to it, so I've been avoiding him when I smoke.	 neutral	communication behavior
128_10	Yeah, sure.	 neutral	communication behavior
128_12	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
128_14	Exactly.	 neutral	communication behavior
128_16	Yeah, well, you know that sounds okay. While he's sick, I might be able to smoke outside in the next couple days or so, but the thing is, usually I'm craving a cigarette the most when I have a glass of wine at the end of the day. I put Jake to bed, I open up a bottle and I pour myself a glass and I'm finally able to unwind, so, I get a craving for a cigarette, so, I'm not sure long-term I'd be able to smoke outside.	 sustain	communication behavior
128_18	Yeah, exactly and another thing is that sometimes in the morning, after I've had a couple of glasses of wine, I kinda feel tired or groggy or low on energy, so, even that I'm not sure is completely relaxing. Especially if I've had a cigarette the night before, I always feel so bad.	 neutral	communication behavior
128_20	Exactly.	 neutral	communication behavior
128_22	Sure. I've never heard of them.	 neutral	communication behavior
128_24	Well, usually I'm having more than two glasses but if you're saying that's gonna minimize some risk and I guess some of the grogginess I'm feeling the next morning, then maybe I should just try and have one glass of wine in the evenings?	 neutral	communication behavior
128_26	Yeah, I-I'd absolutely maybe reduce. I'll try my best to reduce, but I'm not sure about the smoking.	 change	communication behavior
128_28	Yeah. I think that sounds okay.	 change	communication behavior
128_30	No. I think just talking about it was helpful, you know, and I'm- I'm glad you've given me some information. Maybe just this week I can think about it a little more, you know, I-I feel pretty overwhelmed right now. There's so much to do. My days are pretty full, so, maybe I can just s-sit on it for a week.	 change	communication behavior
128_32	All right. That sounds good. Thanks, Dr.	 change	communication behavior
129_0	Dr. Morrow, I'm so relieved I'm not pregnant.	 neutral	communication behavior
129_2	I really feel like I dodged the bullet. That was- that was probably the scariest like two days of my life.	 neutral	communication behavior
129_4	Yup.	 neutral	communication behavior
129_6	Yeah, it went so slow.	 neutral	communication behavior
129_8	Even just being here today is like minutes ticking by.	 neutral	communication behavior
129_10	It's really good news.	 neutral	communication behavior
129_12	I don't even know. I'm-I'm not ready to have a kid. I know that. I know my life is not ready for that step.	 neutral	communication behavior
129_14	Yeah, no.	 neutral	communication behavior
129_16	Um, I don't really want to go there. I just-- that sort of stuff just weirds me out. Yeah, I take something fun and just makes it really medical.	 sustain	communication behavior
129_18	No.	 sustain	communication behavior
129_20	Yeah, I mean I'm-I'm careful. I do what I can, but I don't wanna take anything for that.	 sustain	communication behavior
129_22	"Yeah. It's-it's scary. I mean, this is the first time I've ever had that sort of feeling of ""What am I gonna do?"""	 neutral	communication behavior
129_24	And-and that fear was like-- yeah. Up until now, I've been good, yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
129_26	Yeah. No, it- it's just- it's just weird for me. I don't- I don't like thinking about that stuff, yeah.	 sustain	communication behavior
129_28	Yeah, maybe another time. Just, I'm not ready for it.	 sustain	communication behavior
129_30	I'm not ready for that conversation right now.	 sustain	communication behavior
129_32	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
129_34	Thank you.	 neutral	communication behavior
132_1	Well, I suppose you're gonna give me a row and tell me it's all self-inflicted and I've got to change my ways and give up the things I enjoy.	 sustain	communication behavior
132_3	The doc said I've got to take pills for the rest of my life.	 neutral	communication behavior
132_5	Well, I feel fine, but the-the doc said it could save my life.	 neutral	communication behavior
132_7	Okay, what should I do first?	 change	communication behavior
132_9	Where do you think I should start?	 change	communication behavior
132_11	Yeah, uh, you tell me, stop smoking and lose weight and take more exercise, wouldn’t you?	 neutral	communication behavior
132_13	Uh, I loved to lose weight but it's so hard giving up the things you enjoy.	 sustain	communication behavior
132_15	I really should do. Or shouldn't I,	 neutral	communication behavior
132_17	Well, I'd like to see my children settled and my grandchildren growing up and I should,suppose I should be an example to them.	 change	communication behavior
132_19	Yes. I want to be there for them, but not a burden to them.	 change	communication behavior
132_21	Uh, I've been thinking about them a lot lately, and I want to be there for them. So have to do what I need to, to improve my health.	 change	communication behavior
132_23	You know, to start with, I could cut down on my drinking. Um, that's adding to my weight and to my blood pressure, isn't it?	 change	communication behavior
132_25	In fact, I think I'll try and cut out the booze altogether. My wife says I drink too much at the weekends.	 change	communication behavior
132_27	And I suppose I could cut out the crisps and pies at works.	 change	communication behavior
132_29	I'm gonna start having soup at lunchtime. I suppose a big bowl of soup would be far better than two pies.	 change	communication behavior
132_31	Well, there's one, one thing uh, I've done already, I've stopped adding salt to my food. The doc said that would help with my blood pressure.	 change	communication behavior
132_33	Well, I didn't know that. Um, it's good to know. I'll tell my wife, um, she's still very fond of her salt and her mother had osteoporosis.	 change	communication behavior
132_35	I feel if I go ahead and do as I say with cutting down on the pies, the crisps, um, and cutting out the booze, I feel I'm making a start but let's take it a step at a time and see how it goes. But, uh, the next day when we look at it, the figures might be a lot better.	 change	communication behavior
132_37	Yes, that’s fine with me.	 neutral	communication behavior
132_39	Thanks. You too.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_1	Mm.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_3	Right. Neat. What, um, what have I changed, what am I—	 neutral	communication behavior
133_5	I've been thinking about how easy it would be to deal P again.	 sustain	communication behavior
133_7	I mean, I've been thinking about, um, how I could actually set myself up the right way doing it the wrong way.	 sustain	communication behavior
133_9	Mm.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_11	Well, at the end of, you know, that last week inside, I was- I had that kind of, okay, what's next buzz? And, you know, it just doesn't work out here.	 sustain	communication behavior
133_13	I don't have a, uh, uh, I don't know what that is.	 sustain	communication behavior
133_15	Yes.	 sustain	communication behavior
133_17	Yeah, it's worse.	 sustain	communication behavior
133_19	Yeah.	 sustain	communication behavior
133_21	I haven't yet, I mean-	 change	communication behavior
133_23	-the, uh, the offer's there.	 sustain	communication behavior
133_25	Um, I don't know why I haven't said that I will yet but I mean-	 change	communication behavior
133_27	-it's there.	 sustain	communication behavior
133_29	Yeah.	 sustain	communication behavior
133_31	No.	 sustain	communication behavior
133_33	How long have I been out?	 neutral	communication behavior
133_35	Three weeks, one day.	 change	communication behavior
133_37	Three weeks, one day.	 change	communication behavior
133_39	I don't know.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_41	Um, I'd- I- you know, I kind of told myself not to, you know, just before I left. And then I'm just kind of with it and I don't quite know why. [clears throat] I dunno, if, uh, there's no real reason why I haven't yet. It's just that I don't- I just don't think it'll work the way I always dream it will you know, I see myself up like, whatever, if I do that again, the next leg is a long one. A real long one.	 change	communication behavior
133_43	And I-I can't go back there. There's no way I'm going back there.	 change	communication behavior
133_45	No, never lasts.	 change	communication behavior
133_47	Yep. I've been in crossroads for 12 years.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_49	Yeah. And- [crosstalk]	 change	communication behavior
133_51	-sort of opposite, yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_53	You know, we're in the middle, you know, and it's actually at the moment, I guess.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_55	But I don't know. You know, that's quite clear that no fucking idea.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_57	Do you have an idea?	 neutral	communication behavior
133_59	Mm.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_61	Fiona?	 change	communication behavior
133_63	Yeah.	 change	communication behavior
133_65	She's told me that it's over if I do it. You know, I mean, she-- What tell you about, Fiona I mean she's been with me. She's the one who stayed through all the shit. And I owe her-	 change	communication behavior
133_67	-something.	 change	communication behavior
133_69	12 years.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_71	Yeah. She's actually got the black and white line down now.	 change	communication behavior
133_73	It's pretty she- you know, she could be pretty full-on.	 change	communication behavior
133_75	Yeah, so it's hard to ignore that line.	 change	communication behavior
133_77	I mean. And it comes with a whole lot of different rules, and you know, she's never been quite like she is now.	 change	communication behavior
133_79	Yeah. I think she has. I don't think I have.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_81	She just wants me. I mean, she just wants someone to be there. Me. She-she remembers me and she wants- she wants him.	 change	communication behavior
133_83	The one that, you know—	 change	communication behavior
133_85	Yeah, that's the one.	 change	communication behavior
133_87	No, no. No one would want him. I don't want him. He's a fuckwit, right? She wants the one that she fell in love with.	 change	communication behavior
133_89	Yeah.	 change	communication behavior
133_91	If I had the answer to that, I wouldn't need to be sitting here.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_93	And I mean, I honest- I don't know, man. I don't know. I-I wish I knew somewhere I could start that, you know, could give it to her, but I-I can't. I-I don't know.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_95	"I was pretty romantic. I mean, I was pretty quite smooth, and, um, you know, I was on top of my game, like, she- and she loved it. And we used to laugh in the [unintelligible 00:06:45], you know? And just- it was always really sweet, and people used to say, ""Oh, man, you two. You two have just got it,"" you know? And we lost it, so whatever that was, that's what she wants. We were young. How do you become young? Uh, you know, I'm old, and we'll keep growing old, but you know?"	 change	communication behavior
133_97	Like if I'm not careful, I will be.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_99	Yeah, certainly.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_101	Yeah.	 change	communication behavior
133_103	Yeah.	 change	communication behavior
133_105	Yeah, yep.	 change	communication behavior
133_107	You know what? She hasn't even talked about the dealing, like, she won't even broach that subject. That's how black and white she is. She's- she'll be- she offers suggestions, you know? What I could do, and- or I kind of go with that, but none of them are-- You know, it's lovely that she's really finding things, but they're not the things. I mean, it-- I started kind of placating her and making it okay to keep giving me suggestions, but like, I need to come up with something because it's like awesome love, but you know, not in love, and she's getting sick of it already.	 change	communication behavior
133_109	A little bit that. Yeah, little-little bit tense. Yeah, that's fair.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_111	No, they are.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_113	I mean, not like they have been because we've only just started on the new road, but I mean, yeah, tense is the right word.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_115	Well, I don't know. I haven't got little, um, nuggets of where I could go. I've just got like this feeling that I should go somewhere.	 change	communication behavior
133_117	Yeah.	 change	communication behavior
133_119	Yeah. No idea.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_121	[nods].	 neutral	communication behavior
133_123	Yeah. Well, um—	 change	communication behavior
133_125	Not many.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_127	Mm-hmm.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_129	Um, oh, I've got. Yeah, one. [chuckles]	 neutral	communication behavior
133_131	One.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_133	Mm, yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_135	Okay, so, um—	 neutral	communication behavior
133_137	Well, he-he was- he was inside with me the first time I was ever inside, and now he's a drug counselor.	 change	communication behavior
133_139	So, he's the- he did it.	 change	communication behavior
133_141	I don't know how the fuck he did that, but, 'cause because he wasn't even a real addict, he was just-- Well, I mean, I don't know. He's very good with people.	 change	communication behavior
133_143	Really good at talking, and, uh, but anyway, I don't know how he did it.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_145	Yeah, but I can't ever be a drug counselor.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_147	Yeah.	 change	communication behavior
133_149	Yeah. I think he would have found some higher power. They find-- I'm not gonna find one of them.	 sustain	communication behavior
133_151	Yeah.	 sustain	communication behavior
133_153	I don't know. That's why I'm here.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_155	I don't know what that is.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_157	Okay.	 change	communication behavior
133_159	Good luck.	 sustain	communication behavior
133_161	Yeah, I don't mean to be rude-	 neutral	communication behavior
133_163	-but I do mean it's a big ask.	 sustain	communication behavior
133_165	Fucking guts.	 change	communication behavior
133_167	Is it a quality?	 neutral	communication behavior
133_169	Yeah, I'd need some of them.	 change	communication behavior
133_171	Am I?	 neutral	communication behavior
133_173	No, not yet.	 sustain	communication behavior
133_175	Well, no I'm not.	 sustain	communication behavior
133_177	No, I don't have that-that-that much courage.\	 sustain	communication behavior
133_179	Oh, I have to.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_181	Yeah.	 change	communication behavior
133_183	Oh, okay.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_185	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_187	All right.	 change	communication behavior
133_189	Okay.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_191	It's a bit awkward.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_193	Ah, yeah. I could've done that	 neutral	communication behavior
133_195	I'm older, you know? It's not as much fun.	 change	communication behavior
133_197	I used to take the piss outta you guys-	 neutral	communication behavior
133_199	-all day long. We all do, but-	 neutral	communication behavior
133_201	-it's not funny. I mean, and you're-you're a good guy, I imagine. I mean, in fact, you don't deserve my shit. I just-- I don't know. Good luck.	 change	communication behavior
133_203	Oh, sadness. You know, I don't wanna wallow, you know? You know, you've gotta take, you know-- You make your own opportunity in life, don't you?	 change	communication behavior
133_205	I just never did.	 sustain	communication behavior
133_207	Do they?	 change	communication behavior
133_209	All right. Not to me.	 sustain	communication behavior
133_211	Oh, yeah. Oh, heaps of those opportunities.	 sustain	communication behavior
133_213	Yeah, well, the different world isn't offering me opportunities. The different world is offering me a night shift, and minimum wage, and, you know, nothing. So it's like, set-set yourself up, set your goal up, or, um, don't, and that's your-your pro-social living, and that's your, you know, old behaviors.	 sustain	communication behavior
133_215	Mm-hmm.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_217	The system?	 neutral	communication behavior
133_219	Man, I've been fighting that system-	 change	communication behavior
133_221	-and all it takes me back is to the-the inside-	 sustain	communication behavior
133_223	-I mean—	 neutral	communication behavior
133_225	Well, I can't see it.	 sustain	communication behavior
133_227	You know what, if I knew what they'd look like-	 change	communication behavior
133_229	-I-I might, you know, buy that.	 change	communication behavior
133_231	Did I?	 neutral	communication behavior
133_233	Oh yeah.	 sustain	communication behavior
133_235	Yeah, that's not much fun. That doesn't look very good.	 sustain	communication behavior
133_237	Yeah, that looks really hard.	 sustain	communication behavior
133_239	I know that's the right thing, uh, don't get me wrong.	 change	communication behavior
133_241	That is gut right there, going to a job you hate, going home, cooking yet missus a dinner, looking after your kids. I mean, that is-- That's what it real mean does, but I don't have that-- Th-those guts to do- to do what you do.	 sustain	communication behavior
133_243	I-- Hmm, maybe.	 change	communication behavior
133_245	No. You know, convince me because, you know, I kind of want to be.	 change	communication behavior
133_247	Right.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_249	Mm.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_251	It is the little things, yeah, like waking up, and having a cup of tea and sitting on the porch is kind of cool.	 change	communication behavior
133_253	Yeah.	 change	communication behavior
133_255	No, you don't get to sit outside-	 neutral	communication behavior
133_257	-on the porch.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_259	No one. It's morning, it's just me.	 change	communication behavior
133_261	Birds, trees, yada yada.	 change	communication behavior
133_263	Mm, you know, maybe.	 change	communication behavior
133_265	I don't-- You know, that-that was nice. If it was full of bits like that, sure, but I mean, you know, eventually you have to go off to your job and-	 neutral	communication behavior
133_267	-you know, pay your-your wages, I mean your-your mortgage and-and-	 neutral	communication behavior
133_269	-it's just massive.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_271	It is.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_273	You know, people like me are unaccepted into that world though. You know? I've got-- I don't have qualifications. All my mates are in Australia working awesome jobs, mining for 160K a year, you know? Just being men digging holes. Like, if I could do that, yeah, all good but fuck, I have just come out of prison, I don't have any NCEA. I, uh, I had one opportunity and I fucked that because I can't do night shift 'cause I'm lazy. You know? Maybe the world is giving me opportunities and I just don't need them. Maybe I can't do that.	 sustain	communication behavior
133_275	No, I'm definitely not convinced.	 sustain	communication behavior
133_277	No.	 sustain	communication behavior
133_279	Yeah, I know.	 sustain	communication behavior
133_281	Yeah. I mean, yeah, it is obviously, it is first steps, but I mean, what's that? What's the first step into the pro-social life?	 neutral	communication behavior
133_283	I just know if I get a job that I hate, I just won't do it.	 sustain	communication behavior
133_285	You know, I can make in an hour what I can make in a night or a week of nights. It's pretty-- You know, from where I'm from that a really-- You know, there's no decision at all, that's just like, what are you up to if you don't?	 sustain	communication behavior
133_287	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_289	"I just told myself I wouldn't this time and then Fiona said, ""You will not"" this time."	 change	communication behavior
133_291	Yeah, even if it's the wrong one, yes.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_293	Yeah, but I'm that kinda guy.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_295	"Oh no there wasn't a decision to made, I just said, ""I won't yet""."	 change	communication behavior
133_297	Yeah, I said yet.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_299	Yeah.	 sustain	communication behavior
133_301	I hate that.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_303	Mm.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_305	Mm, yeah.	 change	communication behavior
133_307	And we're still no closer.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_309	But I mean yeah it's there.	 change	communication behavior
133_311	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_313	Oh, fuck.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_315	With anyone other than Fiona? No time at all, I'd say for about 10 hours with you.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_317	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_319	Mm.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_321	Yeah, 12, nearly 13.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_323	Mm.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_325	Uh, that it-it does kinda seem exciting.	 change	communication behavior
133_327	It does, because it's so different.	 change	communication behavior
133_329	And I'm kinda over that one.	 change	communication behavior
133_331	Yeah.	 change	communication behavior
133_333	Okay, I.	 change	communication behavior
133_335	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_337	Yeah-yeah, it does work for him.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_339	Uh, ringing him.	 change	communication behavior
133_341	Mm, yeah.	 change	communication behavior
133_343	You-you know, it was a long time ago that we were inside. I just know that's what he's doing. It would be pretty odd calling but the- he'd probably be okay with it.	 change	communication behavior
133_345	Possibility to call yeah.	 change	communication behavior
133_347	Yeah.	 change	communication behavior
133_349	Mm.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_351	Mm.	 change	communication behavior
133_353	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_355	Well, I just have to do what I'm told. I don't know.	 change	communication behavior
133_357	Oh, yeah, I was being, um, chipping, I mean, yeah she has more hopes than me, you know.	 change	communication behavior
133_359	Um, like I do- I do but what it would take, you know, I mean, that's pretty freaking scary shit.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_361	Yeah. And I would never admit to that.	 neutral	communication behavior
133_363	Yeah.	 change	communication behavior
133_365	Yeah, but my-when I made my decision to not do that yet like I was very clear I understood I know that picture. If I'm gonna make a decision to do this, I kinda need to really-really know what that is. You know, not only to talk I mean-	 neutral	communication behavior
133_367	-what is the whole plan to-to call-call up you know and say, hey bro, hey bro, uh, how did you do that? I mean, really? Is it—	 change	communication behavior
133_369	Yeah, like, I guess I could be wondering that too.	 change	communication behavior
133_371	Hmm.	 change	communication behavior
133_373	There's Fiona.	 change	communication behavior
133_375	[unintelligible 00:26:37] getting out so what-what he did. Um, dad's only as mean. There's Fiona.	 change	communication behavior
133_377	Yeah, okay, uh, all right, yeah. All right.	 change	communication behavior
133_379	Yeah.	 change	communication behavior
9_3	Okay.	 neutral	communication behavior
9_5	Not really, I haven't been stressed. Uh, I've been working steady, you know, these days, I'm glad to have a job, I really am happy that I'm working, so.	 neutral	communication behavior
9_7	Okay.	 neutral	communication behavior
9_9	I don't smoke. I smoked, you know, as a young adult, quit 20 years ago. I went cold turkey. I was proud of that, haven't even thought about smoking.	 neutral	communication behavior
9_11	Uh, I do drink beer, I drink, you know, two to three pints on weekdays, sometimes on weekends, maybe four or five.	 neutral	communication behavior
9_13	Well, I-- you know, my pressure has been high for years and, um, you know.	 neutral	communication behavior
9_15	Maybe a little bit.	 change	communication behavior
9_17	Okay.	 neutral	communication behavior
9_19	I don't use heroin or cocaine. I've never even thought about using the hard drugs. Back in school, 20 years or so ago, I smoked reefer, you know. Once I got out of school, I haven't used that at all.	 neutral	communication behavior
9_21	No, I don't- I don't, uh, really like the idea of taking pills. Uh, as a matter of fact, a couple of years ago, I had this jaw surgery. They gave me a prescription for Percocet. I took one, maybe feel weird. I think they're still sitting in the medicine cabinet.	 neutral	communication behavior
9_23	Well, I guess I'll try.	 change	communication behavior
9_25	Okay.	 neutral	communication behavior
10_1	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
10_3	Well, I'm supposed to come to learn about my-- how to manage my diabetes. Just got diagnosed.	 neutral	communication behavior
10_5	Yeah, that's what doctor said. She-she really laid into me about that. Said it was-- I guess, this is really serious stuff. She was talking about losing eyesight, mm, my feet, mm, problems with a lot of other stuff, and it really scared me. Uh, so, [sighs] you know, how-how-how to manage all this, I guess, is what I gotta learn, but it just sounds massive.	 neutral	communication behavior
10_7	That's, uh, that's a huge amount of stuff to do and, I'm not- I'm not certain I can do all that, and on top of it, it's-it's-- if I don't get it all done, all this stuff happens to me?	 neutral	communication behavior
10_9	[sighs]	 neutral	communication behavior
10_11	Well, I-I [unintelligible 00:01:35]	 neutral	communication behavior
15_1	Uh, yeah. I just got off work, and apparently, they're going smoke-free, so I'm-- I-I thought I'd stop by the pharmacy here and see what my options are. Some of my friends have tried nicotine patches and the-- they say they don't work really well. I don't really wanna quit smoking, I just need something to get me through the day.	 sustain	communication behavior
15_3	Maybe like da-- during the day nicotine replacement. Is that-- I mean, do you have anything like that?	 change	communication behavior
15_5	Well, I don't really wanna quit. I mean, I like smoking. I like go-- after work, I have a beer with my friends, and I'll smoke cigarettes. I mean, it's not really a big deal. Cigarettes aren't that bad. I mean, I know that the-- it's popular to say that smoking is bad for you but, you know, I like it, so I'm gonna be doing it.	 sustain	communication behavior
15_7	Yeah, yeah. Okay.	 neutral	communication behavior
15_9	Okay. Well, what are my options? You know, assuming that I'm right, what are my options?	 neutral	communication behavior
15_11	Well, I mean, I s-- I-I-I smoke barely a pack a day. I mean, I've probably smoked for about five or six years now. It's not really a lot of cigarettes, but it's sort of hard to get through the day at work.	 sustain	communication behavior
15_13	Sounds good to me. The more nicotine, the better. Is it like gum or something? Could I chew it like while I'm in the office? That sounds pretty great. I mean, do you have—	 sustain	communication behavior
15_15	Oh. Okay. Well, where is that?	 neutral	communication behavior
15_17	Well, I-- [sighs] I'm probably not gonna buy anything today. I mean, I just came by to see what my options are. I-- if-- thanks for the input. I mean, do you have anything else, do you have any other advice for me?	 neutral	communication behavior
15_19	Oh, well. Okay. Well, thanks. I mean, I guess that helps a little bit. I'll-- maybe I'll be back later. Thanks.	 neutral	communication behavior
17_1	Okay.	 neutral	communication behavior
17_3	No, I would bum cigarettes in college, but I was never a smoker.	 neutral	communication behavior
17_5	No, not really anything.	 neutral	communication behavior
17_7	Um, a few times a week. Uh, Wednesdays, I'll go to happy hour and have about two or three. And then, um, Thursdays, seven, um, seven or eight. Fridays, probably just a couple of glasses of wine with dinner. Um, but Saturdays are bigger night. And I would probably have a few drinks before I went to the bar. And then have four or five at when-when I was out. So—	 neutral	communication behavior
17_9	I guess, it sounds like a lot when you say [chuckles] like that. But yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
17_11	No. I-I smoked weed in college, but just a little bit. I wasn't a regular smoker.	 sustain	communication behavior
17_13	No.	 neutral	communication behavior
17_15	Okay.	 neutral	communication behavior
17_17	That's a lot to change. I don't know.	 sustain	communication behavior
17_19	I mean, the stairs were really steep. So—	 sustain	communication behavior
17_21	Where are these limits from? Um, old- an older population? Because, uh, I drink just as much as my friends do. I mean, everybody drinks like I drink. I'm not even the biggest drinker in my group. So I'm pretty middle of the road.	 sustain	communication behavior
17_23	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
17_25	I don't know. It's what we do. It's-- this is how we have fun, I guess. It is fun.	 sustain	communication behavior
17_27	Okay.	 neutral	communication behavior
17_29	Thanks.	 neutral	communication behavior
27_1	Mm-hmm. Yeah, I de-I definitely don't wanna come back here. But, uh, the doc said Oscar, my dog, is connected to my asthma symptoms. But the-	 neutral	communication behavior
27_3	-ridiculous part is I've had him for 12 years before, and now it's a problem.	 neutral	communication behavior
27_5	Yeah, but I-- Um, let me just clarify, I've seen the materials, I have them-	 neutral	communication behavior
27_7	-I have even read them. All I've been doing is taking the medicine. So, I don't know that much about this.	 neutral	communication behavior
27_9	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
27_11	John Carlo, yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
27_13	Mm-hmm.	 neutral	communication behavior
27_15	Uh, this is a little too much for me now. First of all, John Carlo is taken care of. That's fine. He doesn't have- no asthma from the dog. It's just me. I don't ha—	 sustain	communication behavior
27_17	"So, Oscar is gonna make me die? He hasn't made me die in 12 years, and the doctor is saying, ""Oh, I don't know if it's the stress, the finances, the drinking."" So, what are we doing saying Oscar could make me die? I've had him for 12 years."	 sustain	communication behavior
27_19	Well, they can keep giving me more medicine and give me the strongest one, and I'll keep Oscar.	 sustain	communication behavior
27_21	I understand, but I don't think you get my situation. I've had this dog for 12 years. So, I'm not just gonna up and get him out of my house when I don't even know if that's the main thing.	 sustain	communication behavior
32_1	I-I guess, uh, I don't really remember much. I like it was a week ago, so I was kind of drunk too.	 neutral	communication behavior
32_3	Hmm. I mean, not really. I'm gonna be 21 in a couple of months. Um, once I turn 21, the cops can't give me a minor and I mean, I'm not a heavy drinker, like-like my friends or anything. I don't get wasted at all. And, uh, I just need to be careful. I just won't get caught. I'm just trying to find, like, a normal college student.	 sustain	communication behavior
32_5	Whatever, I-I didn't though. I called my roommates for a ride. He was sleepy. So I had to get home somehow. And this isn't even my fault. I give him rides all the time, but I didn't do anything.	 sustain	communication behavior
32_7	No-no. Like I said, this isn't even my fault. Like, are we done here? I have class in 15 minutes.	 sustain	communication behavior
32_9	Look, I really like going on the [unintelligible 00:02:29] and I get what you're saying. You, you're making some really good points and I'll think about them. Okay?	 change	communication behavior
32_11	$150, are you serious? I can't pay that. All right, I'm done with this. I'm over it.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_1	Okay.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_3	Uh, well, my name is Andrea, as you know, I'm, uh, in the marching band. I play the tenor sax.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_5	Yeah. I'm involved in music. So I'm also in the jazz band, the wind ensemble, and um, yeah, that's about—	 neutral	communication behavior
44_7	I'm an IB student.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_9	Well, saxophone. I started about four years ago, but I've been involved in music for about 10 years now, so.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_11	I started off on the violin first.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_13	So I played that for like six years, once a clarinet, dabbled here and there with different things. And then I found the one- the one for me.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_15	Yeah, the tenor sax.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_17	Marching band since freshman year. So like three years.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_19	It's fun. It's a- it's a lot of work, long summers taught, but it's fun.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_21	Oh, I really like the-the group setting.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_23	You know, getting to work with my other classmates and things like that. And putting on this entire show-	 neutral	communication behavior
44_25	-it's very exciting, very exhilarating once you're in competition.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_27	It's very cool.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_29	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_31	I have, um, you know, I have two-two separate groups. I have my friends from class and then my friends from bra-- from band.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_33	So.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_35	Oh, well I have one brother he's older than me, about nine years older than me.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_37	And, uh, my parents and my dog. [laughs]	 neutral	communication behavior
44_39	He's a golden retriever.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_41	Charlie.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_43	He's a big boy. Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_45	Yeah. He's about eight years old now.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_47	Uh, well, I'm planning on going to school. I'd like to become a doctor one day, so.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_49	I'm interested in psychology, psychiatry, something like that, so.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_51	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_53	Yeah, psychology, I haven't really thought too about which school, I mean, I-	 neutral	communication behavior
44_55	Everyone wants to shoot for the Ivy leagues, so [chuckles]	 neutral	communication behavior
44_57	Uh, they're pretty good, you know, high three-point somethings.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_59	Uh, I usually go out with my friends. Uh, we'll go to the movies or we'll most likely we'll just meet up at someone's house-	 neutral	communication behavior
44_61	-and just hang out and things.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_63	Sometimes, [chuckles] I'm gonna be honest sometimes.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_65	Um, depending on how much schoolwork there is When there's not, it might be like every other weekend or like three weekends out of the month or something like that.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_67	A little, yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_69	Um, I don't, we don't get blackout drunk or anything. It's more of like a little tipsy kind of thing.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_71	I have gotten blackout drunk before-	 neutral	communication behavior
44_73	-but I kind of did that, learned my lesson, didn't like it.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_75	Like how many drinks?	 neutral	communication behavior
44_77	Um, it was a good amount. It was the first time I ever drank and it was like three or four cups, but it was mixing different things.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_79	So, I'm not-- Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_81	Yeah. Yes. Not all of them, but some of them do.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_83	More or less the same amount. So right now the most we'll have is maybe like one cup after that one time, but sometimes one or two, but they can be kind of heavy.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_85	Oh, it's a red, you know, typical. Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_87	Mm-hmm.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_89	Mm-hmm.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_91	A little bit.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_93	Not too much, to be honest. I-I've always thought since it's, you know, within my small group of friends-	 neutral	communication behavior
44_95	-and we usually sleep over each other's house, we don't get into the problems of drinking and driving, and possibly sexual assaults and things like that.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_97	But I haven't really thought about possible alcoholism or anything.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_99	Okay.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_101	Yeah, I think I could. I don't need it. For instance, it-it is-- it is used as a kind of, like, let's get the party going.	 change	communication behavior
44_103	But we haven't always had it-	 neutral	communication behavior
44_105	-obviously. So, I think it would be possible to stop drinking.	 change	communication behavior
44_107	"Um, I would probably start off by like, because my friends are also involved, so I'd be like, ""Hey, guys, I don't think I'm gonna drink today."""	 change	communication behavior
44_109	And kind of see how that goes. Because—	 change	communication behavior
44_111	Yeah. It's, you know, it's one thing to control my own drinking, and it's another thing when everyone else around me is drinking and then there's like that pressure-	 neutral	communication behavior
44_113	"-of, ""Oh, they're gonna think I look stupid."""	 sustain	communication behavior
44_115	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_117	My close ones, I know they wouldn't be, you know, have a problem with that. But the ones that I'm not that close with, but I'll still like hang out with-	 neutral	communication behavior
44_119	-those are probably the ones that like might ostracize me for something or.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_121	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_123	Probably, might be too judgmental.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_125	Okay.	 change	communication behavior
44_127	Okay.	 change	communication behavior
44_129	Um, I think-- I think the possibility.	 change	communication behavior
44_131	I think if you make a good plan, like I think I'd be able to follow through with it.	 change	communication behavior
44_133	Yeah. I think I can do that.	 change	communication behavior
44_135	Um, not-not really. The ones that drink more are the ones like my class friends. My band friends, we’re focused on band-	 neutral	communication behavior
44_137	-so I can't really—	 neutral	communication behavior
44_139	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_141	Not too much, to be honest.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_143	Mm-hmm.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_145	"Um, what should I-- uh, yeah, I do. So what should I say like once, let's say, I hang out with my friends and they're like, ""Hey, why aren't you- why aren't you drinking?"""	 change	communication behavior
44_147	Like how should I go about that situation?	 change	communication behavior
44_149	Mm-hmm.	 change	communication behavior
44_151	Mm.	 change	communication behavior
44_153	Yeah.	 change	communication behavior
44_155	And-and you know, like professional life as well.	 change	communication behavior
44_157	I don't want that biting me in the butt, [chuckles] in the back.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_159	Okay.	 change	communication behavior
44_161	I think I can do that.	 change	communication behavior
44_163	It'd be easier as-- You know, as a group we-we all work together to become better.	 change	communication behavior
44_165	No. I think- I think I'm good.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_167	Okay.	 neutral	communication behavior
44_169	Okay.	 change	communication behavior
44_171	Sound good.	 change	communication behavior
53_1	Okay.	 neutral	communication behavior
53_3	Okay. Um, my name is Laura and I'm 17 and I'm a senior in high school.	 neutral	communication behavior
53_5	Um, mostly just hang out with my friends and stuff on the weekends, things like that.	 neutral	communication behavior
53_7	Uh, yeah, if it's school-related, maybe like a game or two, or go to the mall, like, to shop or go to the movies or something, and at night, maybe like a party or something if someone's throwing.	 neutral	communication behavior
53_9	Um, I like to read and I like to go outside and, like, take walks and, like, hike and stuff. I'm very outdoorsy, so-	 neutral	communication behavior
53_11	Well, I plan to apply to college and maybe, you know, have a good career and something like that, hopefully.	 neutral	communication behavior
53_13	Well, I'm-I'm looking at the journalism, maybe pre-law.	 neutral	communication behavior
53_15	-which is a little different, but-	 neutral	communication behavior
53_17	Yeah. Thanks.	 neutral	communication behavior
53_19	Yeah, I'm doing okay. I'm getting mostly A's and B's, so I'm pretty good, I'm okay.	 neutral	communication behavior
53_21	Um, I think all my grades are A's and B's, so, yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
53_23	Um, I'm not sure yet, but I'm looking into schools like in the area, so maybe, I don't know, maybe I'll leave home or something.	 neutral	communication behavior
53_25	Um, well, I'm definitely not a math or science person, so I started off by there that I started looking at careers that maybe I would like. So-	 neutral	communication behavior
53_27	Um, not really. Maybe one or two drinks at a party at the most.	 neutral	communication behavior
53_29	Um, maybe like once or twice a month at the most.	 neutral	communication behavior
53_31	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
53_33	Possibly, yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
53_35	Yeah, I guess you can say that.	 neutral	communication behavior
53_37	Um, just two drinks at a party at the most. I don't-- I don't like to drink a lot. I don't-- Getting drunk is not something that appeals to me. So, I just have, like, a drink in my hand, so my friends won't bug me about not drinking. It's just like to look like I'm actually doing something. Most of- a lot of the time, I don't even drink at all. So-	 neutral	communication behavior
53_39	Um, no, not really, maybe tipsy, but not like drunk.	 neutral	communication behavior
53_41	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
53_43	Um, yeah, yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
53_45	No, I have drunk-driven and never got in a car with a drunk driver.	 neutral	communication behavior
53_47	Um, I mean, I have some friends that drink some more than others, like, my close group of friends don't really drink as much because I'm not really interested in that, but I know that there are people that drink a lot more.	 neutral	communication behavior
53_49	Yeah. There are kids that drink a lot more than I do. Definitely, yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
53_51	Not really closely, like, I know who they are and I'll say hi, but not-- They're not really, like, close friends of mine.	 neutral	communication behavior
53_53	Um, yeah. That makes sense.	 neutral	communication behavior
53_55	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
53_57	Yeah, yeah, I have. That's, uh, one of the main reasons that I don't like to drink that much.	 neutral	communication behavior
53_59	So-	 neutral	communication behavior
53_61	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
53_63	Yeah. Definitely, yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
53_65	Um, yeah, I mean, I guess it's the thing to do at a party, so-	 neutral	communication behavior
53_67	Um, definitely not. That's why I don't try to drink that much. Just-	 neutral	communication behavior
53_69	-make it look like I am, kind of.	 neutral	communication behavior
53_71	Okay.	 neutral	communication behavior
53_73	Okay.	 neutral	communication behavior
53_75	I definitely agree. I know that there are some other risks involved in alcohol, they are the ones you mentioned, like, health-wise and things like that, so, I agree that alcohol may not be the best thing.	 change	communication behavior
53_77	Um, yeah, I mean, it's not, like, a really big part of my life, so.	 change	communication behavior
53_79	Okay.	 change	communication behavior
53_81	Yeah, yeah, definitely. I'll just not have a drink.	 change	communication behavior
53_83	Um, I really can't control what they do, but I'll definitely try to get my closest friends to maybe stop like I will.	 change	communication behavior
53_85	Well, then, I guess, I'll just try to hang around them less or something. I'll try to find things for us to do that don't involve alcohol like a party or anything.	 change	communication behavior
53_87	Okay.	 change	communication behavior
53_89	Yeah.	 change	communication behavior
53_91	Okay, yeah.	 change	communication behavior
53_93	Okay, yeah, definitely.	 change	communication behavior
53_95	They would be pretty upset. Yeah. They don't really condone alcohol use.	 change	communication behavior
53_97	So-	 neutral	communication behavior
53_99	Okay.	 change	communication behavior
53_101	Um, no, no. I think I'm good.	 change	communication behavior
53_103	Uh, no.	 neutral	communication behavior
53_105	I have no questions.	 neutral	communication behavior
53_107	Okay, thanks.	 neutral	communication behavior
57_1	Yeah?	 neutral	communication behavior
57_3	Uh, I talked with my doctor about my medicine. That's his job.	 sustain	communication behavior
57_5	Well, to be honest with you, I'm not even certain I'm going to take the medicine. Now, I know I got high cholesterol, I've got to get that down, but on the other hand, this medicine can cause some severe muscle weakness and I just can't afford that. I'm a truck driver and I haul those heavy boxes in on the dollies and I just can't afford that, so you know.	 sustain	communication behavior
57_7	Yeah, down the line, but-	 sustain	communication behavior
57_9	Well, right now it's the muscle weakness that-that I'm concerned about, and that's, uh, you know, that's the present, uh, I've got to do my job.	 sustain	communication behavior
57_11	Well, you know- why don't you just give me the medicine, I'll take it home and I'll think about it? But you know, I'm worried about my job.	 sustain	communication behavior
57_13	Sure. Fine. Just—	 change	communication behavior
57_15	Whatever.	 neutral	communication behavior
57_17	Okay, sure. Fine.	 change	communication behavior
59_1	Well, it was raining. I didn't want my science fair project to get wet. I knew my parents were—	 neutral	communication behavior
59_3	It really wasn't that big of a deal.	 neutral	communication behavior
59_5	Okay.	 neutral	communication behavior
69_1	I'm sorry, but are you the pharmacist? I just had a question about citalopram.	 neutral	communication behavior
69_3	Okay, but I just wanted to know if it interacts with phenelzine?	 neutral	communication behavior
69_5	Okay, thanks for that. I have an appointment to run to.	 neutral	communication behavior
72_1	Right. Actually, I do want to speak to you about something that happened during this past weekend. Usually, as, you know, I'm, um, I'm an honor student. I-I usually I'm studying over the weekend and my parents don't let me go out to parties, but I kind of use that to my advantage, to convince my parents to go to this party that my friends were pressuring me to go to. And when I- when I got there, like I'm not used to this like party environment where everything you see in the movies is kind of what happens, where you have people just drinking out of the bottle-	 neutral	communication behavior
72_3	-or playing random games with alcohol, just to get drunk for no reason. And because I was there in the moment, I felt pressured to do and like conform to what everyone else was doing. So I wouldn't be- I wouldn't be ostracized.	 sustain	communication behavior
72_5	I understand.	 neutral	communication behavior
72_7	Okay. Um, I know that it's bad for me. It's-it's bad for my body. It's bad for-for-for-for being on the team, for being an athlete. It hinders my performance. Just, I don't know. I-I feel that my-my friends pressure me. I don't know. I feel I should like go with different friend groups. Maybe. I don't know.	 change	communication behavior
72_9	I don't know, like being in a sports team, y-you feel very, you have to like be unified with the group.	 neutral	communication behavior
72_11	Right. And as being one of the leaders, my fellow teammates expect me to be-- I expect them to lead not only in the sports but also in social environments. And if that's a social- that's a social custom in our society. So it's like—	 sustain	communication behavior
72_13	I could, but that could also backfire on me. I feel that I could be ridiculed for being, having a stick up my butt, you know.	 sustain	communication behavior
72_15	I mean, it's just one-- I'm just one person against the voice of the mob.	 sustain	communication behavior
72_17	I understand.	 neutral	communication behavior
72_19	Well, I'll dedicate the time, not to party and night. Well, not-not-not party, but, you know, get involved with alcohol to that extent. And like, have it publicized on the internet.	 change	communication behavior
72_21	Like on Facebook, all the pictures that you saw on the internet. Like I w- I will avoid those situations where I have to go to a party where I feel pressured to actually drink alcohol and allow what I do in my own private time to put on the internet so others can see, even though.	 change	communication behavior
72_23	Right. I'll stop.	 change	communication behavior
72_25	I promise.	 change	communication behavior
72_27	Shake.	 change	communication behavior
72_29	See you later.	 neutral	communication behavior
74_1	I'm doing all right. How are you?	 neutral	communication behavior
74_3	Oh, I got my lip pierced.	 neutral	communication behavior
74_5	Why? I don't know. I wanted a change and-	 neutral	communication behavior
74_7	-it seems kind of cool	 neutral	communication behavior
74_9	Well, I mean, nobody needs a piercing, I wanted one. It was a-	 neutral	communication behavior
74_11	-nice change.	 neutral	communication behavior
74_13	Oh, I mean, it's my lip that's pierced, not my teeth.	 neutral	communication behavior
74_15	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
90_1	Um, I mean, it was just the, like a social gathering. It wasn't like I was looking for it, uh, the drinks were there and I-- all my friends were doing it and it was just-- it's-it's not something that I like do occa- on occasion, but whenever the opportunity presents itself, it-it's nice to just let loose and have a little bit of fun sometimes.	 sustain	communication behavior
90_3	I-I get what you're coming from, but I-I-I really did. I-I thought that I had it under control and I didn't let myself get too far gone. I-I didn't want to be, um, how do I put this? Like, I want it to be in control and I wanted to make sure that all my friends were okay, so I didn't let myself drink too much.	 neutral	communication behavior
90_5	Yeah. I-I understand exactly what you're saying. And—	 neutral	communication behavior
90_7	I-I don't think I'm drinking that much. I mean, it's-it's mainly for social gatherings. Like it's nothing that I do, like by myself or whatever. It's just the—	 sustain	communication behavior
90_9	Every other weekends, I would say.	 neutral	communication behavior
90_11	Um, I-I guess I can. I-I can probably be more productive in my schoolwork and rather than going out to parties as much and I-I do get you're coming from and—	 change	communication behavior
90_13	Yeah, I guess I haven't really put it on myself. I guess it's really been forced on their account. And I've just been following in their footsteps just to-- just because it seems like what they're doing is a lot of fun. And I just want to make sure that I'm getting every bit of the high school experience that I can.	 neutral	communication behavior
90_15	Mm. Yeah. I-I-I do see that maybe me drinking not as much would possibly better my life to-to a certain degree. And I-- it does make a lot of sense. And I-I guess I can put more effort into sort of lowering the level of drinking that—	 change	communication behavior
90_17	Yeah. I mean, alcohol is just so prevalent in our society and it's just around me, wherever I go and parties and stuff that. I-I kind of feel like I should just, uh, get used to it or at least understand its, uh, its effects before I should let it get out of my life entirely. I don't- I don't really see it as something that will completely destroy my life.	 neutral	communication behavior
90_19	Yeah. I-I-I just-- I don't see the problem in it right now and maybe it's because I haven't really had that traumatic of an experience but I'm—	 sustain	communication behavior
90_21	You're-you're right. I-I don't want- I don't wanna be too far gone before it's too late. Like I-I can imagine something possibly happening where it's to a degree where I can't escape. And I-I guess I've never really had any-any real experience where the alcohol has really affected me that much or affected anybody close to me that much. So I guess it's something that I feel like I'm control of, but in reality, I might not have as much control as I think.	 change	communication behavior
92_1	Mm-hmm. Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
92_3	Mm-hmm.	 neutral	communication behavior
92_5	Well, I did a research on the chronic inhaler, and I saw that there were steroids in it, and I do not want my daughter taking steroids. I read about all the side effects of steroids and all the potential health problems. I don't want her taking them, and I just want to tell you right up front, I do not want to hear anything about the fact that I do smoke. Um, I smoke outside, I smoke away from her. I do not ever do it around her. So I do not want to hear about that.	 sustain	communication behavior
92_7	Okay, I-I am not going to allow her to take any kind of steroid. I am not going to allow that to happen. She's my daughter. She's my responsibility, and I'm not going to allow that to happen, and I absolutely make sure that the smoking does not affect her.	 sustain	communication behavior
92_9	Fine. I'm in a really big hurry, and I need to get those prescriptions filled as soon as possible, please.	 neutral	communication behavior
92_11	Fine. I just need to get my prescriptions.	 neutral	communication behavior
102_1	Sure.	 neutral	communication behavior
102_3	Well, [sighs] I've been thinking about working out lately. I really want to start working out again. It's-it's been in my mind, I know I need to do it. It's just getting the motivation to do it.	 change	communication behavior
102_5	Mm-hmm.	 neutral	communication behavior
102_7	Well, I don't know if I'm really being lazy about it. I think it's just that I have a busy schedule.	 sustain	communication behavior
102_9	I just need to find the time to do it. And, yes, I might be lacking a little bit of motivation, but I think it's more timing and trying to fit it in.	 sustain	communication behavior
102_11	But I think that part of the problem is that I-I don't have three to four times- three to four times a week to do it, or an hour even. I mean, hour is a long time because if I'm working out for an hour that means I'm leaving home to get there-	 sustain	communication behavior
102_13	-time there, time back. I mean, it's not just an hour, it's like two hours, realistically.	 sustain	communication behavior
102_15	Well, oh, um, okay.	 change	communication behavior
102_17	Okay.	 change	communication behavior
106_1	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
106_3	Yeah, it's pretty stressful for both of us. He gets really upset.	 neutral	communication behavior
106_5	Yeah, I-- Yeah, I do smoke, but I don't smoke around him. I try really hard not to smoke around him.	 neutral	communication behavior
106_7	I-I don't know. I mean, I try really hard not to smoke around him. I don't smoke in the car. Um, when he's home, I go outside to smoke. I just-- I mean, I know it's bad, and I know it's bad for him, so I don't want him to be around it so I try really hard.	 neutral	communication behavior
106_9	No, but I don't smoke. I'm-- I-I-I've thought about quitting, but it's just- It's really hard so I just don't know how to do it.	 neutral	communication behavior
106_11	I know, I know. I've heard-- People have told me before, I've heard all that. I just don't know how to do it. How am I supposed to quit? It's-it's so hard.	 sustain	communication behavior
106_13	I just don't have time for any of that.	 sustain	communication behavior
106_15	I understand that. I know it is. I mean, everybody has problems, right? It's just really-- It's really, really hard.	 neutral	communication behavior
106_17	I don't know.	 neutral	communication behavior
106_19	I'll-I'll-I'll go look at all those things and-and I'll find-- I guess I'll-I'll try to find something, and-and I'll talk to my doctor about it.	 change	communication behavior
106_21	Okay, whatever. Okay.	 sustain	communication behavior
115_1	Okay.	 neutral	communication behavior
115_3	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
115_5	Oh.	 neutral	communication behavior
115_7	Gonna get that again.	 neutral	communication behavior
115_9	I do all the above, yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
115_11	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
115_13	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
115_15	Okay. Sure.	 neutral	communication behavior
115_17	I've heard it all. I-- but I just want to get my teeth fixed.	 neutral	communication behavior
115_19	I did a pill thing, so I did try it. So like, I did try try it. I just did the pills and they didn't work.	 sustain	communication behavior
115_21	It was a waste and it caused more side effects	 sustain	communication behavior
115_23	Or seven lectures along the road.	 sustain	communication behavior
115_25	No. No, I just feel that way. I get really-- I get very defensive about when they bring-- cause I get it from my family doc, from my cardiologist, everybody. I'm like, I'm not a complete fool. I am for smoking, but—	 sustain	communication behavior
115_27	-but it's not easy to quit.	 sustain	communication behavior
115_29	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
115_31	I guess I got to really want to and-- things I've tried usually caused me more problems than they helped.	 sustain	communication behavior
115_33	Okay.	 neutral	communication behavior
115_35	Mm-hmm.	 neutral	communication behavior
115_37	Okay. Well, can I go now?	 sustain	communication behavior
115_39	I-I-I know it, I know- I know, doc, what you're trying to-- but I just don't want to get into that right now.	 sustain	communication behavior
115_41	Okay.	 neutral	communication behavior
115_43	I appreciate your care.	 neutral	communication behavior
115_45	Okay.	 neutral	communication behavior
118_1	Well, I've got myself all worked up now I've been sat outside.	 neutral	communication behavior
118_3	I'm not-- I'm now late. I'm sorry. Um, I've come to see you because I've got a really sore throat. It's been like this for a good few days, um, and I think I need some more antibiotics.	 neutral	communication behavior
118_5	Ah.	 neutral	communication behavior
118_7	I've been sat here for half an hour. Do you not want to know a little bit more about it, or? I mean, it- it's really painful. I- I've barely been able to swallow today and I'm so worried about passing things on to the kids. Um—	 neutral	communication behavior
118_9	[sighs] Well, I mean, this is gonna affect my job. I talk on the phone quite a lot at work, and I'm just-- I don't think at the moment I'm going to be able to go to work. Can- can I, at least, get a sick note?	 sustain	communication behavior
118_11	Well, I don't think my employer are gonna take that. I mean, they- they've given us so much hassle at things in the past. I mean, can- can I get a private note? Can- can I ask you to write me a letter, at least?	 neutral	communication behavior
118_13	Just- it's just not good enough. I just-- [sighs]	 neutral	communication behavior
118_15	Parace- paracetamol. Do you understand how difficult this is gonna be for me? I mean, I could lose my job or something.	 neutral	communication behavior
118_17	I'm sorry, uh, I think I'm gonna say something that I don't- I don't want to, so I'm actually going to go.	 neutral	communication behavior
118_19	Thank you.	 neutral	communication behavior
123_1	That's great.	 neutral	communication behavior
123_3	I don't smoke cigarettes.	 neutral	communication behavior
123_5	Well, the only thing-- I've never smoked cigarettes ever, um, but, um, when, um, when I go out with my friends, um, we like to go to, you know, we like to go out to lounges.	 neutral	communication behavior
123_7	And, um, you know, sometimes they're those- those, uh, nice young men that gift you different sorts of things. And we got some of those mini cigars that are Swisher sweets, they come in peach and-and grape and-and, you know, that's the only time that really, you know, I've ever really used anything that-that's got tobacco in it.	 sustain	communication behavior
123_9	Really? Bad? But they're just little, mini, little, cute little girly cigars.	 sustain	communication behavior
123_11	Well, I only use them just to relax. I mean, it's not like it's something that I would smoke 20 or 30 cigarettes a day, I mean, I only do it when we go out.	 sustain	communication behavior
123_13	Well, I didn't really know I'd started.	 sustain	communication behavior
123_15	I didn't really think that it was anything more than just like social drinking, just something that I do in a social setting when me and my friends go out to the bars.	 sustain	communication behavior
123_17	Uh, maybe.	 neutral	communication behavior
123_19	Well, it's something that I'll have to think about.	 neutral	communication behavior
123_21	Well, it's just something that I do to relax, and I don't do it that often. And so I probably could cut back.	 change	communication behavior
123_23	Well, I don't believe that they are cigars. And what I do believe is that it's a choice and it's my right, and it's something that I choose to do. And so I will think about cutting back, but I'm not at a point where I'm ready to do that. And I'm not really sure that I even believe that what you're telling me is real.	 sustain	communication behavior
123_25	Well, it's something that I'll think about.	 neutral	communication behavior
126_1	Yeah. My doctor said he called something in.	 neutral	communication behavior
126_3	No, not really.	 neutral	communication behavior
126_5	No.	 neutral	communication behavior
126_7	Okay. Um, why am I taking this medication?	 neutral	communication behavior
126_9	No, I guess not.	 neutral	communication behavior
126_12	Yeah. My doctor said he called something in.	 neutral	communication behavior
126_14	No, not really.	 neutral	communication behavior
126_16	No.	 neutral	communication behavior
126_18	Okay. Um, so why am I taking this medication?	 neutral	communication behavior
126_20	I guess not.	 neutral	communication behavior
126_23	Sure. I'm just getting a few groceries.	 neutral	communication behavior
126_25	Well, he told me that I had a blood test for cholesterol, and that I should start taking this.	 neutral	communication behavior
126_27	He didn't really tell me. He just phoned it in.	 neutral	communication behavior
126_29	Well, I take all of my other medications right before I go to bed. So I guess I could take it then.	 change	communication behavior
126_31	I store my medications, uh, in my nightstand, right by my bed.	 neutral	communication behavior
126_33	No.	 neutral	communication behavior
126_35	He didn't mention anything about that.	 neutral	communication behavior
126_38	Sure. I'm just gonna take one tablet right before I go to bed with my other medications. And I guess I will switched to orange juice. And if I notice any muscle pain that is severe, I'll call Dr. Ferris right away.	 change	communication behavior
126_40	Uh, I think you answered all my questions. Thank you.	 neutral	communication behavior
126_43	Sure. I'm just getting a few groceries.	 neutral	communication behavior
126_45	He told me that I had a blood test for cholesterol so that I should start taking this medication.	 neutral	communication behavior
126_47	He didn't tell me, he just phoned it in.	 neutral	communication behavior
126_49	I take all my other medications right before I go to bed. So I guess I could take it then.	 change	communication behavior
126_52	I store them all in the nightstand by my bed.	 neutral	communication behavior
126_54	No. I don't have any kids.	 neutral	communication behavior
126_57	He didn't mention anything about that.	 neutral	communication behavior
126_60	Sure. I'm just gonna take one tablet of the cholesterol statin, uh, in the evening with all my other medications. And I guess I'll switch to orange juice. And if I notice any bad muscle pains, then I'll be sure to call Dr. Ferris right away.	 change	communication behavior
126_62	I think you answered all my questions. Thank you.	 neutral	communication behavior
130_0	Wow. I can't believe he fell asleep after all of that crying, poor guy.	 neutral	communication behavior
130_2	Well, you're right. I-I did quit smoking when I was pregnant, but actually, um, a couple of weeks ago, I went out, my mom was able to take Jake for the night and my friends they were having a birthday party and we had a couple of glasses of wine and it felt like old times. So before I knew it, I was out having a cigarette with them. And since then I've been having a couple of cigarettes a day, you know, just at the end of the day after I put Jake to bed. But that sounds like it has nothing to do with what you're talking about, right?	 sustain	communication behavior
130_4	Well, I had no idea that it was such a big deal. I-I didn't think it would have anything to do with Jake getting sick or, you know, hurting him.	 neutral	communication behavior
130_6	Well, you know, I-I was doing perfectly well. It was just when I went out with my friends and, you know, usually, I'm fine with the cravings. It's just when I have a glass of wine at the end of the day. And if I have more than two or three, I just get that craving for a cigarette. And if I have cigarettes in the house, it just happens. You know, I'm doing pretty good.	 sustain	communication behavior
130_8	Okay. Um, well, yeah, I-I guess I can throw the cigarettes. And tomorrow night when I have my glass of wine, I'll-I'll just try to avoid that craving.	 change	communication behavior
130_10	Only a couple of drinks a night. You know, it's pretty rare if I have anything more than that. It's just my way of relaxing at the end of the day. It's been so stressful since Jake came along. It's just how I fall asleep at the end of the night.	 sustain	communication behavior
130_12	Well.	 neutral	communication behavior
130_14	I guess about- I have about a half a glass a night and maybe two. Very rarely I'll have more than that. You know, it just helps me kind of relax.	 sustain	communication behavior
130_16	I didn't know it was such a big deal. I-I never thought that there would be any impacts on Jake because of it.	 neutral	communication behavior
130_18	I guess I'll do the same thing. I'll go home and throw out the bottles of wine and stop having a glass at the end of the day.	 change	communication behavior
130_20	Okay, I'll try my best.	 change	communication behavior
131_1	Good morning.	 neutral	communication behavior
131_3	Well, I need some medication if you can offer me some.	 change	communication behavior
131_5	And, uh, whatever else you can do just to get me to go smoke-free.	 change	communication behavior
131_7	It's, uh, just these days-- I think these days I'm-I'm finding that, um, I'm smoking 20, 30 a day, I'm getting sick of it. It's, you know, I've seen my friends have stopped smoking too and it's kind of they're looking at me weird these days like I'm the only one left who's still smoking.	 change	communication behavior
131_9	Especially the other night I was at the restaurant, it was a bit-- you know, it was a bit embarrassing I'm the only one walk walking out.	 change	communication behavior
131_11	Mm-hmm.	 neutral	communication behavior
131_13	Um, it's expensive these days.	 change	communication behavior
131_15	It's-it's about-- Um, I'll buy and go through a pack a day, so it's almost £7.	 neutral	communication behavior
131_17	£7 a day today, so-	 change	communication behavior
131_19	-you're talking about £40, uh—	 change	communication behavior
131_21	£50 a week.	 neutral	communication behavior
131_23	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
131_25	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
131_27	Mm-hmm.	 neutral	communication behavior
131_29	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
131_31	Well, what you do-- What do you suggest?	 neutral	communication behavior
131_33	Mm-hmm.	 neutral	communication behavior
131_35	Um, it's just entertainment. Something, um, when I bored, it's got-- I've got-- I smoke-	 sustain	communication behavior
131_37	-or sometimes I go out, but as I said, I'm the only one kind of outside.	 change	communication behavior
131_39	The-- Um, it takes away a lot of my stresses.	 sustain	communication behavior
131_41	Just, uh, when I- when I go down, uh, for-for a break at work.	 neutral	communication behavior
131_43	I never go down, I just need a break away from it all, just shut off. So, uh, I-I really enjoyed that. The cigarette just helps me calm down.	 sustain	communication behavior
131_45	It's definitely the one at the end of the evening.	 sustain	communication behavior
131_47	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
131_49	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
131_51	I guess, um, I'll just- I'll just have, you know, some fresh air as well, but this time without a cigarette in my hand but to try and give myself regular breaks maybe, I don't know.	 change	communication behavior
131_53	It's one of those tough things.	 neutral	communication behavior
131_55	I've managed for a couple of weeks.	 change	communication behavior
131_57	It was, um-- To be honest, it was stress from an argument with my partner I remember.	 neutral	communication behavior
131_59	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
131_61	Mm-hmm.	 neutral	communication behavior
131_63	Mm-hmm.	 neutral	communication behavior
131_65	I guess, um, at the weekend I've got a party coming up.	 neutral	communication behavior
131_67	So, uh, maybe Monday morning.	 neutral	communication behavior
131_71	Yeah. I'm thinking, um, one of these patches.	 change	communication behavior
131_73	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
131_75	Mm-hmm.	 neutral	communication behavior
131_77	I just get irritable.	 neutral	communication behavior
131_79	Yeah.	 neutral	communication behavior
131_81	Hmm.	 neutral	communication behavior
131_83	Okay.	 neutral	communication behavior
131_85	Yeah, absolutely.	 neutral	communication behavior
131_87	Well, definitely.	 neutral	communication behavior
131_89	A nice phone call.	 neutral	communication behavior